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Sometimes I Trip on How Happy We Could Be
Sometimes I Trip on How Happy We Could Be | Nichole Perkins
A passionate, magnetic memoir that explores writer and podcast host Nichole Perkins's obsession with pop culture and the challenges of navigating relationships as a Black woman through feminism and Southern mores. Pop culture is the Pandora's Box of our lives. Racism, wealth, poverty, beauty, inclusion, exclusion, and hope -- all of these intractable and unavoidable features course through the media we consume. Examining pop culture's impact on her life, Nichole Perkins takes readers on a rollicking trip through the last twenty years of music, media and the internet from the perspective of one southern Black woman. She explores her experience with mental illness and how the TV series Frasier served as a crutch, how her role as mistress led her to certain internet message boards that prepared her for current day social media, and what it means to figure out desire and sexuality and Prince in a world where marriage is the only acceptable goal for women. Combining her sharp wit, stellar pop culture sensibility, and trademark spirited storytelling, Nichole boldly tackles the damage done to women, especially Black women, by society's failure to confront the myths and misogyny at its heart, and her efforts to stop the various cycles that limit confidence within herself. By using her own life and loves as a unique vantage point, Nichole humorously and powerfully illuminates how to take the best pop culture has to offer and discard the harmful bits, offering a mirror into our own lives.
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S3V3N
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Mehso-so

I wanted to love this book. I‘m glad I had the audiobook because I could skip sections quickly. The last quarter of the book was the best. I‘ve been trying to read this since last December.

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BookDee
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Interesting

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swynn
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(2021) It's a collection of personal essays about the author's experiences as an HBCU-educated black woman, cultural critic, and writer of the Internet age. For me it was sometimes TMI, but I admire her advocacy for owning one's own body, own pleasure, and own story. And to this father of a young man with developmental disabilities, her words about her brother with autism reach my soul. For that alone it's a pick.

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klu13
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Lots of talking about sex

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S3V3N
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Loved this one.

Reggie Every time I see Kermit and Piggy I think of this book now. 2y
S3V3N @Reggie 😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣 2y
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Chelsea.Poole
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I loved this audiobook. Featured in NPR‘s annual Books We Love (the new name for the Book Concierge) under the heading “let‘s talk about sex” and YES this book does! I appreciate the way Perkins knows what she wants and goes after exactly that. She‘s into “skinny dudes” who apparently are the best in bed 😂 🤷🏼‍♀️ who knew! I do love an essay collection and this one delivered!! #NPRBooksWeLove

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slategreyskies
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Mehso-so

I didn‘t love all the essays in this book, and I ended up skimming/skipping parts of two of them, but I did get something from most of these essays. Overall, I‘m not sure that essays are my thing, but I‘ll try again. ⭐️⭐️⭐️

CW: sex, lots and lots of it

slategreyskies Forgot to add: this one is a #blameitonLitsy ! :) 2y
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Hooked_on_books
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This book is Nichole Perkins‘ memoir in essays. She has a wonderful voice and is frank about her love of sex without being prurient. It‘s so well balanced and she really had me wanting to keep reading. And I have two words for you: panty liner. (You have to read it and find out what I mean. It‘s quite a 😲😳😂 moment!)

TrishB Well that certainly piques your interest!! 2y
squirrelbrain What @TrishB said! 🧐 2y
slategreyskies I just finished this today. Panty liner indeed!! 😳😳😳 2y
Hooked_on_books @slategreyskies Can you even imagine?!? 😂 2y
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Hooked_on_books
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I‘m back home and discovered the post office did not hold our mail as we had asked. 😑 The up side? We were able to peel my books out of the PO Box, so now I have them a day sooner than I expected! 🥳 I‘ve really been enjoying #literati, especially since there are so many nonfiction picks and the discussions overall are good. Can‘t wait to get started on these, the tagged one first!

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kspenmoll
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#novemberstack #highhopes
This is my overly ambitious plan for November, especially when I also have audible & e-books.
#literarycrew #sundaybuddyread #shesaid #literati #CTauthor #overbookedclub #katebowler

GingerAntics Oh my… Pooh might actually help you stay calm and relaxed to enjoy the ride of all these books. YOU GOT THIS!!! 2y
Riveted_Reader_Melissa Great stack! 2y
kspenmoll @GingerAntics Am counting on Pooh! Plus I do have Thanksgiving break. 2y
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GingerAntics @kspenmoll oh yeah, that always helps!!! That‘s the best part of Thanksgiving!!! 2y
TheBookHippie 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼♥️♥️♥️♥️ 2y
Crazeedi Great stack, Of Irish Blood is an intriguing title!! 2y
Crazeedi @kspenmoll just found out it's a buddy read?! I'm going to see if I can find!! 2y
Crazeedi @kspenmoll oh well, cant find through any of my libraries 😥 2y
megnews @kspenmoll you may just be reading ahead but wanted to let you know #overbookedclub is doing in the midst of winter in December. November is 2y
kspenmoll @megnews Thank you! I am not reading ahead on purpose! 🤪 2y
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Reggie
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I loved this. Nichole is a Black woman in her 40‘s who wrote this bunch of essays that are candid and highly relatable. From dealing with abusive family relationships to power dynamics within relationships to frank sex talk, this was just great. There is a lot of pop culture critique in here that will stick with me (the name of her book comes from a Prince song), especially the part about Miss Piggy and Kermit the Frog. Good stuff!!!

Leftcoastzen The best part of the laundromat is reading time! 3y
Trashcanman Hey man, how's it going? 3y
Reggie @Leftcoastzen I do agree. It‘s the nice hum in the background for me. 3y
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Reggie @Trashcanman I‘m doing good, George. How bout yourself? 3y
Cathythoughts Great review! I knew when I saw the washing machine that this would be a Reggie post 👍🏻😁😘 I love that swishy sound too 3y
Trashcanman @Reggie oh you know, waiting for the sun to shine. 3y
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Reggie
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Lol, Nichole has this essay on her adventures in dating and really knows how to balance out the serious stuff with some great humor. This book is the best thing I could have picked up today.

Ruthiella 😂😂😂 3y
Cinfhen Hi Reggie!!! Hope all is well 😘 3y
Cathythoughts 😂😂very good 3y
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LeahBergen 🤣🤣 These quotes are gold. 3y
Centique OMG and the pictures are perfect. The serial killer mouse!! 😜 3y
Reggie @Cinfhen Hi, Cindy! It is. I just came back from a vacation and am feeling pretty good. You doing ok? 3y
Reggie @Ruthiella @Cathythoughts @LeahBergen lol, right? @Cinfhen I was just going to put up a picture of a regular mouse but then said wth, let‘s search serial killer mouse. Look what came up. The internet truly has everything. Lol 3y
mandarchy I think this wins review of 2021. Hysterical illustrations with great quotes. 3y
Reggie @mandarchy lol, thank you very much. The essay was cracking me up when these descriptions kept coming up. 3y
Cinfhen Im well/ thanks for asking!! Glad you were able to get away 💚 3y
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Megabooks
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A fun and funny memoir-in-essays, Nichole shared stories of her life and sexuality. I thought I was getting a book about her life and pop culture, and there were three essays about that, however the majority of the book was about her sexual awakening and how much she likes receiving oral sex from men. I‘m guessing audible was not down for sharing exactly how sexual this book is. This was a good but not great for me. #BorrowNotBuy #audiobook

Megabooks The 💦🍑 on the cover should‘ve told me something was up! 😂 3y
Cortg I watched “Call Me by Your Name“ with my then high schoolers. They were somewhat tramatized and will forever think of the peach from the “peach scene.“ I did however go back and read the book to boot 😭 3y
Megabooks @Cortg I have not read that book nor seen the movie, but it has come on and off my TBR a number of times. 3y
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Christine I saw her in conversation with Ashley C. Ford yesterday and she was so great! Your description makes me feel that the book is perhaps not 100% for me as well…but I‘m hoping that with some of the context from the book talk (that she sort of sees it as a life‘s work of hers to encourage people to do more of whatever makes them happy) I‘ll end up enjoying overall! 3y
Megabooks @Christine yes! She definitely talks about life happiness, but I was just a bit surprised with all the sex, but hey, if that‘s what makes her happy then cool. It was overall a lot more positive than many of the 102 other memoirs I‘ve read this year, including Ford‘s. I‘m not sorry I own it, mainly because it is so positive, and I feel so many memoirs focus more on negative events. Anyway, enjoy!! 3y
Christine Love that perspective re: positivity! 3y
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