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El amante
El amante | Marguerite Duras
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charl08
The Lover | Marguerite Duras
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My mother only has photos taken of her children. Never anything else. I haven't got any photographs of Vinh Long, not one, of the garden, the river, the straight tamarind-lined avenues of the French conquest, not of the house, nor of our institutional whitewashed bedrooms with the big black and gilt iron beds, lit up like classrooms by the red street lights, the green metal lamp-shades, not a single image of those incredible places...

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Lcsmcat
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Pickpick

In spite of the sticker, I can‘t imagine this as a successful movie - it‘s too internal. A dark story, and I would like a little more about Elder Brother (her fear of him seems out of proportion) but very poetic and immersive. #24in2024 number 21. @Jas16

Jas16 Well done! I agree that the writing in this book was beautifully poetic. 4mo
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Darklunarose
The Lover | Marguerite Duras
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Mehso-so

For me this was a little disjointed in the writing. But I did finish it.

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Darklunarose
The Lover | Marguerite Duras
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Not much of a cover but hoping this ebook will be just what I‘m needing.

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JenDR
The Lover | Marguerite Duras
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Started a new lunch time book today but decided to finish it this afternoon. #SummerEndReadathon

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Hamlet
The Lover | Marguerite Duras
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Pickpick

Beautiful writing & a heartbreaking story. I loved this sad novel‘s languorous & often cyclic prose, fitting for the heat of the Mekong. An older women‘s memories of her forbidden sexual liaison between her 15 year-old self & a Chinese man, this is a story of outsiders, of a union that‘s not really connection, of memory‘s interpretations. She is escaping a terrible home life, yet she survives, asserts self, even discovers desire. Unforgettable.

Hamlet That is a young Marguerite Duras herself in the cover photograph. 2y
Leftcoastzen I remember loving this book 2y
batsy I love this book ❤️ Difficult but unforgettable, I agree. 2y
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vlwelser
L'Amant | Marguerite Duras
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Pickpick

This is beautiful. I love her writing. The Lover in English. This is a classic that I never got around to reading previously. About a poor French girl who has an affair with a wealthy Chinese man in French Indochina (currently Vietnam).

#DoubleSpin @TheAromaofBooks

TheAromaofBooks Woohoo!! 2y
IuliaC This one's on my list too! 2y
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MeatPiie
L'Amant | Marguerite Duras
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Pickpick

?12 janvier 2022
C'est un livre très poétique, même si c'est une histoire de p*dophilie.
Bref, c'est un classique, donc il fallait le lire :)

writerlibrarian Duras est un must. Il existe 2 variations de ce roman. Duras offre des points de vue différents et tout aussi fascinants 2y
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bibliobliss
The Lover | Marguerite Duras
Panpan

Ewww. Just. No. Waste of my time.

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bibliobliss
The Lover | Marguerite Duras

Ewww. This is how the Chinese man would have "taken" his own child? What the fuck!! Also, I have no idea what the hell happened. The whole book was just a mess of nothing. The characters (what characters??) were not worth six paragraphs, let alone 100 pages. Just. No.

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bibliobliss
The Lover | Marguerite Duras
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…and what do you say when you just let things say themselves, when you let the body alone, to seek and find and take what it likes, and then everything is right, and nothing‘s wasted, the waste is covered over and all is swept away in the torrent, in the force of desire.

#currentlyreading #bookblurbs

KarenUK Oh I do love this book so…😍 3y
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ChaoticMissAdventures
The Lover | Marguerite Duras
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#conflictedworlds #lover

"He says he's lonely, horribly lonely because of the love he feels for her. She says she's lonely too. She doesn't say why."

@Eggs @Alwaysbeenaloverofbooks

Alwaysbeenaloverofbooks ❤️📚❤️ 3y
Eggs 🧡📙🧡 3y
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Taylor
The Lover | Marguerite Duras
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Pickpick

Languorous, erotic, philosophical, sweet—if you like authors like Rachel Cusk and are open to older literature, this is for you.

Duras takes us through an array of emotions and sensibilities, sometimes dangerous and dark, other times lovely and tender. Such variety was one of my favorite aspects. It‘s also a very short novel, one you could read in a day if you wanted.

Oh yeah and an absolutely killer opening page.

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Leftcoastzen
The Lover | Marguerite Duras
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Nice article/segment.I‘ve read 2 of the books mentioned. https://www.npr.org/2021/07/03/1011367989/immigration-books-roundup

MayJasper "The estrangement of being in a new world and yet forever arriving, never truly having arrived." How depressing. A very interesting article. Thanks ? 3y
Leftcoastzen @MayJasper you are welcome, I read tagged book , and the one you tagged, both were excellent. But both a little dark . 3y
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Jas16
The Lover | Marguerite Duras
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Here is everything I read for #booked2020 fall.
Think Pink: Women Talking
Gothic Horror: The Historian
Set in Southern Asia: The Pearl That Broke Its Shell
Book club Worthy: Valentine
New in 2020: Magic Lessons
Bottom of Your TBR: The Lover

Thank you @BarbaraTheBibliophage @Cinfhen @4thhouseontheleft I had such a great time this year with your prompts and look forward to getting started with the ones for 2021.

Cinfhen Woohoo 🙌🏻congrats on completing #Fall #Booked2020 🍂🌪☔️📚This is your #OfficialFinalEntry 🎊🎊🎊 WELL DONE 👍🏽 and glad to hear you‘re back for #Booked2021 4y
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Emilymdxn
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Pickpick

The prose in this tiny novel was so beautiful I wish I‘d read it at half speed so I could savour it longer - one of those books with a thinner plot but heavy atmosphere, a lot to say even though not much happens.

#tbrread for #wintergames2020 #merryreaders @Clwojick +16

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Jas16
The Lover | Marguerite Duras
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Pickpick

When I saw that #bottomofyourtbr was a #booked2020 prompt the choice was obvious. I have had this slim book since college and never managed to read it. An older woman looks back on her past including the older lover she had when she was 15 and her tumultuous family. Gorgeous writing but it all felt removed as if she felt distanced from her own memories.

Reggie Have you seen the movie? It‘s almost 30 years old but it‘s pretty decent. I loved the writing in there. 4y
Cinfhen Well done!!! 4y
BarbaraTheBibliophage 😎 Great job on taking this prompt *truly* to heart! 4y
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KarenUK
The Lover | Marguerite Duras
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#alphastack
A little stack of #letterL lovelies....

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antivancrowe
The Lover | Marguerite Duras
Panpan

You ever read something and love their style? Yet feel no emotional attachment to anything in the book? That was me for this book.

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Alebluemar
L'amante | Marguerite Duras
Pickpick

Dolore straziante, se ne annusa costantemente l‘odore, la scia di una pena strisciante che non la abbandona mai. Nella sequenza atemporale di un passato che rivive scrivendo si percepisce il dramma struggente della vita morsa, afferrata con intensità così come l‘inesorabile ineluttabilità di ciò che sembra definito e immutabile, quei punti fermi, terribili, della sua vita che acquistano una crudele implacabilità.

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KarenUK
The Lover | Marguerite Duras
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Thank you for the tag @BarbaraTheBibliophage & @squirrelbrain 💕

1. See tagged book.... I loved it! 💕
2. My reading comprehension in French is passable at best, but I did recently buy a copy of ‘Un certain sourire‘ by Francoise Sagan, to see if I can up my game! 🇫🇷

Consider yourself tagged if you‘d like to play along..💕

#Two4Tuesday @TheSpineView

TheSpineView Thanks for playing! 🤩 5y
squirrelbrain I have a copy of that book too (in French) but haven‘t read it for a loooong time! 😳 5y
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KarenUK
The Lover | Marguerite Duras
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Pickpick

Truly gorgeous writing.... An autobiographical novella set in French-colonial Indochina, it tells the story of a young girl‘s sexual awakening, her affair with a rich Chinese man, and her fraught relationship with her depressed mother. The story feels dreamlike, an elderly woman reminiscing about her life, hazy and ethereal at times, memories slipping from her grasp, scenes pieced together in a jumbled fashion. Really beautiful. Loved it.. 💕

kspenmoll Love your review! . 5y
KarenUK @kspenmoll thank you! 😊💕 5y
Jaimelire I haven‘t read the book yet, but the movie was beautiful. (edited) 5y
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KarenUK @jaimelire I just downloaded the movie 😊👍 🍿 5y
Jaimelire @KarenUK I really loved it, so beautiful. I am adding the book to my TBR list. 5y
Reggie There is a page of writing in here about how her and her brothers splash water through the house to clean the floors while her mom plays piano. It was gorgeous. I liked this book and movie. 5y
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KarenUK
The Lover | Marguerite Duras
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#weeklyforecast

In progress
- I have to complete my audiobook by Wednesday for a bookclub! 🎧
- Almost done with a Twenty One truths which is fun and actually quite sad too... 📚
- Just started The Lover which has gorgeous writing so far...💕

Hoping to start...
- Queenie & Stoner ..... both fit lots of challenge prompts and have been on my #TBR too long! And I have a feeling both will be totally my jam! 👍😊

Cinfhen Was just discussing 21 Truths with @JennyM It was surprisingly touching 5y
JennyM @Cinfhen @karenuk it is sad and made me tear-up in a few places! 5y
KarenUK @Cinfhen @JennyM Just finished..... I really loved it... cried too! 💕😢 (tagged you both in my review) (edited) 5y
BarbaraBB You will love 5y
KarenUK @BarbaraBB I think I will! 😊🤞 5y
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ValerieAndBooks
The Lover | Marguerite Duras
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Pickpick

This is not just the semi-autobiographical story of a young girl (15) having a relationship with a man quite older (27), but the also fraught relationships between her and her mother and her brothers. Beautifully written/translated but its structure made it difficult to follow. Between a pick and so-so.

Read this for #1001Books — I need to up my game because the app now tells me I need to read 4 books/month from the list, instead of 3 😱

writerlibrarian Duras is almost always amazing. Not easy, sometimes painfully hard emotionally but even then it's amazing. 💜 5y
KarouBlue Such a good book! Beautiful cover! The French cover is plain manilla!! 5y
Reggie I loved this book and I will always remember that passage about how they throw water on the floors to wash them as her mother plays the piano. Such beautiful writing. 5y
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ValerieAndBooks @writerlibrarian you say it so well! I do look forward to reading her again in spite of it all — two of her other books are on the #1001Books list , plus I have one in my TBR already that is not on the list: 5y
ValerieAndBooks @MellieAntoinette yes it‘s lovely — that photo is herself as a young person ! (edited) 5y
ValerieAndBooks @Reggie yes that passage stood out to me, too! How she described the smell of the wet wood floors and the soap and all. 5y
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S3V3N
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Panpan

I didn't like it. Someone recommended this book to me last year and I'm just now reading it. It jumped around and was kinda confusing. It was kinda slow moving too. I didn't like that the girl was 15 and her lover was 27.

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Books4Ever
The Lover | Marguerite Duras
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New Read 😊 so far so good 😊 the photo is a throwback to reading in Hawaii 📚

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AshleyHoss820
The Lover | Marguerite Duras
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Pickpick

Holy crap on a cracker! I LOVED this book! And not just for her relationship with said Lover! Her mother‘s depression, her descriptions of the country, all of it! It was beautiful! I‘d re-read this anytime! We have a 15-year-old French girl who begins an affair with a 30-year-old(?) Chinese man, in pre-war Indochina. The narrative jumps around a bit, but I never found this distracting. I absolutely fell in love w/her writing. 145/1,001 #1001Books

BarbaraBB I read this at least 20 years ago. Maybe it is time for a reread. Great review! 7y
AshleyHoss820 @BarbaraBB Oh, thank you!! 😊 My copy was only 117 pages long, so it wouldn‘t take up too much time! 😄 7y
batsy It's one of my favourites! The writing, the way she conveys mood and atmosphere and temperaments... Great review. 7y
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AshleyHoss820 @batsy Yes! It‘s a favorite for me now, too!! So lovely! And thank you! 😊😊😊 7y
ValerieAndBooks This is in my TBR and I really should get to it soon to knock off another #1001Books and because of your positive review!! 6y
AshleyHoss820 @ValerieAndBooks It won‘t take you long, I promise! 😄 I just loved the prose in this! I hope you enjoy it as much as I did! 6y
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AshleyHoss820
The Lover | Marguerite Duras
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The prose in this book! 😍😍😍 #1001Books

SeaToSkyes That last paragraph though ❤️ 7y
AshleyHoss820 @SeaToSkyes Right!? This whole book was just filled to the brim with sigh-inducing prose! 😄😄😍😍 7y
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AshleyHoss820
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I‘m almost done with Sons and Lovers, so I decided to get my next book on deck! THE #TBRBowlOfDestiny HAS SPOKEN...and I feel like it‘s trying to tell me something...two titles in a row with the word lover!? #1001Books

MrBook Love this!!! 😁👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻 7y
Cinfhen Bowl of destiny ~ that‘s awesome 😎 7y
AshleyHoss820 @MrBook Thank you!! 😄😄 It takes a lot of pressure off, letting THE BOWL choose for me! 7y
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AshleyHoss820 @Cinfhen 😂😂😂Thank you!! 😂😂😂 my 9-year-old daughter is obsessed with it! And I say BOWL OF DESTINY just like they talk about the Glow Cloud on the Welcome to Night Vale podcast...😂😂😂 7y
Clare-Dragonfly All hail the bowl of destiny! 7y
ErickaS_Flyleafunfurled I accidentally bought this book twice. I really should get to it soon! 7y
tracey38 Love the bowl of destiny! 7y
AshleyHoss820 @Clare-Dragonfly YES!! 😂😂😂 7y
AshleyHoss820 @ErickaS_Flyleafunfurled It‘s a short one! 😄 And I‘ve done the double buying more than I care to admit! 😂😂 7y
AshleyHoss820 @tracey38 Haha!! Thank you! I love it too! Makes my book selecting way easier! 😄😂 7y
DreesReads I need a TBR bowl of destiny! I think I‘m too lazy to make one though! 7y
AshleyHoss820 @AudreyMorris I should‘ve done this ages ago! 😄 But I‘m also a bit lazy...😂😂😂 7y
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erzascarletbookgasm
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Lcsmcat
L'Amant | Marguerite Duras
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It‘s also Marguerite Dumas‘ birthday. @maximoffs @Reecaspieces You were born on an auspicious day! Duras and Angelou! Happy Birthday to you both! 🎂🎉 🎈

Reecaspieces Wow! Didn‘t know that! Thank you so very much! 7y
Kaye Happy birthday 🎁🎉🎊 @Reecaspieces 7y
maximoffs Thank you!!!! 7y
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Reecaspieces @Kaye thank you! 7y
Reecaspieces @maximoffs happy bday to you! 7y
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Centique
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#fiercefeb #imaposeur

This prompt made me think of the hyper self consciousness of the teenage girl in The Lover. (Also chosen by @batsy for another prompt this month!)

She becomes so aware of the face and body and how it is seen by others. The addition of the hat changes her, makes her something new. This book spoke so thoughtfully about being the object of others gaze. And such beautiful language, rightfully a classic!

batsy Nice one! 👏 It didn't occur to me for this prompt; you're so right. 7y
CSeydel That‘s beautiful! 7y
Cinfhen Beautiful passage 😍 7y
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Centique Thanks @CSeydel @Cinfhen 💕✌️ 7y
Centique @batsy seeing herself in the mirror with the hat - that scene just stays with me. 💕 7y
readordierachel Good choice! 7y
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batsy
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#IsThisDesire It's both desire and a power struggle, I think, and that's the disturbing fact that makes this brutal, sad book memorable for me.

#FierceFeb @Cinfhen

OSChamberlain You had me at brutal, sad. I love a good sad story. Lol 7y
batsy @OSChamberlain Haha, glad to hear it! It's embarrassing how many of my favourite books can be classified as such 😂 7y
Cinfhen This one sounds wayyyy depressing.... 7y
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rockpools Hey @batsy. Which song- PJ Harvey or Years and Years? 7y
batsy @RachelO My girl PJ 🙌🏽❤️😊 I'm gonna look up the other one... 7y
rockpools @batsy Thank you! The other one's stuck in my head, but probably not even those words! Will go dig out some PJ! 7y
Reggie Omg, I love this book. There is a whole page about how they throw water on the floors to clean their house while they‘re mother plays piano and it is amazing. @Cinfhen give it a try, it‘s not that bad. I got somber more than depressing or heartbreak. There is also a movie with Jane March playing the girl. It‘s pretty decent. 7y
Cinfhen There‘s only 128 pages in the whole book...and one whole page is about cleaning the floors ~ I‘m not so sure @Reggie 😂😂 7y
batsy That's a great scene @Reggie I love how she casually drops in the line that the clean house reminds her mother of "whiteness". I need to watch the movie! 7y
Leftcoastzen @batsy you‘ve posted about this wonderful book before ,and I remember it being so beautifully written and one of the most atmospheric books I‘ve ever read. 7y
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Eugeniavb
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Mehso-so

It was a bit of a hard read in french for me, a lot of jumping back and forth in time, between characters, places and such. Some parts of it seemed incredibly well written to me and others were totally whatever. I must say I was expecting much more. Will have to see the movie again, since I saw it over 20 years ago and compare.

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Eugeniavb
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“Un jour, j‘étais âgée déjà, dans le hall d‘un lieu public, un homme est venu vers moi. Il s‘est fait connaître et il m‘a dit: “Je vous connais depuis toujours. Tout le monde dir que vous ètiez belle lorsque vous ètiez jeune, je suis venu pour vous dire que pour moi je vous trouve plus belle maintenant que lorsque vous ètiez jeune, j‘aimais moins votre visage de jeune femme qui celui que vous avez maintenant, dévasté.” #firstlines

sofiaga J'aime ce livre! 7y
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batsy
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"I've never written, though I thought I wrote, never loved, though I thought I loved, never done anything but wait outside the closed door."

I loved this beautiful, stark, haunting book but practically everyone in here gives love a bad name. #yougiveloveabadname #Rocktober @BarbaraBB @Cinfhen

BarbaraBB Yes! I remember. Good chosen 7y
ValerieAndBooks I‘ve had this in my TBR for a long time! Also one of her others — both are short so I don‘t know why I haven‘t read them yet. 7y
batsy @ValerieAndBooks I have not heard of that one! Thank you, that went straight to the TBR ☺️ 7y
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readordierachel Love Margeurite Duras! Have you read The War? I didn't see it on litsy, but maybe I wasn't looking hard enough. 7y
Leftcoastzen Loved this book. One of my all time favorites! 7y
batsy @ReadOrDieRachel No, I haven't! If I remember I think this is the only Duras I've read, which I must remedy soon. The War is on my TBR 😊 7y
batsy @Leftcoastzen It's a slim masterpiece that packs a punch. 7y
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paradise_found92
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"I've never written, though I thought I wrote, never loved, though I thought I loved, never done anything but wait outside the closed door."

Word. #globalliterature #margueriteduras #thelover #literature #books #fiction

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Centique
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Pickpick

Man I have read some 5 star books this year. This is probably the most beautiful of them. It‘s told in glimpses and memories. A paragraph or two at a time and then jumping to another moment. The writing is almost unbearably beautiful. You have to stop and draw breath! At the same time it‘s sad and lonely, brutal in its honesty, unique in its insights. How can it do so much in so few pages?!!! That‘s why it‘s a classic right?

Centique I‘d like to know more about many things in this story - but if it was twice the size and explained itself fully it wouldn‘t be so perfect. 7y
Cinfhen Great review❤️ 7y
books_from_my_shelves It sounds great. The author is new to me - another book to put on my tbr.😃 7y
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batsy @Centique Yes, that's a great point. That sense of mystery is central to many great novels, maybe... 7y
LeahBergen I've been meaning to read this for years! 7y
Centique @Cinfhen thanks! 7y
Centique @batsy yes - I think so too. Something unfinished leaves room for the reader to interpret. But I know some readers hate that (my book club for starters! 😳😂) 7y
Alwaysbeenaloverofbooks Awesome review 😊 7y
Cathythoughts What a beautiful review, you make me feel like I really need to read this 💫💫💫 7y
Centique Thanks @Alwaysbeenaloverofbooks @Cathythoughts 💕you guys are lovely 7y
Hollie Great review!! 😘 7y
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Centique
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I am in love with this book already.

Reggie Have you seen the movie? It's pretty decent. And my favorite passage is about how they throw water on the floors to clean them. It's a beautiful book. 7y
Centique @Reggie no I haven‘t. When I picked up the book I had a vague notion that the movie Indochine might have been based on it. Totally wrong of course! Thanks for the recc, I will watch it 😊 7y
batsy This book is something else 👍 7y
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merelybookish I read this book when I was 19 after seeing the movie. And it was EVERYTHING! Would be interesting to re-read... 7y
Centique @merelybookish I think you‘d still have that reaction! I just did. 7y
Centique @batsy it certainly is! 7y
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Caryl
L'amante | Marguerite Duras
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#addiction led me to alcoholism led me to Hemingway & Fitzgerald led me to this article:
"The long list of male alcoholic authors is well known, but what about their literary sisters?"
https://www.theguardian.com/books/2014/jun/13/alcoholic-female-women-writers-mar...

#anditsaugust

DebinHawaii Really Interesting article! 7y
batsy The Lover ❤️ 7y
Caryl Glad you liked the article, @DebinHawaii ! @batsy - I think I read it long ago, but I don't remember it at all. I should read it again! 7y
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evelando
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Raw, terrible and somehow tender.

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Kimboling
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Knowledgelost
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Pickpick

This stunning masterpiece will stay with me forever. I love the way Duras plays with multiple narrative devices to explore her salacious love affair with a Chinese man.

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Beachesnbooks
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Pretty used books I picked up in Washington 📚

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Lauren
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It's so good. Finally stopped being embarrassed I had never read it / am reading it. Omg.

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sneirr
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Pickpick

An old woman remembers the affair she had as a 15 year old French girl with a 27 year old Chinese man in Saigon in the 1930s. Beautifully written, I would describe it as stream-of-consciousness but more postmodern.

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KRISNTL
The Lover | Marguerite Duras
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In the beginning the writing style seems very confusing, very excessive. Sentences seem incomplete to me. I think that's the style, but it was agonizing to read through. This book definitely has the "diary" entry type of feel to it. It romanticized death and pain. But honestly, I just saw mental illnesses everywhere in the main character, in her family etc. It's nothing to romanticize about in my honest opinion.