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Riveted_Reader_Melissa

Riveted_Reader_Melissa

Joined April 2016

A reader lives a thousand lives before he dies… The man who never reads lives only one. ~George R.R. Martin.
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julesG That's what I said, one book is hard. 5d
BookmarkTavern It is hard! And this is such a perfect pick! Thanks for sharing! 4d
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Hello #SheSaid!

I hope this week has been treating you well and that you enjoyed the break/catch-up month. We are back this week with the first section of The Fifth Season! It is a reread for me, but I have to say I still feel as lost in the beginning this time as I did then, even though I know it all makes sense later… how are you making out with this week‘s section?

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Updated schedule for #SheSaid!

We had 1 book with 5 votes (Wild Swans) and 4 with 4 votes. I added them all to our schedule for 2026 along with our 2 fiction reads. I did bump Wild Swans back to March, so we could read it and the follow-up book by the author after (and hopefully 🤞 when the hold lines at the library are not so long for a new release 😬). Then there were about 12 books tied after that…so new vote this summer.

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Up next for #SheSaid!

Time for a fiction break at the holidays!!

Put in your library holds and interlibrary loans!

AllDebooks Honestly, I've been meaning to read this for ages but never picked it up. #SheSaid might be the motivational prompt I need. 2w
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SamAnne This will be a reread for me, which I‘ve been wanting to do so I can read the rest of the trilogy! Thank you for the prompt! 2w
Riveted_Reader_Melissa @SamAnne Same! I‘m looking forward to it 2w
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Hello #SheSaid!

Voting is up now for 2026! And with this many choice, maybe part of 2027 too 😂

https://forms.gle/en54WgSVAzp1nkoZ6

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Bookwormjillk How many do you want us to vote for? 4w
Suet624 Hi, I think you can remove me from this list. Next year I‘m really committed to reading my books on my shelf so I can start moving them out. I want to thank you for your work in organizing this group though. The books have been really interesting and informative. (edited) 4w
Riveted_Reader_Melissa @Bookwormjillk vote for any you are interested in reading with the group. 4w
Riveted_Reader_Melissa @Suet624 we need to start some challenge group for that. Reading books off our own shelves. I need to do that badly too 4w
Singout Thank you, Melissa! Organizing this list is a workout! 3w
MallenNC Great list! Some I‘m not familiar with and others I‘d already read so I just picked some that seemed intriguing. 3w
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The Fifth Season | N. K. Jemisin
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Up Next for #SheSaid.

Please put in your library holds and interlibrary loans!

Bookwormjillk I‘ve been meaning to re-read this for ages. Hopefully December will be my month to finally get it done! 1mo
CatLass007 I‘ve had this on my TBR for ages! I like it when book groups “force” me to read something I already want to read. 1mo
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The Fifth Season | N. K. Jemisin
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And for December the winner is: The Fifth Season!

Trespasses was 2nd and will be added later in 2026!

#SheSaid

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Voting up for our December Read and Runner up for later in 2026 😱
#SheSaid

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Hello #SheSaid.

How is the week treating you?
Did you have a Happy Halloween or a chill at home & relax?
What are you reading or catching up on this week?

Also
~ Last call for fiction reads for December
~ The vote will be up tomorrow

Up Next:
~ Dec. - fiction pick
~ Jan. - Nobody‘s Girl by Virginia Roberts Giuffre

* I know it‘s a new release & will have long waiting lists, so put in your library holds now or add it to your holiday wish list.

Bookwormjillk I‘m going to start Unshrinking soon. I only bought it in July. I really needed this catch up month 😂 1mo
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Riveted_Reader_Melissa @Bookwormjillk me too! Seriously. That one I did read on time and it was very good, I hope you enjoy it. But I have fallen behind on a bunch myself, so I understand 1mo
Amor4Libros Thanks for the heads-up on January‘s pick. Just put a hold at the library 😊 1mo
KathyWheeler I just bought Nobody‘s Girl, so I‘m all prepared for January. I‘m going to finish Hags. 1mo
ncsufoxes I‘m still finishing Eve (far behind). Enjoying it, just hard finding quiet time to read. Started the first few pages of Hags but haven‘t had a chance to get back to it, need to finish by the end of the year. I recently bought Nobody‘s Girl, so I‘m ready for January. 1mo
vlwelser I'm listening to Jacinda Ardern's memoir. I've seen her speak in person. The audiobook is lovely. I did not do this with #SheSaid in mind, but it fits the assignment. 1mo
Riveted_Reader_Melissa @vlwelser it‘s always nice when that just falls that way. I love a good book coincidence 1mo
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#SheSaid

I started putting the voting together but noticed that both myself & a few others were running behind on our reading lately AND that we had very few fiction nominations for December.

So for November: catch-up on any of your #SheSaid books that you want/need, or dive into something and tell us about it. I‘m hoping to catch up &
reread Wild by Cheryl Strayed.

And nominate a few fiction choices for December in the comments below.

Karisa I‘ve just started Nobody‘s Girl, the memoir released last week by one of Epstein‘s victims. Sad but important read. It feels like it‘s release was kind of buried last week with all the chaos lately. Also, the author committed suicide in the spring so maybe that‘s why it doesn‘t have as much attention… 2mo
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Riveted_Reader_Melissa Also it is Non-fiction November, so if anyone saw any good challenges for that this month, let us know. 2mo
Riveted_Reader_Melissa @Karisa That is on my to read list. I nominated it to be in the vote. I thought about just making it November‘s pick, but I know many will struggle to get it at the library right after it‘s release date. But I think it is going to be an essential read for everyone in the current world . 2mo
Riveted_Reader_Melissa Maybe just junk the fiction for December and make that December‘s 🤷‍♀️ 2mo
MallenNC I like the idea of having a free for all in November! I‘ll tag a few fiction books that I‘ve had on my TBR for a while. 2mo
MallenNC And American Daughters by Piper Huguley 2mo
Suet624 Trespasses is so darn good I‘d read it a second time. 2mo
Bookwormjillk Great idea!!!! 2mo
KathyWheeler I like the idea of a catchup month. I‘m really behind. 2mo
Bookwormjillk Trespasses sounds really good! But I‘m up for whatever. 2mo
Singout Is there a list for early 2026? I missed it! 1mo
Riveted_Reader_Melissa Just January is announced. That vote will be up soon, but it has a lot more books in it so is taking me longer to get together. 1mo
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Hags | Victoria Smith
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Hello #SheSaid!

I‘m still behind, but please stop in and discuss as you finish up this week‘s section and the book .

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Hags | Victoria Smith
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Hello #SheSaid

Sorry for the late post again…this is becoming a habit and I apologize. How is everyone doing this week? How are you doing with this week‘s chapters?

AllDebooks I've just started it and I'm obsessed 2mo
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Riveted_Reader_Melissa @AllDebooks I‘m way behind this month. So I‘m glad I‘m not alone 😅. I have been a terrible reader this year. 2mo
vlwelser Chapters 5 + 6 are the best yet, IMO. Finally she seems to not be just spitting out things I've already consumed in other books. I guess I can also relate to chapter 5 more than some of the others. In 6, I liked what she had to say about the perceptions about Mumsnet and how it's perceived by outsiders. But also used by politicians as a way to discredit female voices. 2mo
Singout Have there been votes for November and December yet? No pressure! 2mo
Riveted_Reader_Melissa @Singout not up yet, so you did not miss it 2mo
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Hags | Victoria Smith
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Hello #SheSaid!

Way behind today… power issues here locally. Discussion below for this week‘s section, drop in as you finish the section.

vlwelser I'm starting to feel like this author is covering ground other people have already wandered over. It's good. I'm just not completely blown away by it. 2mo
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MallenNC @vlwelser There were definitely times when I started to wonder if I‘d read this already. 2mo
vlwelser @mallennc I did, but mostly because she keeps quoting Caitlin Moran. 2mo
MallenNC @vlwelser I have read How to Be a Woman so maybe that‘s why. It also reminds me of that Witches book we read last year by the French author. I can‘t remember the name 2mo
vlwelser @mallennc yes. That book was also similar even if it was a European perspective. 2mo
Riveted_Reader_Melissa @vlwelser @MallenNC I loved Moran‘s first 2 books. I really need to read her more recent 2 new ones…I‘ll tag them below (edited) 2mo
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Hags | Victoria Smith
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Hello #SheSaid!

Sorry for the late post. But…

We are off with a new book!

MallenNC I‘m going to try to keep up this month! I‘ve been thinking about what she says in chapter 1 about the tendency online to say people opposite of our beliefs are aging faster because they are hateful inside. (Paraphrasing) and how that makes us see aging as a sign of failure. That‘s interesting to me 2mo
vlwelser I do think this is interesting @MallenNC it's like they couldn't come up with a more creative insult. Joke's on them though because it happens to everyone. Angry people are often accused of being ugly. I like the Twits quotes even if Dahl was a crazy bigot himself. 2mo
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Hags | Victoria Smith
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Hello #SheSaid!

Schedule is ready! See you this weekend!

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Hags | Victoria Smith
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Up Next for #SheSaid.

Still on sale on Kindle and Kobo if you are like me and it is unavailable at your library

Otherwise, put in your library loans and inter-library loans.

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Hello #SheSaid!

I really liked this one, I‘m on the last chapter now, so will finish in an hour or so. How are you all doing? Catching up? Enjoying the anthropological deep biological dive? I like both her research and examples she weaves in, what were your favorite parts or least favorite parts?

vlwelser Still glad I recommended this one. Glad I read it. I had zero clue it was so long until I retrieved it. The author did a great job and I will probably read whatever she does next. 2mo
Riveted_Reader_Melissa @vlwelser me too! I will add her to my…read whatever they write list. 2mo
DebinHawaii I‘ve not done a good job with the discussions but I listened slowly over the month & finished the audiobook yesterday & I really enjoyed it! I learned a lot & was kept entertained. Great recommendation @vlwelser 🤗 2mo
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Hello #SheSaid

I‘m behind as always…still in last week‘s section, but I‘m slowly catching up!

How is the week treating you? And how are you enjoying this book and this week‘s section.

vlwelser This book is so interesting. I can't imagine how long the research took. 3mo
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Riveted_Reader_Melissa @vlwelser I agree. It‘s like a great anthropology deep dive. I love it. 3mo
mhillis I‘ve only read chapter one so far. Very interesting! 3mo
vlwelser That is a great way to describe it. 3mo
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Hello #SheSaid!

I hope you are all having a great weekend and learning interesting things in our current book. See you in the comments after you finish this week‘s sections to discuss.

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Hello #SheSaid

I‘m really liking this one already. The introduction alone was very interesting. Please drop by the comments as you finish this week‘s section.

Riveted_Reader_Melissa I was hooked from the discussion of fat, liposuction, and that that is an organ with a purpose in the introduction. It explains so much about women and weight loss and regain cycles to me. And why we often regain more…probably the body knows it can be lost and wants to be extra prepared with a bit more in case of the next “famine”. 3mo
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Riveted_Reader_Melissa …it also made me think of all the weight lose drugs now and wonder how effective they will be long term and what side effects they may have long term 3mo
vlwelser I am glad we're reading this. I had no idea it was so long when I proposed it. But I like her style. And I like how detailed it is. 3mo
Riveted_Reader_Melissa @vlwelser me too…and yes, I thought that part way through this week‘s section …the this is longer than I thought it was. 3mo
MallenNC My friend read this and recommended it. I‘m glad to hear it‘s good. I‘ll have to catch up when my hold comes in. 3mo
LitStephanie The discussion about mammalian nursing and milk production just made me cringe, guess I am squeamish about that. I was skeptical of her reporting that males can ever produce milk, so I looked for a legitimate source, and apparently it is extremely rare (except in one type of bat) but can happen! https://www.scientificamerican.com/article/strange-but-true-males-can-lactate/ 3mo
LitStephanie I thought the bit about stress hormones in milk making babies more cautious or timid was really interesting. I am sure it is only a very small push on the personality but still kind of amazing. 3mo
Riveted_Reader_Melissa @LitStephanie yes, I found that really interesting too. 3mo
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And just a reminder #SheSaid of what is coming up in October…and time to start nominating some new books to read again. What‘s on your radar, to read list, caught your eye lately. Please tag them below and I will get a voting 🗳️ group together!

Bookwormjillk Thank you! I am terrible at reading these on time, but I usually get to them eventually! 3mo
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Riveted_Reader_Melissa @Bookwormjillk You‘re welcome. And I understand… I have been off all year so far. Not reading on time. I blamed moving in the beginning of the year keeping me busy doing other things and throwing me off my reading pattern. Now I‘m think it‘s too much Doomscrolling 🫠 But whatever it is, I‘m off too and I hope it ends soon. So I thank you all for putting up with an organizer that is later reading our sections about 50% of the time lately. 3mo
MallenNC It‘s hard to believe it is time to pick more books already. I will give some thought to what I‘ve been interested in lately. 3mo
ncsufoxes Men Who Hate Women by Laura Bates is really good. Saving Five by Amanda Nguyen. (edited) 3mo
Liz_M @LitsyEvents (edited) 3mo
Riveted_Reader_Melissa This comes out in October… and I think will be talked about by everyone 3mo
AllDebooks I would like to revist Wild Swans as Jung Chang is releasing a follow-up memoir. 3mo
Riveted_Reader_Melissa @AllDebooks really! I‘d love to re-read Wild Swans too, I did not know she was writing a follow-up 3mo
AllDebooks @Riveted_Reader_Melissa published in the UK on 16th September 2025. Fly, Wild Swans: My Mother, Myself and China by Jung Chang – HarperCollins Publishers UK https://share.google/LuOWV66dzCrH5j9Zq 3mo
Riveted_Reader_Melissa @AllDebooks Definitely Stacking 3mo
LitStephanie Ooh my library had this available! May I join you all for September? 3mo
Riveted_Reader_Melissa Nominations closed 2mo
Riveted_Reader_Melissa @Chelseabillups30 Do you want to join our reading group? I can start adding you to the tag list? 2mo
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Up next for #SheSaid!

Put in your library holds and interlibrary loans!

TheBookHippie I enjoyed this one! Hope you do too! 3mo
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Julsmarshall I loved this one and think about it often!! 3mo
SamAnne An interesting read. I had a few issues with it but learned so much. I will try and follow along. 3mo
LitStephanie Please add me. 3mo
mhillis I could only get the YA version! Looking forward to reading it 3mo
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Hello #SheSaid!

I hope you enjoyed this one. I‘m still behind, but am enjoying it and the tangents too. Please drop by the comments as you finish.

Riveted_Reader_Melissa Anyone else feel a little depressed in some sections…about how much some of these people went through, did for their communities, got no recognition, and here in the US it feels like we are determined to repeat it all again….like we have learned nothing. 🫠 3mo
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vlwelser We're not great at learning from mistakes here in the US. Or the wrong people have all of the power. Could be both. 3mo
Riveted_Reader_Melissa @vlwelser People put the wrong people in power, so same thing. I‘m still very disappointed that people saw the “child separation” policy, and said this time they will only get rid of criminals, let‘s put those exact same people back in power again and give them more money & people. 3mo
Riveted_Reader_Melissa …and then shocked, just horrified at what happens. Like it was not obvious what they would do. 3mo
vlwelser It was dreadful the last time but it's like they forgot. It's all propaganda. They hear what they want. And think they can't possibly be talking about them. 3mo
Riveted_Reader_Melissa So sad and was so easily avoidable 3mo
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Hello #SheSaid!

Sorry I‘ve been behind this month, but I hope you are all enjoying it. Hopefully I‘ll catch up sometime before too long. Stop in to the comments as you finish this week‘s section.

kspenmoll I have really enjoyed the chapters on Hawaii, the horrific decision to intern Japanese citizens, the fight for reparations, & the lifelong relationship between Alan Simpson & Norman Mineta. 4mo
MallenNC @kspenmoll I read this previously and the Hawaii chapters were my favorite 4mo
vlwelser This section is far and away my favorite so far. Maybe because these guys are more modern. It would have been great if she found more like this esp a female. 4mo
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I promised a picture to #SheSaid. This is my grand-nephew Oliver. He had to stay in the hospital a little longer under some lights to help his bilirubin levels improve, but he was finally able to come home.

Bookwormjillk He's adorable! Congratulations! 4mo
lil1inblue What a sweetheart! 😍 Congratulations! 4mo
GingerAntics What a little sweetheart! 4mo
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Lcsmcat Congratulations! He‘s precious. 4mo
kspenmoll So happy he is home! Adorable! 4mo
Eggbeater Congratulations! He's beautiful! 😍 4mo
AmyG Beautiful baby! Congrats! ❤️ 4mo
MallenNC So happy to see him! Precious baby. 4mo
ElizaMarie He is so beautiful!!!! 4mo
Ruthiella Beautiful! 🤩 (edited) 4mo
willaful What a sweetie! Please kiss those toes for me. 4mo
staci.reads Beautiful 😍 4mo
Amiable Welcome to the world, Oliver! 💙 4mo
CarolynM Gorgeous 😍 4mo
MaureenMc 💕💕💕 4mo
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Hello #SheSaid!

Sorry for the late post. I‘m at the hospital on baby watch! Been here all day waiting for my grand-nephew to make his appearance. I‘ll post pictures when he arrives. Enjoy the comments discussion! Maybe I‘ll catch up on this book by the end of the month. LOL…we will see!

Suet624 Yippee on a new baby in the family!! 4mo
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vlwelser It's possible the baby is more interesting than this book. It is interesting but it's also pretty basic. 4mo
DebinHawaii Congrats on the new addition to the family! 4mo
Bookwormjillk Congratulations 🎉 4mo
Riveted_Reader_Melissa I love that I posted the wrong picture this week and no one mentioned it! (edited) 4mo
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https://youtu.be/9H0ivgubPtI?si=mhKfvRN18_jI6aAg

Very interesting video, a follow up video in the comments.

GingerAntics I‘ve seen so many authors leave the amazing system because they literally prevent them from selling anywhere else. They go Indy and their fans follow. They even work together to introduce their fans to new authors so they can avoid Amazon all together. Bezos needs to stop screwing everyone over. 4mo
Riveted_Reader_Melissa @GingerAntics the Audible thing is about they raised the % to authors… but if you pick anything out of the plus catalog (ie, for free) your money gets split with that. So if you listen to 10 books, 9 in the plus “free” catalog and the author you spent your credit on. The author you thought you were spending your credit on…their profit gets divided by the 10 books, than they get their percentage on the 1/10 that is left. Plus a bunch in ⤵️ 4mo
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Riveted_Reader_Melissa ↪️ “free” pool are audibles. So they use Mary Shelley‘s Frankenstein as an example. It is free in the public domain, but audible made it into an audiobook, so if you pick it audible itself is most likely taking a cut from your favorite author you spent a credit on. And it gets more complicated from there.… lots more in the video…. None of it sounds good for actual authors 4mo
Riveted_Reader_Melissa Basically they are using the buy audiobook section to fund the rent book section…and authors are paying for it. 4mo
Riveted_Reader_Melissa There is a link to sign a petition about it. 4mo
GingerAntics @Riveted_Reader_Melissa this is why I absolutely refuse to use audible. I have a friend who keeps telling me I can use her login if I want, but I can‘t do it. Authors work hard on these books. They deserve to be properly compensated. Amazon is REALLY shady in general, but they seem to really crank it up for authors. 4mo
willaful Ugh, that's gross! I have a free trial right now and I definitely will cancel. 4mo
lil1inblue Is there any info as to how the percentages compare to libro.fm or kobo? I totally agree that audible is shady af and f-ing horrible, but I am curious how it compares to its competitors. 4mo
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Hello #SheSaid

I hope this month is treating you well…. I‘m still running behind on this book, but I‘ll get there soon.

Please drop into the comments as you finish this week‘s section.

Suet624 I just got the book out of the library. 😊🤷🏻‍♀️ 4mo
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staci.reads I'm a couple chapters short of being caught up, but I'm close. My takeaways so far are that I'm enjoying learning about these lesser-known Americans who should be commonly- known, and holy cow...tangents! I am struggling with the organizational style that allows her to be feeling the story of Maria de Lopez and all of the sudden we're reading about Fortunate Eagle and the Pope...then suddenly it's about Walt Disney. . 4mo
staci.reads (Cont) ...then oh yeah, we were learning about Maria. Whiplash! Or, let's learn about Katherine Lee Bates... but suddenly, 2 pages on Paul Revere's life, all because the church bell in Katie's father's church was made by Revere 🙄 4mo
staci.reads Also, I highly recommend that when you finish chapter 11, Google images of the Spirit of Idaho Women statue; it's marvelous. 4mo
vlwelser I'm digging this. Entirely. I enjoy that she goes off on tangents like a hyperactive school teacher. 4mo
DebinHawaii I‘m finally caught up & went past to the next section by accident. I agree about the whiplash😳 but it definitely is keeping my attention & I‘m enjoying it. 4mo
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Hello #SheSaid!

I‘m away at a wedding this weekend, so have not even started this one yet. But please jump in and comment as you finish today‘s section.

Suet624 Oh shoot. I still have to find this book. I‘ll check all the libraries. 4mo
MallenNC I read this one already b/c I love Sharon McMahon. I liked what she did with this book 4mo
vlwelser She's so snarky and matter of fact about things. I love it. 4mo
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Pickpick

As someone who has been on the wrong side of BMI since puberty & felt that doctors often ignored my problem & focused instead on a scale number that has fluctuated within the same range for decades…I could definitely relate. This book clearly outlines how large, does not equal unhealthy & the hype-focus on size means not focusing on important things, in fact often ignoring them. Great research in this book, mixed with the author‘s experience.

Jari-chan Ah, the world famous Bullshit Index 🤫😎 4mo
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Next up for #SheSaid!

Put in your library holds and interlibrary loans

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Hello #SheSaid!

How has the month treated you? Hopefully it was a good one and you fit some reading in too.

As you finish up the book, stop in below and let‘s discuss!

GingerAntics Oh wow those get TINY! I would love to see something like this in person. 5mo
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MallenNC This was a good book and I think she did a great job mixing the personal with the academic support of the topic. This is so prevalent in our society. 5mo
vlwelser @MallenNC I totally agree. It was also interesting to see this topic from the view point of a philosopher. 5mo
MallenNC @vlwelser I thought so too. It showed the scope of the issue in a different way than say a sociologist. And she did a good job of including pop culture in this. 5mo
DebinHawaii I have not been good with keeping up with the reading or the discussions but I finished this one today & thought it was really good. I highlighted a ton in it & while the subject matter made it frustrating & sad/dismaying to read, I think she made her points well & as @MallenNC said, did a great job of weaving in her personal experiences with data & history. 5mo
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Riveted_Reader_Melissa Not sure I agree with all of them, and he miss-stated one thing, but very interesting still. 5mo
Daisey Interesting! I‘ll have to take some time to watch this. 5mo
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Hello #SheSaid!

Anyone else have trouble not just reading ahead and finishing this book this week? Maybe just me!

Stop by below in the comments and let us know what you think about this week‘s section.

vlwelser I like this. It's interesting. Her perspective definitely adds to the book. But it's not the most riveting thing ever. 5mo
MallenNC @vlwelser The section for this week was very academic and focused on philosophy. Which made it harder to read. It did make me made to think that even “smart” people are susceptible to this kind of anti-fat bias. 5mo
vlwelser @MallenNC this didn't surprise me. Academia is competitive and they seem to take any opportunity to make others feel/seem inferior. 5mo
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Hello #SheSaid!

How are you this weekend? Catching up with our book?

Riveted_Reader_Melissa I‘m behind again…yes, I know…what else is new 🫠 sorry about that. I‘ll catch up soon, but I‘m loving it so far….and anyone else feel like they what to tell off a few people who have given them grief over the years….maybe just me. 🙃 (edited) 5mo
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Bookwormjillk I haven‘t started this yet but got it on my kindle for when I‘m on a family vacation next week. Let‘s just say it might come in handy. 5mo
MallenNC I am not *enjoying* this exactly because the topic is a tough one but I like the way the author explains that what many think to be true is actually wrong like the accuracy of BMI or that being a higher weight automatically making someone less healthy. 5mo
Riveted_Reader_Melissa @MallenNC yes! That‘s how I felt and why I said I wanted to tell off a few people. A few doctors in particular. More girls need to read this younger so they get a more balanced prescriptions on weight & health. 5mo
Riveted_Reader_Melissa I‘m all caught up now. And I will say *enjoying*, because I feel like things I have thought for a long time are here in print, with data to back them up. 5mo
vlwelser @MallenNC that BMI nonsense is no joke. People actually use it like it's a real indication of anything. They were using it to sort us into covid vaccine groups. My friends mocked me for being the only one in the "normal" group 5mo
Riveted_Reader_Melissa @vlwelser the number of times my doctor has told me the “lose 10% of your body weight” reduces the risk of xyz. I always thought that was BS, because there is no bottom there, you can always say that no matter what you lose and be told 10% again. And this book points out rightfully that those that lose regain back & often more and the dieting and regaining has more risks than the weight anyway. 🙄 5mo
vlwelser I like that she points out the exercise bit. Like that actually makes you healthier. 5mo
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Just this sentence, in the intro… gutted me. I‘ve read her other books, they are very very excellent in-depth well-researched books. With so much to offer.

But this sentence alone, shows how our society works to silence women, just to make them so uncomfortable with themselves, that they balk at being “public”. That instinctual withdrawl silences whatever they would have said.

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Hello #SheSaid! New month, New Book!

Happy 4th of July to those in the US, happy weekend to everyone else!

As we dive into a new read, thoughts so far?

MallenNC I related a lot to her intro. I think a lot of people would. I‘m interested to see where the book goes. I like that she backs up her ideas with a lot of research 5mo
DGRachel Still waiting for my library hold but I should have it soon. 🤞🏻 5mo
vlwelser @MallenNC I agree. I found her really relatable in the intro and I am looking forward to seeing what she comes up with. 5mo
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Up Next for #SheSaid!

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Up next for #SheSaid!

So put in your library holds and inter-library loans or pick it up while it is still on sale.

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Hello #SheSaid!

A bit of a different format this month, so just stop by as you finish reading and let me know what you thought of the book and reading it with only 1 discussion this time in the comments.

AllDebooks I'm about to start reading this. 📚 5mo
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vlwelser I really liked this. It's a fast read. It had Herland vibes but it's also very sci-fi. I have no idea who's got it done and what would count as a spoiler. 5mo
MallenNC This kind of book is not my favorite. I felt like there was a point, philosophically, and it was interesting to imagine what a person would be like if born in this circumstance. But I wanted more narrative. I‘ll put another thought as a spoiler 5mo
MallenNC I did NOT like that there were no answers about where these women were and how this had happened. I did listen to the audiobook so it‘s possible I missed something but that annoyed me. I am a plot focused reader so this was hard for me. I‘m glad it was a short book. 5mo
Suet624 This was a rare DNF for me. Too much of a real world feel for me. 5mo
AllDebooks This was a very tough read. I can't say I enjoyed it, but I did think it was worth reading. The character development between the women was good. The child's progress was interesting, although the stroppy, sulky teen period was overdone. It was good to see her mature into a more pleasant person. 5mo
AllDebooks @MallenNC I agree, no explanation was frustrating. 5mo
Liz_M I like odd books that play with the conventions of a novel. I was relived there wasn't an explanation (I loved the world of Piranesi but when the situation was explained, it lost the magic ). I found the MC fascinating as well as a scenario that played with classic dystopias/utopias. I had trouble understanding the narrator's eventual framing of the world outside the bunker as another prison. Do we need the contrast of society to be free? 5mo
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If you are looking to buy our next read instead of borrowing it from the library… it is on sale today on both Kindle & Kobo

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Next up for #SheSaid

Our next pick is fiction this month. And there are no chapters or parts. So read when you can, enjoy the spring or fall depending on where you are. And I will see you all at the end of the month to discuss this book.

Put in your library holds & interlibrary loans…. Make sure you request in translation for your area.

vlwelser This is a great idea. I love being able to read at my own crazy pace. 7mo
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AllDebooks I have this, count me in 😀 7mo
Suet624 I've put a hold on it at the library! 7mo
Riveted_Reader_Melissa @vlwelser it usually works well for our fiction reads, which tends to work out well in the spring and winter holiday season. I little more laid back….so you can get out and do picnic, graduation, garden things when the weather is good…and then holiday get togethers, planning, shopping, cooking things. This one with no chapters or sections just said, nope no structure. 😂 7mo
Riveted_Reader_Melissa @Suet624 it‘s not very long, so plenty of time. 7mo
vlwelser I thrive under no structure. 😂 7mo
Riveted_Reader_Melissa @vlwelser I know, I kind of prefer it for fiction myself. Non-fiction can be more difficult that way. At least for me and for denser reads, for me breaking them down into section seems to help. But as always it really does depend on the book. 7mo
Riveted_Reader_Melissa @vlwelser our last book could have worked really well as a end of the month discussion. Some of the more academically written it‘s nice to be able to talk about the specific things in different sections 7mo
vlwelser I think with the last book because it was so long we all ended up on different timelines. Which made discussing it slightly disjointed 7mo
CatLass007 My audiobook is broken up into parts, but discussing the book all at one time sounds great. Count me in. 6mo
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Hello #SheSaid!

I am way behind on this book…. Family issues. But I‘m so glad it‘s still going well for everyone, I cannot wait to see what happens next. See you all in the comments!

vlwelser I really appreciated this book a great deal. The amount of research done on this fairly obscure historical icon is pretty stunning. I had no knowledge of this woman but she made so many impactful marks on the world. 7mo
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staci.reads After reading about her nitariaty at the time and her impact on legislation, I am appalled, and saddened, that she became "lost" to history. It overwhelms me to think about how many women, who made such a difference, have been forgotten, and it makes me grateful for authors like this who are uncovering their stories. 7mo
MallenNC This is one of those books that I can‘t say I enjoyed because of the subject matter but I thought it was very well done and I glad to have learned about Elizabeth‘s life. Kate Moore does a great job with these parts of history 7mo
Riveted_Reader_Melissa @MallenNC I may be behind, but I am loving how it is written and reads like living history…not just research. Makes me want to pick up anything the author writes. 7mo
Riveted_Reader_Melissa @vlwelser @staci.reads the disappearing of stories and people that change things/history is really hitting home for me right now as they delete history stories off of official websites etc. I feel like I need to find an old school Encyclopedia set to keep in my house so that some things can not just be erased. 7mo
Riveted_Reader_Melissa … but I guess it is not knew. Books like “12 Years a Slave” disappeared and were rediscovered much later. 7mo
MallenNC @Riveted_Reader_Melissa Have you read Radium Girls, her previous book? I think it‘s even better. 7mo
Riveted_Reader_Melissa @MallenNC no, I have not yet. I‘ll have to move it up my huge TBR list 7mo
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Hello #SheSaid! How are you this week?

See you in the comments, please just drop in when you finish this week‘s section…

Riveted_Reader_Melissa I myself am a bit behind this week, so I will stop back in a bit and add my comments & impressions….hopefully if my phone stops ringing this weekend 😂 7mo
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MallenNC I‘m actually on track for this one. I won‘t spoil (if you can spoil nonfiction) other than to say I was so impressed by her determination and the ways she found to use her voice and her writings to help herself and others. And the men in her life continue to be infuriating 7mo
vlwelser @MallenNC same 💯 7mo
vlwelser She encounters all these obstacles and just keeps fighting. She's fierce. I do feel so bad for her children to have been caught up in all of this. The husband is a giant douche canoe. Like let it go dude. But I guess it's hard to admit that you might be wrong. 7mo
staci.reads I finally got caught up. I really enjoyed reading about the trial. It was a little reaffirming to see people rally around the bleaknesses and infuriating first half. I also have found it interesting to see the varied reactions of her children once she is released considering their father's ongoing campaign to turn them against her. 7mo
Riveted_Reader_Melissa I am way behind…. Family issues. But I‘m so glad it‘s still going well for everyone, I can not wait to see what happens next. 7mo
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Hello #SheSaid

How is everyone doing this week, slowly catching up? I know a few of you got the book later.

See you in the comments as you finish this week‘s section!

Riveted_Reader_Melissa Me this week…the US is a mess. I am watching lots of news & doomscrolling….and reading lots of fluff novels as escapism. Then thinking how they would probably put me in an asylum for novel reading. 🥹 7mo
MallenNC I think the author did such a good job telling this story. This week‘s sections were tough bc they showed the reality of life in the asylum. And I felt such dread for Elizabeth throughout! And yes, it‘s scary how much some of this still echoes today. 7mo
vlwelser This book is incredibly detailed and while I appreciate that most of the time, I feel like I'm trying to rush through it. I feel so bad for Elizabeth and her babies. That husband is such a troll. And then he loses the job anyway! 7mo
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This is from February I think, but I‘m just reading it now & thought I would share.

Link here:

https://cornell1a.law.cornell.edu/blog/index.php/clinic-files-lawsuit-against-id...

Riveted_Reader_Melissa “The complaint also targets a unique feature of HB 710 that permits both state law enforcement and private citizens to bring legal challenges against schools and libraries that fail to restrict minors‘ access to materials deemed “harmful to minors.” Private citizens that file complaints against such schools or libraries receive a $250 award if they are successful in their challenge”. 🙄 7mo
Riveted_Reader_Melissa “The complaint also alleges that HB 710 expressly targets works that contain “any act of homosexuality,” including non-sexual acts like handholding and hugging between two characters of the same gender. According to the complaint, such a blatant restriction constitutes a violation of the First Amendment and the and Fourteenth Amendment‘s Equal Protection Clause.” So no mothers hugging your daughter in books I guess 🤪 7mo
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Susanita 19 pages! 🤬 7mo
ManyWordsLater I‘m having difficulty articulating to friends the difference because library curation and banning books. 7mo
Riveted_Reader_Melissa Well if you curate out anything to do with racism, gender, feminism, or transgender…you maybe are not curating a collection on a specific topic but removing a complete topic. For instance….race books out, Mein Kampf in…you could say more war history related…. But also out as feminism books about the underground movement of women in Afghanistan….which was probably pretty important in a fairly recent war. So I think it‘s the how, why, & ⤵️ 7mo
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Riveted_Reader_Melissa ↪️ purpose. I am not a librarian, I should add. But I would think curating a collection is different from say removing from a library. My public library has the library, and a separate curated section on local history….but that does not mean they removed every book from the main library on any other subject. 7mo
shortsarahrose @ManyWordsLater - I‘ll add, as a library worker/person with a masters in library science, collection development has more to do with building a collection that reflects a wide range of viewpoints on any given topic - even those that we may not personally agree with or that the majority of our community may not agree with. Censorship is removing or refusing to purchase items that don‘t align with a certain view. 7mo
Riveted_Reader_Melissa And why on earth Maya Angelou needed to be cut, only makes sense if it‘s a military curated collection…. But I did not see any other books of American classics novels of that sort listed. Just hers. And I find it hard to believe there was only 1 classic literature book in the library. No Steinbeck for example. 7mo
Riveted_Reader_Melissa @shortsarahrose Thank you! I knew we needed a librarian! When in doubt, always ask a librarian. 7mo
Riveted_Reader_Melissa @Susanita right! I had heard about it when it happened, but today was the first time I had seen a complete list. Very interesting what topics the removed books seemed to be centered around. And so nice they included the topics for each books, and I‘m assuming the rational for pulling them. 7mo
ncsufoxes It‘s an odd collection of books, meaning it‘s kind of all over the place. A few repeated titles (some have different publication dates but some are repeated 2-3xs). There are only a few fiction books. I‘m surprised The 1619 Project wasn‘t on there. It is interesting to see what they find intimidating. My guess is whoever curated this list probably hasn‘t read one of these books. They probably used AI to generate the list. 7mo
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Hello #SheSaid!

How are you all this weekend?

Riveted_Reader_Melissa This book is infuriating, but well written and easily readable. And so much of it seems like things still important today. We still seem to call any woman with an opinion “crazy”, and based on elections in the US, women with opinions are still seen as odd, unnatural even 🤦‍♀️and should vote with their husbands 🫠, and now the new SAVE Act 🙄. Interesting to me how some of the impetuous for this was different opinions on slavery. 7mo
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MallenNC I have meant to read this one since it came out but I knew it would make me so mad. It‘s very well written. I like that is narrative nonfiction, which is so much easier for me to follow. It‘s infuriating. And definitely relevant for today. 7mo
vlwelser I'm running slightly behind on the reading but so far this is intensely frustrating 7mo
TheKidUpstairs Like @vlwelser I'm a little bit behind, about half way through Part 1. But so far, I love the writing style, her narrative style engages you right from the start. Like everyone else, I find it so infuriating, and like @MallenNC pointed out it is unfortunately quite relevant for today, as we see so many politicians and political influencers trying to push us back to these times. cont'd in next comment 7mo
TheKidUpstairs I especially appreciate that, while the book is very much focused on Elizabeth and her story, Moore has brought in larger context with regards to sexism and racism in the medical profession, and the looming civil war. 7mo
Riveted_Reader_Melissa @TheKidUpstairs yes…when the neutral parties were no help section at the train station, I could not help thinking of our current times. 7mo
ncsufoxes I‘m about halfway through part 1 & agree with everyone else about the writing style. It is infuriating to see how some ideas about women have not changed…women & anything to do with their anatomy & functions. As well as women thinking or speaking out. At least we can‘t be locked away today for “novel reading.” 7mo
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Hello #SheSaid

Up Next for May!

Put in those library holds and interlibrary loans!

Suet624 Oof. Thats a rough one. At least it was for me. 😩 7mo
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TieDyeDude Kate Moore is an auto-buy for me. This is a wild story; hope you enjoy it! 7mo
TheKidUpstairs The audio was available, so I started this yesterday. Immediately engaging! I think I'm going to be rage-listening to a lot of this one! 7mo
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Hello #SheSaid!

This month & this book flew by for me!

How did you all feel about this last section, and the book as a whole?

Riveted_Reader_Melissa For me this one was a re-read, but I did not remember a ton from the first time….so parts felt new…and since we are repeating history, some hit more and stuck with me more this time. For instance, the Michelle Obama thing, it was just in the news why she did not go to his second inauguration. Why we chose to repeat this catastrophe I will never understand. 8mo
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Riveted_Reader_Melissa Never Scared seemed really poignant too right now with the attacks on University, classes available, etc. 8mo
vlwelser It's weird to think she wrote this at the beginning of his original term and absolutely nothing is different. Despite there having been a pandemic in the middle. 8mo
Riveted_Reader_Melissa @vlwelser very depressing 8mo
Riveted_Reader_Melissa @vlwelser only change is it‘s worse faster. Took him years to build up to the pandemic level Gov issues, and that was with the problems of a pandemic. This time 100 days and all just him. (edited) 8mo
vlwelser It's easier to repeat his previous nonsense than to make up new stuff. IMO 8mo
vlwelser Is there a schedule for the next book? You know I like to plan 7mo
Riveted_Reader_Melissa @vlwelser just working on that now 👍 7mo
vlwelser 🤗😘 7mo
Hooked_on_books I had to finish another book I was about to lose, so that delayed my finishing of this. I really liked this last section. Her chapter on the difficulties of dating as an educated woman really resonated with me. I met my husband when I was just turning 39 and long after giving up when dating just never worked, as all the guys ran away from my degree and work. Old fashioned gender roles are such crap! 7mo
Hooked_on_books And the statistic of black women having a median net worth of $5 is devastating. Median! That puts the reality of living while black in such stark perspective. I‘ve had this book for a long time and am so glad I finally read it, as it is superb. Thanks for picking this a letting me tag along! 7mo
Riveted_Reader_Melissa @Hooked_on_books right! That statistic is just shocking. Thank you for joining us. 7mo
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