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Keanu Reeves Is Not In Love With You
Keanu Reeves Is Not In Love With You: The Murky World of Online Romance Fraud | Becky Holmes
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Online romance fraud is a problem across the globe. It causes financial and emotional devastation, yet many people refuse to take it seriously. This is the story of one middle-aged woman in a cardigan determined to understand this growing phenomenon. No other woman has had so many online romances from Keanu Reeves to Brad Pitt to Prince William and Becky Holmes is a favourite among peacekeeping soldiers and oil rig workers who desperately need iTunes vouchers. By winding up scammers and investigating the truth behind their profiles, Becky shines a revealing, revolting and hilarious light on a very shady corner of the internet. Featuring first-hand accounts of victims, examples of scripts used by fraudsters, a look into the psychology of fraud and of course plenty of Beckys hysterical interactions with scammers, this is a must-read for anyone who needs a reminder that Keanu Reeves is NOT in love with them.
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squirrelbrain
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This was laugh out loud hilarious - I found myself glad that I drive for my commute now rather than going by train as I‘d have had some funny looks otherwise. (The humour is very British-centric and there‘s lot of British pop-culture references too)

The author is also very caring towards the women who have been involved in romance fraud, and rightfully very angry on their behalf.

Also has to be the funniest (& sweariest) acknowledgments ever!

julesG Did you notice that it has a yellow cover? Guess where my (unread) copy is. 1d
squirrelbrain Hmmm, might it be on your blue shelf?! @julesg 🤪 1d
BarbaraBB I know someone who thought she had an affair with him! Must read this! 24h
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squirrelbrain Oh no! @BarbaraBB - you can see how it can happen though. 😞 19h
BarbaraBB This is an elderly lonely lady and she really believed it was him because he called and texted her. She lent him the money to come and visit her 🤦🏻‍♀️ 18h
Chelsea.Poole I really enjoyed this one! She‘s great!! 17h
squirrelbrain @BarbaraBB - that‘s very sad. 9h
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DebinHawaii
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#ReadAway2024 #OutWithTheOldInWithTheNew #20in4 #readathon

I read an article on online romance fraud a few years ago & was fascinated & was excited to find this book at the library. Sometimes funny, often sad, the author shared her own trolling of romance fraudsters on line, woven in with compassionate stories about women who were scammed by men pretending to be oil rig workers, Keanu Reeves & other potential suitors. An interesting & easy read.

AllDebooks Blimey, that title is brutal. He is in my head, and that's where it counts. 😅 4w
DebinHawaii @AllDebooks As long as you aren‘t sending him money, I think you are good! 😉😂 4w
AllDebooks @DebinHawaii 😅 can you imagine? 4w
Andrew65 Love the title! Well done 🥳🥳🥳 4w
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DebinHawaii
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#Naturalitsy #HyggeHourReadathon

Spending my #HyggeHour on the couch & starting this library book which I am hoping is as funny as advertised. Also trying this local candy which is peppermint milk chocolate with pretzel crunch.

Feeling reluctant to start the week as it will be another busy one preparing to present to the board next week. I really would have liked another day off. Mondays come much too soon! 🥱😵😵‍💫

MemoirsForMe This book sound hilarious! I have a similar one on my Kindle. Wishing you a smooth and easy work week! 2mo
AllDebooks Sorry, I saw Keanu and zoned out. #Swoon 😅🤪 2mo
AllDebooks Joking, your evening sounds perfect 😍 2mo
TheBookHippie ♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️ 2mo
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Ineffaquibble
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An easy, enjoyable listen - I think one that was better for being read by the author.

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DebinHawaii
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My #LibraryHaul from yesterday. I went in to pick up my hold on The Village Library Demon-Hunting Society & The Night Guest & God‘s Country ended up in my hands, followed by the tagged book which looks pretty funny. (I find online romance fraud pretty fascinating).

Finally my favorite librarian gave me the ARC of Smothermoss which she called weird & said she thought I might like it. Hmm… so what is she saying about me?
The book🐔🐔 wonder! 😆

AnnCrystal Weird is Cool 🆒😎👍💝...at least, that's what I tell myself 😉❣️. (edited) 2mo
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Megabooks
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New geranium!

Holmes‘ trolling of people trying to scam her was truly hilarious and worth the price of admission alone. But she also did a wonderfully compassionate job of sharing the stories of women who had been conned. I did not know people were murdered in Ghana and Nigeria to be used in dark magic rituals to increase scam yields or that in SE Asia people were held In indentured servitude carrying out scams. Almost too wild to be true!

Suet624 Gah! 8mo
Aimeesue Yikes! 8mo
Megabooks @Suet624 @Aimeesue I know! Definitely one of the most surprising books I‘ve read this year! 8mo
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Megabooks
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Y‘all…this is BY FAR the funniest book I‘ve read all year! If you are feeling down and need a laugh, the way she has included her word-for-word trolling of the scammers has me just rolling! So far 80 pages in, I highly recommend it.

LeahBergen Ooo, I may need this! 8mo
jlhammar Great title and cover. Reminds me of a podcast I recently listened to called Love Bombed. I‘m going to have to check this out! 8mo
BarbaraBB I might need this too! And I know an elderly lady who thought she‘s was having an online affair with Keanu Reeves. She even sent him the money to come and visit her… 🥲 8mo
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Megabooks @LeahBergen I liked that it was funny, but she was also very serious and caring towards the victims she spoke to. 8mo
Megabooks @jlhammar All kinds of love bombing in these romance scams. It was a really interesting book! Worth reading for sure. 8mo
Megabooks @BarbaraBB That's terrible! Apparently he's the most commonly impersonated celeb because he's well known internationally but has no personal social media presence. 8mo
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Chelsea.Poole
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I started listening to this book on a whim, unsure if I‘d finish it. It wasn‘t long before I was cackling and completely hooked by the hilarious stories and over the top reverse-catfishing Becky Holmes uses on scammers. The oil rig worker who‘s in love with you in your DMs is desperate, not for your love but for your money. While this is humorous, Holmes gets serious with profiles of women affected by this and also the catfishers themselves.

slategreyskies Wow, this book looks so bizarre that it might actually be really good! 🤣 9mo
Chelsea.Poole @slategreyskies I was surprised at how much I ended up getting on with it! Funny but highlights real issues! 9mo
BarbaraBB I know an elder lady who thought Keanu Reeves‘s was in love with her… they texted non-stop, she thought, and it was a question of time until they‘d meet. She even sent him money to fly to the Netherlands 🥲 (edited) 9mo
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slategreyskies @BarbaraBB When I worked at a store that had a Western Union, I got training on how to decline transactions that looked fraudulent. I had an elderly woman come in once wanting to send a large sum of money to Nigeria, and I told her that I wasn‘t allowed to do it, because it was against the rules. She didn‘t know specifics about the man or anything. She was really disappointed and sad, but her son (who‘d brought her in) was thankful. 😢 9mo
BarbaraBB @slategreyskies That is so sad! 9mo
Chelsea.Poole @BarbaraBB @slategreyskies both stories are sad! I have many myself from our library. One woman in particular has been sending money to her multiple “husbands” over the years. She refuses to listen to reason. At some point it becomes a denial issue, or I‘ve even known people who are so far in they don‘t even mind it being a scam because they‘re in love. 9mo
BarbaraBB These women must be so lonely. 9mo
Megabooks Of course we‘ve read the same semi-obscure book this month! 🫶🏻👯‍♀️ 8mo
Chelsea.Poole @Megabooks always twinning! 👯‍♀️ 📕 I really liked this one! I‘ve been recommending it IRL. 8mo
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OutsmartYourShelf
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Online romance fraud has skyrocketed. From impersonating members of the armed forces to Hollywood stars, there's seemingly no stone the fraudsters will leave unturned. The author looks at the psychology behind the frauds, the kind of 'scripts' they use to play on their victims' emotions, & why it seems to be a crime that the victims feel reluctant to report. (continued)

OutsmartYourShelf I knew I had to read this book as soon as I saw the cover. I follow the author on Twitter (sorry, can't get into calling it X) & I find her text conversations with these scammers funny, so I was looking forward to it. It mostly didn't disappoint.

Behind the humour though, there are very unfunny consequences for those taken in. I found it informative, mainly because I've never really had anything like this sent to me
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OutsmartYourShelf (I wonder if it's because my social media is filled with football posts so they think I'm a bloke?!) & I've never really looked into it. It's sad but not surprising that UK anti-fraud law is trailing way behind when it comes to online crime & that actual support for victims is in short supply.

Overall, it may not be everyone's 'cup of tea' but it's definitely different. 4🌟

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OutsmartYourShelf My thanks to #NetGalley & publishers, Unbound, for the opportunity to read an ARC.

Full review: https://www.goodreads.com/review/show/6289859808
Read 1st-2nd April 2024

#ReadAway2024
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Amor4Libros Stacked! 10mo
DieAReader 🥳Great!! 10mo
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