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Assholes: A Theory | Aaron James
In the spirit of the mega-selling On Bullshit, philosopher Aaron James presents a theory of the asshole that is both intellectually provocative and existentially necessary. What does it mean for someone to be an asshole? The answer is not obvious, despite the fact that we are often personally stuck dealing with people for whom there is no better name. Try as we might to avoid them, assholes are found everywhereat work, at home, on the road, and in the public sphere. Encountering one causes great difficulty and personal strain, especially because we often cannot understand why exactly someone should be acting like that. Asshole management begins with asshole understanding. Much as Machiavelli illuminated political strategy for princes, this book finally gives us the concepts to think or say why assholes disturb us so, and explains why such people seem part of the human social condition, especially in an age of raging narcissism and unbridled capitalism. These concepts are also practically useful, as understanding the asshole we are stuck with helps us think constructively about how to handle problems he (and they are mostly all men) presents. We get a better sense of when the asshole is best resisted, and when he is best ignoreda better sense of what is, and what is not, worth fighting for.
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TheBookgeekFrau
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#IdiomInsight #DimeADozen

I honestly just bought it for its title 😂

Eggs Love it!! 1y
dabbe 🤣🤩🤣 1y
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readingjedi Wow, that view is stunning! 6y
JoScho Amazing view💙 6y
Zelma Beautiful way to start the day! 6y
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Wannabe_Quijote
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If you ever get a chance to go to #Croatia, you gotta do it!

#beach #travel

Lynnsoprano Gorgeous! If only I could book it now! 6y
CouronneDhiver Beautiful! 6y
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LMJenkins
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Just for fun. #truth

GypsyKat 😂 7y
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GripLitGrl 😂😂😄👍 7y
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CatchMyBookBreath
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My trip to the #bookstore today was a strange one. I don't know who arranged these books like this but there are a bunch of them.🆘 I couldn't help but giggle.😂
Oh, and there was a teenage couple sitting on the floor untangling a ball of yarn debating the origins of a candle lit church service. 🔥 I think I fell into the upside down except without all the slime! 😄
Ever feel like you walked into a place at an odd time?

OrangeMooseReads I‘m curious about the Cabin Porn book 7y
CatchMyBookBreath @OrangeMooseReads I was too but since i was in the art section I'm assuming it was a book full of pictures of beautiful cabins, not necessarily of the actions of humans while inside 😁 7y
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speljamr
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Mehso-so

This was an interesting read about classifying and managing assholes. It wasn't quite as good as I hoped, but still worth reading.

#philosophy

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speljamr
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Truth. I always think of a good response well after the fact.

AmyG Other than the go-to response of “you‘re such an asshole”. 😳 7y
speljamr @AmyG Which never seems to even register with them. 😂😂 7y
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speljamr
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Wondering if I need this book...

#bookstore #shopping

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🤔💨💨💨 #WTForecast

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Gayan
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I just can't stop buying books and I just don't care!

Gezemice You like big books and you cannot lie? 😉 8y
Gayan @Gezemice This is truth. 8y
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It's a beautiful day to read this theory 📖😜☀ #IloveLA #whatswinter

MrBook One of my favorite temperatures 😎👌🏻. 8y
kabenth @MrBook Same! 😎🌞 8y
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amckiereads
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Pickpick

I purposely saved the review of this gem (a very readable and useful book) for today. Themed reading, as one of the examples in the book is none other than the new US president 😂 (The book was written in 2012 so doesn't actually refer to his campaign.)

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Susannah
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And then there are the days when even books aren't a refuge. I don't really know what to do with this news. Stop buying books published by Simon & Schuster?

What say you, o readers of Litsy?

http://thecut.io/2imjFLL 😡

That-Bookish-Hiker Ugh I really dislike this guy and was disappointed that S & S gave him a book deal. I just figured I wouldn't buy his book and tell everyone else not to buy it lol. 8y
KellyHerself I feel two kinds of things. One, ugh. Two, there are lots of books written by white supremacists, misogynists, and other kinds of repugnant human beings. But they're allowed to write them. 8y
Susannah @KellyHerself You are absolutely right, and I wouldn't support the suppression of anyone's right to free expression even when people like Yiannopoulos support just that. As an individual consumer, however, I'm trying to figure out if/how I can support publishers that not only support someone like this but give him thousands of dollars to spread and normalize hate, and divide this country even more. 8y
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KellyHerself I get that. I was trying to sort thru whether or not I would buy S & S books anymore. Also, the notification for your comments said, "Susannah has tagged you in a post about Assholes." I LOLed. 8y
mhillis I saw an article that the Chicago Review of Books will not review any S&S books in 2017 because of this. 8y
Notafraidofwords @Susannah I completely agree 8y
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Karli
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Assholes
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Down the Rabbit Hole

@KimG - I'm making sentences with your book titles! #onlynerdsdothis

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Portsidelib
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My sister told me this print looks like messy bookshelves, so I bought it but now I'm just seeing ink splots. Thoughts?

BlueNoodleFritz I vote for books. 8y
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barcelosknows
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This was published in 2012. Things got worse.

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catatonic1242
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Pickpick

I really loved the first half of this. I wish I'd skipped the chapter on "Asshole Capitalism," as it was a bit dry, but overall I thought this was both funny and thoughtful.

QuoteQueen Idk how many times I have almost bought this book. Lol 8y
catatonic1242 @VeteransWife512 I gave it to my dad for Father's Day, with the caveat that, "I'm not saying this is *about* you, I'm just saying you might enjoy it." ? 8y
QuoteQueen Haha. I've thought about getting it for my hubs for the same reason 😂 8y
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catatonic1242
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"We first seek neither the 'royal asshole,' who is distinguished even among assholes, nor the 'borderline asshole," whose status as an asshole is not entirely clear. We want to identify the mean asshole between these extremes: your normal, everyday asshole."

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DanaC
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Interesting read so far...

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MrsAlexanderHamilton
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Mehso-so

This book was alright. Mediocre. Interesting enough that I finished it, but not something I'd do again. There was less humor than I was expecting. The language was academic and could be difficult to comprehend for some readers. Definitely not a light read by any means.

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MrsAlexanderHamilton
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It is an interesting question whether assholes ever wholly transform, or whether being an asshole is more like being an alcoholic: one is always gratefully in recovery and never finally cured.

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MrsAlexanderHamilton
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More likely, the thought of doing things differently just didn't occur to him. He went in the direction of defensiveness instead of personal growth mainly because this seemed to work out pretty well for him. He mostly got what he wanted out of this.

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MrsAlexanderHamilton
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If good society could have this dampening influence, it would seem that nurture, not nature, is doing the casual work when a society lets assholes run wild.

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MrsAlexanderHamilton
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To take someone to be an asshole is to make a moral claim about when a person's sense of entitlement exceeds what morality justifies.

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MrsAlexanderHamilton
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If one is special on one's birthday, the asshole's birthday comes every day.

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jennwangster
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Hummus with Assholes 😎📚 #interestingread

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jennwangster
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Ugh so true...😡 #hateassholes

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booklust
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"Certain styles of capitalism are inherently pretty be to decline or, more specifically, to degrade, due to the proliferation of assholes. Asshole capitalism, as we hereby define the term, is the name of this kind of unstable social system"

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jennwangster
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Def offers some interesting insights to the insufferable jerks in my life 😜