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BookishMarginalia
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It turns out four years is long enough to burn out, get pushed into reinvention, learn you‘re autistic, build a new life (with the same wife and a few more cats), and still miss the gentle chaos of Litsy. I was #BookishMarginalia back then; I still am, just with better self-knowledge and a lot more joy. If we knew each other before, hi again. If not, I‘m glad we‘re starting fresh. I‘m now a self-employed writer & coach who still 🫶🏼 books!

thebacklistbook Glad to see you back! 6d
MemoirsForMe Yay! So happy to see reinvented you again! You were one of the first bookish friends I met on Litsy. Glad you‘re doing so well! 🤗 6d
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Bookwormjillk Oh my gosh, hi! I remember you from when I first joined Litsy. So glad to see you! 6d
bookandbedandtea Welcome back! 6d
BookishMarginalia @MemoirsForMe Thank you! It took a minute (well, lots of minutes!) but it‘s great to be back among my book peeps! 6d
Darklunarose Congratulations on your diagnosis! Here is to a better understanding of yourself, and permission to go gentle on yourself as well ❤️ 6d
BookishMarginalia @Darklunarose Thank you for— it explains so much and gives me language to explain so many of my experiences and struggles. Yes, kind and gentle is the goal 💜 6d
JamieArc Welcome back! Now get @WanderingBookaneer back too 😊❤️ 6d
JessClark78 Welcome back! 🙂 6d
JenReadsAlot Welcome back! Good to see you! 6d
MrsMalaprop Welcome back! Look forward to ‘seeing‘ more of you 🥰📚. 6d
TheKidUpstairs Welcome back! It's lovely to see you here again! 6d
DGRachel Welcome back! I‘m so glad to see you again! 🥰 6d
quietjenn Welcome back! There's a lot to be said for self-knowledge. 6d
Avanders Welcome back!! 🙋🏻‍♀️ We all need some time away, some resetting, sometimes 🤗 6d
Scochrane26 ❤️ your cat 6d
RaeLovesToRead Welcome back! 💕 6d
ravenlee Welcome home! Er…back! 6d
BethM Also thanks for letting us know it‘s the same wife and that she‘s good! We miss her too! 6d
Chrissyreadit Yay to your return and that you are doing well! I hope @WanderingBookaneer is able to join in too ❤️ 6d
Clare-Dragonfly Welcome back!!! 6d
Bklover Oh my goodness WELCOME BACK! It‘s so nice to see you back here. ❤️❤️to both you and @WanderingBookaneer ! 6d
Deblovestoread So glad you‘re back! ❤️ 6d
TheBookgeekFrau Welcome back!!! It's so nice to see your name in my feed again 😊 I was gone for a few years myself and was C.Perone the last times our paths crossed 👋🏼 6d
Daisey Glad to see you back! 6d
Gissy A big hug from Puerto Rico🥰♥️♥️♥️ 6d
TheBookHippie I‘m so happy to see you!!!! 💕💕💕💕 6d
BookishMarginalia @JamieArc @BethM @Chrissyreadit Maybe once she finishes her masters in library science 🤞🏼 (edited) 6d
mariaku21 Sometimes going away for a bit helps a lot. Hope your having a great weekend! 6d
BookishMarginalia @MrsMalaprop Thank you! I have a lot of time to make up for 😜 6d
Ruthiella Welcome back! 😃 6d
BookishMarginalia @mariaku21 Yes! And lots of time for reading and cats this weekend = perfection 6d
BookishMarginalia @TheBookHippie Right back at ya! 💜💜💜 6d
BookishMarginalia @Gissy Big hug 💜💜💜 6d
BookishMarginalia @TheBookgeekFrau Thank you! I‘m glad we‘re both back — love your new handle 👍🏼 6d
BookishMarginalia @Deblovestoread Thank you! Me too! 6d
BookishMarginalia @Bklover Thank you! 💜💜💜 6d
BookishMarginalia @Clare-Dragonfly 💜 6d
BookishMarginalia @Chrissyreadit Thank you! It‘s lovely to see you! 6d
BookishMarginalia @Scochrane26 Thank you! And David says thanks too (she‘s a girl 😜) 6d
BarbaraJean SO good to see you back!! 💜😊📚 6d
BookishMarginalia @Avanders Thank you — I agree! 6d
BookishMarginalia @quietjenn Thank you - here‘s to growing in self-knowledge 🥂 6d
BookishMarginalia @DGRachel Thank you and ditto! 6d
BookishMarginalia @TheKidUpstairs Thank you! 🫶🏼 6d
BookishMarginalia @BarbaraJean Thank you! 😊 6d
Librarybelle Welcome back! 6d
Amiable Welcome back! 6d
TNbookworm Welcome back! 6d
sarahbarnes Good to see you! Glad you‘re back! 6d
Reggie Hey, it‘s nice to see you again! 6d
KT1432 Hey!! Glad you‘re back!! 5d
squirrelbrain Welcome back - it‘s good to see you again! 5d
zezeki Welcome back!! 5d
Lcsmcat Welcome back! 5d
staci.reads Welcome back! 5d
TrishB Hi Gloria 👋 lovely to see you back. 5d
Chelsea.Poole Glad to see you! 5d
Sharpeipup So glad to see you! 5d
PaperbackPirate Glad you made it back! 🐈🐈‍⬛ 5d
kspenmoll Happy happy you have returned! 5d
Christine Oh hooray!! So very happy to see you here again (and thanks for sharing). 🩷 5d
AnneCecilie I‘m glad to see you back 😊 5d
Cuilin Welcome back, 💐 5d
BookishMarginalia @sarahbarnes Thank you! 😊 4d
BookishMarginalia @Reggie Thank you! Ditto! 4d
BookishMarginalia @squirrelbrain it‘s good to be back! 4d
BookishMarginalia @staci.reads Thanks! 4d
BookishMarginalia @TrishB it‘s great to see you too! 4d
BookishMarginalia @Sharpeipup Good to see you too! 4d
BookishMarginalia @Christine 👋👋👋 💜 4d
CarolynM It's wonderful to have you back! You (& @WanderingBookaneer) have been missed. Long may your joy continue🥰 4d
BookishMarginalia @CarolynM Thank you! 🫶🏼 4d
merelybookish Hello! Did a little double take when I saw your name! Glad you have returned! 4d
LeahBergen I‘m so happy to see you‘re back! 😘 4d
youneverarrived Lovely to see you back 🩷 3d
BookishMarginalia @merelybookish Thank you! I‘m glad too! 3d
BarbaraBB How good to see you back here! You‘ve been missed ❤️ 2d
Texreader ♥️💕♥️💕♥️💕 16h
mom2bugnbee I've missed my birthday twin! Welcome back - I'm glad that you & wifey are doing well! 15h
Bookperson96 Nice to make your acquaintance and welcome back! Wishing you, as well as your significant other, lots of (bookish) joy! 👋🏻🙂📚 19m
BookishMarginalia @Bookperson96 Thank you! 👋🏼 now
Bookperson96 You‘re welcome! 🙂 @BookishMarginalia now
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MaggieCarr
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Pickpick

"Autism's Lost Girls and Women have Long been overlooked, unrecognized, underdiagnosed, and left off the spectrum." This book explains how it happened and is a call to action to correct it, but a Cognitive Neuroscientist that says she was part of the problem and how she intents to improve research in the future. This book actually had me thinking about adults in my life and wondering if their tendencies are also attributed to undiagnosed...

MaggieCarr ... undiagnosed autism instead of the cornucopia of labels they've been given. 4mo
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IriDas
My Brother Otto | Meg Raby
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Just got home from my youngest son‘s Reg‘l Ctr annual appt. The SW usually comes to us, but I thought it would be easier to go there. When we got home, he did not know where we were. Because it was not a normal place he goes, in that 2 hours (incl commute) he had become so disoriented I had to take his hand to lead him. It reminds me that my kids are the people this admin hates. I never have the privilege to be non-political.

#booksarepolitical

lil1inblue 💓 💓 💓 5mo
Leftcoastzen Hugs 🫂 to you and yours , such evil BS. 5mo
ncsufoxes 💓 , same here. I have 3 neurodiverse kids, 1 of which is Autistic. He‘s a smart kid but I don‘t think he‘ll ever be independent. I have to be political because they have made my kids lives political. When their ability to access services & programs is dependent upon funding or some politician having an ounce of understanding of what my life is like or the hoops that parents have to jump through, you have to be political. It‘s f-n exhausting 5mo
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willaful @ncsufoxes I hear you. My adult daughter is autistic and gets a lot of services. Or did. Who knows now. 🤬 5mo
TheBookHippie 💙💙💙💙💙💙💙 5mo
TheBookHippie Sending you so much love. 5mo
IriDas @lil1inblue Thank you. 5mo
IriDas @Leftcoastzen It is. And so unnecessary. 5mo
IriDas @ncsufoxes I have two autistic and one other with disabilities. It really is exhausting, isn‘t it? Between the politics and how evil the insurance companies are, I really have nothing left most days. 5mo
IriDas @willaful That‘s scary. It‘s already hard to get services. I used to think we‘d be safe in California, but CHLA is cowing to the admin over trans issues, what will they do now? Just dump all their Medicaid patients? And Newsom is recommending more cuts to disability services. Gotta keep the rich happy. (edited) 5mo
IriDas @CBee Thanks. It‘s all more than a bit too much today. Also, I think I accidentally deleted your comment. I was trying to edit mine and now yours is gone. :( do you mind reposting it? 5mo
CBee @IriDas sure! I was just offering solidarity as I also have an autistic child (11). Mentioned if you, @ncsufoxes and @willaful ever wanted to email about experiences I‘d be open and available ♥️ 5mo
IriDas @CBee that would be very nice. I do not have really any support, though I do have a few friends at work now who kind of get it. But it‘s not the same as people who know the long haul we are all in for. 5mo
AnnCrystal 💝🫂💝. 5mo
Amiable It‘s not enough, but sending love and virtual hugs to you and yours. I‘m so sorry our country is repeatedly and so thoroughly failing its most vulnerable citizens. ☹️😖💙 5mo
CBee @IriDas my email is cydneybean@gmail.com. Write anytime ♥️ 5mo
IriDas @AnnCrystal Thanks 5mo
IriDas @Amiable Thanks. 5mo
IriDas @CBee Thanks. I shall. 5mo
Jess861 Sending you and your family positive vibes. 5mo
CBee @IriDas looking forward to it ♥️ 5mo
dabbe I am so sorry that you have to fight so hard in this current administration. Holding you and your family in my thoughts. 💙✊💙 5mo
IriDas @Jess861 Thanks. 5mo
IriDas @dabbe thank you. 5mo
Bookwomble ❤️♾️❤️ I'm AuDHD - Neurodivergent solidarity from Britain! ✊🏻 We get some of the same oppressive rhetoric and attacks on funding here, too. I'm lucky enough that I work in a job where I can offer some support to affected people. Sending you and your family virtual good vibes 💟 5mo
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LiseWorks
Since We're Friends | Celeste Shally
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May 12th #Bibliophile ProtagWithDissability @Eggs @Alwaysbeenaloverofbooks

Eggs 🩵💛🩵 7mo
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CoffeeK8
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This book can be a really great resource and overview about Autism in women. It was informative and provided some great insight into how women were overlooked during research for so long, and the different ways that Autism presents in women. It would be a great resource for someone starting their journey into learning more about this topic.

CoffeeK8 There were some moments (the use of the word "normal" at certain points, comes to mind) that are worth noting, but overall it was a worthwhile read.

Thank you to #Netgalley and #HachetteAudio for an #ARC of this book in exchange for an honest review.
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TieDyeDude
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I have had a rough time lately, mentally. I'm stressing about an upcoming certification exam. I've been sick for two weeks now with some respiratory virus. I've been getting garbage sleep. I've had to listen to deplorable people use their platform to disparage transgender, asexuals, anti-war protesters, immigrants, AmeriCorps, and people with autism. And I've spent way too much time on Facebook seeing people (or bots, who the f knows) celebrate.

TieDyeDude It is a dark pit I can usually avoid, but lack of health and sleep weakened my defenses. My symptoms are easing, and my exam is tomorrow, so I'm hoping for a better week. Our book club is also tomorrow. We have vacation in June to look forward to. I'm also absorbing all the DC movie news and Star Wars Celebration announcements. To the future! 7mo
TieDyeDude Lastly, fuck that sentient tanning hide and his lies.
Image by autistic artist Jeremy Sicile-Kira.
Here is a list of 7 books about autism and neurodiversity
https://www.aspect.org.au/blog/top-7-books-about-autism-and-neurodiversity-for-a...
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Jari-chan Sending you strength in this harsh times 💖 7mo
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AnnCrystal 🙏💫 may you get better, and may you ace your exam (I loathe tests, I get it). The world is chaotic right now, it feels like we're in the wrong storyline...try (try) to focus on the things that calm you 🙏💫💫💫. 7mo
MatchlessMarie I‘ve been feeling sucked into the pit of despair lately too 😵‍💫 so it was actually heartening to see this first thing opening this app in weeks. 💜🫂 7mo
Deblovestoread Good luck on the exam! No sleep is the worst and it makes the current 💩 show harder to bear for sure. Just remember you are not alone. ✊🏼 7mo
Ruthiella I hear you!❤️ Its hard to keep the fear and negativity at bay. Good luck with the exam. 🤞 7mo
Mimi28 Hope you feel better and good luck on the exam 🫶🏽🩷😊 7mo
quietlycuriouskate Ugh, it's a lot! May you be well (on all levels), and best wishes for your exam. 7mo
TheBookgeekFrau Wishing you well and best of luck on your exam. 💕 7mo
willaful Sending sympathy and good wishes and a reminder that you don't have to listen to that horrible crap. Give yourself breaks, permanent ones if needed. 7mo
Librarybelle ❤️❤️❤️ 7mo
TheLudicReader Perfect storm of shit 😢 …I hope there are better, more positive days ahead! 7mo
Read4life Hope you‘re feeling better, Andrew & that your exam went well. 7mo
Bookwomble I hope your exam went well, Andrew, and that your recovery has continued. Look after yourself 💖 7mo
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Lands
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It is possible to go into a bookstore without buying anything. I did today. I almost didn‘t. See. This looks interesting.

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PuddleJumper
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This is a very accessible book for people learning about ADHD and autism. It's casual, there's a lot of Internet speak, anecdotes, and it's very supportive.

It's a validating read if you are struggling with a diagnosis or starting to see you might be neurodivergent.

That's the extent of it. There's nothing new, or actionable. It was affirming.

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Magpiegem
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12 years ago today I became a Mummy. My beautiful boy has complex special needs and my world has become a whole lot smaller over the last decade. It‘s one of the reasons books are so important to me, they aren‘t just my escape from everyday life, they are my chance to go other places and have other adventures. Books keep me sane!

TheKidUpstairs What a beautiful photo! Hopefully, Litsy is a safe space for you to have a moment for you in your days. Glad that you're here. 10mo
Butterfinger Happy birthday little one 10mo
AmyG Beautiful photo! Happy Birthday to your boy! 🎉 10mo
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Deblovestoread Happy birthday to your son! Beautiful photo! 10mo
BookNAround Happy day to both of you! 10mo
dabbe HB to your son! 🩶🖤🩶 10mo
marleed Oh HBD Beautiful Boy! 10mo
BarbaraBB Happpy birthday to your beautiful son 🥰 10mo
Read4life What a beautiful picture!! 10mo
LeahBergen Beautiful! ❤️ 10mo
Magpiegem @TheKidUpstairs thank you so much, it certainly is! 🩷 10mo
Magpiegem @Butterfinger thank you xx 10mo
Magpiegem @AmyG thank you xx 10mo
Magpiegem @Deblovestoread 😊 thank you xx 10mo
Magpiegem @BookNAround thank you 🩷 10mo
Magpiegem @dabbe thank you xx 10mo
Magpiegem @marleed 😊 thank you xx 10mo
Magpiegem @BarbaraBB thanks so much xx 10mo
Magpiegem @Read4life 🩷thank you x 10mo
Magpiegem @LeahBergen thank you xx 10mo
Chelsea.Poole What a great photo. Happy birthday to your buddy. 10mo
CarolynM Such a beautiful photo😍 Happy birthday to your boy and congratulations to you on 12 years of motherhood 💕 10mo
Magpiegem @Chelsea.Poole thank you ☺️ 10mo
Magpiegem @CarolynM thanks so much 😊 xx 10mo
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