perfectionist

Brave, Not Perfect: Fear Less, Fail More, and Live Bolder | Reshma Saujani

Currently listening to BRAVE, NOT PERFECT and I feel attacked
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#bravenotperfect #perfect #perfection #perfectionism #perfectionist #selfhelp #selfhelpbooks #selfimprovement #book #librarian #booklife #amreading #books #bookish #booknerd #bookstagram #bookstagrammer #igbooks #booklover

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BarbaraTheBibliophage

Booked Twice: Booked to Die and The Bookman's Wake | John Dunning

#booked2019 #update Here‘s where I am, as of today. On track w/numbers but behaving like the #rebelreader I am and jumping around between seasons. Still another month to go in Spring too.

1. Murder in the Marais
2. Fierce Fairytales
3. Molokai
4. The Road to Jonestown
6. Forensics
7. Dark of the Moon
9. Heart Berries
10. Bel Canto
12. The Bonjour Effect
13. Where The Crawdads Sing
21. Daisy Jones
23. Kristin Lavransdatter
24. The Other Queen

Cinfhen, alisiakae

Cinfhen Ohhhhhh!!!! Lots of progress 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻 5y

BarbaraTheBibliophage @Cinfhen Thanks! And yet I still feel behind because of that one winter prompt left unchecked. #perfectionist (edited) 5y

Carleneishere If I may suggest one for Social Media Focus: Red White and Royal Blue! It‘s fantastic (100% picks on Litsy!) and I‘ve pressured manynon romance reading friends into reading it and they love it too! 5y

BarbaraTheBibliophage @Carleneishere Thanks—I‘ll keep it in mind! 5y

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monalyisha

The Library Book | Susan Orlean

I‘ve been working in libraries (in Children‘s services) for 10+ years. I‘ve been super-conflicted about going for my MLIS. It has nothing to do with not liking school (I‘m a big nerd 🤓), or being unsure about my career path (I love what I do), or not wanting to put in the effort. It has *everything* to do with debt. My current job offers tuition reimbursement but I‘m actively job-searching.

I‘ve decided to apply for Summer Admission.😱Excelsior!

emtobiasz Good luck, and congrats on taking that first step! The debt fear is real. But I love the opportunities that have opened up to me since getting my MLIS, and already having that library background will really help in your classes. 6y

dgingo Congratulations and good luck! 6y

Zelma Congrats on the decision! Smart on thinking about debt though, and planning to avoid or reduce it. I don‘t regret my career choice but I certainly regret the path I took to get there. My librarian salary does make up for my grad school debt. 6y

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Lcsmcat 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻 Congratulations! 6y

Schnoebs Congrats!! Enjoy this next stage of your career 6y

monalyisha @emtobiasz Thanks! I‘m nervous about adding to my undergrad debt. Still, I‘ve been searching for a job without it for the last ten years. I know what‘s available to me without it & I know I‘m not satisfied. I want more intellectual & creative freedom & independence. I want a FT job that doesn‘t necessitate an hour commute. I want to supervise my goddamn self. 😆 I know I‘m good at what I do. I deserve to DO it & be adequately paid for it. 💪🏻 6y

Chrissyreadit Congratulations! 6y

monalyisha @Zelma Yeah. Honestly, if I could find a full-time Children‘s Assistant job in Rhode Island without it, I don‘t know that I would get it. But a decade‘s shown me that it‘s not happening. I‘m... resigned that I need it? Is that horrible? I think that‘s horrible but also just true & where we‘re at right now. I‘m tempted to keep waiting for things to change but I‘m also just so sick of waiting. 6y

julesG Go for it! I understand that you don't want to add to already existing debts, but you'll probably earn more with the master's. We're here to cheer you on and let you bitch when the road is rough. 6y

Zelma @monalyisha all of your reasons in your last post sound like you are making absolutely the right decision. I have a friend going through the same decision after working in a library for 15-20 years. She is secure in your job but also wants to make it stays that way and had options in the future. It sound like a degree with really get you in a better place and give you more options. 6y

Zelma @monalyisha oh, and I have had a few friends ask about getting a degree and want feedback. I always advise not to do it unless you already work in a library or are on track to. In your case, I would definitely have supported it. 👍 6y

monalyisha @julesG Thanks! 🙏🏻😍😭 6y

monalyisha @Zelma Thanks for the insider‘s view! It‘s comforting. I‘ve had a lot of coworkers/supervisors tell me to do it, but rarely have they expressed any doubt or hesitation & it always feels a bit like...OF COURSE they have to say that it‘s worth it. They‘ve already done it. They have to reconfirm that *they* made the right decision. So, it‘s nice to hear “Do it!” & “Yikes, though! I know!” in the same breath. 6y

Zelma @monalyisha glad to be of help! It‘s definitely a mixed feeling on whether it was all worth it. Most days, I think it was. 😁 6y

CocoReads Congrats and good luck! 6y

Clare-Dragonfly Yay! Good luck! 6y

ravenlee Congrats on taking the plunge! Sounds like you‘ve considered everything very carefully and it will be a good move. Good luck! 6y

jenreads7 Congratulations! Good luck!🍀 6y

LibrarianToujours If you are choosing between similar programs, choose the cheaper one. Nobody has ever cared where I got my degree, just that I have one. Also check with your state library association, they may offer grants or have partnered with a program to offer a discount on tuition. It does sometimes take a while to be worth it. I got my degree in 2009, but it only paid off job/money-wise in 2014. 6y

LibrarianToujours Being a Director means I have the intellectual and creative freedom plus independence you want, but it also means being responsible and accountable for every single that happens in the library as well as being a presence in my small community. It‘s mostly amazing, but can be very draining and sometimes isolating. 6y

monalyisha Thanks @NHLibrarian! I‘m going to apply to URI. It‘s public (unlike Simmons) & I‘ll get in-state tuition since I‘m a resident. 🙌🏻 6y

monalyisha @NHLibrarian I admire your drive! I certainly don‘t have directorial ambitions. Honestly, part of why I‘ve been on the fence is that I don‘t really have any desire to oversee other employees. I‘m like that little girl in her car seat: I wish I could just do everything myself (#perfectionist) & not supervise anyone else, either. Clearly, those aren‘t realistic expectations but it‘s okay to dream sometimes! 😅 6y

monalyisha @NHLibrarian https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=4A6Bu96ALOw 6y

LibrarianToujours @monalyisha I‘ll tell you something my favorite trustee told me never to tell anyone: I never wanted to be a director or work with the public 😆. I fell into this because I was unemployed when the previous director retired. Nobody was more surprised than me to learn that I actually like it. But I would also never be director of a bigger library because now I also still get to do day-to-day library work. 6y

monalyisha @NHLibrarian Ha! I like people (even if I do relish my time alone to recharge). It sounds like you‘re happy in your job; that‘s the dream! 🤩🙌🏻 6y

dylanisreading Congrats! That's awesome! 6y

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amb

The Listmaker | Robin Klein

@BridgetteM
@monalyisha suggested you might be looking for a longer list for the #NewYearWhoDis exchange, and I just happened to get my Goodreads lookback on 2018. I reviewed it and updated the list with the most memorable books I read this year. Hope this helps.

monalyisha I love handwritten lists! 😍 6y

BridgetteM I was impressed with your first list, and now I‘m totally blown away! I just bought Queen of the Night. So excited! Glad to be matched up with you, @amb (edited) 6y

amb @BridgetteM all of the ❤️ for that book so epic! 6y

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GingerAntics

Writing Magic: Creating Stories That Fly | Gail Carson Levine

Perfectionists beware!!!
Almost curious to know how many writers are perfectionists. I‘ve heard a lot of my favourite authors say they‘re perfectionists, so I‘m wondering if this is a common trait among writers.
#writingmagic #gailcarsonlevine #creativewriting #perfectionist #nosuchthingasperfect
I think I‘ve tagged all of my #writersoflitsy friends. Let me know if I‘ve missed anyone. #litsynano #nanowrimo #writeon

wanderinglynn, Texreader, CocoReads, jmofo

CocoReads I‘m not a perfectionist per se, but I also hate to let anyone see my writing. That‘s more of an insecurity thing for me though. @CrowCAH writes too! 6y

GingerAntics @CocoReads I actually started writing at the encouragement of an amazing teacher and then passed them around for the whole class to read. It was the weirdest team sport ever. lol Then a bad teacher turned me off writing for years, and now I don‘t like showing my work to anyone anymore. I‘m with you on that one. 6y

CrowCAH @CocoReads @GingerAntics yup I‘m a writer and recently became an author, with some short works in an anthology; tagged. I am a bit of a perfectionist, but really it‘s more about getting the story right.

Sterling Script: A Local Author Collection

GingerAntics @CrowCAH wow you‘ve been published? Cool. 6y

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Leftcoastzen

The Listmaker | Robin Klein

This post is for @Kaye who is having a bad day , sending hugs your way! Laughter is the best medicine. I think you might take this tip from Michelle.💜💕☮️

JHSiess 🤣🤪🤣🤪🤣🤪🤣 6y

AmyG Oh no @Kaye. Sending a big hug. 6y

Leftcoastzen I always liked that this card can be taken 2 ways 😂 6y

Kaye Thank you. I appreciate the thought. Wish it was that easy to solve. 6y

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ashlinisme

I Didn't Do My Homework Because... | Davide Cali, Benjamin Chaud

After working on homework for over fifty hours this week, I wish I could say this. #project #gradstudent #perfectionist

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akfreeborn

The Listmaker | Robin Klein

I like a list...#20FactsAboutMe

Jess7 you forgot the hashtag #20FactsAboutMe 🤗 7y

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jes

The Listmaker | Robin Klein

I had a ton of books in my wishlist through my digital library only to discover that 1/3 of them are no longer available because my state didn't repurchase those titles. This was my face when I discovered how many books I won't be able to read now.

Justacatandabook 😢 8y

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