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ChaoticMissAdventures

ChaoticMissAdventures

Joined August 2019

Reading is my favorite sport.
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Pickpick

Low pick. It is hard when people pour so much of themselves into a book. This is a good introduction for people who are new to body positivity, eating disorders, and queer and disabled body talk. As someone who is familiar with the issues there wasn't much new for me here. A lot of the book was Instagram quippy talks.
I don't recommend the audio. There are a lot of quotes she reads from I think her IG communityand it started to be confusing.

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BookSpinBingo | Untitled
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Okay July!

My focus is going to be on clearing some of my physical TBR

I am excited to reread Jane Eyre (which I remember not liking) so that I can read Wide Sargasso Sea - If anyone wants to join me in this reading let me know!

Then getting to the summer vibe books - Instruction for a Heatwave, Hughes Simple, Sky Daddy all feel very summer reading to me.

@thearomaofbooks

TheAromaofBooks Woohoo!!! 17h
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End of the month book organization has begun with a Calamity helper.

CatLass007 Calamity is gorgeous. Cats and books…no better combination!😻📚 20h
kspenmoll 😻 20h
AmyG Ahhhh, the cat assistant! ❤️ 20h
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dabbe Look at the face and those ears! 🤩🖤🐾🖤🤩 19h
ChaoticMissAdventures @dabbe and she is polydactyl! Cutest little murder mittens you will find! 17h
Soubhiville She‘s beautiful! 16h
dabbe @ChaoticMissAdventures Now THAT should be her nickname! #murdermittens 🤣🐾🖤 15h
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Icarus | K. Ancrum
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#weeklyforecast

I have the tagged as my audiobook this week. Need to finish up Well of Loneliness, then will tackle Little Rot and Just By Looking at Him. Will start the chunky Hollinghurst with no hope to finish by EOM.

I cannot believe we are on the last full week of #Pride month!

BarbaraBB Good luck with the Hollinghurst. He‘s always a hit or miss for me. 1d
ChaoticMissAdventures @BarbaraBB this will be my first. He is very intimidating. I am going to do half physical and half audio and see how far I get! 1d
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The Well Of Loneliness | Radclyffe Hall
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Sunday. Taking a beat before meeting up with friends to watch Materialists and then eat our body weight in sushi.

Today is a dark day for the country, trying to not spiral.

dabbe I hope you had a lovely time. 💙🩵💙 21h
ChaoticMissAdventures @dabbe I was at a table by the most judgemental group of millennials!! My goodness the things they found to bitch about. Made me very aware of how I don't want to sound so negative to strangers! 😂 20h
dabbe @ChaoticMissAdventures Matt and I are amazed sometimes by how loud people can be at restaurants, too. What happened to talking in a normal tone of voice? But in your case, it is a good reminder of how one wants to be seen (ahem, HEARD) in public. 😂 20h
ChaoticMissAdventures @dabbe listening to people in cafes and restaurants is one of my top favorite things to do. I find people fascinating and I want to know all their business. Though at times like this I want to go up to them and say something. This time I would have said damn y'all do not know how negative you are and I know why you sir are divorced! (He was calling his ex step kid dumb for liking social media, at 15!) 19h
dabbe @ChaoticMissAdventures Think of the books we could write! We could call is something like CAFE CONVERSATIONS! 🤣 The low-road side of me wishes you had said something, but then Michelle Obama's high-road speech whispers in my ear. Damn! 15h
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Well of Loneliness | Radclyffe Hall
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This is so, so good and the library copy was due back with a couple of people waiting so I caved and just bought a copy, very lucky to have found a used one at my local store!

CaseyTheCanadianLesbrarian The context of the censorship and trials this book faced are so interesting too! 3d
Rissreadswithcats I cannot believe I have not heard of this book! It‘s got me interested! Stacked! 2d
ChaoticMissAdventures @Rissreadswithcats it is so good! And as @CaseyTheCanadianLesbrarian says the whole story behind the book, censorship completely in the UK was so interesting, I would have read it just because of that! 2d
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A Single Man: A Novel | Christopher Isherwood
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A gorgeous and sad novel. This is my first Isherwood but will not be my last. I thought George was a sympathetic and complex character and in his grief we can see limits to human emotions that are not so often pondered on in this beautiful but tragic way. I really enjoyed this.
Also this was dedicated to Gore Vidal and I had not known about their relationship - mentorship where they write letters to each other for 40 years until Isherwoods death

nanuska_153 That's such a nice edition! 2d
ChaoticMissAdventures @nanuska_153 it's a cute pocket edition from Picador press! I love them, I also have Shirley Jackson's lottery and Michael Cunningham's The Hours. I cannot resist a tiny cute edition! 2d
nanuska_153 @ChaoticMissAdventures I'm the same, I love cute editions, when I was in college I bought many ugly books cause I could only afford whatever was cheapest 😅 and now whenever I see a nice edition I can't say no! I actually just ordered this one! 2d
ChaoticMissAdventures @nanuska_153 yay!! I really hope you enjoy it ❤️ 2d
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A Single Man: A Novel | Christopher Isherwood
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I read the book yesterday and decided I needed to see the movie immediately after. And I am so glad I did. What a sad and gorgeous story.

The cast of the movie is perfect. The house. Goodness the House!! Beautiful. There are a few changes they made that I am not too sure about, but definitely made things more dramatic.

Normally I find age gap stories super sketchy, but Isherwood and the producers did things in a way that didn't feel creepy

nanuska_153 Colin Firth is so amazing in this movie, and you couldn't expect less, but Tom Ford really knows how to dress him elegantly 4d
ChaoticMissAdventures @nanuska_153 YES! it took me a minute to realize it was The Tom Ford. The clothes are exceptional. I loved Nicholas Hoult's fuzzy sweater. It made The character of Kenny seem cozy. 4d
nanuska_153 @ChaoticMissAdventures he was very fluffy and huggable with that jumper. Yes it's amazing someone can be so ridiculously talented to direct this and Nocturnal Animals and design those clothes! 3d
ChaoticMissAdventures @squirrelbrain ohh interesting!! I don't know much about ballet but would be into seeing how this story is adapted for that medium. 3d
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The Well Of Loneliness | Radclyffe Hall
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"You're neither unnatural, nor abominable, nor mad; you're as much a part of what people call nature as anyone else; only you're unexplained as yet--you've not got your niche in creation. But some day that will come, and meanwhile don't shrink from yourself, but face yourself calmly and bravely. Have courage; do the best you can with your burden. But above all be honourable."

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The Prophets | Robert Jones, Jr.
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Continuing my Pride book recommendations, today is Juneteenth (the day the Black folks of the US celebrate the end of slavery). So here are 6 books I feel are proper recommendations for the collision of these two celebrations

If you have not read The Prophets yet, get on it. Rarely has a book made me gasp out loud, this one did it and I fell utterly in love with Isaiah was Samuel. Your heart will break, but in really important ways.

ChaoticMissAdventures Sorry a lesbian Caribbean pirate story based on true events?? How can you say no? Jacquotte Delahaye's story is truly remarkable, and she was what I would wish every heroine could be. 5d
ChaoticMissAdventures A Black father makes amends with his gay son through letters written on his deathbed in this wise and penetrating novel of empathy and forgiveness. Utterly gorgeous 5d
ChaoticMissAdventures All I can say is it's a classic for a reason The language can be a bit difficult so take your time if this is your first read. 5d
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ChaoticMissAdventures Freedom means many things as we move along from the first Juneteenth. But always for Black Americans there is an undercurrent of the government trying to cut people down. This one looks at that, looks at the AIDS crisis in NYC 1980s and has an amazing parade of recognizable cameos that were fun to recognize. 5d
ChaoticMissAdventures I will never get over this book. I will sing it's praises till the end of time. You are going to root for Loretta and Staxxx throughout the book, and see how they love each other through the worst conditions, all the while Adjei-Brenyah is going to be teaching you about the prison industrial complex. This is a near future dystopian unlike any I have ever read before. What would happen if prisoners got brand deals to fight to the death for freedom
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BarbaraBB High praise! I will hunt for a copy of The Prophets and I have one of Chain-Gand but haven‘t read it yet. 5d
Oryx Prophets is waiting on my shelf - i need to get to it soon 5d
ChaoticMissAdventures @BarbaraBB @oryx I hope you can get to it. I would love to know your thoughts after. I think it is stunning. 5d
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Slaughterhouse-Five | Kurt Vonnegut
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3 favorites
Slaughterhouse Five (love it so much I got this tattoo)
Song of Solomon
Interview with the Vampire

I have read most of Ian McEwans books and Cement Garden is his worst by miles and miles.

#TLT @dabbe

dabbe I'll take that one off of my TBR! 🤣 Thanks for playing and sharing. 💚📚💙 5d
ChaoticMissAdventures @dabbe 😂 I love him though. Every author is allowed one really bad book! I have found he is fantastic at getting me out of reading slumps, his books are short and very atmospheric with super grey mortality which is always interesting. 5d
dabbe @ChaoticMissAdventures I'm intrigued! I read ATONEMENT and loved it but nothing else of his. What would be the top 2-3 you're recommend? 5d
ChaoticMissAdventures @dabbe I loved Atonement! It wasn't as well received but I really enjoyed Amsterdam I thought the complexity of the interwoven lives were really interesting. Machines like Me, I can't remember if you read and liked Annie Bot or Ishiguro's Klara but this is along the same vein. I feel like his best received beyond Atonement is this one that I have yet to read 5d
dabbe @ChaoticMissAdventures Thanks for the advice! 😍 I haven't read any of these! 5d
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The Pairing | Casey McQuiston
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Mehso-so

Glad I am done looking at this cover.
This is my second McQuiston. I find her characters annoying. I thought I liked Kit but then he quickly got on my nerves when we switched POVs. I guess I dislike books where I cannot really see why one character likes the other. Theo was mostly an ass. Everything revolves around mis or no communication.
Too much sex to be considered YA but not enough maturity for olders. 20 somethings might like it

ChaoticMissAdventures I was listening to a podcast talk about P&P and how one of the reasons it works is b/c the secondary characters are flushed out. And I think a lot of modern romances suffer from not doing this. All of the 2ndary characters here feel like complete afterthoughts and stereotypes. And what is up with how much time these 2 have on a planned EU tour? As someone who has been on a couple this annoyed me. 🤣 5d
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Starting this ARC with a US release date of 22 July

A woman goes to dinner with her husband, and finds out he is having an affair. Soon after she is told she has a tumor. She names the tumor Maggie - her husband's mistress' name.

From GR: "she embarks on a journey of grief, healing, and reclamation."

It is supposed to have a lot of Chinese mythology (told by narrator to the narrators children)

TheKidUpstairs Sounds like it could be really good! Look forward to your review! 6d
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The Pairing | Casey McQuiston
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I love the edges but goodness do I hate this ugly cover. Every time I reach for the book I think about how much I dislike the cover 😂

This is my second McQuiston and I feel like they just might not be for me. Though I did like the movie version of RW&RB I really didn't like the book, so if their stuff is ever adapted again I would try that medium.

CoverToCoverGirl haven't read this one yet. I was the opposite about RW&RB, I loved the book but only liked the movie. I agree on this cover though...the edges are beautiful but the cover is not. 6d
ChaoticMissAdventures @CoverToCoverGirl I just have found her characters to be a bit too juvenile for me. Which I find I can handle better on film then having to read a bunch of texts with poop emojis on paper. 😂 6d
monalyisha I really enjoyed the tagged…and I hate juvenile humor! I was hoping to find an edition with a synopsis but that doesn‘t appear to be in the cards. 🤷‍♀️ 6d
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The Well Of Loneliness | Radclyffe Hall
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#weeklyforecast

Serious consideration going on here by Serene.

Main focus is on the lesbian classic Well of Loneliness, my monthly chunky read.
Then: The Pairing, A Single Man, and my car/bedside Kobo read is the ARC Maggie: or, A Man And A Woman Walk Into A Bar

sarahbarnes Well of Loneliness broke my heart when I read it. 💔 1w
ChaoticMissAdventures @sarahbarnes I am about 50 pages in and loving the writing so far. Excited to get past her childhood. 1w
dabbe 🖤🐾🖤 1w
BarbaraBB I loved Well of Loneliness too! 1w
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Listen to this mostly on a long drive this weekend. A haunting and original books. Narrator Chris has lost her wife Bo when Bo gives birth to their baby. Unfortunately in this timeline when you harm someone the government gives you an extra shadow as warning to others, so the baby gets one within minutes of being born. Unfortunately for The Kid Chris also has an extra shadow. What are they going to do without Bo?
Very well written with many 👇

ChaoticMissAdventures Plot devices and author choices that make the story feel fresh - like when and whose names she chooses to reveal. I love authors who don't explain their worlds. People get extra shadows from the government. That is all we are given, no fake scientific explanation how this works. The focus is on the humans, our family and how they are treated. And a bit on the government the creeps working for it and the tactics.It is really effective for the story 1w
ChaoticMissAdventures (3/3) there is one twist in the third act I did not see coming which was great but then I found the resolution a bit clunky and rushed and that didn't totally work for me. 1w
Kitta I really enjoyed this one! 1w
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Goals | Tracy
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We are just about half way into the year!

How are your book goals looking?

Are there any goals you are changing or bailing on?

How are you feeling about your 2025 reading?

CatLass007 My Goodreads goal was 100 books. I just finished 101. I‘m having a tough time settling on my next book. I‘ve listened to the first part of five different books and think I finally settled on one. One of those books is short stories, so I can go back-and-forth on that one. 2025 has been a good year for books, but not for much else. (edited) 1w
ChaoticMissAdventures @CatLass007 goal met! Everything else is extra. I go through weeks where I just cannot settle too. I love the library for this, just trying a bunch of things until something clicks . 1w
CatLass007 There are a number of books on Audible that stop being free at the end of the month and several others that stop being free midnight on 7 July. I‘m trying to weed these out to see if there‘s anything I actually enjoy and there are some that I do enjoy, so that‘s good. But I am having a difficult time focusing also so… 1w
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willaful I “took May off“ to really let myself mood read and think about how I wanted to spend my reading time. Feeling good this month! 1w
ChaoticMissAdventures @willaful I am in the middle of this. I am still trying to tackle my blacklist TBR but I am putting down anything that I am not completely falling into and liking. 1w
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Untitled | Untitled
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We are halfway through the year. How did that happen?

Looking at the goals I set for myself at the beginning of the year, I am doing pretty good! I am almost done with my book count goal (86/100) and am holding steady on my read count (57% done). I am keeping up on reading non-US books (currently at 38% US)
I have these books I am trying to prioritize this year, and I hit the half way mark recently.

Ruthiella Nice work! 👍 1w
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Henry Hamlet's Heart | Rhiannon Wilde
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It has been a long time since a book has kept me up past my bedtime, but this YA romance did it.
I adore Henry and his fun family, and though I thought Len a bit of an ass all the way through I also felt it was realistic.
The pacing on this was great and the side characters added to the story and the vibe. I do wish the third act was a bit more flushed out. There were words that should have been said.
4.25/5⭐

ChaoticMissAdventures this is my #doublespin for the month! So glad I got to it. @thearomaofbooks 1w
TheAromaofBooks Great progress!! 1w
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Let's Talk About Love | Claire Kann
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Mehso-so

This was a bit of a disappointment. I have read Kann before and really like her book Romantic Agenda, but this time around I was just annoyed with most of the characters. Our MC felt super juvenile - she is in college but I am reading an actual YA of boys set in HS and they are acting more mature than this.
I thought everyone around her was awful including her best friends & love interest which is always a bummer
Overall this just wasn't for me.

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Friday #Pride book recs!

Ace and Intersex books are not very common. Here are three each I recommend.

Ace = A-sexual this is such a scale! Angela Chen's nonfiction book Ace helped me so much to understand that range. I really recommend it.

**I originally added a book that after more research (I read it years ago before I knew better) appears to be harmful. This is an updated graphic.

ChaoticMissAdventures Curious about an asexual romance? It felt like 2 separate ideas that could never meet but this adorable romance changed my mind. Good for people who like love triangles, fake dating tropes, and character who just respect each other. 2w
ChaoticMissAdventures If you have not read River Solomon what are you waiting for?? This one is fantastic. Aster is Ace, they are also a mechanic on a space ship. The universe that Solomon has created is large, detailed, and creative, and the characters are interesting to follow. 2w
ChaoticMissAdventures Sci-Fi/Fantasy Queen Le Guin this is about a lone human emissary to Winter, an alien world whose inhabitants spend most of their time without a gender. Called a groundbreaking book for both sci-fi and for intersex stories. Well worth everyone's time. 2w
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ChaoticMissAdventures This is a classic for intersex novels. It has been a long time since I have read it, but the vibe and the heart of the story and the family vividly have stuck with me. Please be aware this is an older book so may contain some outdated ideas or language. Still worth the read. 2w
ChaoticMissAdventures I struggled to find intersex books I have read. so I am adding one that I plan to read this month. This one has great ratings on GR and I am excited to get into it. I have read a few articles about the author and they sound lovely. 2w
TieDyeDude Thanks for sharing! My wife and I are both ace, and I love discovering books with ace characters. I tend to avoid romance novels because they don't speak to my experience, but I might consider Kann's book 😉 (edited) 2w
ChaoticMissAdventures @TieDyeDude I am not a big romance person either, I am trying another by Kann this month, there are not a ton of Ace books out there! 2w
willaful @TieDyeDude A surprising number of romance authors and readers are ace! But of course there are many different types of ace experience. Have you read any John Wiswell? 2w
Kitta Ooh thanks. I was looking for some recommendations related to this! 1w
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Henry Hamlet's Heart | Rhiannon Wilde
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At a party: "Why did I agree to this? There aren't even any cats."

Starting this one tonight.

Texreader ♥️♥️♥️ 2w
dabbe 🖤🐾🖤 2w
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Carrie Fisher was his BFF and sometimes roommate. Joan Didion was his aunt. He is an actor, directed one of my favorite comfort movies (Practical Magic) and his family is incredibly tragic. Mostly swirling around his sister's murder in 1982 Dunne's book tells the complex story of growing up in a Hollywood family. It is a bit crude but also funny & heartfelt. I didn't recognize his name when the book came out but his stories here are memorable

Texreader ♥️♥️♥️🐈 2w
dabbe 🖤🐾🖤 2w
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Breakfast at Tiffany's | Truman Capote
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3 favorites:
Cat's Cradle
Stranger in a Strange Land
The Bell Jar

3 on my TBR:
Once and Future King
Wide Sargasso Sea
Master and Margarita

3 books turned movie/show I liked
Breakfast at Tiffany's 😍
Prime of Miss Jean Brodie
Nurse Ratched (spin off of One Flew Over The Cuckcoo's Nest)

@dabbe #TLT

dabbe You've given me a few to move up on my TBR! Thanks for playing and sharing. 💙📚💚 2w
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Audition | Katie Kitamura
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I am thinking about this book, and what our conversation on Saturday will look like, and there is an NPR interview with Kitamura that is super interesting. She talks about how she wants the 2 halves of the story to sit along side each other, and the idea of this image comes up.

Is it a rabbit or a duck?

NPR article here: https://www.npr.org/2025/04/16/nx-s1-5243214/katie-kitamura-says-a-solution-is-n...

BarbaraBB Thanks, that is a very interesting interview indeed! 2w
dabbe I see both! 🤩 2w
ChaoticMissAdventures @dabbe me too! I can't help but always see both. Have you seen the old and young lady one? I usually see the young lady first but then quickly see both and cannot unsee either. 2w
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ChaoticMissAdventures @BarbaraBB I thought so! I know a lot of people in #Camplitsy25 are struggling with "the point" or trying to reconcile the 2 halves and this really helped me look at it a different way. 2w
dabbe @ChaoticMissAdventures I know exactly which one you're talking about! The line is either the young lady's necklace or the older lady's mouth! 2w
BarbaraBB I am also a bit disappointed that there‘s no real answer to all my questions! (edited) 2w
Kitta Thanks for posting this! 1w
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Emily Dickinson: Poems | Emily Dickinson
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Okay my poetry fans!

My 11 year old niece is obsessed with Emily Dickinson. She loves how "soft" her words are (her description) I am on the hunt for other - age appropriate - similar poets. I keep picking up and putting back things when I see a lot of violence (or randomly the word clitoris in a sentence it has no business be in? Is that an adjective now??)
All suggestions appreciated! ❤️

ChaoticMissAdventures I picked up a Mary Oliver and this one by the gorgeous girl who read at Biden'a inauguration 2w
mcctrish I second Amanda Gorman ❤️❤️❤️❤️ 2w
MatchlessMarie When I was her age I found a book written in poems I really loved at my library called Girl Coming in for a Landing I‘ll tag it here. For the longest time it was my “book with a blue cover” mystery because I couldn‘t remember what it was called for the longest time 😂 2w
ChaoticMissAdventures @MatchlessMarie oh this looks perfect! She is going into middle school next year and this is just the right age. Thanks!! 2w
Kitta Also going to suggest Amanda Gorman and Mary Oliver! Also around that age I was obsessed with Shel Silverstein 2w
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At Swim, Two Boys | Jamie O'Neill
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#allhailthebail
This is my #bookspin and I am bailing. But I only made it 20 pages in so not marking it as traditional review bail, just realized this language is not for me. It is super intense Irish and 20 pages in I haven't understood anything. That is totally on me. I am sure my annoyance of the McConaghy book earlier today isn't helping. I just want a book I can sink right into that makes sense.

BarbaraBB On this one we agree again at least 😉 2w
ChaoticMissAdventures @BarbaraBB I am sure it is lovely. It sounds amazing and the reviews of the people who could read it were glowing. I think I just don't read enough traditional Irish writing to give this a go. I do wonder if it would be easier over audio, but the audio isn't available at my library. 2w
Kitta I read this but didn‘t rate it on Goodreads for some reason - usually that means I was conflicted and didn‘t enjoy it as much as expected. (edited) 2w
ChaoticMissAdventures @Kitta if I don't write about a book on one of the GR/Storygraph sites I will never remember I read it! 2w
Kitta @ChaoticMissAdventures it‘s only marked as read! That‘s it! Not even a date. I remember reading it a while back (10 years ago at least) but not the content of the book. My ex really loved it, maybe that‘s why I didn‘t rate it? We were still together when I read it and I didn‘t want to disagree. I only occasionally write reviews outside litsy, but nearly everything has a star rating 😆 2w
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#WeeklyForecast

I have started the tagged. So far it is great, recommend for people who find Hollywood and Joan Didion fascinating. Lots of famous cameos but the root of the story is the Dunne family of 5.

Well of Loneliness is chunky I need to get cracking on
I grabbed The Pairing on audio for my daily walks
Thunder Song needs to go back to the library next weekend
Henry Hamlet's Heart looks like a quick read and is my #doublespin

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Wild Dark Shore | Charlotte McConaghy
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Mehso-so

3⭐ I am an outlier on this author. This is my third book of hers, and I am only reading it for #CampLitsy25. I could have skipped it and saved 2 days of reading...
I just don't understand. I find the characters, their motives and actions, utterly silly and unbelievable. I think that the language she uses is good but the way others gush about it I just don't feel the same (there is nothing I want to take a highlighter to).
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ChaoticMissAdventures I am constantly annoyed at how McConaghy depicts people who do not want children. No matter their motivation she finds a way to "change their mind" or in this case equate someone wanting to care for someone else's children to be like she changed her mind on having kids. She said she didn't want to bring babies into this world, that doesn't mean she hates children and wouldn't care for already born ones. This is such a wrongheaded look at CFBC. 2w
ChaoticMissAdventures I understand Dom and the children better than Rowans actions, but I think the miscommunication trope is way too heavy handed in this. It was annoying. 2w
ChaoticMissAdventures Also! You are going to sleep with a guy who you think might have killed your husband? Come on. And what the first unsupervised adult on the island is going to be the one he sleeps with? I could have done completely without all that. 2w
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BarbaraBB Great review. I get your annoyance even though I loved the book and was convinced you would too. We‘ve been so in sync lately 😉. Looking to discuss it further on Camp! 2w
squirrelbrain Like @BarbaraBB I loved this book, but I did have to suspend my disbelief at points. The author has a particular style, a lot of which would annoy me more in another book but somehow I can ignore here. 2w
ChaoticMissAdventures @squirrelbrain I looked multiple times to see if it was fantasy or magical realism coded because the stuff going on was so unbelievable to me. I know she is super beloved. My ex mother-in-law is the one who originally convinced me to read her which I find odd because she usually cannot handle anything that makes her suspend belief 2w
ChaoticMissAdventures @BarbaraBB first Emily Henry now this! I can win for popular authors! And now I am feeling a reading slump I need to push through! Shake it off. 2w
Ruthiella I 100% agree with you. I actively hated this book. Beautiful writing but not one thing made sense to me. No one behaved in a believable way. 2w
LiteraryHoarderPenny I have the same problem with this author. Lots of gushing love and I just shrug 🤷🏻‍♀️ 2w
ChaoticMissAdventures @Ruthiella this and the Wolves one, I put them both down and just felt unreasonably annoyed. The situations she writes are just so out of pocket ridiculous. Migrations I just sort of felt meh about. Like @LiteraryHoarderPenny I just shrug. Not for me. 2w
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#sumdayfunday @BookmarkTavern
The list is so long.
James Baldwin, always more Baldwin.

Ocean Vuong (Tagged)

I would like to start reading Alan Hollinghurst (his books are huge so intimidating)

My main focus this year though is Patricia Highsmith, I am having a lot of fun with her this year.

BookmarkTavern I need to read more Vuong too! Thanks for answering! 2w
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Wild Dark Shore | Charlotte McConaghy
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At a cafe reading #CampLitsy25 book 2 which is due back tomorrow thinking about our conversation earlier today about if a character felt judged by the waiter as I overhear a conversation by 2 women that started "Well when my dad left my mom for your mom...." ?. I am a nosy cafe person!

Kitta 😂 2w
Ruthiella That would catch my attention too! 👀🤣 2w
squirrelbrain Lol, so funny! And such an intriguing, delicious conversation opener! 🤣 (edited) 2w
BarbaraBB Sounds like a great first sentence of a book! 2w
Lesliereadsalot Haha. I‘d like to hear that conversation! 2w
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Happy Place | Emily Henry
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Low pick
This is my first Henry, I for sure should not have read it directly after Giovanni's Room. I spent the first bit super annoyed at the rich white people. Then scared a coworker when I tossed my headphones off when a characters "nipples pinched" when she saw someone ?. The story grew on me until the end then I was annoyed again. I guess I see what others see, it just really isn't for me. I have one more of her books in my office...

monalyisha This one & People We Meet on Vacation are my least favorites by her. She may not be for you, and that‘s okay, but this isn‘t her best work (imo). 2w
willaful Definitely my least favorite by her. 2w
ChaoticMissAdventures @monalyisha @willaful good to know! I can see the charm but some people might like in it but this isn't really my genre. I have one more I bought at the same time to try 2w
Suet624 Hahaha. I‘ve never read any of hers, but it seems pretty universal that this book is the least favorite of many folks. 2w
TheLudicReader I have tried two Henrys and DMF either. 2w
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Stone Butch Blues | Leslie Feinberg
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Happy Pride Month! Last weekend I did classic, classics of Pride - which because they are older skewed very male. This weekend I want to do some ladies with Modern Classics (published after 1980)
All of these are FANTASTIC and worth the read.
Stone Butch Blues was written by a trans author it is novel about a lesbian that is heartfelt, sad, and for many an informative look at what being Butch in the 50-60s was like. Please check TW
5 ⭐

ChaoticMissAdventures A little bit cheesy but overall a wonderfully told story of new love and finding yourself. Real in the way the other people around them were treating them. The book has been banned from many school libraries and publicly burned in Kansas City, so you know it is worth the read. 4 ⭐ 3w
ChaoticMissAdventures Nevada is a cult classic about a trans woman I enjoyed messy Maria. She has been living her truth for ten years and she still doesn't have it all figured out. The books ending is a bit controversial and if you get later versions the author talks about why she did what she did to Maria and James 4.5 ⭐ 3w
ChaoticMissAdventures A semi-autobiographical book this is a lesbian classic! A woman in a cult starts to minister and falls in love with one of the converts! The writing is obviously studied, and I enjoyed the characters. 4 ⭐ 3w
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ChaoticMissAdventures Sarah Waters is a queer lit icon. this one is one of her most known, I was engrossed the entire time with where Nan was going. Up and down in life. Searching for herself. The synopsis always states it is about her and Kitty and their relationship, but I found that to be such a small part of the book, them together, and the focus instead being on what the life of someone who dresses, and behaves differently than society expects is like. 3w
CaseyTheCanadianLesbrarian Love all of these books too, especially Tipping the Velvet and Oranges Are Not the Only Fruit! Stone Butch Blues is a tough read but so good too, I learned so much from it. 2w
Kitta Only read Tipping and Oranges from this list! Stone has been on my radar for a while though. 2w
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#14books14weeks

I have somehow lost track if we are still on week one or if we are in week 2? Either way I have finished 3 books! The tagged has been my favorite.

Up next Anne of Green Gables.

Ruthiella Nice work! I have yet to complete even one! 🙊😂 2w
ChaoticMissAdventures @Ruthiella I am rushing through the first ones because I am going to lose steam soon! 2w
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Book mail!

Disappoint Me and Death of the Author from Aardvark book box

Box from Blackwells with Ocean Vuong Emperor of Gladness and Baldwin's Just Above My Head

Pango box contained John Lewis' Across That Bridge and 2 more Baldwin's Go Tell It On The Mountain and Going To Meet The Man

BarbaraBB But you‘ve already read Disappoint Me? 3w
britt_brooke Pretty photo! 3w
ChaoticMissAdventures @BarbaraBB I have but I read a digital advanced readers copy so I needed one for my trophy wall! 3w
BarbaraBB You‘re absolutely right 😀 2w
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🏳️‍⚧️
4⭐

This was a bit predictable, things that felt like the author were setting up to be a twist too early and easily identified. But overall I enjoyed this. There was some depth - but Charles and James having family drama and a sense of not being seen. I enjoyed the writing and really liked the ending.

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Giovanni's Room | James Baldwin
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#TLT @dabbe

Favorites
Baldwin (Giovanni & Go Tell It)
Invisible Man (should be required reading)
Talented Mr Ripley

Some I own but have yet to read:
Zorba
Cry Beloved Country
Dr Zhivago

dabbe INVISIBLE MAN has appeared on the AP literature exam more than any other novel since the creation of the test. #clearlyforareason Thanks for playing and sharing. 💙📚💚 3w
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Giovanni's Room | James Baldwin
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"One day I'll weep for this. One of these days I'll start to cry."

5⭐

This is maybe my 4th time reading this and (my memory is not good) each time I am in awe of Baldwin's language and how he weaves the story of Giovanni, Jacques, Guillaume, Hella and David.

This might be my perfect book. I love the heart, the tragedy, the setting is visceral and the characters are incredibly realistic.

BarbaraBB I read this so long ago I don‘t remember much. You make me want to pick it up again 3w
youneverarrived One of the few books I‘d like to re read too. I remember being floored by it. 3w
BkClubCare Ditto 2w
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Giovanni's Room | James Baldwin
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"'Somebody," said Jacques, "your father or mine, should have told us that not many people have ever died of love. But multitudes have perished, and are perishing every hour--and in the oddest places!--for the lack of it."

#Baldwin

lil1inblue 💗 💗 💗 💗 💗 3w
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Automatic Noodle | Annalee Newitz
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Out according to GR on Aug 5, 2025

I thought this was cute and original. A group of robots fresh off a war that breaks California from the US start a noodle restaurant. Some are passionate about the noodles some just need to make their servitude payments. While some awful topics are touched upon (war, robot slavery, robot phobia) the book stays mostly light hearted as the motley crew try to figure out how to run a biz & who is review bombing

ChaoticMissAdventures 3.5 ⭐ I could have used more depth. The characters were distinct but surface level and we got one scene from one of why he might be where he is but nothing really on the rest. I am unsure if this will be a series and that is why but it felt a bit surface level and unbalanced on the characters. 3w
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Witch King | Martha Wells
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Mehso-so

I fear this book is the victim of my expectations based off Murderbot which I absolutely adore. Wells' use of world building, her use of gender and fluidity is all done so well. But this felt a bit too slow and I found myself really struggling to pay attention which then caused me to lose track of who everyone was (it felt like a lot of characters)

Overall this was just okay for me.

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Well. This was just lovely. I wish it had a different cover, I think I would have picked it up sooner.
The Berry's and The Marsh's couple of years living next door to each other their lives so intertwined and yet not at all. This book is about the power of a chosen family. I loved how each POV reveals a different look at all of their lives and the slow unraveling of how everyone got to where they are. I really loved the language Elliott uses.

ChaoticMissAdventures The last 50 or so pages I felt serious doom for most of the characters, which shows what kinds of books I normally read and I am so relieved and happy that the ending is so solid and not traumatic! 3w
squirrelbrain Glad you loved it! 3w
ChaoticMissAdventures @squirrelbrain I really did! I don't know why it took me so long to pick it up, but I loved her writing, and found all the characters charming. 3w
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BookSpinBingo | Untitled
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Here we go!!

Happy June!
Happy Pride!

#Bookspin
#BookspinBingo
@TheAromaofBooks

TheAromaofBooks Woohoo!! Looks fantastic!! 3w
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BookSpinBingo | Untitled
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#Bookspin = At swim, two boys

#DoubleSpin = Henry Hamlet's Heart

So excited! They both look excellent in different ways and have been on my bookcase for over a year

@TheAromaofBooks

MatchlessMarie I never noticed we have a dedicated bookspinbingo “book” in the database now. So cool! 3w
ChaoticMissAdventures @MatchlessMarie so great! I tag it when there is so many options I cannot choose! 3w
TheAromaofBooks Yay!! Enjoy!! 3w
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Witch King | Martha Wells
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I am almost finished with the tagged. That and WDS need to go back to the library next weekend so those are priorities - after Giovanni's Room

Happy Place I grabbed on audio and is part of my #25in25 & #14in14 so want to ✅ that off. It will be my first Henry.

Marsha - this looks incredible and I am looking forward to it, trying to read one NF a week this Pride

And then A Gentleman's Gentleman for pure fun!

Julsmarshall Love that goal! 3w
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It's PRIDE month!!

Here are 5 classic books I think everyone should read at least once.

Chorus of Witches was recently found and re-published. It is the first known book about Drag Queens. Written in 1959 by British author Paul Buckland, it is set against the backdrop of a traveling drag show, and a set of parents that don't know what their son is getting up to.
The secondary characters banter and behind the scenes scenes are the best!

ChaoticMissAdventures This one was made into a gorgeous movie called Carol. I recommend both the book and the movie. I LOVE Patricia Highsmith, and this coming of age, illicit romance is her at her best. I don't typically like age gaps, but Carol is a captivating character, and knowing it was written and published in 1952 gives it so much impact on the literary world. 3w
ChaoticMissAdventures This was written in 1913, and you can tell. The language is challenging, I often felt I was missing transitions, even during characters conversations. But overall this is a remarkable story especially for the time it was written. This is great for people who love classic academia setting books. 3w
ChaoticMissAdventures If you have not read this why not? Yes filled with unlikable characters, and the allegory is a bit in your face, but the writing is fantastic, the storytelling is very compelling, and it is a wicked delight. There are so many reference to this story in all sorts of media and real life, you are really missing out if you don't read it yourself. 3w
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ChaoticMissAdventures Finally, one of my favorites James Baldwin was an international treasure. A true to the word genius, but one who writes descriptive, everyday people in a gorgeous and moving way that anyone can pick up this book and understand it. I absolutely love this one, and have been reading it for pride the last few years. Set in the hot south of France it is perfect to kick off summer with. 3w
LeeRHarry I‘m onboard for Chorus of Witches. (edited) 3w
Kitta Excellent list! I‘ve been meaning to read Maurice for years. 3w
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I am so excited Aardvark has Nicola Dinan's new book!! I was able to read an ARC of it, and absolutely loved it. She is fast becoming an auto buy author of mine.

Also thrilled that Nnedi Okorafor's book is still in stock so that I can grab it for #CampLitsy25

#AardvarkBookBox

BarbaraBB My next read will be Disappointment Me, thanks to your recommendation. Unfortunately my edition is not as beautiful as yours! 3w
ChaoticMissAdventures @BarbaraBB the British balloon cover? Very rarely do I like the American cover better, but this once I decided to wait a bit longer to get my hands on a copy because I love the panting (Decadent Young Woman by Ramon Casas) that was used for the American cover. 3w
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BookSpinBingo | Untitled
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I read my #doublespin but didn't get to my #bookspin... will get to it this summer though. I am determined.

5 Bingos!

#Bookspinbingo @thearomaofbooks

TheAromaofBooks Yay!! Looking fabulous!! 3w
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May reading (I have about 60 pages left of Flamingo so I am counting it for May)

It was a lot of good not amazing books.

4.5 ⭐
By The Fire We Carry

4 ⭐
A House For Miss Pauline
Hula
Conversations w/Friends
Flamingo

3.75 ⭐
A Master of Djinn
Deep Water
I Think They Love You
Some Desperate Glory

3.5 ⭐
A Leopard-Skin Hat
Colored Television
The Dark Maestro
The Phantom of the Opera
The Chromatic Fantasy

3 ⭐
Crazy Rich Asians
By the Book

BarbaraBB Great month! 3w
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Pachinko | Min Jin Lee
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Oh. Oh no .. 😂.

BarbaraBB Huh?!? 3w
Amiable Wow 😳 3w
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Bookwormjillk Lol oh you dummy 3w
julieclair 😬 3w
sarahbarnes Omg that is so awkward dude. Love her response. 3w
Ruthiella Oops! 🙄 3w
Deblovestoread People! 🤦🏻‍♀️ 3w
Susanita 😮 3w
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