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House of My Mother: A Daughter's Quest for Freedom
House of My Mother: A Daughter's Quest for Freedom | Shari Franke
From eldest daughter Shari Franke, the shocking true story behind the viral 8 Passengers family vlog and the hidden abuse she suffered at the hands of her mother, and how, in the face of unimaginable pain, she found freedom and healing. Shari Franke's childhood was a constant battle for survival. Her mother, Ruby Franke, enforced a severe moral code while maintaining a faade of a picture-perfect family for their wildly popular YouTube channel 8 Passengers, which documented the day-to-day life of raising six children for a staggering 2.5 million subscribers. But a darker truth lurked beneath the surface--Ruby's wholesome online persona masked a more tyrannical parenting style than anyone could have imagined. As the family's YouTube notoriety grew, so too did Ruby's delusions of righteousness. Fueled by the sadistic influence of relationship coach Jodi Hildebrandt, together they implemented an inhumane and merciless disciplinary regime. Ruby and Jodi were arrested in Utah in 2023 on multiple charges of aggravated child abuse. On that fateful day, Shari shared a photo online of a police car outside their home. Her caption had one word: "Finally." For the first time, Shari will reveal the disturbing truth behind 8 Passengers and her family's devastating involvement with Jodi Hildebrandt's cultish life coaching program, "ConneXions." No stone is left unturned as Shari exposes the perils of influencer culture and shares for the first time her battle for truth and survival in the face of her mother's cruelty.
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Paris_Reads
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Just finish this book yesterday and it was a great memoir. Shari is so brave for sharing her family‘s story. This book really shows that even through hardship you are able to come out a stronger person on the other side.

⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️

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bookish_wookish
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It started snowing here so it‘s time to get cozy and start this one!

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squirrelbrain
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I read an article in the UK press a few months ago about this family and, of course, I‘d seen a lot of reviews on here.

Shari is the eldest daughter of Ruby Franke, an LDS mommy vlogger who presented a perfect family life to the work when, in reality, she was mentally abusing her kids.

I‘m glad that Shari could tell her story, and also that she protected her younger siblings from the glare of social media and other publicity.

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CBee
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Goodness 😥 All I can say is that I hope that Ruby and Jodi never get parole. Major kudos to Shari for telling her story and speaking her truth. I‘m interested to watch the documentary on Hulu (drops February 27) - it‘s actually authorized by Kevin Franke, Shari, and her brother Chad.

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“This nightmare was born on social media—it should die there, too.”

Literally one page in and I‘m already blown away.

CoffeeK8 This book was sooo good! 1w
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CBee
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Thanks to my current audiobook, I learned once again that there is a word for everything. Shari‘s story is riveting. Thankfully, I have enough of all the other types of guilt without adding this one 🤪🤦‍♀️😂 #weirdwordwednesday #weirdwords

Kerrbearlib I read that recently. Holy cow, what a book! 2w
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BookmarkTavern Wow, that‘s a fun one! 2w
Amiable This is a neat word! 2w
dabbe Wowza to that word! 😳😂🤗 2w
CatLass007 That‘s an interesting word. I‘d hate to be on the receiving end of it. 2w
Leftcoastzen Great word! 2w
CBee @Kerrbearlib yes, it‘s hard to stop listening!! 2w
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CoffeeK8
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An amazing and heartbreaking book about overcoming the traumas your parents inflict on you. #BOTM

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Chelsea.Poole
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Shari Franke‘s mother is the Utah mommy vlogger who made headlines for child abuse a few years ago. The vlog, 8 Passengers, used content from the family‘s lives, focusing heavily on the children, but Shari says they lived in fear of her mother, who was seldom loving and as the years passed increasingly strict with outrageous demands on the 6 children, including withholding food. I‘m glad Shari spoke out against mining content from children.

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Alwaysbeenaloverofbooks
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Starting this one next for our #Sharreadathon… I was surprised to see it on Everand so soon. I‘ll probably do a deep dive regarding this one online. So sad 😞

Well, my Everand only let me listen to a sample 😩 I‘ll circle back 👌🏻

#LitsyLove

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I‘m a sucker for memoirs about evil mothers. I had an evil step-mother and that was bad enough. But this poor girl‘s mother was really unhinged. It‘s another example of how twisted a person can be by religious fundamentalism, patriarchal poo doo, and narcissism. All praise to Shari Franke for stopping the cycle of hurt people hurting people. #BOTM

AmyG I love the puzzle! 1mo
Alwaysbeenaloverofbooks I had one too 😩😩 1mo
TheBookHippie Oh this is on my list!!! 4w
MemoirsForMe 😳😳😳 3w
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It is terrible when parents use their children for fame and income from social media. Shari‘s mom led the family‘s popular YouTube channel and mined every family moment for content. Then her mother fell in with an aspiring Mormon cult leader around Shari‘s departure for college. Four of her siblings still lived at home through the nightmare of her mother‘s descent. (She‘s now in prison.) I respected Shari for leaving her minor sibs out of it, ⬇️

Megabooks but I definitely want to do a deeper dive into some of the documentaries about this on streaming! 1mo
marleed I never her of the Frankie‘s or their YouTube channel before listening to this audiobook. There is little that scares me more than bastardized faith used as justification for cruelty. Even the state of Utah having a hands-off approach to free-range raising of children was disturbing. 1mo
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nitalibrarian
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Starting this autobiography tonight.

Leelee08 I‘ve been wanting to read this one!❤️ 1mo
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marleed
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This memoir was a BOTM add-on. I didn‘t choose it but picked up the readily available audio. I‘ve never followed YouTube channels so never knew of the Franke family or the Vlog, 8 Passengers, until reading this book. I wish it were illegal to include minors in reality entertainment. Too often the reality of those minors is so different than what the audience sees. I hope Shari can make a difference for minor children living two realities.

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10/10!

Kerrbearlib Just finished it. An amazing read! 1mo
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I flew through this. You can tell Shari has a sharp mind and gentle soul. I hope she continues to heal and find contentment and joy in her life, all of her siblings deserve some calm and normalcy #botm

Kerrbearlib I‘m flying through it, too. What a brave person she is. 1mo
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