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Family Meal
Family Meal | Bryan Washington
12 posts | 10 read | 17 to read
From the bestselling, award-winning author of Memorial and Lot, an irresistible, intimate novel about two young men, once best friends, whose lives collide again after a loss. Cam is living in Los Angeles and falling apart after the love of his life has died. Kai's ghost won't leave Cam alone; his spectral visits wild, tender, and unexpected. When Cam returns to his hometown of Houston, he crashes back into the orbit of his former best friend, TJ, and TJ's family bakery. TJ's not sure how to navigate this changed Cam, impenetrably cool and self-destructing, or their charged estrangement. Can they find a way past all that has been said - and left unsaid - to save each other? Could they find a way back to being okay again, or maybe for the first time? When secrets and wounds become so insurmountable that they devour us from within, hope and sustenance and friendship can come from the most unlikely source. Spanning Los Angeles, Houston, and Osaka, Family Meal is a story about how the people who know us the longest can hurt us the most, but how they also set the standard for love. With his signature generosity and eye for food, sex, love, and the moments that make us the most human, Bryan Washington returns with a brilliant new novel.
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lauraisntwilder
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These PJs are ridiculous, but I'm including them b/c I neglected my TBR in preparation for and recovering from a trip to WDW with my sister. I did manage to finish this today though. It didn't grab me quite like Memorial did, but it was still great. Washington creates such complete, believable characters. His writing continues to impress me. The connection between love & food is beautifully done. This was my #bookspin for March. @TheAromaofBooks

TheAromaofBooks Woohoo!! 4w
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TrishB
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Mehso-so

I really liked Memorial, and I‘ve given this a so-so because it felt like Memorial part 2.
It also felt a bit sentimental/preachy. It may also just be bad mood Monday.

BarbaraBB I know enough. I‘ll unstack! 3mo
TrishB @BarbaraBB I definitely seem to be the outlier here, you may love it! 3mo
squirrelbrain I borrowed this from the library a while ago, then returned it unread. I nearly re-borrowed it the other day but something was stopping me… 🤷‍♀️ 3mo
sarahbarnes I still haven‘t read Memorial. Maybe I‘ll start there instead. 3mo
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kbuggle
Family Meal | Bryan Washington
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Deserving of the attention it‘s gotten this year, Family Meal is layered and tackles grief in a messy and tender way.

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Kazzie
Family Meal | Bryan Washington
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Great! Complicated people dealing with grief and joy and anger and love. They seem very real. It‘s neat how the author celebrates his city so much

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ChrisBohjalian
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Bedtime reading. Good-night, my friends. #bryanwashington @RiverheadBooks

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Pinta
Family Meal | Bryan Washington
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Feels like a remix of Memorial, but more subtly structured. Grief & self-destruction. Accepting care. Family & food. Healing through community. Tender & brutal. 2023

P141. “My family taught me the difference between acceptance, allowance, and understanding. Also: just being. Sometimes they overlap. Usually, they don‘t.”

P284 “We need everyone. Like, it‘s a group effort […] it‘s our responsibility to take care of each other.”

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ErikasMindfulShelf
Family Meal | Bryan Washington
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Great book!

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Abailliekaras
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I loved Memorial so was eager to read this one. It has similar ingredients that I loved: a Houston setting that feels ethnically diverse with Korean-American families & gay characters authentically portrayed, & food as a motif. I loved how Cam & TJ make space for themselves & their (found) families. It felt slower & more downbeat with casual sex, drug use & grief. I enjoyed Memorial more but this is complex & accomplished w trademark raw honesty.

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squirrelbrain
Family Meal | Bryan Washington
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I pre-ordered Family Meal from the library, following Meg‘s @Megabooks great review.

When I went to pick it up today I *may* also have perused the ‘New In‘ shelf, and couldn‘t resist Disobedient, which comes highly recommended by @TrishB . ☺️

#blameitonlitsy

BarbaraBB Great haul 🥰 6mo
Megabooks Yay! I hope you love it, too! 6mo
TrishB Hope you enjoy 🤞🏻 I‘ve got the other one on potential Christmas list! 6mo
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Caroline2 Oh I have disobedient on my kindle. Let me know if ya fancy a buddy read! 😃 6mo
squirrelbrain Of course @Caroline2 - always up for a buddy read! I‘ll be starting it this weekend though, in case someone else reserves it at the library and I can‘t renew it. 6mo
Caroline2 Ah yeah, of course, you‘ve got a defo deadline with a library book. I‘ll try and catch up asap. 6mo
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Hooked_on_books
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I feel like Washington‘s 2 previous books were solid but with room for improvement. Well, now he‘s seriously hitting his stride. This is a terrific, intimate portrait of grief that also serves as a quiet social commentary. We get to know the interior world of these few characters so well that I felt so much for them. Just terrific.

Megabooks Agree!! 6mo
squirrelbrain @megabooks loved this so it was already on my radar and now you‘ve convinced me I need to read it! 6mo
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Christine Oh wow - must get to this sooner now! 6mo
TrishB Stacked too! 6mo
Suet624 Stacked. Glad to hear he‘s sharpened his style. 6mo
Centique I loved this too 😍 5mo
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Centique
Family Meal | Bryan Washington
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For the first time i managed to get a brand new book from the library reserves right on release! I loved Memorial and this was another 5 star read for me. Washington takes us inside the lives of first Cam and then TJ. Two childhood friends, both gay, black/multi race, who became estranged as their choices took them to different places. There is trauma in both lives & Washington reels the reader in to these details once youve started to care ⬇️

Centique This won‘t be everybody‘s cup of tea as you have two almost seperate stories as you do with Memorial - but switching POVs halfway is a format i personally love when its done well. 6mo
Reggie I have this. I also loved Memorial but I won‘t get to this until later. 6mo
Centique @Reggie i think you‘ll like it too. It was a fast read - plenty of white space in the pages and some photos again. 6mo
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Megabooks
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Still taking pictures of books! 😂 I was downtown at the river for an appointment and snapped some at the bridge.

Family Meal was great! 5⭐️ I didn‘t care for Memorial, but FM was a win! Got v attached to the characters.
Proulx is a master of capturing stark lives in the American West.
Black Sheep was 💯💯 campy horror fun!! 😈 #aardvark
I didn‘t enjoy The Road as much as I hoped. By the end I was just tired of it. 🤷🏻‍♀️

squirrelbrain Ooh, I quite liked Memorial so I might try Family Meal. It was published last week over here, but is still on NG so I‘ve just requested it. Thanks for putting it on my #readersradar! 😘 6mo
JenReadsAlot I didn't care for Memorial either, but might give that one a shot! 6mo
sarahbarnes Glad to hear you liked Family Meal - stacking. 6mo
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BarbaraBB Interesting! I am definitely in for Family Meal and I am surprised Proulx still writes! She belongs to another era imo 😉. And I was underwhelmed by The Road too, years ago. Great photos Meg 🩷🩷 6mo
peaKnit I have Family Meal up next! 6mo
Megabooks @BarbaraBB the Proulx is from another era…the library checked it into the collection in 2005 or 06. 😂😂 I just found it browsing! 👍🏻 and thanks! 💜 6mo
LeahBergen I could use some campy horror fun! 6mo
BarbaraBB Oh wow, it is indeed! I didn‘t read this one though, back then. 6mo
Larkken I love Washington. I used to live in Houston and he evokes the city so well, and yet from so far outside my own experience with it! Have you read the tagged book of interconnected short stories? 6mo
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