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BarbaraBB
Liars: A Novel | Sarah Manguso
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I hope you are ready for the #ToB, that starts tomorrow with the play-in round!
We‘ll follow along with our own #LitsyToB25 and we‘ll see tomorrow if we choose the same book to continue in the tournament! There‘s still time to vote if you haven‘t yet!

https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSfzbyQMj0bppeA9PzdyhSbr_26n1Lz95ABnzbhC...

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Suet624 A great big Yippee! 20h
squirrelbrain Hooray! 🎉 20h
GatheringBooks Woohoo! Super excited. Happy to have challenged myself to join this year. 19h
Bookwormjillk Can't wait to see how the voting shakes out! I just changed mine again. 19h
BarbaraBB @Bookwormjillk Lol I did that a few times too! 19h
BarbaraBB @GatheringBooks I‘m glad you did! 19h
Ruthiella So sorry not to be reading along this year. But I will pay attention to the comments in the threads and hopefully add one or two to my TBR as a result. 😊 18h
BkClubCare I couldn‘t find a thing about what day it truly starts; guess I will hunt down an email link? 18h
BarbaraBB @BkClubCare you‘ll probably get an email tomorrow but you can also check this out: https://www.tournamentofbooks.com/the-2025-shortlist 18h
BarbaraBB @Ruthiella We will miss you, it won‘t be the same without you 😀 18h
CarolynM I only managed to read a very few of the books so I‘m not sure how valid my vote is, but I put it in anyway🙂 16h
Megabooks I can‘t believe this has snuck up on me!! Glad I voted awhile ago! Thanks so much for doing this B! 2h
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bookandbedandtea
The Husbands | Holly Gramazio
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Pickpick

I loved the first 2/3 and the very end but the last third dragged and I kept wondering how it was going to end. It's a cool idea, though, to get a look at all the lives you could have had, had you made different choices along the way.

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Bookish_Gal
The Most | Jessica Anthony
Mehso-so

Didn‘t hate it, didn‘t love it. I‘m confused on how to rate this short book. It takes place during the FMC day in the pool. One day. Yet it reminisces upon past years. The storytelling is unique, fascinating in an odd way, though it doesn‘t go deep. As of such, I just don‘t know how I feel about this slow around the bush way that we find out this great family is falling apart.

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thecheckoutstack
Liars: A Novel | Sarah Manguso
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Pickpick

The first half of this book could have been pulled straight from my life and I suspect a lot of women will relate and cringe. It was almost hard to read but then the second half moved away from what I would consider standard ways patriarchy shows in heterosexual relationships and towards how that extends in combination with a narcissistic spouse. I LOVE a book where you get to just hate someone and there‘s nothing redeeming about John here.

BarbaraBB Great review! 5d
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thecheckoutstack
Liars: A Novel | Sarah Manguso
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Do you want to know what it feels like to be metaphorically boiled alive? This book is doing that for me and I suspect any woman who‘s dated a man will relate to the quiet sinister parts of patriarchy in a relationship displayed in this book.

Reggie Yikes! 7d
BarbaraBB Great metaphor! 7d
Chelsea.Poole Yessss!! 6d
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bookandbedandtea
The Husbands | Holly Gramazio
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A book, a cuppa, and a quiet house (for a while). Ahhh Sunday, you're the best. 💜

BkClubCare I enjoyed this one 🌟 2w
TheBookgeekFrau Exactly my situation--Love it! 2w
Ruthiella Perfection! ☕️📚🤫❤️ 2w
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bookandbedandtea @BkClubCare It's off to a great start! 2w
bookandbedandtea @TheBookgeekFrau Those couple of hours are essential! 2w
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BarbaraBB
Liars: A Novel | Sarah Manguso
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Pickpick

That husband! He is really the worst, she must have lied to herself a lot to stick with him through all the years. Giving up her career and her freedom and it‘s never gonna be enough. I felt for Jane and for the child and I totally understand her anger.
Very well written and in parts recognizable and uncomfortable. Another light pick. #ToB25

📷 My hotel room 🤩 on Tenerife, Canary Islands

squirrelbrain Lovely room! And i-spy your pile of books! 2w
Lesliereadsalot Hope you‘re having a great time! 🩷 2w
Hooked_on_books Gorgeous room! I liked this, too, and found the manchild infuriating. I feel like as women we are trained to tolerate this bad behavior in men and it‘s not ok! 2w
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BarbaraBB @squirrelbrain Haha, the first thing I arrange in a hotel room! 2w
BarbaraBB @Lesliereadsalot Thank you🤍 2w
BarbaraBB @Hooked_on_books I don‘t feel we are trained to do so and I absolutely wouldn‘t. But I feel she is trapped in the marriage by things as health insurance and that‘s killing of course - and something we don‘t have to worry about here, which possibly gives people more freedom to make changes in their lives. 2w
Hooked_on_books I tend to think parts of Europe are more equal than we are in the US (and I do think that‘s true), but I remember reading about a study done in Sweden with 5 year olds. They had lunch during the study, and it wasn‘t meant to be part of the study, but they noticed when it was time for lunch, the little boys sat and waited to be served while the little girls started helping serve without being asked. That‘s training females to wait on males (cont) (edited) 2w
Hooked_on_books in a way I don‘t think many consciously intended. And this in one of the most equal countries in the world. That‘s why I say it‘s taught, even when it‘s insidious rather than overt. 2w
BarbaraBB @Hooked_on_books You are right about that, I have indeed read about those studies too! We‘re taught from the start probably or it might even be in our genes, the thinking about others first… 2w
youneverarrived What a gorgeous room! And I agree with your review entirely. 2w
Megabooks Agree. Light pick! 2h
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Abailliekaras
The Husbands | Holly Gramazio
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Pickpick

I loved this funny, original novel. Lauren finds that her attics is producing an endless supply of husbands. I don‘t always love supernatural elements but this works because it‘s integrated so well & Lauren keeps us grounded in the real world (contemporary London). She‘s an engaging character with a dry sense of humour & we‘re on her side. Raises questions of sliding doors, how to choose a partner & what makes a good life. Coming up on the pod 🎧

LoverOfLearning I've heard this is a fun one to read! 2w
Abailliekaras @LoverOfLearning really fun, I loved it! 2w
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VRM1975
The Anniversary | Stephanie Bishop
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fredthemoose
Liars: A Novel | Sarah Manguso
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Pickpick

⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️ Ugh, that husband! 😡 This is one of those books where after reading it I thank my partner for not being a narcissistic nightmare. And even though he is a lovely person, this also made me glad to not be married and horrified at the treatment some women are trained to accept as normal. Infuriatingly readable. This one definitely stayed with me. #ToB25

fredthemoose One quibble… I‘m not sure how the “liar” tag belonged to the wife. I finished this a few weeks ago so could have forgotten something important, but it feels a little like the wife continuing to take on things that were not hers. Or maybe that‘s the point? 3w
squirrelbrain Maybe she was lying to herself about the relationship? 🤔 3w
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