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They're Going to Love You
They're Going to Love You: A Novel | Meg Howrey
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"They're Going to Love You is my idea of a perfect book. It is about art, life, death, love, and family and it is beautifully and sharply written. I cried several times while reading it, and was sorry to let it go when I was done. I cannot recommend it enough." --Jami Attenberg A magnetic tale of betrayal, art, and ambition, set in the world of professional ballet, New York City during the AIDS crisis, and present-day Los Angeles Carlisle Martin dreams of becoming a professional ballet dancer just like her mother, Isabel, a former Balanchine ballerina. Since they live in Ohio, she only gets to see her father Robert for a few precious weeks a year when she visits Greenwich Village, where he lives in an enchanting apartment on Bank Street with his partner, James. Brilliant but troubled, James gives Carlisle an education in all that he holds dear in life--literature, music, and most of all, dance. Seduced by the heady pull of mentorship and the sophistication of their lives, Carlisle's aspiration to become a dancer herself blooms, born of her desire to be asked to stay at Bank Street, to be included in Robert and James' world even as AIDS brings devastation to their community. Instead, a passionate love affair creates a rift between them, with devastating consequences that reverberate for decades to come. Nineteen years later, Carlisle receives a phone call which unravels the fateful events of her life, causing her to see with new eyes how her younger self has informed the woman she's become. They're Going to Love You is a gripping and gorgeously written novel of heartbreaking intensity. With psychological precision and a masterfully revealed secret at its heart, it asks what it takes to be an artist in America, and the price of forgiveness, of ambition, and of love.
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Lesliereadsalot
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A beautifully written story about Carlisle, a former ballerina. It‘s about her history, her significant moments with her parents, a lover, her father‘s partner. This book really has something to say and the characters are so richly drawn that you feel like you know them. I loved it and feel like my life is enriched having read it. Thank you @Amor4Libros

Amor4Libros I‘m so glad you loved it too! ❤️😊 2mo
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Lesliereadsalot
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1. Still have Halloween candy leftover from last year! Wondering if it‘s still good.
2. Ballerina remembers parents

@TheSpineView #Two4Tuesday

TheSpineView Candy never lasts in our household. Thanks for playing! 2mo
dabbe You must have nerves of steel! 🤩😂🤗 2mo
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Amor4Libros
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I‘m having a fantastic reading year! This book was such a masterpiece that I had to force myself to slow down so that it wouldn‘t end.

If you enjoy complex family dramas and ballet, this book is for you!

⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️

CarolynM I loved this one too❤️ 4mo
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Amor4Libros
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20 pages in and already loving this!

ErikasMindfulShelf It‘s so good! 4mo
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SanjanaGhosh
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“Love, like lobster, is for people who aren‘t always worried about the bill. (Or the mess.)”

Not embarrassed to say that I cried multiple times, the writing completely wrecked me. Art, the complex relation between a daughter and her parents especially with her mother, complicated romance, and the everlasting career growth journey form the real essence of this wonderful book.

Amor4Libros Sounds amazing, stacked! 🤗 5mo
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NovelNancyM
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If you enjoy the world of ballet or novels about messy family relationships and dreams, you may enjoy this book.

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Sharpeipup
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Nothing beats rainy days off reading.

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BookNAround
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Told from the perspective of an adult Carlisle, and alternating between her past and present, this is a story of family drama, love, belonging, betrayal, the sometimes fragile bond of the parent/child relationship, finding peace, and ballet. It is elegant and gorgeously told. Full review at https://booknaround.blogspot.com/2023/10/review-theyre-going-to-love-you-by-meg....

LeahBergen Ooo, I want to read this! And I see I already have it stacked. 😆 11mo
BookNAround @LeahBergen 😂😂😂 11mo
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mjtwo
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4-13 Nov 23
Easy to read but well written novel set in the world of ballet. Carlisle is the daughter of two ballet professionals and aspires to be a dancer but is prevented by her height. The focus is, however, family and betrayal. The protagonist is frustratingly selfish and dishonest but I am not sure her actions or any action of a child warranted such a long estrangement.

CarolynM Nice review! I loved this one🙂 (edited) 13mo
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Twocougs
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Beautifully written, much like ballet. Dance, family drama and insecurities. Read in 24hours and loved every minute.🥰

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guidosophia
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I had to think long and hard about how I felt about this book. Objectively yes it was good and I feel like it was written pretty well. I think what gets me is that I liked and related to the narrator and then I found out that she lacked serious morals and was the problem in such a weird way. Anyways I‘m left feeling unsatisfied and like this book was forgettable but maybe that‘s just me. I recommend it bc it‘s still good tho.

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“Even if mothers are terrible, the world is still worse.”- pg 135

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BookNAround
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Sitting here in my tiny library and debating if the migraine has subsided enough to start this one.

LiteraryinPA Oh no, feel better! 1y
TheBookHippie This has been an awful migraine summer for so many of us! Hope it gets to baseline soon! 1y
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CatLass007 Ouch! Migraines suck. I‘ve had them since I was a child and they are the worst. Feel better ❤️‍🩹 1y
Ruthiella Hope you feel better soon! 1y
BookNAround @CatLass007 @Ruthiella Thanks. I‘m feeling better now. Exhausted from it but better. 1y
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GidgetsTreasures75
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2-28-23: My February Book Wrap Up! 13 books! Really enjoyed all of these but my favorite was They‘re Going to Love You. That got 5 stars! ⭐️📖🎊🥰

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2-25-23: My 24th finished book of 2023! I loved this one! Carlisle, a ballet dancer from a family of ballet dancers, it too tall to make it even though she has a beautiful facility about her. Set in 2016 but reverting back to the 80s and the AIDS crisis time period, Carlisle will spend her summers with her father and his partner James at the Banks Street apartment in NYC. When James asks Carlisle for a huge favor it will backfire ⬇️

GidgetsTreasures75 …and cause a 19 year rift. During that time Carlisle will decide to become something more than what she thought she could be in the dance world. Beautifully written and so moving. If you love the dance world, as I do, you will love this story. ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️📖#️⃣2️⃣4️⃣ 2y
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ashw21
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This is a book that exceeded my expectations.. a book about family and a coming-of-age story in one. Ballet plays a central part in the story and the bond in the family. There is a betrayal and it made a compelling read to find out the cause/ what happened as the story switches back and forward in time. It is set during the AIDs crisis but very much a backdrop in the story. A beautiful character- driven novel with wonderful writing. #readinglife

CarolynM I loved this one too. Read it at the end of last year and it crashed its way into my top 10 of 2022. 2y
ashw21 That is fantastic.. it really exceeded my expectations and I couldn‘t put it down!! 2y
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KristiAhlers
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I found this to be a solid story about family, dreams and dance and how it doesn‘t always jive the way we‘d like it. This is a strong read but I did find fault with the end but that‘s just me perhaps #balletthemedreads challenge.

CarolynM I liked this one a lot. 2y
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Hooked_on_books
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Carlisle wanted to follow in her mother‘s pointe shoes and be a professional ballerina, but she‘s far too tall. She does find her way in the dancing world but only after a blowup with the father that finds them estranged for almost 20 years. Overall, I really enjoyed this exploration of family, though when the blowup is finally revealed, I thought it could have been done a bit better, as I was a little unconvinced.

LeslieO I just finished this one, really enjoyed it. I love books set in the ballet world. (edited) 2y
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LeslieO
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Welp, we are having a true blizzard. But we have plenty of food (if the power goes out we will have to eat cookies) and I have plenty to read including the tagged book which I‘m really enjoying. Hope everyone is safe and warm!

kspenmoll Hope you weather this storm with out losing electricity! Glad you have plenty of cookies! 2y
TheSpineView Yikes!🥶❄️ Stay warm 2y
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CarolynM
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A story about family, friendship, love, betrayal and ballet. Beautifully constructed and elegantly written. I loved it. If I'd read this before the #AuldLangSpine deadline it definitely would have been on my list. In my top 10 for the year.

Caroline2 I love books about ballet. Stacked. 😉 2y
batsy Great review! You've piqued my interest 🙂 2y
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jlhammar I really liked Howrey‘s The Wanderers so looking forward to this. 2y
LeahBergen This sounds so good! 2y
Centique Wow that‘s high praise! #stackedforsure 2y
erzascarletbookgasm I received your Christmas card, Carolyn! Thank you 😘 Happy Christmas Eve! 2y
CarolynM @erzascarletbookgasm Happy Christmas Eve Jessie😘 2y
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swishandflick
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A new guess for a new #Aardvark clue. What do y'all think? Any other guesses?? This one's hard!

? = The book spans decades and shifts from past to present
? = The synopsis describes it as a magnetic tale of betrayal, ART, and ambtion
? = The MC's father lives with his partner in NYC while the AIDS epidemic is impacting their community
? = A "passionate love affair" causes a rift

vlwelser I hope you're right about this one. I love this author. 2y
swishandflick @vlwelser Thats good to hear! I've never read their stuff before 😄 2y
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