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Poor Deer
Poor Deer: A Novel | Claire Oshetsky
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A wondrous, tender novel about a young girl grappling with her role in a tragic lossand attempting to reshape the narrative of her lifefrom PEN/Faulkner Award nominee Claire Oshetsky Margaret Murphy is a weaver of fantastic tales, growing up in a world where the truth is too much for one little girl to endure. Her first memory is of the day her friend Agnes died. No one blames Margaret. Not in so many words. Her mother insists to everyone who will listen that her daughter never even left the house that day. Left alone to make sense of tragedy, Margaret wills herself to forget these unbearable memories, replacing them with imagined stories full of faith and magicthat always end happily. Enter Poor Deer: a strange and formidable creature who winds her way uninvited into Margarets made-up tales. Poor Deer will not rest until Margaret faces the truth about her past and atones for her role in Agness death. Heartrending, hopeful, and boldly imagined, Poor Deer explores the journey toward understanding the children we once were and the stories we tell ourselves to make sense of lifes most difficult moments.
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Lesliereadsalot
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This story of 4 year old Margaret losing her best friend grabs you AND DOES NOT LET YOU GO! She‘s unforgettable and when, at age 16, she sits down to try to figure it all out you still don‘t see where she is going with this. Couldn‘t wait to wake up this morning and finish it. Still thinking about it hours later and very happy to have you guys to recommend these books that would not have been on my radar. 🩷

@Cathythoughts @BarbaraBB

BarbaraBB Happy (and a bit relieved 😀) you loved it too! 2w
sarahbarnes Yes! Agreed! 2w
Cathythoughts I loved it … so glad you did too. Litsy is a great place for books 🥰 2w
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RowReads1
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I was completely influenced by Litsy on getting this one 😉. The cover also reminds of “Au hasard Balthazar”.

BarbaraBB I hope you‘ll enjoy it! 3w
Cathythoughts I loved this one. ❤️ Fingers crossed for you 😁 3w
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BarbaraBB
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Such a lovely read. After her best friend dies, little Margaret turns inwards and creates her own reality. She is a wonderful unreliable narrator, surrounded by people who have a big impact on who she becomes.

Years later she writes the story of het life, trying to stay close to the truth.
A worthy #ToB25Longlist read!

ImperfectCJ I liked this one, too. "Lovely" is a good word to describe it. It's one of those books where the writing itself is a vibe...I felt immersed in it. 3w
LeahBergen Great review! 3w
Hooked_on_books This one was a bit weird, but it worked for me. And there are things about it that suggest it shouldn‘t have. I love when that happens. 3w
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Bookwormjillk I think I‘ll read this one next. I could use something lovely. 3w
RowReads1 I just got this one. It‘s your fault 😉. 3w
ChaoticMissAdventures I really enjoyed this too. Like @Hooked_on_books I kept thinking this shouldn't work for me, but it totally did. I am sad it isn't on the short list. 3w
Suet624 If I hadn‘t stacked it already you‘d have convinced me. 3w
sarahbarnes I‘m so glad you liked it! Like @ChaoticMissAdventures I‘m disappointed this one isn‘t on the short list. 3w
Cathythoughts Yes such a worthy read. I loved this one. 3w
squirrelbrain I‘m glad you loved it too! And, yes, it should have been on the shortlist. 3w
Lesliereadsalot Ordering from my library right now. 3w
BarbaraBB @Lesliereadsalot I was thinking the same of your most recent read. We seem to be liking the same kind of books! 3w
Lesliereadsalot I have 9 library books sitting here, but I‘m still picking up Poor Deer tomorrow! (edited) 3w
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ImperfectCJ
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A poignant exploration of how a child reacts to tragedy and draws conclusions about responsibility and the role that adults play in this process. My family experienced a loss when I was just shy of 4, and the ways in which Margaret attempts to make sense of her loss and the ways that it reverberates through the years feels true to me, although the circumstances were quite different.

Photo: A deer (in maybe Colorado?) in 2015.

ImperfectCJ #tob25 longlist 1mo
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Cathythoughts
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Oh my heart from this book. It really made me wonder about the mind of a child. I love the unreliable narrator, there is mystery and confusion. The title Poor Deer is so perfect. Magical writing, a haunting story. ❤️

BkClubCare I, too, found it incredibly moving. LOVE the photo. 1mo
Cathythoughts @BkClubCare Thanks X Yes so moving. ❤️ 1mo
BarbaraBB Your review wants to make me read it NOW! It‘s on my shelves! 1mo
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TEArificbooks I almost picked this one up the other day. Might get it next trip to bookstore. 1mo
squirrelbrain Great review - glad you loved it! ❤️ 1mo
LeahBergen Gorgeous review and photo!! ❤️ 1mo
Cathythoughts @BarbaraBB I‘ll be interested to hear what you think when you get there 👍🏻 1mo
Cathythoughts @TEArificbooks Oh do ! I hope you will like it 😁 1mo
Cathythoughts @squirrelbrain It‘s so good ❤️ 1mo
Cathythoughts @LeahBergen Thanks Leah 😘 1mo
Cathythoughts @squirrelbrain @sarahbarnes I loved all the layers of the Poor Deer meanings, wasn‘t Bunny like a deer in the headlights for so long 💔 1mo
sarahbarnes Oh that‘s such a good read of it - I hadn‘t thought of that use of the word deer, and you‘re so right. 1mo
Cathythoughts @sarahbarnes I think the book lends itself to all kinds of interpretations.. it‘s so layered and rich. I keep thinking about it all. ❤️ 1mo
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Cathythoughts
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Im not too far in , but I‘m captivated. 🤞🏻 I really wasn‘t sure what this would be like , loving the writing and the whole atmosphere.

sarahbarnes Glad you‘re liking it so far! 1mo
Cathythoughts @sarahbarnes Thanks. I am ! I have my eye on Chouette already. ❤️ 1mo
squirrelbrain Yes, I agree, I feel the need to read Chouette now! 1mo
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Cathythoughts @squirrelbrain I must finish this one first. But I‘m feeling hopeful that this writer is one I‘ll want more of. ❤️ 1mo
LeahBergen It has such a great cover! 1mo
Cathythoughts @LeahBergen I think so too. 1mo
sarahbarnes Agreed with you and @squirrelbrain that I definitely now have Chouette on my TBR. ♥️ 1mo
Cathythoughts @sarahbarnes Oh good, we can all compare notes some day ❤️ 1mo
sarahbarnes ❤️❤️❤️ 1mo
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sarahbarnes
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These are the books I love the TOB for! Such a strange, brilliant story. Told perfectly from the perspective of a child as she grows up grappling with events from her young life in a way only children can. A fantastic read. I‘m sad this didn‘t make the #TOB2025 shortlist.

squirrelbrain Exactly why I love #ToB too! ❤️ 2mo
BarbaraBB Can‘t wait to read it! 2mo
sarahbarnes @squirrelbrain @BarbaraBB it‘s one of the gems on the list this year I think. One I‘m so glad to have read. 🩵 2mo
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BarbaraBB Oh wow, that is quite a recommendation! 2mo
Suet624 Well now I‘ll be stalking my local libraries for this one. 2mo
BkClubCare Yay! I was excited when I first heard of this one and it didn‘t disappoint- an author who is now a must-read for me. 2mo
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Hooked_on_books
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I am not a fan of child narrators and child neglect makes my blood boil, so this book shouldn‘t work for me at all. But the writing is magical and buoyant and that made all the difference—I really enjoyed it. I‘m glad it was on the #TOBlonglist to get me to read it. I‘ll be looking for more from this author.

ChaoticMissAdventures I am the same, glad I didn't look too far into it b/c child narrators I usually skip but I thought this was very well done. 2mo
Librariana Very tricky (infuriating!) subject matter indeed, but glad you could find redeeming qualities in the prose 😊 2mo
Ruthiella I love it when a book on paper that seems to be a “not for me” turns out to be a winner. (edited) 2mo
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Hooked_on_books @Ruthiella Yes, me too! Please authors, prove me wrong! 2mo
dabbe 🖤🐾🖤 2mo
squirrelbrain Yes, I wasn‘t sure about this on paper, but ending up really liking it. Happy New Year! (When you get there!) 2mo
Hooked_on_books @squirrelbrain Happy New Year to you! You‘re like a time traveler from the future, talking to me from next year. 😉 2mo
BarbaraBB Good to know. I‘ll be looking out for it. 2mo
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ChaoticMissAdventures
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I listened to a couple of hours of this on my long drive yesterday and was blown away by Sophie Amos' narration, I read most of this with my eyes but do rec. the audio.
#ToB long listed this was dark, fairytale like and incredibly well constructed. It isn't going to be for everyone, there is a lot of going back over a story, and very unreliable narrations. But I didn't feel at all that it was too repetitive and i enjoyed the creepy dark vibe

squirrelbrain I can imagine this is really good on audio. 2mo
ChaoticMissAdventures @squirrelbrain I think it could have gone really badly, but the narrator had amazing voices and she made Poor Deer super creepy! 2mo
sarahbarnes I‘m excited for this one! I have a print copy from the library right now. Your take on the audio is intriguing. 2mo
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squirrelbrain
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I loved this, and it‘s another perfect example of why I love the #ToBlonglist so much.

Yes, it‘s a bit weird, but in a good way. And it‘s so beautifully but sparsely written - about motherhood, grief, regret, love, loss and forgiveness.

It has a bit of a feel of Catherine Chidgey‘s ‘Pet‘ but with added magical realism, so if you liked that - read this!

And I‘m not a fan of magical realism at all but it totally works here.

BkClubCare And her first book is even weirder! 🦉 3mo
TrishB Interesting! I have her first book on the tbr 😁 3mo
Cathythoughts A bit of a feel of ‘Pet‘ …. Stacked ! 3mo
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Caroline2 Interesting 🧐 esp with that cover ❤️ 3mo
squirrelbrain Yes, I‘d really like to read Chouette now! @BkClubCare @TrishB 3mo
squirrelbrain I think you‘ll like it too @Cathythoughts 3mo
squirrelbrain It‘s a great cover, I think! @Caroline2 3mo
BarbaraBB Great review. I will read it soon. The comparison to Pet is very tempting! 3mo
squirrelbrain I hope you don‘t think I‘m talking rubbish with that comparison @BarbaraBB when you read it. It was the neglectful mother side of things, and the unreliability of a child‘s recollection….. 3mo
BarbaraBB You‘re mostly spot-on with such comparisons 🤍 3mo
sarahbarnes Great review, I‘m very excited for this one! It‘s in my library book stack. 3mo
Suet624 I perked up with the Pet reference too. Stacked! 2mo
Hooked_on_books I started this one last night. The writing is so engaging! I wasn‘t sure I‘d like it, but so far so good. 2mo
squirrelbrain Yes, I wasn‘t sure if it would be my ‘thing‘ but ended up really liking it. @Hooked_on_books 2mo
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sarahbarnes
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A few that came available from the library. Let‘s see how many of these I can get to! 😁 #TOB2025

BarbaraBB Great haul and that fire, so cozy!! 3mo
squirrelbrain Great choices, and I love the 🔥 too! 3mo
Cathythoughts Gorgeous post 🔥 📚 3mo
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sarahbarnes @BarbaraBB @squirrelbrain @Cathythoughts thank you! 😊 I‘m excited to try these, even though I know a few have mixed reviews. 3mo
BarbaraBB I haven‘t heard anything about Invisible Hotel but do have a copy. I am super curious about it! 3mo
Suet624 Cozy photo. 3mo
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fredthemoose
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⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️ Been looking forward to #LitsyToB25 but realized I‘ve only read 2 of the #ToBlonglist 😬, so getting started with what‘s easily available. A 4 year old was partly involved in her friend‘s accidental death and wrestles with the mental and emotional fallout from that and its toll on her and her close relationships until she‘s finally able to address her guilt. Got a little slow in the middle but picked back up and finished strong.

BkClubCare I really liked it. 3mo
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Addison_Reads
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All of the books, ebooks, and audiobooks I currently have checked out to read for #ToB25. We'll see how many I can get through before the shortlist.

sarahbarnes A good stack! 📚 3mo
marleed I‘ve only read two (top row, last two to the right), and both were 5 star reads for me. For me Margo defines why I love fiction - it introduced characters that I knew IRL I‘d likely choose not to befriend. And then it taught me what a missed opportunity that would be for me. 3mo
squirrelbrain Great choices! ❤️ 3mo
BarbaraBB Good stack indeed! Looking forward to your thoughts on them! 3mo
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BkClubCare
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Five star read, exquisitely told, characters to cheer for, totally unique! And it has pie 🌟 Narration by Sophie Amoss is excellent.

#Nov2024 Book100 🎉

Deblovestoread I‘m hoping to see this one on The Tournament of Books longlist 4mo
squirrelbrain I wish this was easier together hold of here! I can get it on Amazon (not cheap!) but there‘s no audio version to be had anywhere.🤷‍♀️ (edited) 4mo
sarahbarnes Even more excited for this one now! 4mo
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BkClubCare @squirrelbrain DARN! 🫤 4mo
BkClubCare @Deblovestoread - full of good discussionables. 4mo
BkClubCare @sarahbarnes - it is so clever! 4mo
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BkClubCare
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The narrator for the audiobook of Poor Deer is knockin‘ it out of the park! Especially with, “It moved the kindhearted teacher, … and she remembered why she had become a teacher in the first place. It wasn‘t just because no one wanted to marry her. It was also because she had felt a calling.” 😆🤣 Deadpan delivery. Oshetsky is a damn good writer, too. #HappyHalloween #FlyingMonkey (pic from 2009)

sarahbarnes 😂😂😂 4mo
BkClubCare @sarahbarnes - oh good! I laughed out loud but then… like always! - I question my sense of humor. 4mo
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BkClubCare
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Starting this now. Hoping it will be on the #ToB2025_LongList

sarahbarnes Stacking! 4mo
BarbaraBB Me too! Can‘t wait for that longlist! 4mo
BkClubCare @BarbaraBB @sarahbarnes - any books you recommend might be LL‘d? I want to be ahead of it, which -of course- is foolish to think I could ever 😂 4mo
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BarbaraBB I think Annie Bot or Beautyland are possible contenders. I liked the first one, was underwhelmed by the second. But I am really not good in this guessing. You should ask @squirrelbrain 😀 4mo
squirrelbrain I‘m not good at guessing the ToB books either - there‘s always so many (good) surprises! I think it‘s because it‘s a US-focused list. @BarbaraBB @sarahbarnes I can‘t wait for the list, to start the search for where I can get them from. Poor Deer is quite difficult to get hold of here but I do think it has a high chance of being on the list…. 🙄 (edited) 4mo
squirrelbrain Others that I‘ve reserved in anticipation include: Irena Rey, I Cheerfully Refuse, Lesser Ruins, Blue Ruin, Sipsworth, Fruit of the Dead. I‘ve recently read Behind You Is The Sea and I‘m listening to Our London Lives, which could be possibles. 4mo
BarbaraBB Thank you @squirrelbrain this is super inspiring! 4mo
BkClubCare @squirrelbrain - OH! I am super excited to see Sipsworth! SO interesting (and happy) that this book is so well loved. I have met the author - his books are quite good. 4mo
BkClubCare @BarbaraBB TY - I love a good list. 4mo
squirrelbrain That‘s a great list! @BarbaraBB This one is on there and I‘ve seen a LOT of hype about it so it could be on ToB. (Another one I can‘t get, of course) 4mo
BarbaraBB @squirrelbrain I‘ve read that one. It‘s a short story collection and although some are great, it didn‘t live up@to the hype imo 4mo
sarahbarnes Thanks for all the tips @squirrelbrain @BarbaraBB! I do know TOB tends to be pretty US-focused. I‘m hoping for a better shortlist this year!! The long list is always such a treasure hunt though. 📚 4mo
BarbaraBB @sarahbarnes The longlist is a yearly highlight for me 😀! And I almost forgot but indeed, last year‘s shortlist was a bummer! 4mo
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mrp27
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This was such a curious and quirky little book. I picked it randomly at the library and I was immediately immersed in Margret‘s world as she tries to deal with grief and tragedy.

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MegCaldwell
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What a strange and whimsical book, every retelling surprised me, as time moves sideways.

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CaseyTheCanadianLesbrarian
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My god, do I love Claire Oshetsky's writing. Their trademark odd combination of straightforward prose and everyday magic is present again in this story about grief, parenting, regret, childhood, fate, and the stories we tell ourselves about our lives. This book is sad. Poor Deer actually has an opposite portrayal of motherhood from Oshetsky's CHOUETTE, one where the mother fails to support her kid. A beautiful book, but bring your tissues.

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BkClubCare
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Nomination for #CampLitsy2024, one of four. @Megabooks @BarbaraBB @squirrelbrain

Background photo is my newly planted Rhubarb. FYI Strawberry Rhubarb Pie Day is June 9 🌟🍓🥧

Chelsea.Poole I almost added this to my nominations! And—I have rhubarb too! 😊 11mo
squirrelbrain Ooh, this was rumoured for the #womensprize… 🤔 11mo
BarbaraBB This sounds good!! 11mo
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BkClubCare @Chelsea.Poole - one of these times, my rhubarb plants will survive long enough to harvest. They keep dying, we keep trying it in new spots of the garden #sigh 🌱 11mo
BkClubCare @squirrelbrain - was it? I haven‘t given much attention to that this year. I love the author‘s reviews on gr. 11mo
BkClubCare @BarbaraBB - HIGHLY anticipated read for me, I know I will read it anyway, if it isn‘t selected for camp. 11mo
Megabooks I've almost checked out this audiobook twice! 11mo
BkClubCare @Megabooks - I hope to do the ebook so that I can easily capture bits and bites. I love a good audiobook, too but want to preserve my reactions. (edited) 11mo
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jdiehr
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I loved Chouette by this author and was equally enchanted by Poor Deer.

Oshetsky's writing is beautifully unique.

In this story, a very young child experiences a traumatic event and grapples with guilt for the rest of her life.

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"She loves her next-door neighbour, Ruby Bickford, and doesn't know it, because such a love lies just outside the window of Florence's imagination...She works at the downtown lunch counter, where she gives free pie slices to all the single men, because she still has ambition."

Aaah I love Claire Oshetsky's writing!

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AbstractMonica
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This story was unique, but all I will say is that Margaret Murphy deserved more from the adults in her life.

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Floresj
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Two 4 year old girls start the book, and one tells the story throughout the rest. However, since the girl is remembering, living, avoiding and processing her grief, stories are repeated, but different. Excellent.

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Suzze
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I read 6 books in February and liked them all. Have you read any of these?