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Trans Like Me
Trans Like Me: A Journey for All of Us | C. N. Lester
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What does it mean to be transgender? How do we discuss the subject? In this eye-opening book, CN Lester, academic and activist, takes us on a journey through some of the most pressing issues concerning the trans debate: from pronouns to Caitlyn Jenner; from feminist and LGBTQ activists, to the rise in referrals for gender variant children - all by way of insightful and moving passages about the author's own experience. Trans Like Me shows us how to strive for authenticity in a world which often seeks to limit us by way of labels.
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AnneCecilie
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Something to think about

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willaful

As for being a freak of nature, or desperate to deny its truth? I don't understand how being true to my nature goes against it. I can't begin to square that circle.

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Riveted_Reader_Melissa
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Hello #SheSaid!

How is everyone doing this week?

Thoughts on this week‘s sections?

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MallenNC Unfortunately my library doesn‘t have this one so I‘m not able to read it this month. I will keep it on my TBR for the future. 4d
vlwelser This author is very articulate and I appreciate their perspective on this topic. Glad you found this though I have no idea what the deal was with the other book. 4d
CatLass007 I confess that I found chapter 5 confusing. Maybe it‘s a factor of my age or preconceived notions. But I don‘t understand the distinction they are making between sex and gender. However I felt chapters 6 and 7 were poignant and informative when they discuss dealing with medical professionals who have their own preconceived ideas about what it is to be transgender. (edited) 4d
willaful I was struck by the use of proprioception to talk about dysphoria, since I have had proprioception issues myself. And the discussion about the insistence on gender as *opposites*, which isn't even supported by history, is fascinating. 4d
AnneCecilie I also found chapters 6 and 7 to be eye opening. Her horse riding story made an impact on me. How when she was young she had fallen of the horse and needed several operations. Another girl was there after having her pelvis crushed after the pony she was riding fell on her. The doctor had told her parents “that horse riding was more risky than riding a motorbike” and jet young girls are encouraged to do it. But we tell young people who want 4d
AnneCecilie treatment that it‘s too dangerous. (edited) 4d
willaful @AnneCecilie Yes, that was a powerful story.

@CatLass007 I think part of the point is that “sex“ can be much murkier than people like to think.
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DebinHawaii While Chapter 5 was interesting, I also found myself caught up in Chapter 6 & 7. I am impressed with the author‘s writing & how they related their stories mixed in with other experiences & the science. It makes it very readable & I‘m learning a lot. 4d
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Hello #SheSaid

I know this book substitution came suddenly, so have you found a copy, and if so, how do you feel about it so far?

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CatLass007 I am learning so much from this author. I‘m learning some of what trans people go through. I‘m learning that I have many preconceived ideas about what it means to be trans. I was in junior high when Renee Richards had what was then called a “sex change” operation. She was not a public figure, she was an ophthalmologist. Her gender didn‘t become an issue until she wanted to play professional tennis. I remember riding on the school bus, (cont)⬇️ 2w
CatLass007 listening to a girl who had decided to write a report on Dr. Richards. I don‘t remember any of what she said except for repeatedly saying “she, I mean it.” I believe she was deliberately saying “she” so that she could supposedly correct herself to say “I mean it.” I didn‘t really understand the politics and hostility felt about Dr. Richards by most of the world. I just knew that what the girl on the school bus was saying wasn‘t (cont)⬇️ 2w
CatLass007 just disrespectful it was hateful. Things haven‘t changed much in society‘s treatment of trans people. I was wondering what had happened to Renee Richards so I googled her. She retired from performing surgery at the age of 80. She is now 90 years old and doing well. 2w
willaful Ooops, I forgot to ask to get retagged. I just got it and will try to catch up. 2w
Riveted_Reader_Melissa @willaful I added you already, you should have gotten tagged 2w
vlwelser They have a perspective that seems to be missing from this very interesting group of people. We have read other books by trans authors. But that may not be common. I have heard the Caitlin Jenner opinion before. As in, why do people seem to think that's their figurehead or whatever. I wouldn't want her as my spokesperson either. I totally get that. 2w
DebinHawaii Interesting & illuminating so far. I‘m learning a lot & like the author‘s writing style. 2w
AnneCecilie Like several others have already stated, I‘m learning a lot. There‘s something about seeing tings from different perspectives 1w
willaful I was struck by how the author couldn't use HRT, as a singer. I always enjoy reading less conventional transgender narratives. It's good to hear different stories.

I don't think I'd read much from a transgender perspective about Jenner before, and that was interesting.
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Dilara I hadn‘t thought of that, but it seems so obvious now that I see it in writing 2w
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AnneCecilie
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I had no idea about the historic use of “they”

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Hello #SheSaid!

Our replacement book for this month.

Please put in your library holds & interlibrary loans.

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CatLass007 I see my name in the tag list but I haven‘t been getting your tags lately. Is there a customer service contact that we could consult? 2w
CatLass007 Oh, but I‘m in. 2w
Riveted_Reader_Melissa @CatLass007 I don‘t know of any…and it‘s been giving me trouble posting the tag list lately too 🤷‍♀️ 2w
CatLass007 @Riveted_Reader_Melissa I found an email address for customer service. You‘re not the only person who‘s tagged me and I didn‘t receive a notice. For some reason I got the tag above. 2w
CatLass007 What is the title of the other book we were considering? I‘m finding this book very enlightening and I would like to see if the other book is available through my library. 2w
CatLass007 Thank you. 2w
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This is a really interesting, eye-opening book. It's part memoir, part history, part social commentary, and challenges traditional thinking on gender. It's made me realise how little I knew about non binary identity - I had no idea, for example, that some NB people medically transition. A great insight.

Bookwomble I have this on my trb mountain - I think i need to move it closer to base camp! 3y
TrishB Great review 👍🏻 3y
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arlenefinnigan
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#ReadHarder challenge 1: a memoir written by someone who is trans or non binary

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Kenyazero
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I'm bouncing in with another book sale (SorryNotSorry) because one of my FAVORITE memoirs is on sale via Kindle today. I highly recommend this book, especially if you're interested in learning about being trans and nonbinary, learning about being intersex (discussed, not experienced), love music, and enjoy really well written nonfiction. #LGBTQBooks #LGBTQ #QueerBooks

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JustCarissa
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A lovely validating book about humans understand each other and themselves, with stark realism about the oppression that trans people face in history and present day. Gonna be thinking about this one for a while

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Thanks for the tag, @Eggs !
1. The tagged is a recent favorite. It is an excellent read!
2. Purple/indigo
3. Teaching and creating
4. I always feel silly about tagging anyone. If you're interested, please join in! I'd love to see your answers. #friYAYintro

Eggs I chose indigo as well 4y
Kenyazero @Eggs I saw! it's the best color! 4y
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Thanks for the tag, @Eggs !

1. Tough call, but I'm going with the tagged book.

2. I don't have a copy of the book(yet), so I can't quote it exactly, but CN Lester talks about a time when a little girl asked them why they look like a boy. They responded "because I like looking like a boy. What do you like looking like?" Adorable.

I'll go ahead and tag some people too!

#two4tuesday @TheSpineView

TheSpineView Thanks for playing and Happy Tuesday! 😊 4y
Kenyazero @TheSpineView Thank you for starting it! 4y
Eggs You‘re welcome @Kenyazero ! 4y
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coffees oh no! i didn't read any books in April CRIES 4y
Kenyazero @crimson613 Nothing wrong with that! 4y
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Kenyazero
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I really enjoyed this book. It might be an excellent read for anyone wanting to learn more about trans, genderqueer, and gender nonconforming experiences (and doesn‘t know anyone with these experiences). CN Lester shares their experiences, fears, and hopes on these experiences and lgbtq+ equality eloquently and beautifully.

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I suspect this book will have some hard ups and downs, so I‘ll probably read the whole thing now instead of later. Made it to their discussion of gendered language and how it‘s meant to be more freeing, so one person‘s use of language for themselves won‘t match someone else‘s like how they identify as transgender and they, and have been told by some trans people that they aren‘t trans because they‘re they. #lgbtq #nonfiction #queerbook

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I‘m Delighted to be reading this book! So far, though, it‘s hitting on all the things that depress and scare me. And it‘s reminding me of the concerns I have that when my husband publishes his book about his experiences with trauma, people will focus on his transness or point to the ptsd as causing his transness. Gonna keep listening, but I have a suspicion I might have to finish this after the pandemic. #transgender #lgbtq

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Love this quote - I want to throw it at people who can't understand the importance of labels (although usually I think they do, they just don't want to be accommodating of something they don't much care about).

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lovelybookshelf
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THIS is the book I'll be recommending to cis ppl who aren't ready for something as dense as Whipping Girl. It's 101 level without speaking down to the reader. I have mixed feelings about its tragic overtone, but overall I feel it's vital: Too many cis ppl focus on the advances they've seen and ignore the very real, current struggles that still exist. Good exploration of critical thinking and checking privilege. Most importantly, it's #ownvoices!

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"I see the way that others fail me, and know I must, despite my best intentions, be failing others.'

A lot to digest in this, but this sentence really struck me because it's one of the reasons why I wanted to read this book - to make sure I'm not hurting and failing other people. #feminism

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For today's #riotgrams #lgbtq+ prompt, two books from my tbr. I'm trying to educate myself ATM because through various threads I've come across on twitter I've realised that my ignorance on some of these issues I could easily offend/upset people without even knowing I'm doing it. And I really don't want to be that person.

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