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Thatbooknerd
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Author Thomas DeBaggio, (1942-2011).

Photos before and during/after Alzheimer‘s.

Diagnosis: 57 years old.
Death: 69 years old.
Over a decade of pure hell. 💔

AmyG This was my Mom. She had it, too, for 11 years. Horrible disease. 😞 6d
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Thatbooknerd
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I wanted to read this book quickly to get it out of my house, and donate it to a local little free library. These memoirs are all too personal to me—as a hospice volunteer I spend time with patients (and their families) who have this demon of a disease; my father has it too, and as of now, has been on hospice almost 3 months. The author was diagnosed with early onset at only 57 years old, and died at 69. Here, he shares his early experiences ⬇️

Thatbooknerd with the disease, writing in a unique way, in increments: memories of childhood, adolescence, adulthood; research on the disease; the current hell he was experiencing each moment, day, and night. He shares the reactions of family, friends, and customers from the gardening business he ran for 25 years. Some people sent him unwanted religious information and false hope cures in the mail. He did an interview with NPR and wrote another book. In⬇️ 6d
charl08 Sending my best to you and the family. Such a hard diagnosis. 6d
Thatbooknerd the beginning, he wanted to die because he knew what was coming and was already so miserable, but his wife pushed back, so he chose to ‘stay‘ and try to record his experiences in an attempt to shed light on this horrific thief of all thieves: Alzheimer‘s. Tissues will be needed. 6d
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Amiable My husband and I have a friend who was diagnosed with frontotemporal dementia at 56. He‘s 7 years into it now and it‘s rough. I need to read this to better understand what he‘s going (gone) through. 6d
AmyG I‘m so sorry about your Dad. My Mom had this. Horrible disease. Heartbreaking. 6d
DaveGreen7777 I‘m so sorry about your father. 😔 Alzheimer‘s is such a terrible disease, it causes so much pain for the people who have it, as well as their loved ones who have to watch what‘s happening to them. 😢 6d
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It may appear to be just another illness, especially of the elderly, but Alzheimer‘s is a unique and wrenching disease that destroys the mind, without which you lose your sense of being human. In its early stages, when you are most sensitively aware, you watch helplessly as you slowly lose yourself. Memory disappears. Language is gone. You forget who you are and become lost and dependent. Yet you continue on in silence, the body unsure ⬇️

Thatbooknerd and hesitating, as the diabolical disease proceeds to kill you by slowly destroying what remains of your body and your life. But the destruction continues, doing its best to uproot your loved ones and dip their hearts in the fire. 7d
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I know it is difficult for them to watch me deteriorate and if I keep quiet they won‘t see what is really happening. I do not want to make them suffer with me but I also want them to understand the uncontrolled evil this disease represents. They must know, as others should, the destructive power of it. Although subtle in attack, Alzheimer‘s is the closest thing to being eaten alive slowly. I am losing my ability to wrote. I see the signs⬇️

Thatbooknerd of verbal atrophy every day. Cut my legs off but don‘t take away my ability to think, dream, and write. It is too late to reconstruct the dreams of my youth or create a new life. I am staring a monster in the face. 7d
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Thatbooknerd
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I‘m 82 pages in, and this is a hard read. These kinds of memoirs always are.
You can see Thomas isn‘t there in this photo…he‘s far away somewhere. Link to listen: Tom' DeBaggio's Decade With Alzheimer's Disease

https://www.npr.org/2010/06/16/127857149/a-decade-of-alzheimers-devastating-impa...

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More Happy Than Not | Adam Silvera
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This was the only available book of Adam Silvera at our library right now, so I went with this one. I don't know what I expected, but it sure wasn't what I got. It took me a while to get into it, but at some point the story really takes off. It's heart-breaking, moving and sometimes hard to read. And it's a very, very, very important message Silvera shares with us.

#QueerBC @PuddleJumper

PuddleJumper 🎉🎉 2w
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LiteraryinPA
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SO good. I‘m really looking forward to my book club‘s discussion! This book was very readable and centered on a Chinese American college student and her grandmother. They are part of a legacy of women who made elite pencils and… there is some magical realism about how they use the pencils. It‘s so original and memorable. Themes of memory, war/loyalty, communication, privacy, queer love. Great relationships of all types. Well written. Read it!

dabbe 🤍🐾🧡 4w
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The Last Cuentista | Donna Barba Higuera

“Petra is a storyteller“

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The Last Cuentista | Donna Barba Higuera

“What if you woke up hundreds of years in the future and were now under the control of a strange new collective that is focused on having everyone be the same“

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The Last Cuentista | Donna Barba Higuera
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This story explored “What If“ questions by exploring space travel and the exploration of a foreign planet in a futuristic time. There are new technologies being addressed such as pods that keep humans alive without aging for hundreds of years and cognitive learning pods. A new society of humans focused on a collective union take over the ship and it is up to Petra, the last remaining human with their memories intact to save the others.