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How to be Good
How to be Good | Nick Hornby
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How to be Good is Nick Hornby's hilarious bestselling novel on life, love and charity 'I am in a car park in Leeds when I tell my husband I don't want to be married to him any more. . . ' London GP Katie Carr always thought she was a good person. With her husband David making a living as 'The Angriest Man in Holloway', she figured she could put up with anything. Until, that is, David meets DJ Goodnews and becomes a good person too. A far-too-good person who starts committing crimes of charity like taking in the homeless and giving their kids' toys away. Suddenly Katie's feeling very bad about herself, and thinking that if charity begins at home, then maybe its time to move. . . This laugh-out-loud novel, from the bestselling author of About a Boy and High Fidelity, will have you gripped from start to finish and will appeal to fans of David Nicholls and Jonathan Coe, as well as readers in need of a moral compass everywhere. 'Pins you in your armchair ad won't let go . . . How to be Good? How to be bloody marvellous, more like' Mail on Sunday 'It does exactly what it says on the cover. Hornby's prose is artful and effortless, his spiky wit as razored as a number-two cut' Independent 'The writing is so funny, and the set-pieces so brilliant...Hornby's best book since Fever Pitch' Lynn Truss, The Times
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GidgetsTreasures75
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4-29-20: My 34th finished book of 2020! 🌟🌟🌟 #Howtobegood #nickhornby 👍🏼📖#️⃣3️⃣4️⃣

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lynneamch
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This book #AboutaDoctor reminds me why I love Nick Hornby. Angst & insight stirred with sarcasm, wit, irreverance. Dr. Katie Carr searches for meaning in her life & discovers "It is the act of reading itself I miss, the opportunity to retreat further and further from the world until I have found some space . . . hearing something other than the chatter chatter chatter in my head." Aah! #MagnificentMarch @Alwaysbeenaloverofbooks @OriginalCyn620

OriginalCyn620 Love Nick Hornby! 5y
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Buechersuechtling
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Follow-up: I totally agree with @Sweettartlaura that this book shouldn‘t be claiming it‘s hilarious because it definitely isn‘t. I‘m sure that‘s why most people can‘t connect with it. They expect Hornby‘s usual sense of humour but it‘s missing here.

It ends up in self-reflection without offering solutions. Which has nothing to do with the hilariousness the publisher assigns to it in order to sell it. Classical case of belied expectations.

Sweettartlaura Glad to know it‘s not just me 💁🏻‍♀️. But then, looking at the low score, it‘s DEFINITELY not just me 😜 5y
Buechersuechtling @Sweettartlaura 😂 I‘m sure it‘s not. 5y
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Buechersuechtling
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I like how Esther Schweins voices Katie, who is an authentic character to me. Katie isn‘t exaggerating but tries to consider things balancedly. I liked that. And I could understand that she wishes someone else would make some of her decisions so much.

But the audiobook production was just badly made. You often hear the reader breathe and the pauses in the narration were too long. Maybe they mark new chapters but for me it just doesn‘t fit.

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Buechersuechtling
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Pickpick

I can see why people don‘t think it‘s a good or a “typical” Hornby since it‘s changing towards the end. All gets middle-class and common again. “Revolution” and “Hippie-time“ is over. But for me that‘s the authentic spark in the book that will linger in my head for a while. The book doesn‘t point with its finger. In the best case it makes you think about own notions and own lifestyle and if there is more room for a change.

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Buechersuechtling
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Obviously I haven‘t yet reached the point were the story turns from “Like” to “Meh”. I‘m still intrigued by the concept. Hornby is holding up a mirror to those who live a middle-class life and are social, tolerant, and for equality.

And well, nothing new … It‘s a huge difference between _saying_ to have this attitude(s) and acting appropriately. Goodnews is a neat character to clarify that.

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Buechersuechtling
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Giving this audiobook a try. After my last complex read I need a light intermezzo.

Also with #StormfrontSabine outside of all of my windows I still don‘t feel enough at ease to continue Dr. Alexander‘s journey through his near death experience.

So, #LongLiveLibraries, I kind of blindly pulled a not-so-asking audiobook out of my online library‘s bag.

As I see @Moony and @Sarah83 were no huge fans, so maybe I should hold down my expectations.

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Moony
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Mehso-so

So I finished it. I was so curious about the book because I like Hornby. But this wasn't "my" book. On the first half, the book has many cool thoughts and its a rerun. The second half was boring. Sorry. #12littens12books

Sarah83 Quite my opinion 🙃 5y
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Moony
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After the last day (it was an absolutly fail) today is good! I went 10.000 steps and finished my daily goal of active minutes. And my To-Do-List got smaller. 😁😎😎😎

So everyday is a new day. That's an important wisedom.

#bfc #bookfitnesschallenge

I wish you so much motivation: @wanderinglynn @JulesG @Cocoreads @Imabusybee @LibrarianJen @Laurenslibrary
@Reecaspieces
@britt_brooke

Reecaspieces Awesome 👏 5y
Reecaspieces Awesome 👏 5y
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britt_brooke Excellent!! 5y
CocoReads Great job! 🎉💪👏 5y
akckitty That's so good!! 5y
wanderinglynn Great job! 🙌🏻 But yesterday wasn‘t a fail. The only way you fail is to give up & quit. You didn‘t quit. Today was a new day & you rocked it! We all have down days. 💜 We need down days to rest & recuperate, so don‘t be too hard on yourself for those days. You‘re doing great! 5y
LibrarianJen 💖💖💖 5y
imabusybee 👏🏻👏🏻 5y
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Moony
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Good morning It's reading time.

#12Littens12books #catsoflitsy

blank Your kitty doesn't look ready for morning yet! 5y
Moony @laurenslibrary yes he stood up three hours later. Now he is playing outdoor. 5y
Buechersuechtling Oh, cool. Your post reminds me that I need to read this some day, too. 5y
Moony @Buechersuechtling wenn ich nicht gerade Bienen hinterher jage, komme ich heute villeicht auch noch zum Lesen 😂😎🐝 5y
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Moony
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My next #12littens12books arrived. And I'm very excited to read it because I love Nick Hornby. 😍

Sarah83 Hope you like it 🙈 5y
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Madison91
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Panpan

I found this book really odd. I couldn‘t love the characters, I couldn‘t love the story line. It was not for me.

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LittleBug
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Mehso-so

Can‘t say I liked this one. The title seems to suggest it‘s about how one can be good, but to me it read more like a parody on the lengths we go to be happy. The MC is whiny and dissatisfied, is she supposed to be a caricature of modern day western people? The one redeeming thing is the fact that the book did get me thinking. About how I can help people around me be happier and isn‘t that a very nice way to be good?

#12Littens12Books

Sarah83 😂👍 6y
imyril Spot on. This book put me off reading Hornby completely. 6y
LittleBug @imyril Glad I‘m not the only one!😉 6y
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yourfavouritemixtape
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Mehso-so

It‘s #12littens12books time again! Will keep the review for the notebook.

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ju.ca.no
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Pickpick

This book for #12littens12books was definitely a read outside my comfort zone. It does cover interesting questions though - what does it take to be good?
And if someone can explain the last sentence to me I‘d be thankful! I am not sure how to understand that at all...

Sarah83 I don't even remember the last sentence. 😂 6y
ju.ca.no @Sarah83 haha well it puzzled me so much😂 6y
ju.ca.no @Sarah83 Es ist ein Funken, den ich hegen und pflegen will; das stotternde Lebenszeichen einer leeren Batterie; aber genau im falschen Moment fällt mein Blick auf den Nachthimmel hinter David, und ich kann sehen, dass dort draußen alles leer ist. - heißt das jetzt dass sie der Ehe doch keine Chance mehr geben kann? Oder erkennt sie dass es wo anders auch nicht besser ist? Oder hat das was mit Gott zu tun? Ich verstehs nicht.... (edited) 6y
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Sarah83 @ju.ca.no ich war mir da auch nicht so ganz sicher 😂 6y
ju.ca.no @Sarah83 ich find der Satz passt nicht ganz zum Buch, sonst ist immer klar was gemeint ist, aber das verwirrt mich jetzt... sehr unbefriedigendes Ende. Wohl absichtlich aber trotzdem😅 6y
Sarah83 @ju.ca.no wir können ja ne Abstimmung machen 😂 6y
ju.ca.no @Sarah83 haha ja gute Idee🤣 6y
Sarah83 Bin gespannt, was die anderen sagen. Aber ich denke, deine erste Interpretation kommt dem ganzen schon nahe 6y
ju.ca.no @Sarah83 mir wär die zweite lieber, heile welt find ich immer besser? 6y
Sarah83 Ich definitiv auch aber das kann man sich ja leider nicht immer aussuchen 6y
ju.ca.no @Sarah83 wenn es so vage ist schon ein bisschen😇 6y
Sarah83 Das stimmt 😂 6y
Buechersuechtling @ju.ca.no Ich hab über den Satz auch sinniert. Ich hab mich entschieden, ihn eher globaler zu verstehen. Zum einen, wie du schon sagst „Woanders ist es auch nicht besser.“, aber zum anderen auch ein bisschen pessimistisch à la „Egal, wie sehr ich mich anstrenge »to be good«, am Ende ist da doch nur Leere.“ Also die Frage, was die eigenen Weltverbesserungsanstrengungen (für das große Ganze) überhaupt bringen. @Sarah83 5y
Buechersuechtling @ju.ca.no (1/2) Ihre und Davids Ehe hatte ich beim Lesen des Satzes gar nicht so auf dem Schirm, aber sein kann das natürlich auch. – Und ja, ich bin deiner Meinung, er fällt ein bisschen aus dem „Rahmen“, den der Rest des Buches vorgibt. Ich denke, Hornby wollte ein offenes Ende erzwingen, und zeigen „Wie man‘s macht, ist‘s falsch“ – oder halt richtig –, @Sarah83 (edited) 5y
Buechersuechtling @ju.ca.no (2/2) aber vielleicht auch, dass „mehr Besitz“ mehr Verantwortung nach sich zieht (Instandhaltung des Hauses, z. B.) und man nicht einfach sagen kann: „Ihr seid reich, also gebt tunlichst alles, was über dem Durchschnittseinkommen liegt, ab.“, wie Goodnews und David das ja auch mal andenken. Aber vielleicht interpretiere ich damit auch zu viel da rein. ???‍♀️ @Sarah83 5y
ju.ca.no @Buechersuechtling das mit dem erzwingen klingt für mich ganz gut, so am Schluss noch schnell einen Satz damit das ein offenes Ende wird? 5y
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ju.ca.no
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Next up! A book for #12littens12books 😊

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Sarah83
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Mehso-so

#12Littens12books #13in3

Finally finished this book today. It's hard for me to rate it, because it was so different what of I thought it would be like. 🤔
It's about a family and their ordinary life. It's about what you want your life to be like, it's about anger, hate and loss.
And it wasn't funny. I think that's my main problem. I thought it would be more like 'high fidelity'

I hope the other Littens like it more than me. 🙈 If not, sorry 🙈

MommyWantsToReadHerBook We read this in our discussion group years ago and enjoyed the themes in the book. I agree it's not as funny as some of his other novels. 6y
Sarah83 @MommyWantsToReadHerBook it is definitely a good book, but you know, how it feels like, if a book isn't achieving your expectations. 🙄 6y
Moony I'm looking forward :) 6y
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Sarah83
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Started this book for our bookclub #12littens12books

Moony 😎👏 ohhh da freue ich mich. Ich liebe Nick Hornby 6y
Sarah83 @Moony wobei ich noch nicht so ganz klar komme mit dem Buch 😉 6y
Moony Geht mir ja mit dem gewählten Buch auch so. (Also mir gefällt es mal mehr mal weniger, aber ich zweifle ob es euch gefällt) Ich tendiere aber trotzdem dazu es euch zu schicken. 6y
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Sarah83 @Moony manchmal muss man auch was lesen, was man sonst nicht liest. 😊 6y
julesG Same here. Ich hab das Gefühl, das falsche Buch ausgesucht zu haben. 😵 6y
Sarah83 @julesG ich glaube eh nicht, dass man bei allen den Geschmack treffen kann. Dafür lesen wir alle zu unterschiedlich 😉 6y
ju.ca.no @moony @julesG ich denke auch, dass es gerade reizvoll ist etwas neues auszuprobieren! Selbst wenn es einem dann nicht gefällt ist es trotzdem spannend zu lesen, was die anderen sich dabei gedacht haben? 6y
Sarah83 @ju.ca.no definitiv. Meins ist auch nicht schlecht, hatte mir nur was anderes vorgestellt. 😉 6y
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LittleMummyMe
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I got a book seat amongst my Mothers Day gifts...
Happy Mothers Day to all the Litsy mums 😘

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LittleMummyMe
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My next book to be added to my reading list...
The first few paragraphs have me thinking this should be an enjoyable book. 📚

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sammisho
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Mehso-so

Dry, sarcastic humor isn't really my thing. I also don't particularly enjoy reading about infidelity and crumbling marriages.

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sammisho
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I get some serious reading done during meets.

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helmeeyo
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Mehso-so

Not my kind of book.

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MrBook
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#TBRtemptation post 1! Katie Carr is trying to be the best person possible, especially a good mom. Then she finds herself in a parking lot having slept with another man. It'll transform David, her husband, from the town's self-styled angriest man into a good person in the Gospels sense thanks to meeting Dr. Goodness. Will their marriage and family survive? #blameLitsy #blameMrBook 😎

Cortg Love the cover! 7y
tapgurl Wow that's a great cover! 7y
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GoneFishing
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What you don't catch a glimpse of on your wedding day- because how could you?- is that some days you will hate your spouse, that you will look at him and regret ever exchanging a word with him, let alone a ring and bodily fluids.

MiyakoBunny 🤣🤣🤣 7y
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GoneFishing
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I don't believe in Heaven or anything. But I want to be the kind of person that qualifies for entry anyway.

Cathythoughts Good idea 7y
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GoneFishing
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The plain state of being human is dramatic enough for anyone; you don't need to be a heroin addict or a performance poet to experience extremity. You just have to love someone.

BibliOphelia These Hornsby quotes are like a Master Class. Love them! 7y
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Sweettartlaura
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Mehso-so

I think there are two problems with this book:
1. It's sold as "hilarious" and it isn't - it's quite serious
2. It challenges the reader in unsettling ways, with no kind of resolution.

I suppose you could say in these ways Hornby holds up a crystal-clear mirror to real life. But it doesn't make the reader feel any better to think that way. It's just depressing.

Not what I expected from Nick Hornby. Not at all ?

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Sweettartlaura
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Reviewsbylola I read this so long ago but I remember enjoying it. 8y
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Reagan
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Panpan

Whiskers likes this book more than I did. By a lot. I'd never read Nick Hornby before and this was a pretty big letdown. There were a few funny moments, but not enough. I surprised myself that I bothered finishing it. That's one off of my massive TBR pile though and I bet it might work for Read Harder.

Pemberley I loved "High Fidelity," but I struggled with this one too. Nick Hornby is a little dry for me. 8y
jessicarenee I liked some of this others better. A long way down. Juliet, naked. And funny girl. 8y
Zelma This is my least favorite Hornby that I've read. I actually prefer his nonfiction much more than his fiction, but this is one of his weakest novels, in my opinion. 8y
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Buechersuechtling Yes, I second what the others said. I liked “Juliet, naked”, “A long Way down” and “High Fidelity” better. If “How to be good” had been my first Hornby I had probably asked myself what all the praise comes from. Usually his books are a bit lighter and more humourous. This one is more serous. 5y
Reagan @Buechersuechtling I read Juliet, Naked last year and loved it! I‘ll definitely try another, the consensus seems to be that this one is not the greatest. 5y
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Moitsardaniel
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I was not able to post things here in Litsy the past few days because I've been visiting bookstores here Baguio City, Philippines and here's one of them. This is BookEnds Bookshop and it's heaven! I found Nick Hornby and Kate Mosse books!

BestOfFates ❤️❤️❤️ 8y
Trav 😍😍 8y
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Sweettartlaura
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