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My Friends: From the Pulitzer-prize winning author of THE RETURN | Hisham Matar
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An intensely moving novel about three friends living in political exile and the emotional homeland that deep friendships can provide - from the Booker-shortlisted, Pulitzer prize-winning author of THE RETURN Khaled and Mustafa meet at university in Edinburgh: two Libyan eighteen-year-olds expecting to return home after their studies. In a moment of recklessness and courage, they travel to London to join a demonstration in front of the Libyan embassy. When government officials open fire on protestors in broad daylight, both friends are wounded, and their lives forever changed. Over the years that follow, Khaled, Mustafa and their friend Hosam, a writer, are bound together by their shared history. If friendship is a space to inhabit, theirs becomes small and inhospitable when a revolution in Libya forces them to choose between the lives they have created in London and the lives they left behind. 'MY FRIENDS is a brilliant novel about innocence and experience, about friendship, family and exile. It makes clear, once more, that Hisham Matar is a supremely talented novelist.' COLM TOIBIN 'I have always admired Matar's tender and compassionate but equally strong and compelling voice' ELIF SHAFAK 'It is impossible to describe the profound depth and beauty of this book. MY FRIENDS is a breathtaking novel, every page a miracle and an affirmation. Hisham is one of our greatest writers, how lucky we are to be in his midst.' MAAZA MENGISTE, author of THE SHADOW KING
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Leniverse
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My hold for My Friends finally came in. I've waited months! But I can't read it yet because the other two are due back. 😣

Actually, I'm sure both of them are great too, so what am I complaining about? 😂

#BookwormProblems

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Suet624
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In the library…”I would close my eyes and walk along one aisle with the tips of my fingers tracing the spines. Wherever I stopped, that book was my fate…”

Hold the phone!! I‘ve been doing this for years. I started when I was really sick with Lyme 10 years ago and could not make decisions so this was the way I decided what book to read at the library.

BarbaraBB I envy that. I am such a control freak I shouldn‘t be able to read a book I know nothing about and/or wasn‘t recommended to me 🤦🏻‍♀️😂 3d
Suet624 @BarbaraBB well that was before Litsy. Now I‘m consumed and driven by Litsy suggestions. Plus I‘m not deathly ill with very little mental capacity. 😳 2d
BarbaraBB Fortunately not 😇❤️❤️ 2d
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ClairesReads
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Ah yes, finally a Booker Banger. Initially I thought My Friends might just be a story about friendship set against a political backdrop, but quickly it proved to be much more. Its consideration of the relationship between people and place, and the concept of home is really thoughtfully executed. this novel really excels in its unpacking of how we seek to mediate a world that can be cruel or inhospitable, and leave us feeling isolated or at sea.

BarbaraBB So well said! Wonderful review 2w
Deblovestoread Fantastic review! 2w
squirrelbrain Great review! ❤️ 2w
Cathythoughts Great review! I have this one waiting. 👍🏻❤️ 2w
Suet624 Great review!! 3d
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JenP
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Our panel had mixed reviews for this one but I quite liked it. An interesting exploration of friendship, belonging and identify in exile. It was well-written and finally a book with a. plot #booker2024

Our panel reviewed it here: https://thereadersroom.org/2024/08/31/2024-booker-longlist-my-friends-by-hisham-...

BarbaraBB I enjoyed it a lot. Definitely shortlist worthy! 2w
squirrelbrain Yes, on my shortlist too! 2w
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Graywacke
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My August, according to Bookly. I‘m pretty sure that 74 hours is the most I‘ve ever read in a single month. I could blame the Booker longlist, or credit Rilke, who seemed to encourage me to read more. Good books, but oddly no great ones for me.

TheSpineView Wow! Great job! 2w
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BarbaraBB
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#WeeklyFavorites

My favorite book this week is the tagged one, a very good read about living in exile and the Arab Spring in Libya.

However when I look back at these four I think my favorite of the month is The Safekeep (De bewaring in Dutch) or Cherry Blossoms, which takes me back to Japan immediately.

sarahbarnes I‘m excited to read The Safekeep! 2w
BarbaraBB @sarahbarnes I keep repeating myself but again I think you‘ll love it 2w
Read4life Excellent. I added The Safekeep to my TBR. 2w
BarbaraBB @Read4life Please do! 2w
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BarbaraBB
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#Booker 8/13

Like @Graywacke described it: this book is gentle. And so moving. It‘s the story of Khaled, a Libyan boy who went to the UK to study and then can‘t return to his motherland. He has his friends, sure, but he keeps feeling displaced. It‘s fragile, a life in exile.

sarahbarnes Beautiful review. This one is on my list. 2w
JamieArc I finished this one this morning and really loved it. Thinking about my review before I post it… 2w
squirrelbrain Lovely review! ❤️ 2w
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AnneCecilie I loved this and love your review 2w
Deblovestoread Wonderful review! 💜 2w
Graywacke I‘m so glad you enjoyed it 2w
rmaclean4 I am so looking forward to this one! 2w
BarbaraBB @rmaclean4 I hope and I think you‘ll enjoy it too. 2w
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'Stopping every twenty feet or so, to contemplate going back. To do what, I didn't know,' he said. 'But it was so mad to keep on going as if nothing had happened. And everything around me insisted that nothing had happened. The shops were open, people utterly oblivious, as though what I just witnessed was an event that occurred only in my mind. Yes,' he said, 'that's why I wanted to return. It was the opposite of madness.

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charl08
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'....Like Montaigne, you believe that the very presence of books in your room cultivates you, that books are not only to be read but to be lived with.'

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BarbaraBB
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#WhereAreYouMonday

Today I am moving between London and Libya, just like the narrators of this very promising book (I just started).

Please share your #armchairtraveling 🤍

JamieArc You get to go to some interesting places in this book 😊 3w
BarbaraBB @JamieArc Can‘t wait! 3w
Suet624 Was just trying to find Scott on Litsy. @vivastory. Have you heard whether he left Litsy? 3w
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BarbaraBB @Suet624 No? What‘s happened ? I can‘t find him either. He can‘t just have left, can he?? 3w
Suet624 He doesn‘t have any posts on IG now either. 😳 I‘m concerned. 3w
BarbaraBB @Suet624 Me too. He was here posting just yesterday? 3w
Suet624 Didn‘t know if you had his email. So weird. 3w
BarbaraBB @Suet624 I do have his email and I just sent him a DM on Instagram (I notice he‘s been active there today). I can‘t imagine he‘d leave Litsy just like that 3w
BarbaraBB @Suet624 If he doesn‘t reply to that DM I‘ll email him tomorrow. I am almost sure I have his email and I really can‘t believe he would leave Litsy just like that. 3w
Suet624 I agree. It‘s so unexpected. 3w
BarbaraBB @Suet624 I can email you his email address if you want? 3w
Suet624 @BarbaraBB sure. You didn‘t hear back? 2w
BarbaraBB @Suet624 I emailed you 😘 2w
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Graywacke
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Only my 3rd from the #booker #booker2024 #longlist I just finished. It‘s gentle gentle gentle. The theme of staying safe to a fault echoes through our characters, the prose, the title even. Sometimes you just really don‘t want to stumble into history. I enjoyed this, even if the end dragged a bit. I liked the characters and their flaws, and mysteries. I liked the odes to London and Libya. Not a wow for me, but an enjoyable thoughtful book.

JamieArc Yes, so very gentle. It‘s taking me a long time to read it, but every time I pick it up I sink I to its loveliness (which is a weird word to use for its content…) 3w
Graywacke @JamieArc that sounds terrific. I agree, it has a loveliness. It was always pleasing to pick up. 3w
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squirrelbrain Great word to use - gentle. It really was - I think that‘s why I didn‘t like the ending so much as it grew a bit harsher. 3w
Graywacke @squirrelbrain those emails - i wanted to know Hosam, but the one in London. Those emails were a total different Hosam. I found eventually i had to push through them a bit. (Although his sister-in-law was pretty funny) 3w
BarbaraBB I love gentle books. Great review. I‘ll start this one today too! 3w
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TheKidUpstairs
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“Friend. What a word. Most use it about those they hardly know. When it is a wondrous thing.“

A beautiful, slow moving, thoughtful selection from the #BookerLonglist. As Khaled walks through the streets of London, he reflects on three pivotal friendships and the moments big and small that shaped his adulthood. The result is a reflective meditation on home, exile, family, friendship, love, and literature.

dabbe 🖤🐾🖤 3w
TheKidUpstairs One to savour, this is probably my second favourite of the Booker List so far (take that with a grain of salt, I've only read 4 at this point!) 3w
squirrelbrain Great review - it ended up being one of my faves so I bet it will stay up there near the top of your list. 3w
BarbaraBB Excited to start it. It will be my next Booker read. 3w
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Deblovestoread
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#BookerLonglist 4/13

A story of friendship set against Gaffafi‘s rule and the Libyan Revolution. Beautiful writing but a bit too long for my taste. 4 🌟

@JenP @AnneCecilie @TheKidUpstairs @BarbaraBB @Leniverse @charl08 @rmaclean4 @squirrelbrain @Graywacke @jlhammar

Graywacke I‘m worried about the length. I‘m reading it now. So far ok, fast paced. I‘m 40% in. 4w
BarbaraBB I‘ve been worried about the length too but I‘m glad you think it‘s worth it! 4w
squirrelbrain I really enjoyed it but felt it became slightly less interesting / engrossing towards the end. @Graywacke @BarbaraBB 4w
AnneCecilie I loved this one, and didn‘t feel its length at all. I think I was too engrossed in the story 4w
Graywacke @squirrelbrain hmm. Yesterday i read about a road trip through France and then later about various works of literature he was studying. These were fantastic chapters. 🙂 But the end is a ways off yet. 4w
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Deblovestoread
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#WhereAreYouMonday

In Pillars of the Earth I currently in a cave between Southampton and Winchester in the year 1123.

In MyFriends we are walking Euston Road, London while Khaled reflects on his younger years in Benghazi.

@Cupcake12

Where are you? Join the fun and share where your book has taken you.

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Graywacke
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My model is resting now. 🐾 I‘ve started my next on the #booker #longlist #booker2024 Unfortunately I‘m progressing slowly. (Need to embrace my totem 🦥)

dabbe #marvelousmodel 🖤🐾🖤 1mo
BarbaraBB This one gets very good reviews. Looking forward to yours! 1mo
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Just picked up this one in town. 👍🏻♥️

AnneCecilie I loved this one. Hope you do too 1mo
squirrelbrain I loved it too! ❤️ 1mo
youneverarrived Look forward to your review 🤍 1mo
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Cathythoughts @AnneCecilie Thankyou ❤️ 1mo
Cathythoughts @squirrelbrain Great ! I saw your review , Helen, and decided to try this one next. ❤️ 1mo
Cathythoughts @youneverarrived Thanks Katie, I hope I get through it 🤞🏻❤️ 1mo
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squirrelbrain
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#bookerlonglist 5/13

I borrowed this from the digital library prior to the #bookerlonglist being announced, as it was strongly rumoured, but I found myself not wanting to start it.

Once it made the list and I *had* to read it 😜, well, I just couldn‘t put it down.

Based on a real-life incident at the Libyan Embassy in London in 1984 it follows the lives of 3 friends who are exiled in the UK as a result.

It tailed off ever so slightly ⬇️

squirrelbrain ….towards the end for me, but it‘s definitely on my shortlist (at the moment!). Currently reading another 4 from the longlist so we shall see…! 😄 1mo
JamieArc My current read, and first of the Longlist I haven‘t read. Enjoying it quite a bit! 1mo
Leniverse This is the one I'm looking forward to the most. Glad it looks like it might live up to expectations! 1mo
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BarbaraBB It sounds good! I read another book by him and hadn‘t heard of this one until the longlist 1mo
JenP Im looking forward to this the most. Saving it for my plan trip next week 1mo
jlhammar Oh good, so glad to hear you enjoyed it! Really looking forward to it. 1mo
Cathythoughts Stacking 👍🏻 1mo
sarahbarnes This one sounds good and glad to see it on your shortlist for the moment! 1mo
Graywacke I‘m happy you‘re reading the longlist again. I‘ll get here soonish. 1mo
squirrelbrain @Graywacke- I knew there was someone I missed on the tagging. 😳😄 1mo
Graywacke @squirrelbrain everyone tagged is reading the longlist? ! 1mo
squirrelbrain Some may read the whole longlist @Graywacke - I just tagged everyone that had posted about the list being announced. 1mo
Graywacke @squirrelbrain 👍 I‘ll tag you and Barbarabb with my slow progress (and, of course, anyone else that wants to be tagged) 1mo
squirrelbrain Looking forward to seeing how you get on! @Graywacke @BarbaraBB 1mo
Hooked_on_books I thought this one was terrific. Really absorbing and well paced. It actually made me think a bit of Brotherless Night, which I loved. (edited) 1mo
squirrelbrain Yes, I can see where you‘re coming from with that comparison Holly. @Hooked_on_books 1mo
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JamieArc
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When the #Booker 2024 Longlist was announced, I showed *great* restraint by not ordering most of them (just one - Held - because the cover is pretty lol), and instead placed 4 on hold. I‘m not sure what I‘m thinking, trying to read most of them, since I‘m reading at a snail‘s pace lately, but I‘m going to try. I‘m encouraged that several are quite short. When I read the first paragraph of each, I ended up reading several chapters of My Friends.

Ruthiella Nice! 👍 2mo
Deblovestoread I put 5 on hold with two ready to pick up and picked up The Safekeep at B&N tonight. I was going to read the 2 I already have and wait for the shortlist. 🤷🏻‍♀️ 2mo
squirrelbrain I started reading My Friends last night and read nearly half of it in one sitting! 🤷‍♀️ 2mo
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BarbaraBB I love this post! So hard to resist the longlist! 2mo
Graywacke Oh, enjoy them. No pressure. I‘ll be working through the list…once my books arrive 2mo
Graywacke @BarbaraBB i did not resist it 🙂 2mo
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AnneCecilie
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London. A man walks home after meeting an old friend. This has him thinking about the past. How he left Libya on a scholarship to study English at the University of Edinburgh, attended a demonstration outside the Libyan embassy in London 1984 which would change his life and how he would meet this friend in 1995

I learned about Libyan history, the Qaddafi dictatorship and the Arab Spring

I loved this book about 3 friends

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AnneCecilie
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It is, of course, impossible to be certain of what is contained in anyone‘s chest, least of all one‘s own or those we know well, perhaps especially those we know best, but, as I stand here on the upper level of King‘s Cross Station, from where I can monitor my old friend Hosam Zowa walking across the concourse, I feel I am seeing right into him, perceiving him more accurately than ever before, as though all along, during the two decades that we

AnneCecilie have known one another, our friendship has been a study and now, ironically, just after we bid one another farewell, his portrait is finally coming into view. #FirstLineFridays (edited) 2mo
Sace Wow. That‘s a heck of a long sentence. 2mo
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Hooked_on_books
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After growing up in Libya, Khaled goes to the UK for university. But shortly thereafter, an event occurs exiling him from home and family. What follows is his life in exile and the deep friendships he develops. This is a really beautiful look at the love men can have in friendship to one another. It‘s terrific. #ReadYourEbooks

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Introduction

Mystery guest

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The Family Way by Christopher DiRaddo

My Friends by Hisham Matar

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