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Somebody's Daughter
Somebody's Daughter: A Memoir | Ashley C. Ford
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AvidReader25
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Ford‘s deeply honest and intimate memoir is beautifully written. She had a rough childhood in Fort Wayne, Indiana, but never lost her passion for life. From abuse to a father in prison, her journey hasn‘t been easy. I personally loved all the references to my home state and my alma mater, Ball State University.

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WorldsOkayestStepMom
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An amazing memoir, highly recommended to listen to the audio!

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Messiejessie
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It would be a very scary thing to tell your truth, knowing that the people you love may be hurt by it.
Ashley‘s memoir is brave and honest and written with grace.

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Tea_and_Starstuff
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Ford grew up with a father in prison-a stranger she loved but didn't know. This is a story of family, pain, healing, and growing up, growing whole.

I *tore* through this book! I'm having trouble articulating why I found this memoir so compelling. I think it's because Ford knows how to paint a picture through moments. It's like flipping through a photo album of her life - we don't know all the in between moments, but it's still a beautiful story.

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Lauren890
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⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️ This is a powerful memoir and I‘m glad I read it. I thought it was going to be more about her relationship with her father, but it was really a lot about her relationship with her mother. I wish she‘d dug into her relationship with her father more, but it‘s her story to tell so I really shouldn‘t judge! I recommend to anyone interested!!

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S3V3N
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Great book. I really felt for the author. Her story was one that‘ll stick with me for a while. Well written memoir.

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S3V3N
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#WondrousWednesday @Eggs
1. Half Price Books
2. The J Spot
3. Somebody‘s Daughter by Ashley C. Ford

Eggs ❤️🧡❤️ 1y
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Hilary427
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I enjoyed this book, and sometimes memoirs aren‘t my favorite. I wish she would have gone more into her father and his release, but overall I liked it.
⭐️: 3.5/5

Alwaysbeenaloverofbooks Awesome cover 💙❤️ 1y
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MsLeah8417
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⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️

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Erin.Elizabeth10
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Another memoir for my year of memoirs! I‘m this book, the author reflected on her experiences growing up, particularly focusing on her relationship with her mother and her father. It was really good writing on family relationships and dynamics. There is heavy content, but it was told with insight and strength.

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Jnnlb
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⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️

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CocoReads
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Finally finished. It‘s only a couple hundred pages and I wanted to like it but I just…didn‘t. I can‘t even really put my finger on why, she writes well and the journey to find herself should have been compelling but overall I found it no more exciting than reading about my own life. I felt she dropped the ball with regards to her father, that those parts were kind of glossed over. It was ok, just not ultimately for me. #JubilantJuly

Andrew65 Well done 👏👏👏 2y
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CocoReads
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My goals are simple for #JubilantJuly: finish Somebody‘s Daughter by Monday for my twice postponed book group, finish Blank Page to First Draft, make a dent in Caste for Augusts book group, and start the Say Everything series. Plus I have lots of other books if these are@t getting it for me.

Andrew65 Great to have you with us, good luck 😊👍 2y
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Sully1
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Mehso-so

Good and quick memoir! She moves through her life in warp speed, but tells the highlights well!

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jspoelker
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Ashley Ford shares her incredible story of growing up in Indiana with inside views of her family, love, and self acceptance within the social construct of being black and just being. Her parental circumstances were challenging as her father was incarcerated for most of her life while her mother struggled making ends meet and coming to terms with her own issues. Grandmother was a constant and an inner compass. Well written and well worth reading.

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CocoReads
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Finished Stone Cold Cowboy. Still working on Vortex but now that I can see we‘ll out of one eye, it‘s time to start the book group book for July. (Got the right eye fixed on Thursday, getting my left one fixed this coming up Wednesday). #20in4readatjon @Andrew65

Andrew65 Great 👏👏👏 2y
dylanisreading Good luck! 2y
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LikelyLibrarian
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I should preface this review by saying that I think memoirs are brave. I rarely review them as I don‘t think it‘s my place to comment on someone‘s life. That being said, there are a few issues that should be addressed. First of all, Ford‘s relationship with her father, a man who spent her entire childhood in prison for rape. In fact, his story seems tangential to her own. 👇

LikelyLibrarian If her father had abandoned the family, instead, the story would‘ve remained basically the same. The story is primarily about Ford‘s relationship with her mother, and sometimes her grandmother. By and large, I enjoyed the writing, (although she‘s a little heavy-handedly with her use of metaphors), but I was troubled by her representation of her mother. 👇 2y
LikelyLibrarian It‘s true her mother was oftentimes abusive; it‘s also clear that her mother loved her deeply. What bothers me is Ford‘s lack of forgiveness and understanding for her mother‘s position. I‘m not saying an abused person has a responsibility to forgive the abuser. But, more than once, she claims that it‘s not her place to judge or forgive her father who, because of the mistakes he made, wasn‘t there for her. 👇 2y
LikelyLibrarian Her father raped two women, but despite being a victim of rape herself, she seems to idolize him. The same unconditional love is not shown to the woman who raised her. I guess what bothers me here is the obvious double standard. As a mother myself, I notice this often. Fathers get a free pass while mothers, who do most of the work, get all the blame. 2y
marleed You bring up very good points to consider. My mother died before I formed memories of her so my dad and six kids. As an adult, I had a standing joke with him and would say, ‘You know there is no statute of limitations on parental crimes decided by a child.‘ We‘d laugh. But I never considered how unfairly a child‘s justice might be delivered on two parents. 2y
LikelyLibrarian @marleed I‘m so sorry to hear about your mother. I never really knew mine, so I found Ford‘s hero worship of her absent father odd. I also raised my step kids after their mother chose drugs. My stepdaughter often blames me and others for every unhappiness in her life, but never her own absent mother. I guess it makes me sensitive to that kind of thing. 2y
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Ericalambbrown
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I first became acquainted with Ms Ford when she co-hosted the Lovecraft Country Radio podcast that accompanied the stellar HBO show Lovecraft Country. (Still pissed there‘s no season two, but I digress . . . ) I simply had to listen to her memoir when I realized she had one. So glad I did! Those that complain about her ‘whining‘ aren‘t actually hearing what she has to say. She‘s not whining- she just recounting her story. And it was hard. 🙌🏻

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merelybookish
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In interviews, Ford is candid, funny & smart so I had high expectations for this. Maybe too high because I found it kind of tedious in places, dull even.
Ford describes her childhood, complicated family, traumatic experiences & journey to love her whole self. At its heart this a story about the lack of safety Black girls face in their homes and wider society. That is an important story to tell. Some sharp editing would have made it better.

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staci.reads
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I flew through the book, fascinated by her experiences, but I didn't love it. At times it felt like an overview of her life. She introduces people central to her life, but we don't get much depth about them other than what they did to/for her. There's not enough development to see them as distinct humans, just names in the timeline of her life. It felt like multiple personal narrative essays thrown together. A soft pick #Bookspin @TheAromaofBooks

TheAromaofBooks Woohoo!!! 2y
EH2018 I completely agree...not enough depth 2y
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The.Great.Catsby
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My whole actual heart. I loved this memoir so much ❤❤❤❤❤

3.30.22

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JenReadsAlot
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Good memoir. My #bookspin for March @TheAromaofBooks

TheAromaofBooks Woohoo!!! 2y
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JenReadsAlot
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Thank you all for the birthday wishes! Vacation day with Frankie, this book and maybe some wine...

Leftcoastzen Enjoy yourself!😻adorable kitty! 2y
Trashcanman H appy birthday Jen 2y
JenReadsAlot @Trashcanman thank you!! 2y
truthinfiction Happy Birthday, Jen! 🎂 Hope you have a good one!! 2y
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JenReadsAlot
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Excited for both of these! @TheAromaofBooks

TheAromaofBooks Woohoo!!! 2y
GinaKButler Ohhh...loved Rules of Civility! 2y
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Kazzie
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This was a well written memoir, and honest. She didn‘t sugar coat any details, or tie up the truth in a more palpable narrative

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Floresj
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I think any book that you don‘t want to end deserves 5 stars. Ford is able to write about her family in such a healthy manner- even when do much was dysfunctional. Her ability to see people for all that they are and understand who she is amidst that world makes for some good food for thought. I‘ll read anything Ford writes from here on out.

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Milena
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The author of this memoir is strong, courageous, and inspiring. Somebody‘s Daughter made me think long and hard about family bonds and forgiveness. The author grows up in a family with an incarcerated dad, an unstable mom, and a grandmother who is a strong matriarch. She overcomes hardship and trauma (trigger warning without a spoiler) as she comes of age, finds herself, and makes amends with the demons from her past.

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NovelNancyM
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Ashley's story is truly one of resilience - from growing up with her dad in prison, to her mom with unpredictable mood swings, to rape, to poverty and genuine uncertainty most of her growing up years. I look forward to future books as the author continues to develop in her craft of writing.

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ChaoticMissAdventures
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Gorgeous. Brutal. Heartfelt.
I love Ashley C. Ford's writing. Her prose are beautiful even as to topics are painful and ugly. She brings to light so well the complexity of family relationships, and as someone who also am the first family member to leave the small town everyone else lives in it is nice to see that aspect explorered.
There are many topics and relationships addressed here and all of this feels quintessentially American.

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booklover3258
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My review of this book can be found on my YouTube Vlog at:

https://youtu.be/6cds52Vl2ao

Enjoy!

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jdiehr
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The author's father is in prison serving time for a crime that Ford herself would become a victim of.

In addition to the struggles and turmoil, there is fierce love and a strong, funny grandmother holding the family together.

A powerful memoir.

#bookofthemonth

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ShelbyA7
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Book #67: 🎧 Audiobook. Relationships, especially with your family, are never black and white. That Ashley is able to maintain these relationships with her parents after all she went through is a testament to her strength and empathy. One takeaway I had was that college truly does have the ability to change a person‘s life path and pull them out of bad home situations - if only it was more affordable and didn‘t leave the lasting burden of debt.

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The library felt too good to be true. All those books, on all those shelves, and I could just pluck them out, one by one, find an empty chair, and read, and read, and read 📖📚

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jdiehr
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Oops!

Pretty sure the tissue was stuck up her nose...

DivineDiana Good catch! 2y
BookBabe Oh no! I can‘t stand typos in books 😬 2y
Megabooks 😂😂 2y
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FelinesAndFelonies
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I know I'm in the minority here but I just didn't enjoy this memoir. I felt like there were things happening but it just wasn't a story. The elements of trauma, abuse, & neglect are heartbreaking but the author came across as very detached from her own experiences making it difficult for me to completely immerse myself in the story. ⭐⭐⭐

NovelNancyM I was disappointed in the quality of the writing. I have heard the author interviewed and she is so articulate. Her story itself is incredible, but I, too, was disappointed in the memoir.
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suvata
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Ashley really has quite a story to tell and she tells it in a compelling manner.

From the Publisher:
Somebody‘s Daughter steps into the world of growing up a poor Black girl in Indiana with a family fragmented by incarceration, exploring how isolating and complex such a childhood can be. As Ashley battles her body and her environment, she embarks on a powerful journey to find the threads between who she is and what she was born into.

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JenReadsAlot
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#botm #bookmail and socks!!

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AlizaApp
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A memoir about growing up in a big family but with an abusive mother and a father in prison. Loved Ashley‘s writing, and really respect her ability to reflect clearly on an upbringing that had troubles, yes, but also moments of joy.

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Karmapen
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A very engaging memoir.

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bell7
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This memoir has been getting a lot of press lately, where much of the focus is on the fact that Ashley's father was incarcerated. But... it's really so much more. It's about her relationships with family members that she loves but who are imperfect. It's also about memories - those we want to forget and those we want to imprint indelibly. And it's all wrapped up in lyrical writing that was an absolute pleasure to read.

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LisaLovesToRead
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Ford is vulnerable and beautiful in this book. I hope she keeps writing!

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carylwaite
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I read this as part of the Roxane Gay book club and enjoyed reading this. It did put into perspective my own childhood as well as my own parenting. I appreciated Ms. Ford‘s voice and the love as well as chaos that family gave her.

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AuthorAnnaBella
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"Although the wind blows terribly here, the moonlight also leaks between the roof planks of this ruined house."
Izumi Shikibu

Ashley penned a transparent story that encapsulated love, belonging, forgiveness, resentment, poverty, incarceration, mental health, generational trauma & abuse.

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Jen2
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Very good!

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Hooked_on_books
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By and large, I don‘t particularly enjoy reading childhood memoirs. Especially those with abuse. Does that stop me from trying to read them? No, it does not. This one is definitely not for me.

bio_chem06 Was it the content or was it bad writing? I just got this from the library and was hoping it was good. 3y
megnews I started it and put it on pause. She seems very unattached from herself in telling this very emotional story. But that could be the effect of the abuse. 3y
Hooked_on_books @bio_chem06 I didn‘t love the writing, but it‘s really the content. Whenever people rave about a childhood memoir and seem to universally love it (like The Glass Castle), I try to read it and there‘s just nothing I enjoy about it. People seem to be really loving this one, so definitely don‘t let me dissuade you. 3y
Hooked_on_books @megnews I actually don‘t mind a detached writing style and prefer it to an overly dramatic/emotional one. But there‘s just something about child abuse memoirs that turns me off. It‘s me, for sure. 3y
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sarahljensen
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This book is just incredible. I'll certainly be reading it again, but it is an exceptionally emotional read. So... Be ready for that.

#litsycats #catsoflitsy

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PMMREADS
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I highly recommend this book 📖 Ashley C.Ford brought her full self to this work and told her story masterfully. I recommended also listening to the audiobook as there is a great interview at the end with the author and Clint Smith,where Ashley shares her writing process and shares how she processed her feeling and emotions during the writing of this book.

Chelsea.Poole I loved the end of the audiobook as well! 3y
PMMREADS @Chelsea.Poole yes 📖 the interview at the end was great. 😊 3y
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Well-ReadNeck
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#audiobook

Very vulnerable Memoir with trigger warnings. Based on the blurb, I expected more about her relationship with her father. Good overall, but a slow start.

janeycanuck I agree that the blurb makes it seem like it‘ll be more about her father but when you reframe the title as the “somebody” being either her father, mother OR grandmother at any given time, it makes much more sense. I think the blurb is off. 3y
Hooked_on_books I‘m trying this one but not digging the writing. I also tend not to enjoy childhood memoirs, so I don‘t know if I‘ll continue or not. 3y
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