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Riveted_Reader_Melissa
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Hello #SheSaid!

How are you this weekend? Catching up with our book?

Riveted_Reader_Melissa I‘m behind again…yes, I know…what else is new 🫠 sorry about that. I‘ll catch up soon, but I‘m loving it so far….and anyone else feel like they what to tell off a few people who have given them grief over the years….maybe just me. 🙃 (edited) 2d
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Bookwormjillk I haven‘t started this yet but got it on my kindle for when I‘m on a family vacation next week. Let‘s just say it might come in handy. 2d
MallenNC I am not *enjoying* this exactly because the topic is a tough one but I like the way the author explains that what many think to be true is actually wrong like the accuracy of BMI or that being a higher weight automatically making someone less healthy. 2d
Riveted_Reader_Melissa @MallenNC yes! That‘s how I felt and why I said I wanted to tell off a few people. A few doctors in particular. More girls need to read this younger so they get a more balanced prescriptions on weight & health. 2d
Riveted_Reader_Melissa I‘m all caught up now. And I will say *enjoying*, because I feel like things I have thought for a long time are here in print, with data to back them up. 2d
vlwelser @MallenNC that BMI nonsense is no joke. People actually use it like it's a real indication of anything. They were using it to sort us into covid vaccine groups. My friends mocked me for being the only one in the "normal" group 2d
Riveted_Reader_Melissa @vlwelser the number of times my doctor has told me the “lose 10% of your body weight” reduces the risk of xyz. I always thought that was BS, because there is no bottom there, you can always say that no matter what you lose and be told 10% again. And this book points out rightfully that those that lose regain back & often more and the dieting and regaining has more risks than the weight anyway. 🙄 2d
vlwelser I like that she points out the exercise bit. Like that actually makes you healthier. 1d
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AllDebooks
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#Mood

I am looking forward to starting #Shesaid July #buddyread Unshrinking this weekend. 😀

KathyWheeler 😄 4d
Bookwormjillk 😂 😂 😂 😂 😂 😂 😂 😂 😂 😂 😂 😂 😂 😂 😂 😂 😂 😂 😂 😂 4d
lil1inblue #facts 😂 😂 😂 4d
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Ruthiella 😂😂😂 4d
dabbe 😍MG!!! 😂😂😂 4d
TheLudicReader I had the Barbie that "grew" hair, so I cut off her pony tail. Yeah, not so much. ? 4d
Riveted_Reader_Melissa @TheLudicReader you would think we would have learned much earlier that marketers lie to us to take our money 😂 2d
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Riveted_Reader_Melissa
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Just this sentence, in the intro… gutted me. I‘ve read her other books, they are very very excellent in-depth well-researched books. With so much to offer.

But this sentence alone, shows how our society works to silence women, just to make them so uncomfortable with themselves, that they balk at being “public”. That instinctual withdrawl silences whatever they would have said.

#SheSaid

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Riveted_Reader_Melissa
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Hello #SheSaid! New month, New Book!

Happy 4th of July to those in the US, happy weekend to everyone else!

As we dive into a new read, thoughts so far?

MallenNC I related a lot to her intro. I think a lot of people would. I‘m interested to see where the book goes. I like that she backs up her ideas with a lot of research 1w
DGRachel Still waiting for my library hold but I should have it soon. 🤞🏻 1w
vlwelser @MallenNC I agree. I found her really relatable in the intro and I am looking forward to seeing what she comes up with. 1w
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LitsyEvents
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tpixie Great photo! 2w
Riveted_Reader_Melissa @tpixie I found it on the internet! So many thanks to the original photographer 1w
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Riveted_Reader_Melissa
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Up Next for #SheSaid!

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Riveted_Reader_Melissa
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Up next for #SheSaid!

So put in your library holds and inter-library loans or pick it up while it is still on sale.

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Riveted_Reader_Melissa
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If you are looking to buy our next read instead of borrowing it from the library… it is on sale today on both Kindle & Kobo

#SheSaid

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“I don‘t want you to be safe ideologically. I don‘t want you to be safe emotionally. I want you to be strong. That‘s different. I‘m not going to pave the jungle for you. Put on some boots, and learn how to deal with adversity. I‘m not going to take all the weights out of the gym; that‘s the whole point of the gym. This is the gym.” - Van Jones

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ImperfectCJ
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Overall, I found this book to be moderate, data-driven, and interesting, with a couple of caveats. First, Twenge sometimes doesn't flag clearly what is data and what is her opinion. This is fine, it just means I have to pay closer attention. Next, I found the GenX section disappointing. She ignores outliers and nuances she points out in the Millennials section, and she reaches different conclusions from some data than I do. (cont'd ⬇️)

ImperfectCJ Admittedly, Twenge is an older GenXer and I'm a younger GenXer, and there's been a divide between those two microgenerations for a long time. Finally, some of the predictions for the future feel jarring given what's happened in the months between the book's publication and now, but I don't fault Twenge for that. We're in wacky territory is all, and data can only predict so much. (edited) 2mo
ImperfectCJ And a final note for anyone who reads as I do, bouncing between the audio and the print/ebook: The ebook has been updated since the audiobook was made, so there are sentences and paragraphs in the ebook that aren't in the audio. 2mo
RowReads1 Yup! I‘m a Xennial. there is a big divide between older and younger Xers. I‘ve been curious about this one. 2mo
ImperfectCJ @RowReads1 Twenge's cutoff for GenX is 1979, which my younger siblings would take issue with (I'm 1976, they're 1981 and 1983). She does mention Xennials, and she quotes Chuck Klosterman about the differences between younger and older GenX, but that's it. I try not to make too big a deal about microgenerational differences within GenX, but when my GenZ teenager generalizes, I set him straight (then he points out that GenX is ignored online). (edited) 2mo
RowReads1 @ImperfectCJ I don‘t mind that we‘re ignored online. I mean Gen X by Douglas Coupland is basically where the generational names and categorization “so called” officially took off from. We had tons of attention back then. 2mo
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