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Sitting Pretty
Sitting Pretty: The View from My Ordinary Resilient Disabled Body | Rebekah Taussig
A memoir-in-essays from disability advocate and creator of the Instagram account @sitting_pretty Rebekah Taussig, processing a lifetime of memories to paint a beautiful, nuanced portrait of a body that looks and moves differently than most. Growing up as a paralyzed girl during the 90s and early 2000s, Rebekah Taussig only saw disability depicted as something monstrous (The Hunchback of Notre Dame), inspirational (Helen Keller), or angelic (Forrest Gump). None of this felt right; and as she got older, she longed for more stories that allowed disability to be complex and ordinary, uncomfortable and fine, painful and fulfilling. Writing about the rhythms and textures of what it means to live in a body that doesnt fit, Rebekah reflects on everything from the complications of kindness and charity, living both independently and dependently, experiencing intimacy, and how the pervasiveness of ableism in our everyday media directly translates to everyday life. Disability affects all of us, directly or indirectly, at one point or another. By exploring this truth in poignant and lyrical essays, Taussig illustrates the need for more stories and more voices to understand the diversity of humanity. Sitting Pretty challenges us as a society to be patient and vigilant, practical and imaginative, kind and relentless, as we set to work to write an entirely different story.
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Mindelan
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I listened to the audiobook, and I really liked it. I found much of it relatable as someone with chronic illness, and I learned a lot from the author‘s perspective. She narrates the audiobook, and her voice and writing style are both very engaging. I found out after she finished that she has a podcast, definitely plan on checking that out too!

Mindelan Picture is a terrarium I planted while I was listening- I‘m struggling with a mold issue immediately but hope I can pull it through! 😬 1mo
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ChaoticMissAdventures
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4.5✨
A great look at how having a disability impacts the authors life. Taussig tackles a variety of different subjects from the #metoo movement to housing to strangers on the street.
She is honest if a bit too cheerful, but you can feel her frustration at points.
An important read if you like me do not have mobility issues yet.

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ChaoticMissAdventures
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Listening to the tagged while putting together my new Propagation Station! So much pretty going on over here.

CBee I have props everywhere right now - I need one of these 🪴♥️ 2mo
ChaoticMissAdventures @CBee it is super pretty, but I think my little fish bowls are probably more practical. I do love the idea of having a couple of cut flowers in here, might start doing that in all my prop bowls! 2mo
CBee @ChaoticMissAdventures I just use mason jars usually, nothing fancy 😊 The flowers are super pretty! 2mo
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Scochrane26
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Thanks @LiteraryinLawrence for recommending this book! I really loved it on audio, & I learned so much about the disabled world. I didn‘t realize I needed to learn so much, which connects to a lot of her points. This is a memoir through essays with education. What bothered me the most is her story about disabled people being seen as defects. I wish everyone would read this book. The other books recommended will go on my TBR. #bookspin for sept

LiteraryinPA I‘m so glad you liked it!! 2mo
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Kshakal
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Scored this from a little free library! 🤓

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RaeLovesToRead
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Thanks for the tag @dabbe 💕

- Sitting Pretty by Rebekah Taussig - an incredible piece of writing on disability activism

- Black and British by David Olusoga - a scholarly, tightly-researched work on the history of Black people in Britain

- The Body is Not an Apology by Sonya Renee Taylor - a book about how we as a society rank bodies and how to blast this attitude with self-love

Wanna play? @The_Penniless_Author @julesG @Yuki_Onna

dabbe Very intriguing! And on the TBR. Thanks for sharing! 💚💙💚 9mo
The_Penniless_Author Yes, I think I do 😊 Thanks for the tag! 8mo
Yuki_Onna Thanks for the tag❣️😊 Saw this too late - I'll play next week! 8mo
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BekaReid
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“I was like a woman trying to make spaghetti in the dark, destroying the kitchen as I grabbed every ingredient in the cupboard just in case it happened to be the one I needed. In the midst of my verbal wandering, I inevitably reached for the word “shame”—the box where I had lived for so very long, the box I still find myself tumbling back into with less provocation than I‘d like to admit.“

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Jen2
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Wonderful, I loved it!!!

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Robotswithpersonality
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Friendly, no bullshit look at one disabled woman's experiences, how parts of her life lead into discussions about the many sides to and consequences of ableism, with thoughtful discussion of what needs to change, and how centering disabled folks is the best path forward to meaningful change that will improve society as a whole. 1/?

Robotswithpersonality Often includes reminders of all the ways we're learning to think differently, more openly, as a society about many groups previously relegated to the margins, and how the disabled community should be included in this change in thinking. [I appreciate that Tuassig does acknowledge the intersectional reality that she retains certain privileges, in her identity as white, cis, middle-class, etc. ] 2/? 2y
Robotswithpersonality Also incredibly relatable when she recounts the many times a person is made to think less of themselves based on society's expectations and/or pop culture's not so subtle messaging.
Author is very fond of lists in pairs, 'this and that, this and that, that and this', and adjectives. ☺️
I found it a much easier read than I was anticipating. Talk about preconceived notions! 🤦🏼‍♂️ 3/3
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Robotswithpersonality
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Welcome to today's edition of Capitalism Sucks!

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Robotswithpersonality
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Giftie! The library gods have blessed me. Usually I find a receipt used as an impromptu bookmark, not a metal heart-hot air balloon. 🎈🩶
Of course I basically never use bookmarks ...chances are I'll also forget it's there and pass it onto the next borrower. 🤷🏼‍♂️

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Robotswithpersonality
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Grad school flashbacks! 📚📑📒🎒🙃

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Robotswithpersonality
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Social model of disability. First read about in Disfigured; wish I'd encountered it earlier in life.

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Robotswithpersonality
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😑🙄
We're all clear on the fact that audiobooks = books, RIGHT?!
No heirarchy does or should exist in the way one consumes a book, RIGHT?!
Good.

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ncsufoxes
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Finishing up my March reviews & #bookpsin books. Taussing discusses what it‘s like living in a world that is not fully designed for disabled people, particularly people with physical disabilities. She highlights the difficulties involved in higher education, job security, housing, medicine, & navigating the world of things like social security & Medicaid. Our society, unfortunately, still blames people for their disability & that it is a

ncsufoxes hindrance more than trying to find equitable & inclusive solutions. Ableism continues to separate people in our society, in how we view people with disabilities. Disability stories are important to read & know what others experience. #nonfiction2023 prompt: Living on a Prayer (since most people with disabilities are living on a prayer, at least in the US). 2y
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TheAromaofBooks Great progress!! 2y
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RaeLovesToRead
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This book was incredible, and I'd recommend it to anyone and everyone.

Taussig covers so much material here: accessibility, representation, the limitations of "kindness", what it means for everybody who has a body to navigate an ableist society.

What surprised me the most was just how much common ground I found with the author. She really makes these complex topics universal.

Essential reading.

⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️

TrishB This sounds great 👍🏻 2y
RaeLovesToRead @TrishB Here is an article adapted from one of the chapters: https://news.yahoo.com/ive-paralyzed-since-3-heres-102917512.html 2y
TrishB I‘ve already ordered it 😁 found a nearly new very cheap! 2y
AvidReader25 This one looks excellent! 2y
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RaeLovesToRead
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Non-fiction additions to my library!

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BravoBibliotheque
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So glad I read this!

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JenReadsAlot
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Andrew65 Looks an excellent read. 2y
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JenReadsAlot
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Very good!

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cherylmorton
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“He‘s working so hard to pretend that disabled people aren‘t a part of his world—could never be a part of his world—when he literally has a disabled woman for a teacher making direct eye contact with him at this very moment. I‘ve never seen someone work so hard to not care.”

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MallenNC
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I thought this book was great. It gives readers a lot to think about, especially in her chapter about acts of “kindness” toward people with disabilities that may or may not be actually helpful, as well as the parts about affording medical care and how hard it is to find accessible and affordable housing. I follow her on Instagram and hope she writes more.

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Sarahreadstoomuch
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Collection of essays describing the authors experience of being disabled in an abled world, and advocating for representation, inclusion, and accessibility. It‘s not perfect, but I‘m glad I‘ve read this. I think our book group will have lots to discuss.

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Nalbuque
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Sooooo good! I can def say this expanded my world view. I actively try to be a pretty aware person, but omg do I have a wayyyyy to go. The chapter where she describes her experiences with teaching high school… honestly!!… so many feels. Stack this one!

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lilycobalt

“How do you invite another person into a lifetime of moments—a million tiny stings? How do you translate the sharp pain that comes from seeing your secret fears confirmed—that your life really is a tragedy? What words do you choose to communicate the weight of believing—through your spine and into your digits—that you don‘t belong?”

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lilycobalt

“A world built on speed, productivity, more, more, more! and far too few bathrooms (and bathroom breaks) does not consider or care for the actual bodies we live in. In other words, ableism affects all of us, whether we consider ourselves disabled or not.”

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Smrloomis
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I enjoyed this. Highly recommended.

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LiteraryinPA
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This book was phenomenal. Taussig is an excellent storyteller who writes about her lived experiences as a member of the disability community. Everything is presented with such nuance. This would be valuable to read on its own or as a complement to other Disability Studies books, for either disabled or nondisabled people. I read the library‘s copy but will buy one because it was that good.

tenar I felt the same way, especially about the nuance. This ended up being one of my top reads from last year! 🧡 4y
Kempii Great review! Can‘t wait to read it. 4y
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BookmarkTavern
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Teacher, disability advocate, and Instagrammer Rebekah Taussig delivers a moving & unflinching memoir in this collection of essays. Her writing is personable & thoughtful.

The essays examine aspects of living with disabilities, talk about society‘s attitudes, & reflection the portrayal of disabilities in media.

Listening to her narration gave me the same feelings of rage & camaraderie that I got from listening to Lindy West‘s Shrill. 🌕🌕🌕🌕🌗

britt_brooke I hadn‘t heard of this one - thanks! #stacked 4y
BookmarkTavern @britt_brooke I hope you enjoy it as much as I did! 4y
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smalldogs_bigbooks2419
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Putting these little stickers in books makes me inexplicably happy. I keep them only for the books I know I want to keep forever and read again and again. The tagged book, is absolutely one of those. I‘m also mildly obsessed with her Instagram account/brutally honest blog.

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tenar
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Rebekah Taussig, paralyzed after childhood cancer, is a PhD, teacher, mom, advocate, & minor Instagram star. Yet she once believed there was no place for her in the workforce or in romantic relationships because she‘d never seen anyone like herself in those settings. Piece by piece she imagined a life from scratch, and in 8 personal essays she makes a strong case that disabled people are an untapped wealth of creative thinking. #tdr

Suet624 ❤️❤️❤️ 4y
tenar @Suet624 💖! 4y
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tenar
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I bumped into a new essay collection at my library and am delighted by it! This quote spoke to my experience as a disabled person.

First Taussig opens her heart to share her difficult memories, then, more vulnerably, she begins tackling her difficult feelings. From deriving self-esteem from finally being catcalled to feeling resentful of some strangers‘ kindness, it‘s honest stuff presented in a thoughtful and eye-opening (or validating!) way.