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Look at You Now
Look at You Now: My Journey from Shame to Strength | Liz Pryor
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For readers of Orange Is the New Black and The Glass Castle, a riveting memoir about a lifelong secret and a girl finding strength in the most unlikely place In 1979, Liz Pryor is a seventeen-year-old girl from a good family in the wealthy Chicago suburbs. Halfway through her senior year of high school, she discovers that she is pregnant--a fact her parents are determined to keep a secret from her friends, siblings, and community forever. One snowy January day, after driving across three states, her mother drops her off at what Liz thinks is a Catholic home for unwed mothers--but which is, in truth, a locked government-run facility for delinquent and impoverished pregnant teenage girls. In the cement-block residence, Liz is alone and terrified, a fish out of water--a girl from a privileged, sheltered background living amid tough, street-savvy girls who come from the foster care system or juvenile detention. But over the next six months, isolated and in involuntary hiding from everyone she knows, Liz develops a surprising bond with the other girls and begins to question everything she once held true. Told with tenderness, humor, and an open heart, Look at You Now is a deeply moving story about the most vulnerable moments in our lives--and how a willingness to trust ourselves can permanently change who we are and how we see the world. Advance praise for Look at You Now "Engrossing . . . Readers will swiftly be drawn into the author's compassionate retelling of her teen pregnancy--her fear, shame, regret, joy, and even her forgiveness of her parents for sending her away. This coming-of-age memoir is authentic and unforgettable."--Publishers Weekly "Pryor's refusal to bury the truth of her experiences is the greatest strength of her book. Her honesty about a youthful error and desire to let that honesty define the rest of her life are both uplifting and inspiring. An unsentimental yet moving coming-of-age memoir."--Kirkus Reviews "I started reading this book thinking it was a compelling, honest, sometimes funny, sometimes poignant look at the world of teenage pregnancy, and knowing it would offer an inside look at the places where girls used to be hidden away until their babies came. I finished it damp-eyed and understanding that Look at You Now is much more than that. It is a story about how family dynamics work. It is about how wrenching it is to give away something born of your flesh, even if you know it's the right decision. It's about how much we can learn from people very much different from us. Most of all, it is a subtle, graceful story about how sometimes the worst things in our lives work best to shape our characters into something shining and true, something that will serve us for the rest of our lives. Liz Pryor says she will never forget the girls she shared that time of her life with. I will never forget this book. I really, really loved it."--Elizabeth Berg, author of The Dream Lover "Liz Pryor's story is shocking, moving, riveting, and, ultimately, inspiring. She writes like a natural, can balance humor and sorrow perfectly, and in Look at You Now, has written a pitch-perfect memoir."--Darin Strauss, author of Half a Life
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hollylynnbee
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We're slowly getting there! (three other cases have to be organized before the dream case)

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hollylynnbee
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Pickpick

This book is truly empowering and had a lot of stuff I needed to here right now. Highly recommend for anyone who has or is going through a rough time. 🌼

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tpixie
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#TuesdayTidbits
1. The Kitchen House
2. What Is Not Yours Is Not Yours- maybe not a one, but not a favorite
3. The Lucky Life
4. @emilychristine
Thanks for the tag @Gissy !!

Gissy 👌🏼❤️ 6y
Gissy I will check that book! 6y
tpixie Well maybe 4 Star ⭐️ don‘t hold be too accountable!! Lol. But I did like it!! 6y
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Gissy
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Thank you @JenlovesJT47 for tag me. I'm bad answering these questions but I will try☺️1. I think I haven't give yet 5⭐️to any of the books I had read since I'm in Litsy. I could say near to 5⭐️ is Monster Calls and Dark Matter. 2. Hanged Man 3. A difficult question since it will be related with fears faced in my mini triathlon: Monsters within (meaning fears that can paralyzed) or Faces (a game of words face meaning fears/challenges)🤷🏻‍♀️@tpixie

tpixie Good answers!! These are tough!! 6y
Gissy @tpixie Thank You! 6y
mabell I had a hard time with a 5 star read, too. Those are rare! Also, just thinking of you - I hope you are not without electricity as well. ❤️ 6y
Gissy @mabell I love to read but the majority of books are just ok nothing extraordinary. To be fair, I rate them based on genre. Regarding our unique situation with electricity 🙄I received it yesterday at approx 5:30 pm. I was working b/c in emergency situations I have to stay at work. But it is something we have no control so is a way to modify or lifestyle🤷🏻‍♀️ 6y
mabell @Gissy I'm glad you at least got your power back, even if you weren't able to be home to enjoy it. 😔 You have such a good attitude about it! ❤️ I would be pretty grumpy 😠😂 6y
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It completely slipped my mind to do this today, so since it is so late, we will do #TuesdayTidbits on Wednesday! 😅(Apologies!)

1. Look At You Now by Liz Pryor. 💚
2. Beyond the Sling by Mayim Bialik. 🤢😤😡
3. The Invisible Woman. 😒🙄😌
4. @cobwebmoth @TK421 @TricksyTails @Gissy @MiyakoBunny @GarthRanzz @mabell @vkois88 @mklong @sweetpealsd @Bookishgal71 @Avanders @JenP @Tiffy_Reads @JoeStalksBeck @Betty @Kaye & anyone else who wants to join!

Betty You, invisible? No way! 6y
JenlovesJT47 @Betty sometimes I feel that way! My whole life I feel like nobody listens to a word I say. 😒 6y
Avanders 👆🏽 yeah that's crazy talk.. we all listen to you! 💖🤗 6y
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JenlovesJT47 @Avanders my awesome Litsy people don't count 😉you guys are awesome! 🤗It's the people actually standing in front of me that I have a problem with. 😌 6y
TricksyTails 3 Whaaaaaat? No! 🤗♥️🤗♥️🤗♥️🤗♥️ 6y
tpixie We hear you!! 6y
JenlovesJT47 @TricksyTails @tpixie 🤗🤗🤗❤️❤️❤️ 6y
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For my first #freakyfriday read, I chose this memoir, which tells the story of a girl who got pregnant at 17 in 1979 and was forced by her parents to go to a home for unwed mothers and give her baby up for adoption. They made up an elaborate lie to tell her family and friends, and she lived with this secret until her mother passed away in 2011. I must say, reading the first chapter I wasn't sure I was going to like this, but then it really 🔽TBC

JenlovesJT47 Picked up and I found myself completely engrossed. I really liked reading about her interactions with the other girls, most of whom were poor and so different than anyone she knew, coming from a well-to-do family. Perhaps it's because I just gave birth myself, but I could especially empathize with her and all of the things she had to go through. Would highly recommend this to anyone who likes memoirs. 5⭐️ 6y
Mdargusch Oh great! So glad you liked it! My book club chose this book because one of our members was good friends with one of Liz‘s sisters. So she filled us in on the family which made this even more interesting. 6y
JenlovesJT47 @Mdargusch that's so cool! I really liked this book, it was perfect timing for me to read it. 6y
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Here are my picks for #freakyfriday ! Really looking forward to these. 🤗

emilyhaldi There are some great books in this pile!!! In Cold Blood is amazing 👌🏻 6y
JenlovesJT47 @emilyhaldi I can't wait to read In Cold Blood! The movie was great. I'm a big fan of Truman, not sure why I haven't read this already! 6y
Mdargusch Very nice selection of different genres! 6y
PathfinderNicole I LOVED The Sweetness at the Bottom of the Pie! 6y
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Liz Pryor writes an emotional memoir detailing her time in a home for unwed mothers in an engaging and masterful way. I had to keep reminding myself her experiences really happened and the characters were real. Someone described it as "pregnant is the new black" which totally describes the band of misfits forced to live together and await their fate like "orange is the new black" for pregnant teenagers.

Reviewsbylola Lmao pregnant is the new black. 😂 I'm glad you liked this one so much! I thought it was wonderful. 7y
emilyhaldi I def wanna read this now! Great review 👍🏻 7y
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"Too bad you have to grow up and find out that all the greatest things you learn as a kid aren't really true. #truth #whydidntanyonewarnme?

Reviewsbylola Preach 🙌🏻 7y
emilyhaldi Lol- no one ever warns you!!! 7y
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Schmann
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Interesting true story about how teenage pregnancy was 'handled' in the 1970s.

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Wow, can Liz Pryor write a memoir! This was a fantastic but devastating glimpse into the time she spent in a home for troubled pregnant teenagers in 1979. The way she went back and forth between her time in the home and her childhood memories was done very well. Her parents were vividly rendered and I loved them both despite their obvious faults.

Mdargusch I just finished this and she did such a great job telling her story! 7y
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This is the result of asking your parents why they make you follow stupid rules. 😂 Hilarious and absolutely true!

britt_brooke This is perfect! 👏🏻 7y
MicheleinPhilly Ugh. I miss the days when we lived in a world of manners and etiquette. I'm beginning to think that manners are a dying art. 😕 7y
Reviewsbylola My parent's made me take cotillion classes to learn etiquette and manners. I know my 17 year old step daughter would think I was nuts if I made her do something like that. When I met her she had never written a thank you card in her life! @MicheleinPhilly 7y
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Reviewsbylola I know, I need to show it to my husband because it sounds like a monologue he would make! @britt_brooke 7y
Macnjen I'm so excited to see others are reading this! The author is my husband's cousin's cousin and we learned about this book through the family! It's on my TBR for sure. 7y
Cinfhen This book sounds fascinating 7y
Laalaleighh I think I got this speech when I asked why I had to do finishing school in the summer one year. I've yet to marry royalty but I can set any table, walk with a book on my head, and know all the arcane rules of introducing people. Yay. 7y
Mdargusch Yep! 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼 7y
Reviewsbylola I am actually super impressed by it. Liz Pryor is an amazing memoirist. Her time in the home she was sent to is interspersed with memories of her childhood. The way she captures her parents especially is fantastic. @Cinfhen 7y
Reviewsbylola I am super impressed with her writing. I am not even halfway in but the way she is able to vividly write about her family and experiences is fantastic. That's a really cool connection! @Macnjen 7y
Cinfhen Thanks for putting it on my radar💜I really appreciate a good memoir @Reviewsbylola 7y
Macnjen Glad to spread the word, @Cinfhen 7y
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Reading this for book club even though I'm tempted to check Facebook first. Books make me smarter. Facebook does not. Decision made!

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mrldg

Loved this on audio. Digesting past experiences, especially one as momentous as this, well, good for her for writing this. Certainly helped me consider some of my own not-yet-examined memories. I work in reproductive health, some of her experiences at the "facility" made me cringe.

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Jinjer
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Wow! Time's and attitudes have changed concerning teenage pregnancies and adoption. Or at least I hope so. It was very interesting reading about Liz's experience back in 1979. I wanted to smack both of her parents. All the other pregnant teens in the facility were great and I wish we could have updates on all these f them.

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#libraryloot I'm here in Cherokee Village, Arkansas helping my mom who broke her hip two months ago. She's 89. Today was her first time back in her tiny library in Hardy. Unfortunately she forgot her glasses so she couldn't browse but I found her a cute title "The Chocolate Bunny Bruhaha". I'm starting with the one on the top of my stack, "Look at You Now". Hope you're all having a lovely Saturday!

DrexEdit What a great haul! The Liz Pryor book is going on my TBR list as well! 7y
Jinjer I'm only just starting Chapter 2 @DrexEdit but I'm totally hooked. 7y
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Macnjen
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Exciting news! New book out by my husband's cousin's cousin. Confusing I know but I'm still excited to read it!

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