1. Santa Fe-Margarita swirled with sangria at Tomasita‘s, goat cheese, figs and honey drizzled crepes at Mille bakery
2. Los Alamos-Bradbury Science Center
3. Cerillos-Origami in the Garden. This one‘s rock, scissors, paper
4. Taos-Rio Grande Gorge Bridge and Taos Pueblo.
5. Santa Fe-puppets at Museum of International Folk Art
6. Painted Desert in Arizona, truly magnificent!

#5JoysFriday

We do not care that the bed in our hotel *suite* in Santa Fe is pushed up against the wall so one person (not me) has to climb out of there and of course wakes up the other person (me). Or that the one umbrella at the pool that provides shade is broken. Or that the Georgia O‘Keeffe museum took a total of 7 minutes to see. We have made the executive decision to leave early and head for The Petrified Forest and Painted Desert.

@dabbe #WDNCW

Having read these four novellas already, I felt like rereading them all at one time to keep the thread of characters clearly in my mind. This is by far the best way to read these stories, Water, Earth, Fire and Air. Four terrific stand alone stories, stories of childhood traumas, survival, hope. Don‘t miss this book if you haven‘t read the novellas already.

Bailed on both of these books, although I gave Nesting about 75 pages. Flesh did not speak to me in the slightest, and after I read the mediocre reviews on Litsy I quickly gave up. I‘m all for women getting away from abusive husbands, but I‘ve read a lot better books on the subject than Nesting. Off to pick up The Elements so I can read the fourth book in that series.

My very favorite snack with a so very sad book. Ash narrates this story of her best friend‘s last weeks in hospice, surrounded by everyone who loves both of them, “my people” as she refers to them. I‘ve always loved that phrase “my people” because it‘s a phrase that everyone gets instinctively. Lots of humor and love in this book, not one false note. A lot to reflect on.

Read this in one day, couldn‘t put it down. Glad I had already finished my extremely difficult Klimt puzzle (pieces were cut in hard way to match up!) It‘s a mystery, woman claims to have gotten pregnant with no male involved. Is it possible? Nobody really thinks so but one woman at a newspaper is willing to follow this lead. As she gets more and more involved with this woman‘s family, her life is dramatically altered. Unexpected ending! ⬇️

Months ago I filled out a questionnaire in the New York Times that would pick out a perfect book for me and this is the one I got. It‘s a short story collection, interconnected in odd ways, telling a futuristic story about mankind, AI, cloning and survival. I really liked the way the stories tied together at the end, hopeful and thought-provoking.

Almost bailed on this book after pages and pages of the narrator whining about infertility. But then a stunner. And then a nice little love story. Lots of annoying mouthy characters, a cute little boy, a mother from France, a narrator with a sense of humor, a main character who you want to constantly strangle. A soft pick.

This one‘s a gripper! Who‘s responsible for the car accident that killed two people? The teenager who was driving? The dad in the passenger seat who narrates the book? The automatic driving system that was running the car? As the details of the accident unfold, we come closer to grasping the details of what happened along with the secrets that keep this family rolling along. Family dynamics play a big part here all the way to the end.

Didn‘t love this story about a Succession type family where dad dies and the family members have to jump through some hoops to inherit his money. I didn‘t feel like I knew this cast of characters any better at the end than I did at the beginning. Some secrets, but nothing earth shattering. Cardboard characters and no big surprises make this book skippable.

#EuropaCollective

Welcome to #EuropaCollective! We‘ll be reading one book every three months, beginning with October. Feel free to read our book anytime in September or October, comment as you go along or wait for the general discussion. This will happen on the last Saturday of the month, which in this case will be October 25th. Want to be tagged or untagged, just let us know. So excited to get this going again! ⬇️

Another beautifully written book by the author of Wild Dark Shore. We meet our narrator as she is trying to join a boat‘s crew so she can track the migration of a group of terns. As the story goes back and forth in time, we find out so much about her life and what has led up to this moment in time. It‘s a love story, a book of mysteries, a story about obsessions. Well worth reading and I loved meeting so very many interesting people.

A beautifully written small book about one day in one flight in space and the six astronauts who inhabit this space ship. In 24 hours, there will be 16 sunrises, 16 sunsets, a typhoon, a death. We read about their dreams, their lives on earth, their thoughts at seeing all the beauty of life from outer space. A very special book.

We do not care that we volunteered to help a friend pack up to move. We do not care about two broken nails, a sore back and pain in too many other places to mention. We also do not care that we broke two tiny serving dishes as there were at least 10 more (maybe 20 as we lost track after hours of bubble wrapping).

#WDNCW @dabbe

Just couldn‘t get into this book about an Asian woman during the pandemic, listening constantly to disparaging remarks, cleaning apartments of murdered women, seeing ghosts and footprints and bite marks. I gave it a hundred pages, but it felt like more of the same.

We first meet Margaret as a child, followed by meeting her again as a divorced mother of two little girls. This book accomplishes so much, bringing her childhood trauma into the light as a mother, grownup, sibling, daughter. Her life is determined by this event, she can never seem to get a grip on it, she constantly reacts to events coming from that place in her life as a child. Not to mention her mother…yikes!

We do not care that the New York Times has added yet another fun puzzle to their daily games page. It‘s called Pips and it‘s a good logic problem. We do not care that doing those puzzles every day takes a good hour, it‘s so fun.

@dabbe #WDNCW

I never read this kind of book, but it was only a couple hundred pages so I persevered. Henry, who is married to pregnant Lily, creates William in the attic, his very own AI robot. It doesn‘t take long for William to take over, etc etc. Bodies pile up and then a big twist, and then finito. A short horror story if you‘re looking for one.

Sophie and Alex are sent by their London newspaper to the Edinburgh Festival Fringe, a three week show of non-stop performances, the biggest fringe festival of its kind anywhere. Alex picks up a girl who he meets in a bar and brings her back to their flat for the night, not long after he‘s seen her show and given it one star. When she finds out she changes her show to be about bad Alex and it takes off. A weakish ending, soft pick.

A strange little book about a woman who is left stranded with a dog when a glass wall comes down out of nowhere and kills everything on the other side. Apparently. She writes down the first two years of her life there and that‘s all we know. And she has to take full responsibility for every aspect of her life as she‘s out in the hills somewhere. There‘s no conversation because there‘s nobody to talk to. Imagine living like that?

I loved this book that came so highly recommended. Written by a Croatian author, and taking place in a small town in Croatia, we follow Ivona through her relationship with the love of her life, Vlaho. Beautifully written about characters who come alive on page after page through their personal journeys and their connections to each other. ⬇️

We do not care that our credit card was stolen this week as we cancelled our card and caught the thieves before any merchandise was shipped. We do not care that our fridge started making an EXTREMELY LOUD HUM and we got a new one at Costco and had it promptly installed so we didn‘t lose any food. And we do not care about any other of life‘s annoyances as we‘re off to Seattle to visit our son.

#WDNCW @dabbe

Well, this book went some unexpected places. Three women, interconnected, all trying to find their true selves. It shouldn‘t have worked, but the humor and realistic situations turned this into a really good read. Lots of thoughts about motherhood, parents, husbands, careers, the whole of life, messy as it is.

A good story! A New Zealand family goes off on a holiday vacation where there there are lots of mysteries: a missing child, a weird neighbor, possibly one of the parents is having an affair. Narrated by the ten year old daughter, the story unfolds slowly with just the right amount of tension and childhood angst.

Here‘s the follow up to Assassins Anonymous of about a year ago. Same cast of characters who are trying to find and rescue a member of their group. We go back and forth between what they‘re doing and what the captured person is doing to save herself. More light reading, fun characters, but a soft pick.

Such a good book. I didn‘t think I‘d enjoy a story told entirely through letters, but this one really worked. The narrator, her family, her friends, her boyfriends, all came to life in beautiful ways. And their stories, all told so very believably. Very special, highly recommend.

I wasn‘t sure about this best seller, a love story about two astronauts during the early 80s when women were new to the space program. We go back and forth between a flight that runs into big, big trouble and the history behind the two women connected by their love of outer space. This book got better and better and it was all I could do not to skip ahead to see what happens at the end. Tears in my eyes on the last two pages.

A powerful 87 page novella. When Anna‘s friend asks if her teenage daughter can stay with her for a year, Anna agrees having no idea of the impact this will have on her husband, two children and the girl herself. This decision will turn their lives upside down, and not in a good way. Poor Anna, and poor everyone else as well.

Breakfast: chai tea and fresh fruit salad
Lunch: grilled cheese
Dinner: Ben & Jerry Phish Food ice cream

#serenesaturdays

We do not care that two old friends each cancelled lunch dates this week. Or that the electric bill was humongous. Or that we drove 45 minutes for lunch to a restaurant that was closed on Mondays. Or that we stopped on the way there at our favorite bakery and it was also closed on Mondays. Or that our hair dresser cut our hair too short. Or that our husband left the sprinkler on ALL NIGHT. We could go on and on, as can you, right?

#WDNCW

I had no idea this book had different endings until I started to read Litsy reviews! I have version A which I felt like had a very natural ending. A geologist, poet wife and snappy comeback daughter are all living a happy ordinary life. Until the daughter is diagnosed with a disease of deterioration. It‘s pretty depressing. Concurrently, the dad follows up on a lead to free some kidnapped women. Well written but not for everyone.

A good story with multiple points of view about a hiker who goes missing while walking the Appalachian Trail in Maine. In addition to the hiker we hear from the warden on the ground who‘s trying to find her and an elderly lady in a nursing facility who‘s following the national coverage. Well drawn characters and a mystery about what really happened there added to my race to finish this one. I wish it had made me feel more than it did.

A very moving story of three people in a family, a mom, a dad, a daughter. Rotating between the early 80s and the early 2020s, we follow the lives of these three people as they become who are they are going to become through circumstances they can‘t control. So realistic it almost reads as a memoir written by these three characters. Life has really changed since the 80s and it had better stay changed, equality for everyone.

This story is a little creepy but had me biting my nails to the end. Dan is witness to a crime when he‘s a child, and has spent his life trying to put his guilt behind him. When his father suspiciously dies, he returns to the island that was his home, and begins to try to solve the crime that he was a small part of. Some very poetic language here which surprised me. And a gripper of a story.

We do not care if we sent our son Strange Pictures even though we hadn‘t read it, but because lots of Litsy readers liked it, and he likes puzzles, but then he asked if he was a Guinea pig, to which we replied some children might just say thanks for sending me a book mom, after which we heard an embarrassed laugh.

#WDNCW @dabbe

I didn‘t love this book. I didn‘t even like any of the characters. Or the story. Or the writing style. Would have bailed but I wanted to finish it for #camplitsy25. Three siblings try to keep the bad guys at bay in small town Virginia as they keep the family crematorium running and try to solve the mystery of their missing mother. One drunk brother, one savvy brother, and one nondescript sister try to keep it together, but it‘s tough.

Two women in Australia, leading their separate lives, following their own paths. I can‘t say enough about the language of this book: powerful, mesmerizing, poetic. How about amazing? We don‘t even know their names, but we know them in the deepest sense. We see them, although often others can‘t. A boatload of stars for this book, do not miss it. And thanks a bazillion to @Jas16 How could anyone not love this book?

Finally got around to this futuristic story where you can have a chip implanted in your brain to help you sleep. Who wouldn‘t want to sleep better? On the down side, however, the chip company can see your dreams and then determine if you are a threat to society. Narrator Sara is thus detained at LAX and sent to a retention center, a prison of sorts, where she will be under observation for three weeks to determine if she actually is a threat. ⬇️

We do not care that United Airlines was out of “complimentary” seats for my flight to Seattle in August, and made me pay an additional thirty bucks just to have a seat, a middle seat no less. That extra money means a lot to United.

#WDNCW

I‘m really torn about what to say about this memoir written by the daughter of Erica Jong, famous of course for writing Fear of Flying in 1973. As her mother descends into dementia in her 70s, daughter Molly tries to analyze both of their lives, her childhood, her need for her mother to actually see her. I‘m not particularly interested in Erica Jong but I understand that her daughter needed to get this stuff out, and thus this book. ⬇️

So happy for #CampLitsy25 because I would never have picked up this book about the friendship between a trans teenager and her teacher, who is just beginning to face the process of transitioning. To be honest, the first third of the book did not speak to me, and I put it down over and over. But then during the middle third, the story started to gel, and the last third was magnificent. Truly spectacular. So many interesting characters ⬇️

1. Waterfall in my favorite spot in Botanic Garden.
2. Just back from Kopp‘s in Milwaukee. Amazing birthday cake ice cream flavor with actual pieces of yellow cake in it!
3. We think we finally got rid of the family of raccoons that were living under the deck.
4. Husband had two biopsies of strange growths on his skin, turned out ok.
5. Planning annual trip to Seattle to visit my son, going overnite to Leavenworth.

#5JoysFriday @peaKnit

Couldn‘t put this thriller down! Thanks @AmyG Lots to unpack in this psychological thriller about a daughter keeping her mother hostage in their house. Alternating between 25 years ago and the present, as well as alternating both viewpoints, leads to many truths, lies, murders etc. Plus a satisfying ending by a very good writer.

We do not care if husband steps right over folded sheets and towels sitting right there on the stairs to be brought up. We will call him out on it anyway to which he will reply that HE DIDN‘T SEE THEM!

#WDNCW @dabbe

Here we are at the end of June. Happy to open the discussion about Gabriele and welcome all comments. Personally I found this to be one slog of a book. I never found any of these people interesting in the slightest outside of the fact that they‘re the worst parents in history! Gabriele could have been an outstanding musician, but no, she gave up her whole career to cater to her husband. Anybody love this book? ⬇️

This was an interesting book, as was her first book, My Husband. Both are stories of obsessive women, this one being about Cloe who is determined to be a famous singer ala Taylor Swift. She sets about her course of action to achieve this and we follow her as she ascends the ladder to stardom. A few words to describe her: vicious, cold, manipulative, and she never changes. Not for a moment. Great ending that I didn‘t see coming.

1. Sent my daughter & boyfriend marble run to build for their 3rd anniversary, extra glue included.
2. Two friends and I got a commemorative brick at the Botanic Garden in honor of our friend‘s mom & brother.
3. Soilandsoulfarm.org. Met with the very cool guy who runs this regenerative farm in the northwest suburbs.
4. Brazilian lemonade recipe from NYT, frothy and made with limes.
5. Met old friend at dog friendly new restaurant.

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I loved this book. Meet Bud, an obituary writer with a wry sense of humor and an amazing circle of friends. He‘s all about life and death, living and dying. I even wrote down this quote “We do not know where death awaits us: so let us wait for it everywhere. To practice death is to practice freedom.” Did I mention that I loved this book? I cried through the last 50 pages. I even loved the author‘s note and the acknowledgments!

One day in the life of extremely pregnant Annie, who has the bad luck to be shopping at IKEA on the day of a major earthquake in Oregon. We follow her all day, interspersed with chapters describing her past, as she speaks constantly to the unborn child she‘s carrying. I liked this book and it made me think about what I would do in a devastating circumstance like this one. Very provocative for #camplitsy25

This book begins in 1908 in Paris, where Gabriele Buffet begins her adult life. She has a lifelong relationship with Francis Picabia, painter and poet, marries him and has four children with him. She has other relationships with Marcel Duchamp, Igor Stravinsky, Elsa Schiaparelli to name a few. Picabia is a horrible husband (many affairs) and a horrible father (never thinks about the kids for one minute). Hard to say why she stays with him ⬇️