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JenlovesJT47
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Thanks for inviting me to join the #WDNCW club @dabbe ! Thought I‘d combine it with a haiku because, well, why not? 😆

We really don‘t care
the floor is covered with hair;
it can stay right there.

We do not care that the house hasn‘t been cleaned in a month because I dislocated my hip and have been gimping around ever since. We do not care that my hair is everywhere. I‘ll vacuum tomorrow! 😵‍💫

#haikuhive #haikuaday #poetry

AmyG Oh no….feel better! The house can wait. 16h
CBee Oh, the hair….. it‘s never ending 😂🤦‍♀️🤪 15h
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JenlovesJT47 My hair 💇🏻‍♀️ it is everywhere! 💁🏻‍♀️🤷🏻‍♀️ 15h
TheBookHippie I can never commit a crime …. Hair…. Everywhere… 15h
Susanita Not much hair from humans but OMG the cat hair! 15h
Eggbeater I feel you. I have an autoimmune disease and a dog. I hope your hip feels better soon. 15h
JenlovesJT47 @AmyG @Eggbeater thank you!! 🤗 I‘m a walking orthopedic disaster 😭 14h
JenlovesJT47 @TheBookHippie same!!! Hair on every surface it seems 🥴😵‍💫😬 14h
JenlovesJT47 @CBee solidarity!! 👊🏻🙌🏻😅 14h
JenlovesJT47 @Susanita we also have tons of Chipper cat hair to add to the mix. I cleaned out from behind the bed a few months ago, the spot where he would sleep basically had hair growing out of the wall! 😳🐈‍⬛ (edited) 14h
dabbe Oh, you poor thing! Please heal and heal well! 💙 No vacuuming until you can! And this haiku/#wdnc! 😂😂😂 Hair EVERYWHERE! Pippa's hair even made it into our freezer! Thanks for the HUM😍R and truth! 14h
lil1inblue My husband and I both have long hair, and we have cats. Hair is our life. 14h
AnnCrystal House can wait while you heal! Rest and may you heal swiftly 👏🏼🐝👌🏼🙏🏼🐝💝. 14h
CBee @TheBookHippie SAME plus the falling out of hair from menopause 😅😅 14h
CBee @lil1inblue same here! Two dogs, one cat, hubs with his ponytail, me with my long frizz, two boys who both have a lot of hair. We‘re doomed 😂😂 14h
Amiable Amazing 2-for-1 post! Bravo! 👏🏼 👏🏼👏🏼 13h
JenlovesJT47 @dabbe I‘m sorry to say I also found a hair in my freezer last week 🤦🏻‍♀️ — I‘m surprised I‘m not bald!! 👩🏻‍🦲 12h
dabbe @JenlovesJT47 IKR? 😂 12h
julieclair You don‘t have time for a dislocated hip!! Sure hope it heals quickly. 💙 11h
JenlovesJT47 @julieclair thank you!! 🤗♥️♥️♥️ 3h
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MsRadioSilence
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Mehso-so

The infantilization of a 39yo man gave me the BIGGEST ick. And the miscommunication? You are BOTH in your 30s, I need you to talk to each other like adults. I appreciate the continued emphasis on mental health, but oh my god. Y‘all need therapy, lots of it.

2 stars | #romance

charl08 Lol 2d
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Jari-chan
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Pickpick

(This is maybe going to be a long post)

This is totally a #blameitonlitsy - it just kept on appearing and appearing and appearing in my feed. So who am I to fight Reading Destiny? And yes, it was a good thing to listen to it. RD knows what I need.

Because I so, so needed that book. It's short and easy to read, and it has to be. It's written for people in very dark places and those often don't have the strength and energy to read big books. ⬇

Jari-chan You can skip and browse as you like and need it.

The way of deconstructing what makes you unhappy about your cho- I mean, care works, is basically the same as the one I did when I was fighting my ED. But it never occurred to me that I needed to this with my relationship with care work as well.

Even though my therapist told me to go easy on it, to think that it‘s okay that not everything‘s done, it only ever worked a little bit. ⬇
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Jari-chan It still stressed me out. A lot. That‘s why I read this book. I never realized how much shame I connected to it. That I have to learn to see my dirty floor as neutral. That it doesn‘t make me a bad person or a failure.

Wow, so much learning. But it‘s already starting to do it‘s wonders. I‘m more relaxed, more accepting. And it feels wonderful.

#BookSpin @TheAromaOfBooks
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AmyG A good book to read. I was the same. Then I began what I called “triage”. What was the most important thing to do first and so on down the line. I also learned that I am my best friend so I talked to myself with kindness and compassion-and I learned to trust myself. It all gets done eventuallly. Your “care works” are not you. 3w
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Jari-chan @AmyG I'm happy to hear that you've learnt so much and are hopefully better now 🫂💖 3w
AmyG Thank you….I am so better. 3w
MaleficentBookDragon I‘m glad this book is helping you. My therapist recommended this book to me after I read Divergent Mind (another she recommended). They both have really helped me with understanding myself and to start letting go of shame. It‘s a work in progress. 3w
AnnCrystal 🫂🙏🏼📚💝. 3w
Jari-chan @MaleficentBookDragon Thank you for sharing 💖 I just put the book on my list. 3w
Jari-chan @AnnCrystal 💖💖🫂 3w
TheAromaofBooks Lovely review!! 3w
Jari-chan @TheAromaofBooks Thank you 💖 3w
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Jari-chan
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Wow. Yeah. That's me. Still.

AnnCrystal 🫂🙏💝. 3w
Jari-chan @AnnCrystal 💖💖💖 3w
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Jari-chan
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My #BookSpin is a #blameitonlitsy - you all just kept on talking about it. Is that FOMO - Bookish edition?
Volume 4 of the Lady Astronaut series is my #DoubleSpin 💖

@TheAromaOfBooks

TheAromaofBooks Woohoo!! Looks fantastic!! 1mo
Jari-chan @TheAromaofBooks Thank you!💖 1mo
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Read4life
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Pickpick

I‘ve finished my May #DoubleSpin book.
I loved the Cerulean Sea duology. So when my nephew asked me if I‘d read book 1 in Klune‘s YA series, I happily agreed.
It‘s not on the same level as Cerulean but it still had great moments that made me feel the story. I laughed and I felt the characters‘ pain and sadness.
My nephew LOVED it btw. 🏳️‍🌈

#SeriesLove2025 #BookSpinBingo

Andrew65 Excellent 🎉🎉🎉 2mo
TheAromaofBooks Great progress!! 2mo
TheSpineView Fantastic! 💙📖📚 2mo
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Texreader
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Pickpick

This book strives to reset our mindsets. Society teaches us that to be a “good” person/parent/spouse we should have a neat, clean house. The author suggests that a neat, clean house is not an issue of goodness or badness; it‘s a functional issue. We aren‘t meant to be the servant to house. It is supposed to serve us. With that change in mindset, the goal is no longer perfection but function. On days when parenting, chronic pain, work, etc keeps ⬇️

Texreader us from completing a chore list or just picking or cleaning up, then do just what you need to do to make your house function for you. If you are up to doing more, great! But let go of the moral self-talk that you are not a good person if the stove isn‘t wiped down, or you skip a load of laundry. The author provides numerous suggestions on how to tackle tasks. This is a good book that anyone who keeps home should read for their own wellbeing. 2mo
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Texreader
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I really like the last one. Good enough is perfect.

Sparklemn I love this! Thanks for sharing. 3mo
Deblovestoread I love “resetting”. I reset a few kitchen cupboards yesterday. 😀 3mo
AmyG This is great. 3mo
lil1inblue This book is so simple, yet it was a lifesaver when I was dealing with an illness for several years. I cannot recommend it often enough! 3mo
GingerAntics I‘m loving “good enough is perfect.” 3mo
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Texreader
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All the best laid plans…

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Texreader
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Care tasks are morally neutral. Being good or bad at them has nothing to do with being a good person, parent, man, woman, spouse, friend. Literally nothing. You are not a failure because you can‘t keep up with laundry. Laundry is morally neutral.

TheBookHippie So necessary to learn. 3mo
dabbe 🎯🩵🎯
Thanks for giving me grace to sit and read rather than thinking as I sit, “I should be doing this ...“
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triplem80 I really appreciated this book...it enabled me to give myself grace, which can be so hard to do! 3mo
GingerAntics I‘m seeing a lot of things that for some reason, by some crazy people, have been assigned moral value when they are not moral issues at all. Can we stop that? Who are these people? They are hurting everyone and ruining everything. 3mo
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