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The Coddling of the American Mind
The Coddling of the American Mind: How Good Intentions and Bad Ideas Are Setting Up a Generation for Failure | Jonathan Haidt, Greg Lukianoff
Something is going wrong on many college campuses in the last few years. Rates of anxiety, depression, and suicide are rising. Speakers are shouted down. Students and professors say they are walking on eggshells and afraid to speak honestly. How did this happen? First Amendment expert Greg Lukianoff and social psychologist Jonathan Haidt show how the new problems on campus have their origins in three terrible ideas that have become increasingly woven into American childhood and education: what doesnt kill you makes you weaker; always trust your feelings; and life is a battle between good people and evil people. These three Great Untruths are incompatible with basic psychological principles, as well as ancient wisdom from many cultures. They interfere with healthy development. Anyone who embraces these untruthsand the resulting culture of safetyismis less likely to become an autonomous adult able to navigate the bumpy road of life. Lukianoff and Haidt investigate the many social trends that have intersected to produce these untruths. They situate the conflicts on campus in the context of Americas rapidly rising political polarization, including a rise in hate crimes and off-campus provocation. They explore changes in childhood including the rise of fearful parenting, the decline of unsupervised play, and the new world of social media that has engulfed teenagers in the last decade. This is a book for anyone who is confused by what is happening on college campuses today, or has children, or is concerned about the growing inability of Americans to live, work, and cooperate across party lines.
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Tkgbjenn1
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Like most books like this, the point is made within the first 4 or 5 chapters. After that it‘s just most examples to prove the point. And I agree with the points made. Yes, we are challenged as a society. We are motivated so much by self-esteem and feelings that the truth and challenging what is wrong gets muffled and silenced out of fear. It is a good book. With good points.

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This was based on an article that the authors had previously written, so I was basically listening to an extended research paper. I would recommend passing on this one unless you are really into the first amendment and social trends. An issue with this one is timeliness, there have been so many more controversial events since it was published but I felt compelled to read/listen after a recommendation from our company CEO.

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Leslie_Ak2Oh
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Pickpick

A wonderful mostly unbiased insight into the issues we are having with youth today and mature ways to help us help them overcome the challenges they will face.

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Leslie_Ak2Oh
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Okay…I‘m not going to lie. I‘m bleeping loving this book & I‘m considering buying copies for the young parents in my life. Kids today are indeed far to fragile and I‘m grateful for my father for showing me how to have a tuff skin so I can pass that along to my stepchildren.

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Phelangies
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Just started this and really enjoying. Learned that peanut butter allergies are on the rise as less people are exposed to it. Also that the ban of nuts somehow includes legumes. This unfortunate counter to protect the vulnerable has caused a higher amount of those to also get allergic making more...vulnerables. I don‘t normally read non fiction, but I will be finishing this one. One complaint- not enough dragons. So far...0 dragon appearance

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thepostman96
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Mehso-so

This was a pretty interesting read. However, it was quite repetitive. I felt like it could have been shortened significantly or just kept to the original essay. Nonetheless, there were some good points made.

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Sace
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A pick for the most part. Not sure why I keep doing non-fiction on audio. I don't have the attention span for it. I agree we're going overboard and cancel culture is a thing, but I still think we need to call out a**holes.

Note-there's a website for the book with lots of resources.

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Sace
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I've been a #BookReport slacker. ? But I'm back in the game this week! Even if the only book I really 'read"was this audiobook.

@Cinfhen

megnews This sounds good. 5y
Cinfhen Yay 😁 you‘re back!!!! 5y
Cinfhen How was this book??? This is 1000% a pet peeve of mine.... what‘s happening on college campuses 😡🤬😡🤬😡🤬 5y
Sace @Cinfhen I'm still listening to it actually. Probably I should read it and not listen because I feel like I'm missing a lot, but I can say a lot of what is happening on college campuses is a result of over protective parenting and safety-ism. 5y
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Toryp
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I am thoroughly enjoying this book. Allows for insight into how iQ and EQ play equal parts of our conscious whole. The heart and the head. Describe How these ideas are being skewed on college campus. One must struggle through discomfort in order to finally think!

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Sace
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Not sure if I should be listening to this right now since I'm in a cranky kind of head space, but my daughter recommended it and I usually enjoy what she recommends.

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ONH
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Is there anything better than a book and a glass of wine after work on a Friday? 🤩🥂

LauraJ A book and two glasses of wine? 5y
ONH @LauraJ I stand corrected 🤪 5y
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Lexeegee
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TheSpineView This is so true! Stacked! 5y
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Lexeegee
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Only to page 40 and have so many highlights!

Riveted_Reader_Melissa Sounds interesting 5y
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LauraJ
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This book answers a lot of questions I have about why so many young people are filled with anxiety. It‘s well outlined and thorough. Definitely worth a listen. #nfnov

Clwojick 6 pts ! 5y
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LauraJ
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Up next for #nfnov!

Clwojick 1pt 5y
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AndreaG1
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When we over protect children we harm them. Children are naturally anti-fragile so overprotection make some weaker and less resilient later on

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Well-ReadNeck
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Can‘t say enough about this one. I‘ve had several lively discussions about it!!!

https://wellreadneck.wordpress.com/2019/04/29/the-coddling-of-the-american-mind-...

#Recommendsday

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mkinney10
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"Education should not be intended to make people comfortable; it's meant to make them think" - Hanna Holborn

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ke1lbe1l
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Bailedbailed

Though I found the core questions the authors raised worth investigating and the evidence presented relevant, I bailed halfway through. I wasn‘t learning significantly new material after the first few chapters and by then, the authors made their central point clear. It was a very interesting book to read around the same time as some of the studies on race. Reminds me of my college years of studying both the medium AND the message in communicating

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KTitone14
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Sad depiction of our reality but eye opening.

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MrBook
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#BookNDinner! Accompaniment this cold and clear evening: 4-mushroom fettuccine in a mushroom white truffle créme sauce, and sparkling mineral water. MMMMMmmmm ?! Happy reads & happy eats! ???

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MrBook
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The view from my reading spot at our third winery of the day! This one seems like it‘s on the top of a mountain. Beautiful area here outside of Allentown.

Lynnsoprano Okay, I grew up in Bethlehem, and there were no wineries anywhere in the area then. I guess I need to get myself back to PA! 😄 6y
Alfoster @Lynnsoprano Have you read the novel Bethlehem? It‘s really good! I read the ARC so not sure when it‘s out but you might like it! 6y
Lynnsoprano @Alfoster No, I haven‘t. To the TBR it goes! 6y
Meghan1 I‘m not too far from you! 6y
phatsallylee Cheers! I hope you are finding some good wine too pair with your reading! 6y
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MrBook
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@BookBabe , @leeloo13 , and friends are on a winery tour today, the first of two days. Iiii‘m the designated driver, so I just have the food and water 😆. All good—I get to READ while they get drunk on grapes! 😁👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻 🍷

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MrBook
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#BookNDinner! #Vietnamese Edition! Accompaniment this cold and windy evening was: bún gà nuông, which is chicken and noodles and veggies, and I added some grilled pork too. Also, a Thai iced tea. MMMMmmm ?! Happy reads & happy eats! ???

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Best lentils I have ever eaten!

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keithmalek
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Suet624 Good lord. 6y
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FSZ'S stand for Free Speech Zones. The founding fathers are rolling in their graves.

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keithmalek
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Chief Justice John Roberts, in his commencement address to his son's middle school graduation in 2017.

Suet624 Good advice. 6y
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keithmalek
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This is insane.

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violabrain This is outrageous!! 6y
KimM I babysat at 11. WTH. 6y
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keithmalek

Something began changing on many campuses around 2013, and the idea that college students should not be exposed to "offensive" ideas is now a majority position on campus. In 2017, 58% of college students said it is "important to be part of a campus community where I am not exposed to intolerant and offensive ideas." This statement was endorsed by 63% of very liberal students, and 45% of very conservative students agreed with that statement.

ColleenIsReading Meh. I was around for the “political correctness” handwringing of the early 90s and it was a tempest in a teapot, didn‘t mean much and the current angst sounds like more of the same. There are a few people who will take things too far, and a complex of media outlets who will blow it into something dreadful. The kids are alright. 6y
keithmalek @ColleenIsReading It sounds much different this time. Back then, they didn't equate opposing views as a "safety" issue and think it was a form of "violence." 6y
CouronneDhiver Nope nope nope. Why can‘t you be exposed to offensive ideas and have enough brain power to decide that you disagree with it and WHY? 🙈 6y
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keithmalek
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I'm also a big believer in the effectiveness of CBT (Cognitive Behavioral Therapy).

CouronneDhiver Me too! 👍🏽 6y
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(Trigger warnings are verbal or written notifications provided by a professor to alert students that they are about to encounter potentially distressing material).

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Currently reading

Notafraidofwords Anything interesting you‘ve encountered in this book. 6y
keithmalek I just started it. 6y
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MarcelloConway
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An outstanding overview of the current campus (and beyond) madness.

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Well-ReadNeck
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Lots of food for thought and many good ideas. However, I do think that some solutions offered overlook some if the heavy price paid for social injustice. But, a great book to discuss and ideas worth considering.

Well-ReadNeck @SamHeartCoffee Here‘s my review. A great book to discuss with friends!! 6y
SamHeartCoffee Thank you! It sounds thought-provoking. 6y
Pruzy Long story short what are some of the problems and what you thought were not good solutions? 6y
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Well-ReadNeck @Pruzy would take all day, but the most glaring: focused on liberal arguments mostly (but not entirely) ignoring the escalation of tactics by the right that contribute to the renaming/propaganda that leads to terms such as safety to be broadened. Also, if all suggestions implemented would perpetuate the privledge that the generation he is talking about is trying to fight. Therefore, I think social justice issues (author says is primary) must be .. 6y
Well-ReadNeck ... addressed in any meaningful solution. 6y
Pruzy @Well-ReadNeck Got it, thanks! 6y
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Well-ReadNeck
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Took a long #AudioWalk for #Readathon #Deweys24HourReadaThon

Just finishing up my 3rd hour!!!

SamHeartCoffee How was this book? Did you agree with the premise? 6y
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Ostaff1
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They ID 6 trends: political polarization; adolescent depression & anxiety rates; high-intensity parenting; play & risk deprivation; campus bureaucracy; and a “commitment to attaining “equal outcomes” in all areas.” They make some good points, even if I don‘t agree with all of their arguments. Worth a read.

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Ostaff1
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Really, it‘s interesting to read Oluo (So You Want to Talk About Race, in yellow) and Haidt & Lukianoff (in blue) right next to each other.