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Autobiography of a Face
Autobiography of a Face | Lucy Grealy
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This powerful memoir is about the premium we put on beauty and on a woman's face in particular. It took Lucy Grealy twenty years of living with a distorted self-image and more than thirty reconstructive procedures before she could come to terms with her appearance after childhood cancer and surgery that left her jaw disfigured. As a young girl, she absorbed the searing pain of peer rejection and the paralyzing fear of never being loved.
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JenReadsAlot
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Book scavenger hunt - monochrome #hauntedshelf @PuddleJumper #flerken

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CoffeeNBooks
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OriginalCyn620 🖤🖤🖤 2mo
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CoffeeNBooks
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Pickpick

This is Lucy Grealy's beautifully written memoir about being diagnosed with Ewing's Sarcoma as a child and the innumerable chemotherapy, radiation, surgeries, and other treatments she endured growing up and into adulthood. It is a very sad story about the terrible hardships she endured, but the way she writes makes you want to keep reading.
#LitsyLoveReads
#ReadAway2024 @andrew65
#BookChain2024 @TheAromaofBooks

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CoffeeNBooks
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Hurricane prep is done, now for some Hurricane Day reading.

Deblovestoread Stay safe! 3mo
Ruthiella Hoping for the best! ❤️ 3mo
TheBookgeekFrau Stay safe!🙏🏼💕 3mo
Hooked_on_books Good luck! I hope it‘s not too bad for you. 3mo
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Eggs
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Ann Patchett‘s dear friend Lucy spent much of her life in a #Hospital.

#StorySettings

@Alwaysbeenaloverofbooks

Crazeedi I might have heard about the person somewhere (her friend) 7mo
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ChaoticMissAdventures This story had such a profound effect on me. I read it years and years ago and it sticks with me as such a gorgeously written tragedy. Anne's Truth and Beauty as a companion too, I feel they need to be read together. 7mo
CoffeeK8 @ChaoticMissAdventures same! I read them both in HS and found them so powerful 7mo
Eggs @Crazeedi 🖤🩶🤍 7mo
Eggs @ChaoticMissAdventures yes it‘s a great idea! 7mo
Eggs @CoffeeK8 🥰💔😔 7mo
Alwaysbeenaloverofbooks This was my first borrow from my library through hoopla! Starting today! 7mo
Eggs @Alwaysbeenaloverofbooks Yay! Let me know what you think 7mo
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everlocalwest
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A great memoir. This has vaguely been on my TBR for ages and something pushed me to finally read it alongside Ann Patchett's Truth and Beauty. It is difficult to review on its own, as Grealy's memoir finds a hopeful lightness in tragedy and hardship, but having read Patchett's work, I know where things end. Grealy's sad fate does not detract from the work though - this great memoir of honest reckoning and overcoming.

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ChaoticMissAdventures
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#WomensHistoryMonth #Recommendations
9of31 Nonfiction

I don't see this book recommended enough. It is gorgeous and heartbreaking. Lucy was a poet, and a best friend of Ann Patchett. She was born with a facial deformity and spent most of her life in pain going through surgery to correct it. This is her autobiography that talks about this process, how people treated her, and how she turned to horses for relief and joy. A gorgeous amazing book.

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SqueakyChu
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The cover of this book made me pick it up to browse. It sounded interesting so I started reading it yesterday. It‘s the story of a nine-year-old girl who needed jaw surgery for cancer. This sounds pretty awful, but the beginning of the book is surprisingly upbeat and nice to read. The book itself was written by that child survivor of Ewing‘s Sarcoma. I like books that promote hope and have those who actually survive a catastrophe.

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1. Currently reading print Truth & Beauty by Ann Pachett, a companion read to the tagged book which I just finished yesterday.
2. Current #audiobook is The Slow March of Light by Heather B Moore, for the speed category of #WiaN #WhatsinaName.
3. Last book read tagged: So good. Just read in T&B that Lucy Grealy won the Whiting Award in 1995 for this, her debut.
(didn‘t read that right! LOL.)Last audio: Parnassus on Wheels. 😍

@rachelsbrittain

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BkClubCare
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I am participating in a Buddy Read (not Litsy - but feel free to join with me) of this AND Ann Patchett‘s Truth & Beauty. I am going to try reading a chapter here then there etc, even if I doubt the texts relate in that manner. Will be interesting, I‘m sure, either way! If the spirit catches on either, will devote focus there. #Memoir #Nonfiction #Debut #ReadICT

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NovelNancyM
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“Language supplies us with way to express ever subtler levels of meaning, but does that imply language GIVES meaning, or robs us of it when we are at a loss to name things“ (33).

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Eggs
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Sometimes real life is the most heartbreaking story of all…
#heartbreak #ithadtobeyou @Alwaysbeenaloverofbooks

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Eggs
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I feel like Lucy Grealy died multiple deaths before the one that took her life - cancer and the treatments, surgery after surgery (that had to be redone frequently, and she was alone for most of them), cruelty from humans, always feeling the loss of normalcy and conventional beauty...
#death #conflictedworlds @Alwaysbeenaloverofbooks

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Megabooks
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It would be so much easier to write a review of this book on its own merits if my own story and my mom‘s story weren‘t tied up in childhood/teen hospitalizations and surgeries.

Lucy had cancer of the jaw as a child, had half her jaw removed, and then went through a series of semi-successful reconstructive procedures as a teen and young adult. I was heartened that Lucy‘s love of animals helped in childhood. Lucy‘s candor, sheer endurance, ⬇️

Megabooks ⬆️ and attitude make this a memorable memoir. Now on to read Ann Patchett‘s Truth and Beauty about her friendship with Lucy! (edited) 4y
Cinfhen She really went through so much and she was often so alone. Her bravery was remarkable. Wonderful review, Meg. I‘m sorry that you could find any of this book relatable. (edited) 4y
Cinfhen I loved the Patchett. It goes deeper, 4y
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Megabooks @Cinfhen so much of it was similar to what my mom experienced in the 1950s with polio and the surgeries she had on her back and legs. I had a different set of issues than Lucy and my mom because I was a teen thrown into adult situations with adult doctors, but kind of like I said yesterday, part of why I eventually went into medicine was to be able to self-advocate and advocate for my family. I never wanted to get caught unawares again. 4y
Cinfhen You‘re very inspiring 🧡🙌🏻 4y
Megabooks @Cinfhen Thanks friend! 💕😘 (edited) 4y
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Cinfhen
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“My face was my face and it was stupid to wish it any other way.”

As a society we put so much value into physical beauty when it‘s actually something that no-one has earned. For Lucy Grealy, a brilliant mind wasn‘t enough to stop the taunts, jeers and cruel stares from both her peers & strangers as she idles through adolescence with severe facial disfigurement from childhood cancer. 👇🏼

Cinfhen Utterly heartbreaking for both her physical and emotional suffering, yet Lucy refuses to claim victim. A magnificent companion piece to Truth and Beauty, a NF introspection of her friendship with writer Ann Patchett. Both books are outstanding.
#Hoopla #Audio
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Cinfhen Next up another recommendation from @Megabooks 4y
alisiakae Great review! 4y
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Megabooks Since I‘m reading this now, I‘ll wait to read your review, but I hope you enjoy Face! 4y
TrishB These do sound amazing. 4y
Cinfhen I found both books very moving/ I really couldn‘t stop listening, especially the Patchett @TrishB @4thhouseontheleft Hope you‘re having a wonderful time on vacation, Alisia 4y
TrishB I‘ve already brought the Patchett ? Qa.99 on kindle (not quite 99p). 4y
Cinfhen Still worth it @TrishB 💜 4y
Megabooks Great review! Off to write mine. 4y
Cinfhen Can‘t wait to hear your thoughts @Megabooks 4y
Megabooks @Cinfhen Just posted. It‘s not as good as yours! 4y
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Cinfhen
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Having just read Ann Patchett‘s gorgeous tribute to her beloved friend, Lucy Grealy, I felt I needed to read Lucy‘s journey in her own words. At the age of 9 Lucy was diagnosed with Ewing sarcoma, a type of cancer that effects the soft tissue in bones. In Lucy‘s case it was her jaw bone, leaving 1/3 of her face “missing”. This leads to a lifetime of feeling, looking different a life full of stares and insecurities. #Hoopla #Audio

Cinfhen Oh and it‘s a #BlackAndWhite cover @Eggs @Alwaysbeenaloverofbooks 🖤🤍🖤🤍 4y
EKonrad I read both of the books years ago and still think about them. Such beautiful writing. 4y
Cinfhen Lucy Grealy was SO self aware. What a heartbreaking journey. Talk about perspective @EKonrad 💔💔💔 4y
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Crazeedi I've read several of Ann's books, will have to read this 4y
Hooked_on_books Yup, I had to read the other after the one as well. I think I read them in the opposite order to you, but I don‘t remember. They compliment one another well. 4y
Eggs I‘m doing the same thing: just finished the AP (so moving), now onto LG 4y
Cinfhen Just finished Lucy‘s story @Eggs @Hooked_on_books both were incredibly moving and beautifully written 💔 4y
Cinfhen @Crazeedi I‘ve read a bunch of AP‘s newer stuff so now im gonna read her older work/ next up 4y
Crazeedi @Cinfhen oh that's a good one!! 4y
Centique My friend‘s daughter died of Ewing‘s Sarcoma aged 9. Was the most heart breaking time and I carry her with me and wear her necklace often. I don‘t know if I can read this but I am interested in how disfigured people are treated so I will try and get to it 💕 4y
Cinfhen That is so heartbreaking @Centique I love that you have a necklace of hers. How special 💜It‘s surprising how detached Lucy Grealy writes of her experiences. I‘m still sure, it will bring up lots of difficult memories. I‘m so sorry for you friend‘s loss. The more emotional read was Ann Patchett‘s 4y
Centique I really want to read that one too even though it will be hard. I will get there eventually 🤞🤞 4y
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ONH
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I could not put this book down. Lucy Grealy tells her story of cancer, disfigurement, and coming to terms with self with extraordinary candor and thoughtfulness. Her emotional reasoning throughout her illness about her appearance and her morality is interesting, sometimes flawed, but so absolutely human. Probably the best memoir of illness I have ever read.

Leftcoastzen On my TBR for a long time 4y
ONH @Leftcoastzen it‘s so good! 👏🏼👏🏼 4y
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Beautiful and thought-provoking but not always easy to read. Most poignant passage: “As I sat there in the cafe, it suddenly occurred to me that it is no mistake when sometimes in films and literature the dead know they are dead after being offered that most irrefutable proof: they can no longer see themselves in the mirror.“

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CoffeeK8
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Inspired by @monalyisha I decided to take the leap and change my profile pic too! 😅 new one on the left!

monalyisha Look at you! You did it! Bravery points all around. 🙌🏻😆 And I love your glasses. 4y
kspenmoll The new you looks great!!! 4y
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CoffeeK8 @kspenmoll thanks 💕 4y
BarbaraBB Great pic 💕 4y
CarolynM Lovely💕 4y
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CoffeeK8
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#7books7days this book made me realize that every story is Important, no matter how small or self-contained.

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KatieRose23
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Lucy Grealy is truly an inspiration to those who have ever felt self conscience. This amazing woman went through multiple years of cancer, over thirty surgeries, and countless years of stares and mockery from those around her. And through it all, she kept her head up and kept fighting. This book was truly a piece of art, even though I had a rough time getting through a few chapters. I did like this book.

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Hooked_on_books
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At age 9, Lucy Grealy was diagnosed with Ewing‘s sarcoma, a typically fatal bone cancer. Here, she tells her story of many operations and treatments, her changing understanding of her cancer, and her grapples with identity and appearance (much of her jaw was removed). The ending is a bit abrupt, but it‘s quite good. She doesn‘t hold back from some medical descriptions, so be aware if you are squeamish.

ChaoticMissAdventures I loved this sad book. Her writing was spectacular. Have you read Ann Patchett's Truth and Beauty? It is Ann's side of the story. 5y
Hooked_on_books @ChaoticMissAdventures I actually didn‘t know about Ann‘s book until I was halfway through this one. I definitely plan to read it. Funnily, I didn‘t really find this book sad. In places, maybe, but not overall. She was so talented. 5y
KCofKaysville Great review. Sad but good. 4y
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CoffeeK8
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📕Autobiography of a Face
💾Ilona Andrews
📽The Apartment
🥑Avocado
#manicmonday - getting caught up today

JoScho Thanks for getting caught up 😊 6y
TheKidUpstairs I think we have very similar viewing tastes 😁 I LOVE The Apartment. 6y
CoffeeK8 @JoScho thanks for doing these! 💕 6y
CoffeeK8 @TheKidUpstairs we do! I almost put Casablanca for my movie! 6y
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Amiable
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Yes!! Or the dodge ball team, really.

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Amiable
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My haul from a stop at a used bookstore today. All memoirs! I'm apparently on a memoir kick.

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Amy_Yuki_Vickers
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I think the title of this book should be Autobiography of Pain. Grealy does talk a lot about her face, but most of it is about the amount of pain her face causes her. Diagnosed with cancer at age nine...

For full review: http://www.amyyuki.com/books/2018/01/20/autobiography-of-a-face-by-lucy-grealy/

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Clwojick
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Today's #audiobook ❤️️

CoffeeK8 This book! 💖💖💖 7y
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CoffeeK8
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K - The Kraken King
A - Autobiography of a Face
T - Tiny Beautiful Things
E - Eleanor and Park

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Blaire
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A few books about #scarstoyourbeautiful. I️ quite liked the Israeli cover of Eleanor Oliphant. I️ haven‘t read autobiography of a face, but have read the Patchett which tells the story of her friendship with Lucy. #tuneintonovember

Cinfhen Such great titles and I 💙the cover for 7y
Robothugs Agreeing with @Cinfhen ! 7y
Lcsmcat ❤️❤️❤️ Truth and Beauty! 7y
Blaire @Lcsmcat yes! I️ got on an ann patchett kick about three years ago and read everything I️ could find. (edited) 7y
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jackeyoh
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I wanted to show off my handsome feline companion Mr. Atticus Finch! #catsoflitsy #thebengallife #catmom #mylove

Also I absolutely recommend this book! It was a very intense emotional roller coaster memoir of child cancer. Very good read. #rorygilmorereadingchallenge

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HardcoverHarlot
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Powerful.

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HardcoverHarlot
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#readathon had to end early for me yesterday so I could come tailgate today for the KC Chiefs/Saints game today. The readathon was fun, and I look forward to completing all 24 hours in April!

Arcana Go Chiefs! 8y
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HardcoverHarlot
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I'm feeling like another memoir. This has been on my bookshelf for awhile. Let's do this #readathon

Bkwurm This book is excellent! And when you're done you should read (if you haven't already) Ann Patchett's Truth and Beauty, which is her own story about her friendship with Lucy. The two books are amazing when read together! 8y
Suzze That was a good one! 8y
Gulfsidemusing Great choice! Have you read Truth and Beauty by Ann Patchett? They make a perfect book pairing. 8y
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GoneFishing

This singularity of meaning--I was my face, I was ugliness--though sometimes unbearable, also offered a possible point of escape. It became the launching pad from which to lift off, the one immediately recognizable place to point to when asked what was wrong with my life. Everything led to it, everything receded from it--my face as personal vanishing point.

EKonrad Absolutely loved this book, and reading Ann Patchett's companion book, "Truth and Beauty" was such a fulfilling experience! 8y
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RoryGilmoreReads
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Stunning cover, heartbreaking read.

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RoryGilmoreReads

Stunning cover, heartbreaking read.

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Angelala007
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So many operations. So much pain. This quote "Society is no help. It tells us again and again that we can most be ourselves by acting and looking like someone else.." This truth is priceless.

kayatkins With over stuffed chairs, reading lamps,oriental rugs,& the intoxicating aroma of books📚📚 9y
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