Hunger: A Memoir of (My) Body | 
pickGay has described Hunger as βby far the hardest book Iβve ever had to writeβ, and itβs not hard to see why. I cannot fathom the bravery and strength it took for her to simply put these words on a page, let alone share them with the world in a best-selling memoir. Iβm in awe of her. https://keepingupwiththepenguins.com/hunger-roxane-gay/
pickRoxane says βLiving in my body has expanded my empathy for other people and the truths of their bodies. Certainly, it has shown me the importance of inclusivity and acceptance (not merely tolerance) for diverse body types.‘
Reading this book will help the reader to do the same.
pickRoxane Gay's capacity for self-reflection, intellectual honestly, and authentic engagement is inspiring and impressive. Her life experience is quite different from mine (excepting strangely the path we both took with smoking), yet I feel a deep connection to it through this work. This will emotionally challenge you, but also has the capacity to make you a better human and to feel seen in all your complexity.
pickI can‘t imagine writing something so revealing. This book is a hard read, and amazing.
No matter who you are, you‘ll likely find something in here that sounds like it came out of your own brain.
I‘ll be thinking about this for a long time. 5/5 π
She reads the audiobook. π
Trigger warning: assault.
My haul from the Free Little Library today! π
Finished Hunger in a couple of days, cried at the end, and now the first thing I‘m doing is ordering Gay‘s other books!
pick#doublespin April. In this non-fiction memoir of her body, author explains how sexual trauma at 12 impacts the way she views her body, her self-esteem, her relationships with family members & future lovers. She writes about the emotional & physical pain she endures as she moves through the world at her size, the logistical challenges of navigating a world built for smaller people, & the ways she is both seen & not seen because of her size.
pickThis book is so raw and beautiful. She talks about what it's like to live in her body. But also how she got to that point. It's stunning and I'd like to give her a hug but only in theory because I don't like to touch people either. She reads her own #audiobook and you can hear her emotions. I highly recommend it.
pickMoving, powerful memoir. Roxane Gay's writing is poignant as she shares her story.
panThis book felt like a complete whine-fest. I‘d seen it around on all sorts of lists but I didn‘t get it. I went into this book wanting to listen and learn about being fat. But I don‘t know that I learned to sympathize with obesity. I just learned life is hard. But life is always hard.
Am I terrible? What did I miss?
pickThis was a difficult, but incredibly powerful and vulnerable memoir. I can‘t believe I waited so long to read it. 4βοΈ
This is my #LitsyAwardsWinner pick for #SummerFun Bingo and another #BookSpinBingo read.
pickHonest, raw memoir examining a part of this writer's life focusing on her body and all the issues swirling around being overweight in a culture that does not value it (to say the least). I listened to the audiobook which the author read (love those best). It went by so fast. Good book giving lots of food for thought.
pickExcellent book about a woman's struggle with life and her weight after being raped.
"It is a powerful lie to equate thinness with self-worth. Clearly, this lie is damn convincing because the weight-loss industry thrives. Women continue to try to bend themselves to societal will. Women continue to hunger. And so do I."
pick#body #trauma #deep I highly recommend this deeply honest and authentic book. It‘s very raw and heartbreaking. Roxane Gay is my favorite author. ππ Living in my body has expanded my empathy for other people and the truths of their bodies. Certainly, it has shown me the importance of inclusivity and acceptance (not merely tolerance) for diverse body types.β
pickListened to this on audio because I love when Roxane Gay reads to me, even when the topic is tragic and heartbreaking
This book covers a lot from the trauma Gay went through in her earlier life, to how she lives in her body, to her emotional and mental well-being. It is not an easy light read but it is worth it.
pickI don't think I've ever read anything so completely, nakedly, tragically, honest and searching and real. Yet. Gay asks not for pity, but for consideration and space. Good grief, this woman can write.
pickI‘m exactly 3 weeks away from for 40, close to the age Roxane was when she wrote this. She & I both have complicated relationships with our bodies & our families, even though I‘m only βLane Bryant fatβ
My mother is particularly disturbed by my βhealthβ aka weight. My doctor wants me to get bariatric surgery even though I barely qualify & have digestive problems. I better understand Roxane each time I read this. Behind every person is a story.
1. Maya Angelou, John Lewis, Kamala Harris, Aaliyah, Lizzo and I gotta include Gizelle Bryant from RHOP π
2. Roxane Gay, Langston Hughes, Zora Neale Hurston, Colson Whitehead. I have a bunch of NK Jemisin that I canβt wait to read. I need to read Octavia Butler too and could def use more of her work.
3. Both!
4. Literary fiction, fantasy, historical fiction
5. Hmm the Civil Rights Movement.
#blitsyhistorymonth #bhmswap @Chelleo
pickFirst book finished in 2020. Loved it! So honest and soul-searching reflections. Wow. Audiobook was read by the author.
βevery body has a story and a history. here I offer mine with a memoir of my body and my hunger.β -Roxane Gay literally cannot WAIT to start reading this #feminism #feministbooks #roxanegay
so-soI was curious when @BarbaraBB commented that she hadn't enjoyed this one but as I got further and further into it I found myself feeling the same way. Gay's honesty and transparency is not to be undermined, and I appreciate her bravery in publishing this memoir; however, its underdeveloped chapters that kept going all over the place in no relevant order or coherence didn't let me fully enjoy it and the writing itself felt empty and bland.
My #Top10ofTheDecade #NonFictionEdition is here! There are so many great books still on my TBR, but of the ones I‘ve read these are my faves. @Cinfhen
Today marks five years since I left my last (and hopefully forever last) treatment center for my anorexia. I‘ve wanted to read Roxane Gay for a while but have been afraid of being triggered by the food talk. I‘m so glad I‘m in a good place in my recovery because this book is amazing, Gay is such a wonderful writer. This book is a difficult read, as expected, but also an important story
"Why do we create the boundaries people create for themselves as challenges?"
Like Gay, I am not someone who enjoys hugging strangers. I feel like that kind of physical contact is something that should be reserved for people I know and care for, but I've often had people do similar things where they try to make me hug even after I've said I don't want to.
I did it! I f($&ing did it by 1.5k steps!! Woo hoo!! #LitsyWalkathon My feet are tired!! ππ»
Read 5 books this week. The best were Less and Hunger. 9/12 for the challenge. I have a procedure Tuesday, so we‘ll see what I revise it up to after that.
Also, I‘m remembering to Be Kind to myself, as we all should! I came back from depression and sleeplessness, sort of, and I‘m proud!
#bfc #bfcr2 #checkin #goteam
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pickOh y‘all, how I turn to favorite books when times are rough! I love this book. I wish I could put my feelings about myself into words as beautifully as she does.
I picked this up in the middle of the night first when I didn‘t want to and then when I couldn‘t sleep. Then I took a lovely 4K+ step walk near dawn. Then I did some things. Then I slept fitfully. I just finished rereading this book.
If anyone has wisdom on mood disorders and sleep ππ»
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so-so#unpopularopinion Everyone seems to love this book, but sadly not me. I wanted to. I really feel for her, and can‘t imagine how hard her life has been since she was gang raped at the age of 12. Horrible! However, I don‘t like repetition, and the book was all about repeating. I understand that that‘s the process she had/has to go through, but I don‘t enjoy repetition in books, and it‘s the book I‘m reviewing, not her life or personality.
βThis is a book about learning, however slowly, to allow myself to be seen and understood.β
Another Texas Saturday by the poolβ I have a fun read and a scholarly read to dive into ππΌββοΈπ¦ Hunger has been on my reading list for a while, and since I work in health care I‘ve had a long interest in medical ethics. Can‘t wait to start both of these!!
βWhen I wear my typical uniform, it feels like safety, like I can hide in plain sight. I become less of a target. I am taking up space, but I am doing so in an unassuming manner so I am less of a problem, less of a disturbance. This is what I tell myself. β from Roxane Gay‘s Hunger: A Memoir of my Body.
#quotsyjune19 #uniform
I like memoirs/nonfiction by women who are #Defiant about Western cultural norms of beauty/thinness. As a bigger woman myself, I feel a kinship with them.
I chose #Defiant as the first day of #StarTrekSummerJune because it‘s the name of the ship that the DS9ers use. The episode also closes up the Will Riker body double storyline, & it opens up a number of storylines eventually leading the Cardassians to join the Dominion. & I love Kira episodes!
so-soThis was tough to listen to. Not a happy book, but a story well-told.
After being raped at age 12, the author eats in order to build up her body and try to feel safer. So sad. I admire the author for speaking her truth.
βI had finally, after more than thirty years, found a best friend who saw the best and worst parts of me, and even if I didn‘t talk about what was going on, she was there and I could have told her and it would have been fine. That‘s a powerful thing, knowing you can reveal yourself to someone. It made me want to be a better person.β
βI‘m a feminist and I believe in doing away with the rigid beauty standards that force women to conform to unrealistic ideals. I believe we should have broader definitions of beauty that include diverse body types. I believe it is so important for women to feel comfortable in their bodies, without wanting to change every single thing about their bodies to find that comfort.β
pickThis was a raw, honest, generous memoir from Roxane Gay. She discusses how thoroughly and devastatingly she was impacted by a terrible sexual assault when she was 12 (I feel like I'm the last person to read this but if you haven't mega content warning!). She talks about her body, her fatness, the ways that the world treats fat people and her pathway to healing from trauma. Powerful read! #queerbooks
This is what most girls are taught β that we should be slender and small. We should not take up space. We should be seen and not heard, and if we are seen, we should be pleasing to men, acceptable to society. And most women know this, that we are supposed to disappear, but it‘s something that needs to be said, loudly, over and over again, so that we can resist surrendering to what is expected of us.β (p. 13)
