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The Secret Lives of Introverts
The Secret Lives of Introverts: Inside Our Hidden World | Jenn Granneman
Is there a hidden part of you that no one else sees? Do you have a vivid inner world of thoughts and emotions that your peers and loved ones cant seem to access? Have you ever been told youre too "quiet, "shy, "boring, or "awkward? Are your habits and comfort zones questioned by a society that doesnt seem to get the real you? If so, you might be an introvert. On behalf of those who have long been misunderstood, rejected, or ignored, fellow introvert Jenn Granneman writes a compassionate vindication--exploring, discovering, and celebrating the secret inner world of introverts that, only until recently, has begun to peek out and emerge into the larger social narrative. Drawing from scientific research, in-depth interviews with experts and other introverts, and her personal story, Granneman reveals the clockwork behind the introverts mind--and why so many people get it wrong initially. Whether you are a bona fide introvert, an extrovert anxious to learn how we tick, or a curious ambivert, these revelations will answer the questions youve always had: * Whats going on when introverts go quiet? * What do introvert lovers need to flourish in a relationship? * How can introverts find their own brand of fulfillment in the workplace? * Do introverts really have a lot to say--and how do we draw it out? * How can introverts mine their rich inner worlds of creativity and insight? * Why might introverts party on a Friday night but stay home alone all Saturday? * How can introverts speak out to defend their needs? With other myths debunked and truths revealed, The Secret Lives of Introverts is an empowering manifesto that guides you toward owning your introversion by working with your nature, rather than against it, in a world where you deserve to be heard.
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CaitlinByTheBook
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Mehso-so

Finished this book a few weeks ago and was somewhat disappointed. Overall, it had some interesting insights, but much of it was data and info gathered from other sources and summarized. Still, I took some notes and had a few good discussions about it since it was a buddy read with a friend.

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TheRiehlDeal
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Pickpick

I'm glad I read this book! This was a really informative self help book that gives extroverts insight into what introverts have to deal with on a regular basis. The author is an introvert herself, so with the research and interviews and polls, it feels like a breath of fresh air to know you're not alone and that you're being understood.

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TheRiehlDeal
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1. The Secret Lives of Introverts by Jenn Granneman
2. I have not read any witch books yet. Although I do have Hex by Thomas Olde Heuvelt. Any other recommendations of witch books that aren't romance?
3. I watched the first Saw movie last weekend. It's been awhile since I've seen it, and I really liked it.

#weekendreads
@rachelsbrittain

WhatWouldJaneDo We Ride Upon Sticks by Quan Barry is an awesome non-romance witch book! 4y
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TheRiehlDeal
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#WondrousWednesday @Eggs

1. Informative and self-help.
2. My phone
3. 1912

Eggs Thanks for joining in 🤗📚🤗. Hmmm 1912-Titanic? 4y
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JoScho
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gradcat Um, yummm...I just want to swim in those drinks...they look beautiful! 😂 4y
JoScho @gradcat I know! I loved the colors ❤️ 4y
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NatalieR
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I have been aware that I‘m an introvert for a VERY long time. This book certainly validated my preferences regarding social situations. It also deepened my understanding of some of my tendencies. For example, I prefer meaningful conversations compared to idle chit chat. I will also go out of my way to avoid casual interactions, with neighbors for instance. The book throughly addresses work environments and dating. #MountTBR

Djspens This introvert avoids neighbors, too! 5y
LauraJ If you haven‘t read Susan Cain‘s Quiet, it‘s a good companion read. 5y
NatalieR @Djspens 👏😆 Glad I‘m not the only one!! 5y
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NatalieR @LauraJ Thanks for suggesting. I‘ve read and enjoyed it! 5y
TheDaysGoBy I just keep adding more and more books about being an introvert to my TBR 😂 Guess I just love reading about the things I do and hearing from other introverts 5y
Tamra I think I need to explore this - I am the same, but I feel extroverted with good friends. 5y
Trashcanman Yuppers, I'm lonely I'm a room full of people or by myself. The latter is at least quiet. Plus most people don't really want to talk about things that matter. Idle, banal chit chat just makes me want to kill myself even more than I already do. 5y
NatalieR @TheDaysGoBy I‘m right there with you! 😆 5y
NatalieR @Tamra The author does a good job talking about this. She explains the spectrum of introvert traits. 5y
NatalieR @Trashcanman I definitely relate. Except instead of wanting to kill myself, I just want to run away into the woods. 🏃🏻‍♀️🌲 5y
Trashcanman @NatalieR sorry if that was a bit too much 5y
NatalieR @Trashcanman No apologies needed. 🙂 My husband struggles with his mental health, so I‘ve heard some pretty intense things from him. You won‘t get any judgement from me. Only support and wishes for wellness. 😉 5y
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PagesOfAnOldSoul
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This book! 🐠 As an introvert this book was such a pleasure to read. The author discusses the power of introversion, tips for how to create safe and comfortable social and work lives for introverts, and even gives insight into the introvert world for the extroverts reading the book. It‘s a great read for any introvert or for any extravert trying to learn a bit more about the introverts in their life. 💙 #TheSecretLivesOfIntroverts #JennGranneman

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Gezemice
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This is not a book - but I bought this on a T-shirt for my kid for Christmas.
She immediately took it to her room. 😊

#quotsyJan19 #introvert

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Tarlia
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A bit of reading and lunch while waiting for my car to get a long overdue wash and vacuum.

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MemoirsForMe
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I must be a true INFJ because a lot of these things make me crazy! 😱

What fun to meet many fellow introverts and Advocates! Thx @JoScho 🤗💕
#introvertorextrovert

JoScho Thanks for sharing. I love seeing everyone‘s posts. I never imagined this many people would participate-I love it 😍 7y
saresmoore INFJs are the rarest type, but I think most of us are on Litsy! 🙌😁 7y
MemoirsForMe @JoScho 🤗🙌🏻 7y
MemoirsForMe @saresmoore That's so funny. Yay for us, the rare bunch! 😁🙌🏻 7y
PurpleyPumpkin Oh wow, most of these drive me crazy too! Good thing we Littens have each other for support. We all get it. 🙌🏽 7y
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Librarybelle
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I joined in too, doing the free personality test on 16personalities.com . My first time receiving this combination, and some statements were spot on, and others left me scratching my head. However, I know I‘m 88% introvert. #introvertorextrovert

JoScho Most people have been mostly introverts. We are in good company here on Litsy 😊 7y
SilversReviews I think we readers are in the same category. I am 75% introvert. 7y
Andrew65 @SilversReviews Snap, I‘m 75% introvert too. 7y
Librariana I'm an ISFJ-T as well 😊 7y
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JoRead
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Ha! About 3 or 4 yrs ago I took this test and I was a INFJ. I retook it tonight and turns out I'm an ISTJ! Reading the description of the ISTJ made me realize that it's a wonder I still have friends because it sounds like we are robots with no feelings. But then I realize Hermione Granger and I share the same personality type and everything was right in the world again 😅🤓
#IntrovertOrExtrovert
@JoScho

JoScho In good company! 7y
TrishB I‘m ISTJ 😁 I make the same excuse too!! 7y
JoRead @TrishB Great minds are alike...or something like that 😄 7y
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JoRead @JoScho 😎 7y
YouReadMyEyes I am Professor McGonagall - this makes me so happy 😝 7y
sammisho I'm Tonks! 7y
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alisahar
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Kristy_K I‘ve done this before. :-/ 7y
alisahar Glad I‘m not the only one @Kristy_K (edited) 7y
Reviewsbylola That would totally be me. 7y
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shanebeth
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having a great weekend of introverting. #litsypartyofone

suvata 😇 7y
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bloodytears1986
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Really excited about this book. Found it while working at Amazon and had to deal with it at work. Went and bought a copy off Amazon. Only couple pages in and it's awesome already!!

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Tamra
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😜

julesG 😂😂 7y
Aleida Love this! 7y
BarbaraTheBibliophage 🤣🤣🤣 Truth 7y
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Cathythoughts Love this ❤️ 7y
Alwaysbeenaloverofbooks 🤣😂❤️ 7y
Yeah_I_Read 🙌🙌🙌 7y
jfalkens 🙋‍♀️🙋‍♀️😂 7y
vivastory Truth!! 7y
youneverarrived Haha love it ❤️ 7y
Izai.Amorim 😂😂😂 7y
LeahBergen 😆😆 7y
Buddys_Momma So True!!!❤️❤️👏🏽 7y
EllieDottie Yes!! ❤️❤️❤️ 7y
SilversReviews Love it. ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️ 7y
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Yossarian
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When the town is having a "Sidewalk Sale," but the book store owner doesn't want to go outside.

LauraBrook 😆😆❤️ 7y
bookwrm526 I love it 7y
melbeautyandbooks Love it! 7y
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saresmoore 🤔 7y
mandapants Ha! 7y
EllieDottie Nice!!! 7y
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ness
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