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Melkyl
The Comeback | Ella Berman
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Pickpick

I enjoyed reading about Grace and how she regained herself and took control of her life. The story is very timely with its #MeToo storyline. It serves as a reminder to the challenges women face in male/dominated industries. This is especially true of very young women. #ReadWithJenna

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dabbe
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#haikuaday
#haikuhive

Feeling my age today. 😅

Rotator cuff tears
in two difference places.
Surgery to come.

TheBookHippie Ughhhhhhh it‘s so common menopause and post menopause!!! I‘m so so sorry…. Yuk 1mo
AmyG Well that sucks. 1mo
Susanita Ugh. I hope your healing goes smoothly. 1mo
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AnnCrystal No...not during your Birthday Month. 🙏🏼 Heal well 💝💝💝. 1mo
Amiable Ugh! I had rotator-cuff surgery about 10 years ago. Do you have a recliner? That was the most comfortable place to sleep for the first 8 weeks afterwards. 1mo
dabbe @AmyG My primary doc would tell me that my body's letting me know I'm alive. #oy 🙄 1mo
dabbe @Susanita #metoo (not the movement, well, you know!) 😂 1mo
dabbe @AnnCrystal IKR? #woeisme or is it #woeisi? 🤔 😅 1mo
dabbe @Amiable No, I don't. 😩 Think I'll have to start looking for one. 😅 1mo
JenlovesJT47 Ugh I‘m sorry! I have labral tears in both shoulders (and possibly my hip I dislocated 😣) so I know it‘s rough. Wishing you a successful surgery with many excellent books to keep you company afterwards. Dunno what I would have done all these years if I hadn‘t been working at an ortho doctors‘ office since I was 13 😆 (my mom works there still!!). 1mo
AmyG Your primary doc needs a better bedside manner! 🤣 1mo
TheBookHippie @Amiable oh yah I second the recliner!! 1mo
ChaoticMissAdventures Oh no!! That sounds so painful. I hope they can get you in soon and that it goes well. 1mo
IriDas Ugh, sounds terrible. I hope the surgery is successful 1mo
TheBookgeekFrau That just sucks 😖 1mo
dabbe @JenlovesJT47 Are you just living with your tears? 😱 I can't even imagine. And what can be done with your dislocated hip? Do you hope it pops back into place? 😱 I'm feeling for ya! 💙 1mo
dabbe @AmyG He's a wee bit younger. The bastard. 😂 1mo
dabbe @TheBookHippie @Amiable Good to know! Any recommendations? 1mo
dabbe @ChaoticMissAdventures I don't even get in to see him to chat about stuff until 7/22. Luckily, I have some pain meds. 😅 1mo
dabbe @IriDas TY! 💙 1mo
dabbe @TheBookgeekFrau It does. But I'm still above the ground and not underneath it, so that's a plus! 😅 1mo
TheBookHippie @dabbe I had frozen shoulder, but it‘s a lazy boy- friend currently borrowing -it but I made sure the material didn‘t make me too hot! 1mo
Leftcoastzen Sorry you have to go through that ! 1mo
dabbe @TheBookHippie So no leather, right? 😂 1mo
dabbe @Leftcoastzen TY! Another right of passage to being older and letting your German shepherd chase a bird and drag you to the ground. 😅 1mo
Susanita Did you throw too many curve balls? 😉 1mo
lil1inblue Oh, my! 😱 I hope that the surgery goes well and that you heal swiftly! But hopefully, you'll get some good guilt-free reading time! 1mo
Amiable @TheBookHippie @dabbe I commandeered my husband‘s for the duration, to his dismay. 😄 I think it was a La-Z Boy also. We don‘t have it anymore. Which arm are you doing? Make sure that you can reach the lever with your good side! 😬 1mo
Amiable Oh, also make sure to have a selection of big shirts that button up the front because you won‘t be putting your arm through a sleeve for a while. 1mo
ShelleyBooksie Oh no! Boo on doggy related injuries! Sending you healing vibes ♡♡♡ 1mo
JenlovesJT47 @dabbe thanks for asking! A dislocation didn‘t show on x-rays so I had to get an MRI. Seeing the doc next week. He thinks I might have a labral tear in my hip. That would be my luck for sure! Crutches kill me so I‘ve altered my gait & walk on my tiptoes on that side. Not fun. Sorry, that was probably more information than you were looking for! 😅 1mo
Amiable And ask the surgeon when you can start PT —as soon as possible to avoid frozen shoulder if you can. Ask about passive PT where the therapist moves your slack arm around for you. 1mo
AvidReader25 I‘m so sorry! Praying the surgery goes well! 1mo
Librarybelle Oh no! 1mo
AnnCrystal @dabbe I will leave this to the teacher 😂💝💝💝. 1mo
Sarahreadstoomuch I‘m so sorry! 1mo
Texreader 🙁 I sure hope you‘re doing ok and that surgery is successful. I hear it‘s all about the rehab. 1mo
Chrissyreadit ugh! No Bueno!!! I was able to use PT only for mine (thankful no surgery)and agree good PT is huge! hope your pain is not too much 1mo
Bookwormjillk Oh no! I agree with @Amiable on the rehab. It‘s torture but helpful torture. My other suggestion is to get yourself a back scratcher. Hope you can get it taken care of soon! 1mo
CBee @dabbe sounds like when my GYN told me to “ride it out” after I explained all of my menopause symptoms. Butthead. 1mo
TheBookHippie @Amiable YES PT!!!!! 1mo
dabbe @Susanita As if I could! No, Pip dragged me to the ground chasing a damn bird. 😅 1mo
dabbe @lil1inblue That's the plus to it all! TY. 💙🩵💙 1mo
dabbe @Amiable Another good point! It's my right one, the one I do everything with, of course! I can still move it, just not in certain directions. 😅 1mo
dabbe @Amiable Holy guacamole! TY! I don't have any button-ups; they're all pullovers. Here's a plus: time to go shopping! 😂 1mo
dabbe @ShelleyBooksie TY! 💙🩵💙 1mo
dabbe @AnnCrystal I think it's “Woe is I“ because if you put the sentence in the correct order of subject before verb, you say, “I am woe.“ Now that I've just done that, I should have said “Woe AM I.“ I need to review my grammar! 😅 1mo
dabbe @Texreader You instantly reminded me of Amy Winehouse's “Rehab.“
Obviously for very different reasons. TY! 💙🩵💙
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dabbe @Chrissyreadit We'll see what his final opinion is, but the fact that there are two tears makes my primary doc think surgery would be better. Based on the f-in' big beautiful bill, I better get this done soon. 😅 TY for the kind words, m'dear. 💙🩵💙 1mo
Chrissyreadit fingers and toes crossed! 1mo
dabbe @Bookwormjillk I am starting to make a list! Backscratcher: #mostexcellent TY 🩵💙🩵 1mo
TheBookgeekFrau @dabbe Truth!! And here's to it staying that way for a long time! 🥂💜 1mo
dabbe @CBee ESPECIALLY if your GYN was a female. 😤😂 1mo
dabbe @Chrissyreadit Definitely not shoulders! 🥰 1mo
CBee @dabbe nope, it‘s a dude. Too bad cause he was pretty cool before he said that 😂🫣🤪 1mo
dabbe @CBee Well, not only is that a dick-downer-for-women, but #patriarchylives even with the best of 'em! 1mo
julieclair Ugh. Hope you‘re not in too much pain while you wait to get it fixed, and your healing is smooth and speedy. 💙💙💙 1mo
Butterfinger I hate that. Keep us posted on your journey to feel better. 1mo
willaful Best of luck! 1mo
Read4life I‘m sorry, Denise. Did you at least get an apology snuggle from Pip? It sucks you have to wait so long for your appointment. Please keep us updated. 💙💙💙 1mo
AnnCrystal @dabbe go with the original & just say you're being whimsical 😂👌🏼💝💝💝. 1mo
LiseWorks Oh boy! This sucks. Please keep us updated. Sending lots of 🫂 1mo
staci.reads Oh no! I hope All goes well with surgery and you're feeling pain free soon! 1mo
Cuilin Oh no. I‘m so sorry. Hope you your healing is quick and you can hold books and turn pages, if not there‘s always audiobooks. Ugh!!! Sending speedy healing vibes. 🩷 1mo
Meshell1313 Oh no. So sorry to hear this! Sending lots of healing thoughts your way! ❤️❤️❤️ 1mo
dabbe @julieclair TY! It's tolerable. Pain killers help. 💙🩵💙 1mo
dabbe @Butterfinger I will. TY! 💙🩵💙 1mo
dabbe @willaful TY! 💙🩵💙 1mo
dabbe @Read4life Oh yes; Pip has already forgotten about it! 😂 TY. 💙🩵💙 1mo
dabbe @AnnCrystal 😂😍😂 1mo
dabbe @LiseWorks TY! 💙🩵💙 1mo
dabbe @staci.reads TY! 💙🩵💙 1mo
dabbe @Cuilin I luckily can still turn with my left hand. 😅 TY! 💙🩵💙 1mo
dabbe @Meshell1313 TY! 💙🩵💙 1mo
DebinHawaii Oh ouch! I am so sorry. Getting older really sucks sometimes. I will think healing thoughts. 💙💙💙 1mo
dabbe @DebinHawaii I'm so happy you said “older“ and not “old“! 😂 That means I still have lots of years left, right? 💙🩵💙 1mo
DebinHawaii @dabbe Hah! 😂 I hope so—for both of us! 💙💙💙 1mo
RosePressedPages The same thing happened to my dad a little while ago. He‘s still in a sling. Here‘s to hoping you‘ll have a speedy recovery 💙 1mo
kspenmoll Oh no, I am so sorry! I have shoulder surgery that entailed more than rotator cuff, & I was “older so recovery longer” ( plus it was on right side; I am right handed) but now I am so much better! Cleaned up arthritis, bone in bone while in there as well. You can do it! 1mo
dabbe @RosePressedPages TY! 💙💙💙 1mo
dabbe @kspenmoll You give me hope! I've got arthritis in there, too. Maybe I can get a whole clean-er-up-while-you're-in-there detail! 😂 1mo
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Centique
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Pickpick

Ali Mau is a famous journalist and TV presenter in NZ who led the reporting here on #MeToo and broke stories on abusers. (And is an Australian originally!) This is her memoir about her life, breaking into journalism, and her own childhood abuse which was repressed for many years. She also went through hell in the 90s when the press discovered her same sex relationship. Well written and thought provoking, ⬇️

Centique she is a hugely admirable woman still breaking ground for sexual abuse survivors. I got to meet her for a few minutes at the Auckland Writers Festival and she just impressed me so much 🙌 1mo
Reggie This sounds fantastic. Glad you got to meet her. 1mo
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squirrelbrain
The Damages | Genevieve Scott
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Pickpick

I love a campus novel so wanted to read this - in fact, the later story was the better half, I thought.

In 1998 Ros‘s Regis uni roommate Megan goes missing in a terrible snowstorm and Ros is blamed for not looking after her.

Over 20 years later Ros‘s former partner is accused during the #metoo movement, leading Ros to look back on her life as a teenager, the mistakes she made and the lies we tell ourselves.

TheKidUpstairs Interesting, because I liked the first half of this one better than the second. I remember finding the pacing, especially to be a bit of a pretty down. but "Regis University" is so very clearly based on the university I attended, so I think that recognition factor was a big part of what drew me in to that first part 3mo
Cathythoughts Sounds good. I‘m going to try it ❤️ 3mo
squirrelbrain I wondered if it was a ‘real‘ university @TheKidUpstairs but hadn‘t got round to looking it up! 😊 3mo
youneverarrived I do, too! Stacking. 3mo
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TheSpineView
Litsytestbook004 | Litsytestbook004
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#ThreeListThursday @dabbe #TLT

I scored better than last week, though not by much. There were so many great books in this group that spanned totally different genres. My favorites are (not in any order):

The Clan of the Cave Bear
Good Omens
Black Beauty
Emma
Matilda
The Hobbit
LOTR
Dune
The Pillars of the Earth

@Texreader @Librarybelle @Kshakal @BethM @Cupcake12

dabbe #woohooyou! What a list, too! Thanks for playing and sharing! 💜💜💜 3mo
Librarybelle Thanks for the tag! I scored 31 and was happy to see some Jane Austen on the list. 3mo
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BethM How do we get to the list? 3mo
Texreader @BethM see link from post by @dabbe 3mo
dabbe @Librarybelle #metoo! Thanks for playing and sharing. 💜💜💜 3mo
BethM 26 and most of them were forced upon me 😂 3mo
TheSpineView @BethM A number of mine were of the force variety too. 🤣 3mo
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dabbe
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#poetrymatters
@TheSpineView

#wayward
#kansas

“Don't you cry no more.“ 🖤

lil1inblue 🎶 💛 🎶 Excellent choice! 3mo
dabbe @lil1inblue 🩵💙🩵 3mo
Susanita 🎸🎸🎸 3mo
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TheSpineView Perfect! Love this song! 💜🎶💜 3mo
ChaoticMissAdventures Cannot think of this song anymore without thinking about the show Supernatural. 3mo
dabbe @Susanita 🎸♥️🎸 3mo
dabbe @TheSpineView ♥️🎶♥️ 3mo
dabbe @ChaoticMissAdventures A show I've never watched! 😱🤣😍 3mo
Lesliereadsalot I love this one! It‘s on my favorites playlist. 3mo
TheBookHippie I saw this live when they played with a full orchestra! It was so cool! 3mo
dabbe @Lesliereadsalot #metoo I adore KANSAS period. 🩵💙🩵 3mo
dabbe @TheBookHippie I am beyond jealous! 🩵💙🩵 3mo
TheBookHippie @dabbe it was happenstance !!! I was in Chicago and saw they were at the theater playing in 6 hours, so Mr BookHippie looked and they had two balcony seats 35 bucks each!!! 🎉 3mo
dabbe @TheBookHippie That man is definitely a keeper. 😍 3mo
TheBookHippie @dabbe He has his moments 🤣🤣🤣🤣 it was a riot to attend. We were the youngest people there BY FAR. And we aren‘t considered young… it‘s not everyday you see someone over 75 throwing themselves at a rockstar 🤣😂 FYI they sounded phenomenal. Massive talent. 3mo
dabbe @TheBookHippie Good to hear that they still sound so wonderful! Just imagining a 75 y-o doing that brings a huge smile to my face! 😍 3mo
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MrsMalaprop
Dear Dickhead: A Novel | Virginie Despentes
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This book caught my eye when I was book shopping with @Rissreadswithcats & when I read the blurb I decided to buy it. A French epistolary novel that starts with a derogatory social media post. Addiction and recovery, #metoo and the pandemic feature in this guns-blazing, disturbing read.

Rissreadswithcats I ended up getting a copy. Such a great title! 4mo
Ruthiella I‘ve read another title from her. She‘s definitely an edgy writer. 4mo
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Reggie
My Dark Vanessa | Kate Elizabeth Russell
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What a book of horror. I‘m not a parent but sometimes I wonder how ya‘ll let your children out into the world. We follow Vanessa in alternating timelines. In 2017 set against the #MeToo movement where she‘s following all the allegations against a former high school English teacher. In 2000 where she‘s 15 and enters a sexual relationship with that teacher. In 2017 she‘s barely coming to realize that she herself was a victim. This was sad and 👇🏼

Reggie enraging. The amount of gaslighting that the teacher used against her. Omg. There‘s a lot to be said about intuition in here. How we should listen to that internal voice especially when it‘s trying to tell you something is wrong. This was tough to read but it was so well written. Pick! 4mo
Ruthiella I also thought this book was horrifying but entirely plausible. 4mo
AmyG I bailed. I just couldn‘t. 4mo
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Jas16 Horrifying subject matter but I thought the book did a great job telling the story. 4mo
5feet.of.fury It was so well done. 4mo
quietlycuriouskate The way she persisted in romanticising what happened to her was so chilling! 😦 4mo
CoverToCoverGirl Disturbing story but well written. It was a pick for me too! 4mo
Reggie @Ruthiella totally, the last few years I lived in Las Cruces there was like 4 cases of this in 2 years. In one case, a coach blackmailed a gay student into sex saying he would out him to his family if he didn‘t comply. 4mo
Reggie @AmyG I totally understand. I think this would be uncomfortable for alot of people. 4mo
Reggie @Jas16 @5feet.of.fury @CoverToCoverGirl Yeah, this author is one to watch. She had such balance here, and she doesn‘t baby the reader. I thought she was great. 4mo
Reggie @quietlycuriouskate yes! I think she says to people a couple of times-but he loves me. Even when she‘s talking to the therapist saying that if she is a victim then what does she have from all those years. Ughhh so sad. 4mo
Rissreadswithcats I have this on my shelf but it‘s never been the right time to start it. I‘ll get to it someday. 4mo
Amor4Libros I‘ve read this twice because I like to torture myself 😅 But really the reason was that I read it by myself first and had no one to discuss it with and then about a year later buddy read with friends 3mo
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ChaoticMissAdventures
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One of my favorite things about my neighborhood is spring, we have over a thousand cherry blossom trees and it makes my daily neighborhood walks a total pleasure.

Listening to the tagged, at the point where Pamela is making friends with Kick Kennedy and trying to stay clear of the gross Ambassador Kennedy. Would have loved to have seen him go through #MeToo

ChaoticMissAdventures The women around Pamela are brutal. The Mitfords loudly calling her fat, others spreading rumors of her being "fast" I am excited to see how she rises. 4mo
Karisa 😍 4mo
Bookwormjillk Love these cherry trees. Walking under them when they‘re in bloom is like walking through a pink tunnel. 4mo
mcctrish Oh how I envy your spring flower walking ( I will get there at some point but it feels like forever ) 4mo
kspenmoll Gorgeous!!! 4mo
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dabbe
Let's Go Camping! | Jan Mader
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#camplitsy25
Megabooks, squirrelbrain, BarbaraBB

For your humble consideration. 😊

squirrelbrain Great choices! ❤️ 4mo
GatheringBooks A stephen king title!!! Nice! 💕 4mo
Bookwormjillk I forgot the Stephen King is coming 4mo
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BarbaraBB Yay! Thank you! 4mo
Suet624 Ooh, a stephen king! That would be new for camplitsy. 4mo
AmyG I also forgot about Stephen King. (edited) 4mo
peaKnit Good picks! I have that King preordered on audio, can‘t wait! 4mo
mcctrish Everything tuberculosis is on my TBR ❤️❤️ 4mo
Meshell1313 Ooh these all sound amazing! 🤩 4mo
Kitta Ooo I added the sirens too! 4mo
Deblovestoread Oooo, I bet Odyssey is fantastic! 4mo
dabbe @squirrelbrain TY! 💙💚🩵 4mo
dabbe @GatheringBooks 💙💚🩵 4mo
dabbe @Bookwormjillk I got your back! 🤩🤣😍 4mo
dabbe @BarbaraBB YW! 💙💚🩵 4mo
dabbe @Suet624 IKR? 💙💚🩵 4mo
dabbe @AmyG You have stunned me to my knees. 🤩🤣😍 4mo
dabbe @peaKnit TY! 💙💚🩵 4mo
dabbe @mcctrish #metoo 💙💚🩵 4mo
dabbe @Meshell1313 🤩🤣😍 4mo
dabbe @Kitta #greatminds 💙💚🩵 4mo
dabbe @Deblovestoread IKR? 💙💚🩵 4mo
Megabooks I have to say after reading Tuberculosis that I like John's nonfiction more than his fiction. It was very thought-provoking. Thanks for nominating it and the others! 4mo
dabbe @Megabooks I've seen enough on the Vlog Bros to know that it is his PASSION! 🤩 4mo
AmyG @dabbe HA! 4mo
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