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Lcsmcat
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A quote from the Rev. Dr. Lewen because I don‘t want to give Lovelace‘s whining any more air, and because it‘s a different voice. Buy even he seems to be laying all the responsibility on our #Clarissa! Not blaming her for what happened, but telling her to fix it or she‘s guilty of harming the next woman L decides to rape. Sheesh! Also, does anyone else find Richardson‘s prose harder to get through when he gets preachy, or is it just me? 🙄

Lcsmcat Also, I‘m at the final day of a conference today and then will be driving home so, as they said on SNL back in the day “Talk among yourselves” and I‘ll chime in when I can. 🙂 8mo
Currey @Lcsmcat It is not just you. Richardson puts some of his preaching into Clarissa‘s voice when she is correcting Anna‘s behavior or even when defending herself. It makes her decidedly less appealing when she is correcting but I appreciate her defending herself. It beats “woe is me”. 8mo
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Amiable I continue to be amazed that -- given the time period, when women had so few legal rights-- people keep urging Clarissa to prosecute Lovelace. While I agree with Dr. Lewen that doing so may help prevent Lovelace from raping another woman, his tone is more “it has to be you because you are society's ideal of the perfect woman, so YOU are trustworthy and believable.“ Which is both a huge compliment to Clarissa and an unfair burden. ⬇️ (edited) 8mo
Amiable And also an insult to other women. Although I could have missed his point-- maybe it also has to do with the fact that Clarissa has Lovelace's letters to Belford, where he expressed his evil plans in excruciating detail. So she has proof that it wasn't consensual and that she was drugged and held down. 8mo
TheBookHippie It‘s very preachy and even with all her assets to make a good witness she won‘t be believed -not much has changed and the law wasn‘t on her side. I do appreciate something other than the woe is me narrative but I‘m not sure the author has captured what her voice would actually be like in reality …🤷🏻‍♀️ 8mo
Lcsmcat @Amiable Does Dr. Lewen know she has the letters? (I can‘t remember who knows what.) But yes, he lays it on a bit thick about her perfection. Which seems like another burden on C‘s shoulders. 8mo
Lcsmcat @Currey Much less appealing! 8mo
Lcsmcat @TheBookHippie I think Clarissa is not portrayed as a real person, but more of an ideal. So there cannot be a real voice. 8mo
TheBookHippie @Lcsmcat I agree I think I just wish it was real 🙃 8mo
Lcsmcat @TheBookHippie We can live and hope. 😏 8mo
Jerdencon I agree with everyone- and at times I find myself skimming a lot of the letters when they don‘t move the plot along… 8mo
BarbaraJean YES about the preachiness, whoever's voice he puts it in and even if I agree! Clarissa's exhortations to Anna feel that way, as well as Belford's to Lovelace. @Amiable I was also surprised that she's being pressured to prosecute. Even a “paragon of virtue“ like Clarissa wouldn't be believed--her family doesn't believe her and I think that would carry a lot of weight against her. Definitely agree about that being a backhanded compliment as well! 8mo
BarbaraJean Now that I've agreed with the problems inherent in her being pressured to prosecute... on the other hand, I found Lewen's encouragement to do so (especially in the quote above) a bit refreshing. It felt vindicating that Lewen believes her, and that he's encouraging her to stand up for herself. A bit #BelieveWomen, if you will. I don't agree with his guilt trip or the idea that she's to blame for future victims if she doesn't speak up, but still. 8mo
Lcsmcat @BarbaraJean It would be nice (if not helpful to the plot) to hear Dr Lewen apply some of that pressure to Clarissa‘s family. Maybe get them to believe and support her before he asks Clarissa to stand up in open court. 8mo
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actualdisneyprincess
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This book was amazing, plain and simple. #nobodysvictim #carriegoldberg #timesup #metoo #believewomen

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Ekkross
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Riveted_Reader_Melissa Off topic, but that ring is gorgeous!! 5y
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Owlizabeth
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There aren‘t many things that can get me to leave the house, voting is one of them! Now back to reading.... #believewomen #vote

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Lea
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I started this pre Kavanaugh hearings and it just became more and more relevant as I read on. History just keeps repeating itself. Things change but the essays written here could have been written this week. It‘s important, it gut wrenching. #readwomen #believewomen

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Redjewel_7734
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Pickpick

This is so creepy & disturbing. The narrator is so very obviously disturbed, but yet there is a rational line that underpins his delusion. It would be terrifying to have this person fixated on you-even when you can clearly see how he got where he did. In some ways, his lawyer is just as disturbing when you see how he utilizes his clients delusions rather than getting him the help he obviously needs. This story, for me underlines #believewomen

Alfoster So true! Loved this one too!😍 6y
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tournevis
Untitled | Unknown
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I may not be American and this is not book related, but let me make it clear, because it's not only an American issue. #believeher #ibelieveher #believewomen #believesurvivors

2BR02B Thank you. Sad that this is a contentious opinion in so much of the world. 6y
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kspenmoll Thank you! 💕💕 6y
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ManyWordsLater
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History is bound to repeat itself if we do not learn from it.
This section is suddenly 100% relevant.
Solnit has such an eye for relevant and enlightening events. Her explanations of feminism open my mind.
#feminism #believewomen #essays #nonfiction #femaleauthor #readharder #educate #resist

Trismegistus Solnit gets so succinctly at things it takes me forever to say. She really is an excellent author. 6y
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nadine_swartz
Le Divorce | Diane Johnson
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While I have more than a issues with this novel, she hits the nail right on the head here. #believewomen