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Monogamy
Monogamy | Sue Miller
A brilliantly insightful novel, engrossing and haunting, about marriage, love, family, and heartache, from New York Times bestselling author Sue Miller. Graham and Annie have been married for nearly thirty years. A golden couple, their effortless devotion has long been the envy of their circle of friends and acquaintances. Graham is a bookseller, and a large, gregarious man with large appetites--a lover of life, curious, eager to please, and the convivial host of frequent, lively parties at his and Annie's comfortable house in Cambridge. Annie, more reserved and introspective, is a photographer. After a six-year lull, she is about to have her first gallery show and is worried that the best years of her career may be behind her. They have two children; Sarah, the adult child of Annie and Graham, lives in San Francisco, and Lucas, Graham's son with his first wife Frieda, works in New York. Though Frieda is an integral part of this far-flung, loving family, Annie is confident in the knowledge that she is Graham's last and greatest love. When Graham suddenly dies, Annie is lost without this man whose enormous presence seemed to dominate their lives together. What is the point of going on, she wonders, without him? Soon after Graham's death, as she is trying to pick up the pieces of her life, Annie makes a shocking discovery. Shortly before his death, Graham had been unfaithful, involved in an impulsive, brief affair he was trying to end. Confronted by his infidelity, she spirals into darkness wondering if she truly knew the man who loved her. A tender, timeless novel that probes the heart of every committed relationship--how well do we know, can we ever know, the people we love--Monogamy is a mesmerizing portrait of a family and the secrets they keep from one another. As Sue Miller contemplates the imponderable, she reflects on the transformative power of memory, and the triumph of love over death itself. Beautiful, wise, and moving, Monogamy confirms her place as one of the most distinguished and extraordinary writers at work today.
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CarolynM
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Thank you, Nerissa💕 I decided to keep this one to open on Christmas Day, then forgot to post it🫢🙄 I am very grateful though. Hope you had a good day😘

BarbaraBB Merry Christmas Carolyn! I really liked that book! ❤️ 4mo
Rissreads I hope it brought you some joy ♥️ 4mo
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these_dreams
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It‘s been a minute, Litsy. It‘s nice to be back.

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youneverarrived
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Mehso-so

I have a feeling this will be one of those books that in a few years I won‘t remember much about. The definition of a so-so read for me; not a bad book but nothing stood out either, I didn‘t love/connect with any of the characters, I liked the writing but at times it was meandering and felt like the author was making it up as she went along. I usually love a quiet, reflective sort of novel but this didn‘t quite hit the mark. ⭐️⭐️⭐️

Cathythoughts I‘ve started it a few times on kindle .. but never kept going with it 🤷🏼‍♀️ 2y
Cathythoughts Lovely picture of you Katie 👍🏻 2y
youneverarrived @Cathythoughts there were times I almost stopped reading it too, and thank you 😘 2y
BarbaraBB I really enjoyed it but I can see that it doesn‘t resonate with everyone - I am much older than you of course 🙃🥰 2y
youneverarrived @BarbaraBB it just felt a bit too meandering for me. I know a few people on here enjoyed it too 🤍 2y
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TrishB
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Thought this was a really sad and thoughtful book. I think you do get to a certain age (even without the losing a partner) where you do look back and worry looking forward.
There was love and all the usual dynamics of messy family life. I really enjoyed it.
Thanks Helen 😘

squirrelbrain Glad you enjoyed it! Sounds like one I would like too…I can‘t remember if I have it on Kindle already. 🤔 2y
Megabooks This is a great book! 2y
Cinfhen I liked it a lot but I thought it meandered in places but still a thoughtful read. Great review 2y
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KatieB I loved this too. I thought it was a ‘quiet‘ book but one in which I was totally engrossed. It reminded me a bit of 2y
TrishB @squirrelbrain I think you‘ll like it 🤞🏻 2y
TrishB @Megabooks I really enjoyed it 👍🏻 2y
TrishB @Cinfhen 👍🏻 it was a thoughtful read. 2y
TrishB @KatieB thanks- haven‘t read that one. 2y
Cathythoughts I have this on kindle ( I think 🤔).. sounds good 👍🏻 2y
BarbaraBB I enjoyed this one too. 2y
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Cinfhen
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The more books I read the less patience I have for meandering. Not to say I didn‘t find this book compelling and absorbing but I did feel pulled along at certain points. This is the story of Annie & Graham & their 30 year marriage. Miller beautifully writes the ups & downs of a decades long union with all the highs & lows that life throws at you. It‘s quiet but mighty. Full of sorrow and thoughtfulness. Excellent audio narration by the author♥️

TrishB Sounds interesting 👍🏻 looking forward to it. (edited) 2y
KarenUK I loved this on audio too…. 🎧💕these meandering books are totally my jam! 😂😉 (edited) 2y
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Cinfhen
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I was meant to grab dinner with a friend tonight, but last minute cancellation has me picking up this audio 🎧#Hoopla

TrishB This was one of my birthday gifts this week 👍🏻 2y
AmyG It‘s so good. Enjoy. 2y
Suet624 ❤️❤️❤️this photo. 2y
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Megabooks Loved this! 2y
Cinfhen Im LOVING this book @Megabooks @Suet624 @AmyG @TrishB it‘s hitting me SO HARD 😭#GutPunch 2y
TrishB Oh good 😁 looking forward to it! 2y
KarenUK @Megabooks me too! 2y
Centique You always have the best flowers! 😍 2y
Cinfhen Thanks! I take my flowers very seriously xx @Centique (edited) 2y
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fredthemoose
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I really liked this. It‘s a story of graham and Annie and their solid if imperfect relationship, and their relationships with their children and exes. Several blurbs seem to focus on the revelation of an affair after Graham‘s sudden death, but this is about so much more than that. I found it really engrossing.

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Megabooks
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I expected this to look at a marriage and fidelity, but instead I got a dynamic portrait of a family brought together by the life and death of Graham, a gregarious bookseller with a wife, an ex-wife, and one adult child with each. Graham was a connector of many and each person deals with their grief and unexpected revelations differently, but this book showed how there can be pain and renewal after a great loss. Thanks for the nudge @BarbaraBB 💜

Crazeedi Ooo, this sounds interesting Meg! How are things with you? And your family? Sorry I've been away from my friends here so long, sending a big hug!🥰 3y
Megabooks @Crazeedi thanks dear friend!! The biggest news is that I got a dog!! She‘s a hound mix, small, about a year old. Named her Molly. 💜🐶 I can‘t remember if we‘re connected on Instagram, if you‘re on it, but I have more pictures over there. I‘m megabooksreads. Otherwise we‘re chugging along! Still three disabled people, but we‘re making it work. 😁 How are you and hubby?? I‘ve missed you!! Sending big hugs back!! 🤗 3y
Megabooks @TheAromaofBooks this is my actual #bookspin!! 🎉 3y
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BarbaraBB Wonderful review, you describe it so well. We all could use a bit of Graham in our lives 😃 3y
Megabooks @BarbaraBB thank you! 🥰 so true re: Graham! 3y
TheAromaofBooks Woohoo!!! 3y
Hooked_on_books I really liked this one. It took me by surprise in the best way. 3y
Megabooks @Hooked_on_books agree. It surprised me as well. I think it was worth the six years she struggled with it. 3y
CarolynM Great review. I keep hearing good things about this book. Stacked. 3y
Megabooks @CarolynM thanks! I think you‘d enjoy it. 👍🏻💜 3y
Cinfhen Good to know! I own the e-book 3y
Megabooks @Cinfhen it‘s a good one! 3y
KarenUK Loved this one too 💕 3y
Megabooks @KarenUK I really connected with the characters. I‘m glad you loved it, too! 3y
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BarbaraBB
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Monogamy offers a perceptive view into the long lasting marriage of Annie and Graham. Bound by love, fun and understanding, surrounded by family, careers and a wonderful home: they have it all, and a lot to loose. Sue Miller describes love, grief and anger like James Salter would and I loved it.

#pop21 #characterwithmydreamjob

squirrelbrain Great review Barbara! 3y
AmyG I loved this book, too. 3y
Cinfhen Gorgeous photo / lovely review #stacked 3y
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Megabooks You finally pushed me into the “read this” column, and I looked and the hardcover was only $15 on Amazon, so I went for it! 3y
BarbaraBB @Megabooks I hope it will be worth the expense. Might be a #borrownotbuy for you 🤞🏽😘 3y
KarenUK Loved this too…. 💕👯‍♀️ 3y
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BarbaraBB
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#WeeklyForecast 38/21

I have no idea if I‘ll get to these, I‘m not sure what I‘m in the mood for. I‘ve been struggling with Nightbitch all weekend (not in the picture) even though it‘s totally my kind of book. Maybe I should read a bit outside my comfort zone once I‘ve finished that one. Or a classic? Or the #NYRBBookClub choice? Not sure! We‘ll see!

Suet624 The top 2 are pretty if that helps you make your decision. 🤪 3y
BarbaraBB @Suet624 It does! And I think you liked Monogamy a lot, didn‘t you? 3y
Suet624 Nope. Never read it. 3y
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Cinfhen Reading slumps suck, but they eventually pass… hope you find something that really grabs your attention 💖 3y
BarbaraBB @Cinfhen I will! I never have real slumps. It‘s just those challenges sometimes wear me out. You‘ll know what I mean 😃 3y
squirrelbrain I‘m having a bit of a slump too and, like you, I never have *real* slumps. Hopefully we‘ll both find our #readingmojo again soon! 3y
Megabooks So sorry about your mini slump. 💜 I always read an old fav when I feel myself sliding into one. I‘ve been really lucky this year so far, but in the past, that‘s helped. 3y
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BittersweetBooks
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It‘s only when you grow up that you learn you can love what‘s ugly too🪞

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erzascarletbookgasm
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A difficult book for me to rate. Monogamy is a quiet, perceptive portrait of marriage..and relationships. It also explores grief, memory. Some parts felt dragged-on, and my biggest niggle is the narration that often tell more than show. I know some friends here loved it, but I couldn‘t wholeheartedly invest in it.

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amyf0x
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Graham and Annie have a long and happy marriage, but it‘s not without its many complications — including children, past spouses, infidelity, and death.

Read February 27 - March 4
Rated 4/5 ⭐️
Book 15/60

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Soubhiville
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A family drama which includes many points of view, but mainly that of Annie and mostly about her marriage to Graham. I think a more appropriate title might have been “on love”, as the book focuses on many different kinds of relationships, not just monogamy.

I really liked this, and the audio is read by the author, who is a very good narrator.

AmyG I really enjoyed this. I love her writing. 3y
mom2bugnbee @Amiable I just learned that she is a BU alum! Ever read her? I haven't. ❤️🤍 3y
Soubhiville @AmyG I really liked it too. I think I‘ve read more by her, but Goodreads says there are two authors by her name, so not sure which Sue Miller I‘ve read before 🤷‍♀️ 3y
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AmyG Ha! I didn‘t know there were 2. 3y
Amiable @mom2bugnbee I don‘t think I have! And I didn‘t know that about her. 3y
Hooked_on_books I really liked this, too. She was wonderful reading the audio, which I know doesn‘t always happen with authors. 3y
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JackieGreco
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This book was an interesting view on marriage and the aftermath of an affair. I found this book to be a bit simplistic but enjoyed the story.

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Chelsea.Poole
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Ending this year of reading on a high note. Sue Miller is one of those magicians, able to spin compelling narratives out of everyday life. Deep love and affection for a significant other is an amazing gift in life. This novel explores that connection.

AmyG I love her writing. It was such a pleasure to read her book. 3y
wildwoodreads Totally off topic but I love your plant. What kind is it? 3y
Chelsea.Poole @megzlynn it‘s a rubber plant 🪴 peperomia 😊 3y
wildwoodreads @Chelsea.Poole Thanks! I‘m hunting new plants for my library and I fell in love with it! 3y
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Well-ReadNeck
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Oh how I‘ve missed Sue Miller novels. This deep dive into marriage, family, memory, grief, and live is absolutely brilliant. #netgalley

AmyG I felt the exact same way. I describe this feeling of reading her work as...slipping on an old, comfy pair of slippers. I loved this book. (edited) 4y
Cathythoughts Sounds great 4y
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ReadingEnvy
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This novel felt so much like it was written by James Salter - if you like stories of lifelong relationships with all the ups and downs, or the impact of one death on the lives branching off from those LTRs, this is a novel for you.

ReadingEnvy It's set in Connecticut but still somehow people have live an upper middle class existence while owning a bookstore and practicing a non lucrative photography career... A little suspension of disbelief, shall we say. But I enjoyed it.

Pub dates keep changing on me which means I read this book early - it comes out September 8th from harpercollins
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AmyG
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Excellent book. The story of Annie and Graham, their daughter, his son (and wife) and his ex-wife Freida. Their lives together, separately, with each other....a devastating loss and how they continue on with their lives. So many feelings for this story. Miller sure knows how to write her characters in a way that makes the reader feel he/she knows them. Loved this book. For now, my favorite of 2020. This was an ARC...pub date 9/8.

TrishB Stacked, such a great review 👍🏻 4y
AmyG @TrishB Thanks,Trish. I never want to say too much as I don‘t want to give anything away. 4y
Josee.lit.a.lu.et.lira Thanks. Same as @TrishB ☺️ 4y
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KarenUK Definitely stacked.... 👍 4y
BarbaraBB Me too! #stacked 4y
Cathythoughts Sounds great! Stacked 4y
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Rhondareads
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It‘s been years since Sue Miller‘s last novel so excited to read her latest.Sounds like a bookI will sink into family marriage &as a bonus the husband in this story is a bookseller love books with books as a theme.Thanks to @HarperCollins for my advanced copy.📚💕