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Ejaculate Responsibly
Ejaculate Responsibly: A Whole New Way to Think About Abortion | Gabrielle Stanley Blair
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In Ejaculate Responsibly, Gabrielle Blair expands on her viral Twitter thread and offers a provocative reframing of the abortion issue. In a series of 25 brief arguments, she deftly makes the case for moving the abortion debate away from controlling and legislating womens bodies and instead directs the focus on mens lack of accountability in preventing unwanted pregnancies. Highly readable, accessible, funny, and unflinching, Blair builds her argument by walking readers through the basics of fertility (men are 50 times more fertile than woman), the unfair burden placed on women when it comes to preventing pregnancy (90% of the birth control market is for women), the wrongheaded stigmas around birth control for men (condoms make sex less pleasurable, vasectomies are scary and emasculating), and the counterintuitive reality that men, who are fertile 100% of the time, take little to no responsibility for preventing pregnancy.
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TheBookHippie
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More folks need to read tagged book… OYTOTHEVEY people

Reading is fundamental 🤦🏻‍♀️

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KateReadsYA Yessss! Make a difference by controlling what you do. I love this 1w
Hooked_on_books I loved how this book reframed unintended pregnancy. It takes two to tango, after all! 1w
dabbe What a hashtag, too! #ejaculateresponsibily 🤩🤩🤩 1w
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Jas16
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Thank you Litsy for putting this book on my radar. I appreciated Blair‘s take on the need for men to take responsibility for preventing unwanted pregnancies. Succinct and thought provoking, I will be convincing everyone I can to read this.

Reggie There‘s this book I read that was sci-fi and had to do with parallel universes and in one of them there was a vasectomy subsidy that men could get if they chose to got snipped. It sounded like a cool option. 1mo
Jas16 @Reggie That is a cool idea. 4w
Suet624 @Reggie great idea. 4w
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Christinak
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The Washington Post said it perfectly in their review
”Blair‘s fresh reframe should be required reading for any person who has sex, wants to have sex or is raising someone who might have sex in the future. This slender book has what it takes to be the foundation for a movement.”

#womenshistorymonth

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CaliforniaCay
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In a perfect world, men would read this and be convinced of how and why they should ejaculate responsibly, resulting in fewer unwanted pregnancies and shifting the conversation about abortion away from blaming and legislating women alone. Alas, we don't live in a perfect world 😕 with its bold font, in your face statements, and startling statistics, I enjoyed this book. I hope one day it will be read far and wide and maybe change some minds.

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TheBookHippie
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Fun holiday gift to bring to your family 👀
Either a good conversation or you‘ll get to leave earlier 😂😂😂😂😵‍💫 either way is a win ..

Thank you for coming to my TED TALK

JenReadsAlot 😂 5mo
Suet624 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻 5mo
AmyG Ha! 🙌🏻 5mo
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Julsmarshall I completely agree! This is a great one to share. Eff ‘em if they don‘t appreciate it 😉 5mo
Tamra That‘s very funny! 5mo
TheBookHippie @Julsmarshall went well last year 😂😂😂😂👀😵‍💫🤐 5mo
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REPollock
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Every teenager in America should read this book. And every adult. A brilliant educational manifesto on eliminating elective abortion.

wildwoodreads Gorgeous flowers! 10mo
REPollock @wildwoodreads it was a mystery plant, I didn't know what the flowers would look like until they opened! 🌼 10mo
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Julsmarshall
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Fantastic! This book was well researched, written, and a great read! The author argues for shifting the conversation about unwanted pregnancies from women and abortions to men and prevention. Women are fertile 2 days a month for an average of 35 years and men are fertile every day from puberty until death Birth control is safer, cheaper, and more easily accessible for men. For those reasons, and dozens of others, it is time to flip the script .

TheBookHippie I gave this to every single relative for Hanukkah and Christmas this past year 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼✊🏼✊🏼✊🏼 12mo
Julsmarshall That is a true testament to how much you loved it, @TheBookHippie We must spread the word! 12mo
TheBookHippie @Julsmarshall I have been preaching about it since before it came out 😂 when she was writing it. 12mo
ShelleyBooksie What an amazing title. 12mo
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Bookzombie
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Definitely a pick! This is a short, but important book. I thought the audio narration by the author was well done. #Booked2023 #AboutReproductiveRights

CarolynM Indeed! 12mo
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Soubhiville
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This is a very short book about men being responsible for their semen and where they put it. Blair points out that all unwanted pregnancies are caused by one thing- men ejaculating irresponsibly.

I love her point of view, and the idea that with better education we could teach people with semen to recognize they can prevent abortions very simply.

I‘d love to see this in the hands of teens of all genders. And adults!

MicheleinPhilly 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼 12mo
TheBookHippie I agree 💯 12mo
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BarbaraTheBibliophage
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#Booked2023 #aboutreproductiverights
#Pantone2023 #cherrytomato
#nonfiction2023 #harpervalleypta

This book takes the conversation about repro rights and turns it on its head. That‘s a telling pun. Every abortion can be prevented by one thing—men acting responsibly. The author makes a book-length listicle (list+article). I enjoyed her audiobook narration and book content so much that I grabbed the ebook right after finishing a library audiobook.

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Hooked_on_books
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Every unwanted pregnancy has one thing in common: it occurred because sperm was ejaculated into a vagina. And yet we hold the vagina owner fully responsible for this. Blair suggests we reframe this conversation and hold everyone responsible for their own body fluids. This is a terrific, brief book, made all the more persuasive by the fact that the author has six kids and self-describes as religious.

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erindarlyn
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4/5 stars. A quick read about the author‘s position on a relevant topic. She uses short, readable chapters to present data to back up her position - one that posits that we are really focusing on the wrong thing as society debates and legislates and makes abortion the prominent factor of discussion when there are other things that are playing a larger role in the issue but that go ignored.

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TheBookHippie
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My top ten of 2022 🎆

IndoorDame The Story of Jane is definitely going to make my list this year 1y
TheBookHippie @IndoorDame It‘s so very good. I‘m a bit biased as really studying it and learning from it many moons ago in the early 1980s. Still. Necessary read. 1y
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LeahBergen The Pym and von Arnim are favourites of mine. 😍 1y
TheBookHippie @LeahBergen Just so good. 1y
JamieArc The Frida Kahlo book looks really good. Just stacked it. 1y
TheBookHippie @JamieArc It was very good. A story I had no clue about! 1y
batsy Fun stack! Love the Shakespeare and Pym 😍 1y
Soubhiville I am so going to buy a copy of the tagged book if I can find it!!! 1y
TheBookHippie @Soubhiville OMG it‘s so good!!! 1y
Soubhiville I got a copy today! 1y
TheBookHippie @Soubhiville I cannot wait to hear what you think!!! 1y
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JoyBlue
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High pick! These arguments are presented clearly and briefly . . . and are backed up by extensive sources. It‘s time to change the conversation. Read my full review here: https://debbybrauer.org/#ejaculate-responsibly

TheBookHippie I loved this. 1y
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bibliothecarivs
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★★★★★ Every person who can ejaculate sperm should read this, no matter their position on abortion.

keithmalek Based on the description, I agree with most of it. However, just like how a man isn't allowed to weigh in on menstrual cramps and the physical pain of childbirth, a woman isn't allowed to tell me that getting a knife in my balls isn't scary. It's FAR less scary than actually raising a child, but still. And yes, condoms are somewhat uncomfortable too. 1y
BookDadGirlDad I would agree with most of the description. I'm big on personal responsibility when it comes to this topic. I don't believe this argument should be framed on control but responsibility. I wonder what the authors opinion would be if a man wanted the baby and the woman didn't or vice versa. If it takes two to make a baby, 2 should decide 1y
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