The boys are diving into deeper waters here - taking their physical relationship further, Nick is looking at universities, and they are trying to find themselves as individuals outside their identity as a couple. Oseman is so good at allowing the boys to blossom and question and learn, all surrounded by supportive family and friends. Looking forward to #6 to see what‘s next for Charlie and Nick as the step into adulthood.

Set in 15th century China, this is the story of Tan Yunxian, a remarkable woman who was schooled by her grandparents from a young age as a doctor. She loses her mother when she is a girl, marries into a successful family at 15, and grows in medical knowledge and skill throughout her life. We follow the seasons of her life, through difficulty and success, as she builds relationships with the women around her. Very interesting historical fiction.

Charlie and Nick are out at school, and the next steps are deciding when to come out to Nick‘s dad and how to have the courage to say I love you. But this installment also deals with Charlie getting help for some significant mental health issues while Nick learns how to best support him. It is wonderful how Oseman shows teens navigating this with sensitivity and care. And also how the boys‘ friends and families are crucial in the process.

Happy, feminist, love yourself poems. An enjoyable little collection.

Lucy was present at her best friend‘s murder five years ago, but she does not remember anything of that night. Because of a lack of evidence, she was never charged, but her whole small Texas town thinks she did it. A new true crime podcast brings renewed interest in the case just as Lucy goes back to visit. It‘s a good audiobook with the podcast set up.

Arlo, who is DeafBlind, is 23, but has lived a very sheltered life in a strict religious community under the care of his uncle. But when he has the chance to take a college class, Arlo‘s life explodes with new opportunities and people. There‘s a new (and gay) interpreter, a free spirited Belgian nursing student, and a brilliant professor. Arlo begins to deal with past trauma, dream of a bigger future, and hopes to rekindle a lost love. LOVED IT!

The three “disorderly men” of the title are detained in a police raid of a gay bar, charged with disorderly conduct. It is pre-Stonewall, early 1960s NYC when being gay meant a lot of shame, rejection, secrets, and ostracism. We follow the personal stories of each man as their lives eventually intersect. It is a sobering reminder of the cumulative emotional damage that occurs when gay people shoulder the burden of a forced closeted existence.

Three sisters are drawn together around the first anniversary of the death of their fourth sister. They are all in various states of emotional disrepair, having struggled unsuccessfully to manage their grief. Their reunion is complicated by the unresolved wreckage of an unstable childhood. It‘s a compulsively readable book. Much of the sisterly connection lands true, but there were times it felt a bit contrived.The ending tied up a tad too neatly.

Keru is Chinese American with immigrant parents. Her white husband Nate has a working class, conservative family. In Part 1, they vacation with both sets of parents in Cape Cod. In Part 2, Nate‘s brother and his girlfriend show up as they vacation in the Catskills. These occasions illustrate the vast cultural, political, and social differences between the families and raise questions about whether or not that gap can be bridged in their marriage.

This was terrific. And it was all about perspective. It is a fictionalized story based on the Ted Bundy murders. But the killer was only ever spoken of as “the defendant.” The book is wholly focused on the bright young women‘s lives that were ended and damaged by a murderer. It completely flips the script of the handsome, intelligent killer and instead tells a different, and much more interesting story about the women he targeted.

Structured around the evening prayer of Compline, this book focuses on clinging to spiritual practices as a lifeline when we are in seasons of darkness and suffering. The author shares some of her own trials as she illustrates the ways we can find meaning and comfort in suffering. That in fact, sometimes it is in the darkest moments that we truly learn of God‘s boundless love for us. She discusses the most ordinary events in such beautiful prose.

The subject matter is important and riveting. I learned a lot about women‘s unheralded service in Vietnam. It is absolutely a story worth reading. The combat nursing events in Vietnam field hospitals were the most compelling by far. The romantic elements came off too cheesy and the general tone was a tad too melodramatic for me. I think Hannah‘s style is just not quite my vibe. Julia Whelan‘s narration is top notch. I‘m glad I listened to it.

This was a reread for book club. Writer and storyteller Ivan Coyote has spent many years on the road, sharing about their experience as a nonbinary person. During Covid all that went away. So they spent that time answering letters that have come their way, later compiled in this book. At a time when trans and nonbinary people are under such fierce attack, it was a welcome balm. Coyote‘s missives are so kind, compassionate, and vulnerable. Lovely.

In light of the executive order made by our uninformed new president, declaring that there are only two genders, I would like to help fellow readers become better educated. Here are six books written by and/or centering on the experiences of non-binary and transgender people. I wish I had a recommendation with some intersex representation, but I can‘t think of anything at the moment. Feel free to suggest other great books in the comments below.

Ahhhhh, I love these books! Charlie and Nick start to come out as a couple to friends and family. Their parents are so great - it is lovely to see supportive adults for these kids. But this book also introduces some weightier issues for the boys to work through. Oseman tackles it all with such sensitivity. So good.

Nick and Charlie embark on their relationship and it is a delight to watch the enchantment and nervousness of first love. Nick is acknowledging his feelings for Charlie and coming to understand himself better. The boys are navigating friendships and how and when to come out as a couple. It‘s such a fantastic series. So glad that it exists, especially for gay teens out there who need to see themselves in these stories.

In 1969, Maggie Nelson‘s aunt, Jane Mixer was killed. Over 30 years later Nelson is about to publish a book of poetry about Jane when they hear that Jane‘s murder case has been reopened. There is DNA evidence now that has led police to her killer and there will be a trial. This book considers how Jane‘s death, and now this trial, have affected their family. It‘s fascinating. Now I plan to read Nelson‘s book about Jane.

So late in the game getting to this series. So wonderful. True and real and honest. Can‘t wait for the rest.

Set in a dystopian American future, Rainey and his wife are tucked away from the more severely affected areas of crumbling society in a small coastal town. But when a stranger comes to stay, the wider world follows, causing an event that sends Rainy to escape by boat. Enger is a fantastic writer, but his epic storytelling took precedence over building some of the relationships between characters. All the same, I was swept away and enjoyed it.

Interesting series of essays on the darker histories of beautiful things-silk, marble, make up, perfume, and more. The author is a confessed lover and collector of beautiful objects. For each chapter Kelleher shares a history of an item along with her own thoughts on the nature of desire, beauty, consumption, and the ethics of how these valued items came to be. This book is for folks that are fascinated by deep dives into the minutiae of stuff.

Crosley experiences loss upon loss within the same few months, the most devastating being the death of her best friend. Crosley‘s dexterity with language and phrasing is remarkable. She writes with wit and precision and depth about grief in a way that makes it more tangible, easier to grasp where she finds herself emotionally. She‘s honest, angry, isolated, and trying to piece together what brought her to such a standstill. It‘s riveting reading.

This novel is aimed at middle grade readers, but held me captive for sure. Jake charts his challenges with anorexia and OCD in this heartbreaking, but ultimately hopeful novel in verse. Jake and his grandmother share a love of musical theatre and reading. But he struggles to connect with friends his own age and fights off a very controlling voice in his head that is causing him great suffering. This beautiful book shares Jake's journey to healing.

2024 Recap!

I read 105 books. 22 nonfiction, 83 fiction. 43 audiobooks and 62 on Kindle or book. North Woods, Hope This finds You Well, and Maybe You Should Talk to Someone were standouts. I also fell in love with Martha Wells‘ Murderbot Diaries this year, which was a surprise, because 1) I don‘t usually love a series and 2) I am not a big sci-fi reader. My Top 15 Books for 2024 are below.

I‘d love to hear some of your favorites!

An author takes a break from her father‘s death bed and her husband‘s chronic illness to stay in a Best Western and write. What follows is a bizarre and thoroughly amusing fever dream of self examination and anticipatory grief in Death Valley. So, so weird. Really liked it.

This novel follows a couple, a painter and a writer, with two kids trying to pursue their creative endeavors in Los Angeles. Jane has spent 10 years writing a massive follow up to her first novel but things are not going to plan. Their life is spiraling out of control and desperation drives her to make some terrible decisions. The humor is dark, the issues surrounding race and class are interesting, and the characters are a hot mess.

Annie is an AI “Cuddle Bunny” robot that is virtually indistinguishable from a human, made to her owner‘s specifications. But as Annie learns more and asserts more autonomy, Doug is less pleased. And so is Annie. This book pissed me off a lot—as intended— and was an interesting look at gender roles, self determination, controlling relationships, and personal freedom. Very satisfying ending.

Such a fun gathering with my #NashvilleLittens! One of my favorite holiday traditions. 🎄🎅🏼 Thanks to Amber for my extravagant and lovely gifts!

A Christmas Memory was the shining star in this collection of three lovely holiday stories. Definitely my new favorite Christmas tale to revisit in future years. Based on Capote‘s childhood experiences in rural Alabama — particularly his relationship as a boy with his elderly cousin and best friend — the stories are funny, touching, and so delightful.

I‘ve still got time to read more books so this won‘t be my final count, but I did meet my Goodreads Challenge of 100 books, so that seemed worth celebrating. Apparently Covenant of Water was the longest book I read this year and it I think will also make my top 10. But I am not one to do a Best of the Year List until I actually reach the end of the year! So that‘s still to come. And if you‘re a Goodreads user, send me a friend request.

Longwinded but pretty good. Part one takes you through her childhood and to about age 30. It was pretty cool to hear about all the young artists crossing paths in L.A. before they were the household names they are today. And all the colorful relationships with men in her life. Cher has dyslexia, so for the audiobook Cher reads part of each chapter and the rest is narrated by Stephanie Block, the actress who won a Tony for playing Cher on Broadway.

Pretty good. Very, very steamy. (Maybe a smidge TMI sometimes.) I wish there had been a bit less sex and bit more conversation as the characters got to know each other. I wanted more emotional build up.

A little bookish murder novella.

Lucy, a young librarian, gets pulled into the life of a young boy who frequents the library, 10-year-old Ian. It turns into a rather far-fetched road trip adventure of sorts. There was a lot about reading and books and how important they are, so that was good. But it also really didn‘t quite hold up and was a bit of a mess in the middle. The characters‘ motives were never very clear and their relationship didn‘t quite develop.

It‘s hard to imagine any book living up to the incredible hype this book has sustained. While I wasn‘t quite as blown away as most folks, I definitely got onboard Jim‘s adventure. I do love to see story elements we all know through a completely different lens. Subversive and compelling.

Loved Small Things and then have made my way through Keegan's other books. Her writing is so spare and profound. Really love all her stuff.

I really loved I Have Always Lived in the Castle, but this one not so much. It was okay.

The premise was so promising. And it was definitely entertaining. But it just got more and more bonkers and went off the rails altogether. So weird.

A haunting, affecting book that will stick with me. The main character is a nameless woman who is kept in an underground bunker with 39 other women. Unlike the others, she was brought here as a young child and has no memories of the world outside this one room. They live a completely restricted, controlled life. It amounts to a treatise on what it means to be human and free. A consuming novel and such a singular and unusual reading experience.

After the death of his brother, Brinkley left his job at the New Yorker in search of something quieter, allowing the headspace to grieve and ponder. He took a job as a security guard at the Metropolitan Museum of Art and stayed for 10 years. This book documents his decade at The Met, how the art and his fellow guards changed him as he processed his brother‘s death and forged his own identity. It‘s really beautiful and interesting.

Your basic disaster story. A plane goes down in the ocean, trapping some survivors 200 feet under water. A rescue plan gets underway. Plenty of cliches and dramatic moments. Would probably be good as a movie. Entertaining enough.

I saw that this was on the Booker Prize list and just grabbed it without really knowing anything about it, which turned out to be a great thing. This took a minute to get rolling, but then I could not put it down. There‘s so much tension that drives the story - I was just really invested to see where it was headed. The relationships are complex and interesting and the novel takes a few surprising turns. A marvelous debut.

Not realizing this was a series, I read the third one recently and liked it enough to go back and read this one to start at the beginning. But it‘s just a lot of shallow, icky characters. Getting in the mind of a murderer kind of thing. And so I didn‘t feel very invested and I don‘t think I want to read any more of these.

A couple buys a creepy old house with a seemingly eternal basement and lots of unanswered questions about its past. A family shows up unannounced on the doorstep and a snowstorm keeps them around. It‘s an eerie psychological thriller that drags its feet a bit too much. Not quite my thing. But if you like a dread-inducing, twisty, creepy book, you‘ll probably enjoy it.

A delightful, charming book about a man who has an accident that upends his life, which compels Virgil to forge a new and circuitous path to a changed existence. It all takes place in a small dying midwestern town with several endearing quirky characters. It‘s funny and hopeful. Engaging, entertaining, old fashioned storytelling.

Most of this wasn‘t earth shattering news to me, but it was a good reminder that we all need to be intentional in cultivating better communication skills. Skills that allow us to actively listen to others, encourage deeper conversations, and let others know that they are valued and seen. It‘s a positive message and an easy read.

This thoughtful, erudite memoir has two parts: the grief she felt in losing her beloved father, and falling in love with her future wife. Schultz shares vulnerable, personal moments from both experiences, but then goes a step further to explore the more universal vicissitudes of love and grief. A bit academic even, but so insightful. Since these two experiences overlapped, she discusses finding a greater appreciation in the dualities of life.

There was a lot I liked, but then one particular plot point really dampened my enthusiasm. Got “the ick” as the young people say.

An enjoyable thriller. I did not realize it was third in a series. There was clearly some history between two private detectives, but Swanson clues the reader in on bits of the past, and it holds up fine as a standalone. I liked it enough that I‘ll go read the first one, The Kind Worth Killing.

Set in Ireland in 1994, The Coast Road follows two women coping with their unhappy marriages at a time when divorce is still illegal. Collette left her husband, but returned, and now her husband won‘t allow her access to her children and she lives in poverty. Izzy is frustrated and miserable, struggling to find autonomy within the confines of a marriage she cannot escape. Both are considering the high cost of personal freedom. An excellent debut.

A 54 year old woman, Rocky, returns with her husband and adult children to the same vacation spot they have visited for over 25 years. While at the beach, Rocky wanders through a series of old memories, family traditions, ponderings of the past, and questions about the future. She tackles all aspects of womanhood—menopause, parenting, misogyny, childbirth, marriage, miscarriage, aging parents, sex. A lovely book with honesty, warmth, and humor.