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BarbaraJean
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“Miss Oliver dear, you are all tired out and unstrung—just you go upstairs and lie down and I will bring you up a cup of hot tea and a bite of toast and very soon you will not want to slam doors or swear.“
“Susan, you're a good soul—a very pearl of Susans! But, Susan, it would be such a relief—to say just one soft, low, little tiny d—“

😂 😂 I‘m with Miss Oliver on this one…
#KindredSpiritsBuddyRead #LMMReread

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BarbaraJean
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#KindredSpiritsBuddyRead #LMMReread

Is there anything else you‘d like to discuss from Rilla of Ingleside?
Was there anything that bothered or frustrated you about the book?
Do you have any favorite passages or scenes you‘d like to share?

lauraisntwilder This is Rilla's book, I know that, but it still makes me sad how little of Anne and Avonlea we get. At one point, Anne mentions not being able to do anything and almost said, "Go write something!" out loud. There's one, very brief, mention of Diana, and Marilla has died between books with no fanfare. Is Rachel Lynde also dead? And did Davy Keith end up in the war? What happened to all our friends?? 3d
BarbaraJean @lauraisntwilder I felt that, too. The little comment about Marilla made me SO sad! As you said, it's Rilla's book--and I think it also reflects how relationships changed for LMM as she grew up, got married, and moved away. But no mention of Davy is so puzzling. There is a brief mention of other boys going off to war--children of Anne's childhood and college friends. But no Davy. It's odd. I know LMM was tired of Anne by this point, but still! 21h
BarbaraJean One scene I'd forgotten that REALLY bothered me this time was little Bruce Meredith and the “sacrifice“ he makes about Stripey. I was HORRIFIED. LMM often uses children's mistaken ideas as a way to critique established religion, but I couldn't fathom what narrative purpose there could have been with that scene. I loved Bruce's earlier spot-on take about making the Kaiser into a good man, but the Stripey scene just canceled it all out for me. 21h
BarbaraJean But then, on the other hand--Dog Monday. 😭 😭 😭 21h
lauraisntwilder Pets had it rough in this one!! Poor Stripey! 😭 19h
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#KindredSpiritsBuddyRead #LMMReread

On this umpteenth re-read for me, what struck me as new (more than just the “new” passages that I discovered had been excised from my old faithful Bantam paperback!!), was seeing so much of LMM‘s WWI experience on the page.

If you‘ve been reading LMM‘s journals, what did you notice in Rilla of Ingleside that echoed LMM‘s thoughts and experiences during WWI?

lauraisntwilder The journals added so much! I've only read this one other time, in 2023, but I enjoyed it more this time. LMM's terror over the war news makes so much sense in a household with so many young men of "fighting age." It must have been therapeutic for her, to give meaning to those awful years. 3d
lauraisntwilder Specifically, I saw Susan as a sort of stand-in for LMM. She puts her faith in Kitchener and studies maps and waits for news. LMM doesn't quite let us see Susan's moments of weakness though, which is one of the main reasons her journals were so important to her. Her own moments were written out, so she made Susan cook and knit. 3d
BarbaraJean @lauraisntwilder I saw SO many echoes of LMM's WWI entries! There were references to people, places, and battles that I remembered reading & finding tedious in LMM's journals. 😂 I hadn't thought about Susan as an LMM stand-in, but I think you're right! The way the anticipation/dread of the news arriving overshadowed the whole household felt like it was lifted directly from LMM's journals, and Susan really embodied that. 21h
Daisey I haven‘t been reading the journals, but I definitely got more of the daily WWI experience aspect this time just having more knowledge myself of events mentioned. I had forgotten just how much that was the entire focus of the story. 16h
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#KindredSpiritsBuddyRead #LMMReread

“No, I don‘t like you and I never will but for all that I‘m going to make a decent, upstanding infant of you. …If I can‘t love you I mean to be proud of you at least.”

Rilla ambitiously takes on the care of an infant—a “war-baby”—in spite of the fact she does NOT like babies.

What did you think of this storyline?
How does Jims contribute to Rilla‘s own growth?

lauraisntwilder I think it's a nice part of the book even if it does remind me of those dolls high schoolers have to take care of to scare them out of teen pregnancy, except Jims is a real baby! It does make Rilla grow up, but so does everything else going on. It also says a lot about Gilbert, who clearly thinks young Rilla is too flighty. 3d
BarbaraJean @lauraisntwilder 😂 I love the high school parallel! I found this storyline kind of random before--there are enough other things going on that grow Rilla up that throwing a baby in there seemed unnecessary (other than making her “motherly“ 🙄). But I was impressed this time around how LMM gave Rilla such an aversion to babies and didn't have her quickly fall in love with Jims! That felt like a nice counterbalance, and keeps Rilla from being ⬇ 21h
BarbaraJean (Cont'd) ...a stereotype: the girl who aspires to being wife and mother. We're told Rilla has no ambitions, and it's refreshing that the narrative doesn't flatten her into wifehood by default. Yes, she longs for Ken to return from the war and marry her, but LMM deepens Rilla beyond the default female roles of the time even as Rilla grows into those roles, if that makes sense. Somehow the way LMM handles the Jims narrative is part of that. 21h
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Posting #KindredSpiritsBuddyRead Qs early—I have a very long day tomorrow!

LMM weaves in a number of female characters who contrast with Rilla—in age, in maturity, in personality—and who together offer a full, rich picture of women on the “home front” in WWI.

What did you think of the way women‘s roles were portrayed in the novel?
Which characters besides Rilla were you most drawn to?
Which attitudes toward the war did you most resonate with?

BarbaraJean I haven't much liked Susan in previous books, and I LOVED her here. She grew on me the way Rachel Lynde did! I love Susan's spirit and her intense interest in the war news. And the way she chases off old Whiskers-on-the-moon after his presumptuous proposal. 😂 Speaking of whom, I was conflicted about the book's portrayal of pacifism. Mr. Pryor was AWFUL, and I hated him being the only voice that didn't seem to toe the party line, so to speak. ⬇ 21h
BarbaraJean (Cont'd) His infamous prayer that their soldiers would repent from iniquity and murder was “abominable,“ as Norman Douglas said! But the various comments that he was a traitor and that he was rooting for the Germans--because he was a pacifist--were equally terrible. Those parts read like wartime propaganda. But then there was some nuance in various other comments, from Miss Oliver, to Gilbert, to Rev. Meredith. Thus my conflict. 21h
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Kristin Lavransdatter | Sigrid Undset
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Hi friends! I can‘t believe we‘re already over a week into May, and I‘m looking at my summer reading! I‘m still planning to read the Kristin Lavransdatter series in June, July, and August. I‘m tagging those who were interested in a buddy read, but all are welcome—please comment if you‘re not tagged and you‘d like to be (or vice versa if you‘re not interested anymore 😁) Also I suppose we need a hashtag—any suggestions?!

rubyslippersreads Please tag me. I read this in high school, based on a recommendation from my mom. 4d
Ruthiella I like #AmIcrazyforattemptingthisdoorstop , but it‘s a little long! 😜 4d
BarbaraJean @rubyslippersreads I‘ve added you to the tag list! @Ruthiella 😂😂 I was just going to use the book title, but #KristinLavransdatter is also really long and SO easy to misspell!! 4d
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Ruthiella You could just do initials: #KLBR 4d
AmyG @Ruthiella …I like #KLBR. Excited to finally finish this. I really enjoyed the first 2. 4d
MeganAnn Looking forward to finishing this over the summer. @Ruthiella 😆 #AmIcrazyforattemptingthisdoorstop cracks me up! Perhaps #DoorstopKristin would be a bit easier. #KLBR works too, but I am now calling this the doorstop Kristin book in my head! 🤣🤣 4d
Librarybelle Looking forward to it! 4d
Deblovestoread Thanks for the reminder! I like #KLBR, short & sweet. 4d
Bklover I‘d like to give it a try. Would you add me? 3d
BarbaraJean @Ruthiella I like the initials—but I also like #DoorstopKristin too much to not use it, too!! @MeganAnn 3d
BarbaraJean @Bklover Definitely! I‘ve added you to the tag list! 3d
AnneCecilie I might be interested in joining. I‘ve had this trilogy standing on my shelves 20-25 yrs 3d
BarbaraJean @AnneCecilie I'll add you to the tag list! This has been on my shelf a long time, too 😁 3d
julieclair Yay! I‘ve been looking forward to this! #KLBR. #DoorstopKristin 3d
Suet624 Please tag me. And thank you for doing this. I read this trilogy every 20 years apparently. This will be my third time. 3d
BarbaraJean @Suet624 I‘ve added you to the tag list! It‘ll be great to have insight from a re-reader! 2d
Leniverse Ooh, please tag me. I've been meaning to read these for years now and can never bring myself to do it 😬 I need a group to hold me to my intentions. 2d
BarbaraJean @Leniverse SAME! I want to read these and they've been on my list (and shelf) for years--looking forward to having a group to help me along! I've added you to the tag list! 2d
Daisey I‘m still hoping to participate! 16h
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Hello #KindredSpiritsBuddyRead-ers! I‘m looking at a tentative schedule for the next few months:

Beautiful Joe by Marshall Saunders (2 weeks)
Journals Vol. 5 (2 weeks)
Emily of New Moon (3 weeks)
Story of an African Farm by Olive Schreiner (3 weeks)
Journals Vol. 5 (3 weeks)
Emily Climbs (3 weeks)
“The Lay of the Brown Rosary” & Aurora Leigh by Elizabeth Barrett Browning (4 weeks)

THAT takes us to mid-October & finishes Vol. 5 of the journals.⤵️

BarbaraJean (Cont‘d) Take a look and let me know where you‘d like to join in. I added Beautiful Joe right after Pollyanna, so we‘ll be reading two of LMM‘s fellow L.C. Page & Co. authors back to back.

Note: I added two books I forgot to put into our voting a couple months ago. LMM mentions Story of an African Farm multiple times in her journals (it‘s considered a feminist classic) and there‘s another reference to it in Vol. 5, so I added it here. ⬇
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BarbaraJean (Cont‘d) Aurora Leigh is referenced in Vol. 2 of the journals and in Emily Climbs. It‘s also really long (350-400 pages) AND it‘s a novel in verse, which may not be everyone‘s cup of tea. If nobody‘s interested in either of those, I can pull them out and reconfigure things.

FINALLY: a preview of other potential adjacent books:
Ivanhoe—Sir Walter Scott
Life of Charlotte Bronte—Elizabeth Gaskell
More Tramps Abroad—Mark Twain ⬇
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BarbaraJean (Cont‘d) People voted for the above three books in our poll but they‘re each 400-600 pages, so I‘m going to parcel them out more sparingly. I might add Gaskell‘s Charlotte Bronte bio after we finish the Emily books, since there are a lot of parallel vibes between Emily & Jane Eyre.

After all of THAT… 😂 Let me know what you‘d like to be tagged for, and I‘ll post a finalized schedule soon!
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rubyslippersreads I had that copy of Beautiful Joe as a child. I read it over and over. 🐶 4d
kwmg40 I‘d definitely like to continue with the #LMMReread books (the Emily ones from this list). Thanks! 4d
TheAromaofBooks Yay!! I'm down for any/all of these. Like @rubyslippersreads I had a copy of Beautiful Joe that I read so many time growing up. It has very Black Beauty vibes. I'm a little scared of Aurora Leigh but am willing to give it a try if everyone else wants to read it 😂 3d
BarbaraJean @rubyslippersreads It's such a sweet cover! @kwmg40 I'll make sure to tag you for the Emily books! @TheAromaofBooks Knowing your feelings about poetry, I was definitely thinking of you when I said Aurora might not be everyone's cup of tea 😂 I'll give it a few more days to see who else weighs in, but I think I'll start with a schedule for the summer and we can revisit interest in Aurora when we get to August and Emily Climbs! 2d
rubyslippersreads Ivanhoe is also a #BetsyTacy adjacent book. 🙂 2d
julieclair I‘d like to read all of these except the journals. I‘m a bit hesitant about Aurora Leigh, but I‘d like to give it a try! Thanks so much for organizing all of this for us, @BarbaraJean ! 💙 2d
BarbaraJean @rubyslippersreads I have never read Betsy-Tacy! 😱 Maybe I need to read it when we get to Ivanhoe 😄 @julieclair I'll put you on all the lists except the journals! I'm thinking I might pre-read some of Aurora Leigh, see what it's like, and report back. I love the “Earth's crammed with heaven, and every common bush afire with God“ quote, but that's really the extent of my familiarity. @TheAromaofBooks 17h
TheAromaofBooks Ohhh you would probably really like Betsy-Tacy!! It's a series that starts out for and about younger readers, and the books get more advanced as the characters get older - Betsy is married by the end of the series!! They're super cute. 4h
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The Tomb of Dragons | Katherine Addison
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In many ways, this could be summarized as: Things happen to Celehar. People ask Celehar what happened. Celehar explains what happened. Which could have gotten tedious, but never did. I loved this. (Although I DID wish I‘d re-read the previous two books to refresh my memory first—there were too many character names and other references I needed to be reminded of!) As in previous books, Addison weaves together parallel plotlines, ⤵️

BarbaraJean (Cont‘d) …from a murder mystery and new duties for Celehar, to the social and political intrigue Celehar is drawn into. The worldbuilding and character development we get along the way are fantastic. I love Celehar; I love getting to know him as a character—and seeing his connections with others grow—more and more over the course of each book. I‘m eager to see where the next installment takes him! (There better be a next installment…) 4d
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#5JoysFriday
1. A catch-up session over the phone with one of my best friends
2. GREAT book group on Sunday: we beta-read my husband‘s fantasy novel & everyone had such good feedback & encouragement for him (photo is the map he‘s drawn for the book)
3. Reflective, meaningful mini-retreat on Wednesday
4. Having the house ALL to myself last night
5. This talk from Greg Boyle: https://youtu.be/XCdk-Ay8Y34?si=U0z-1cbaHgE13eCk (some quotes below)

BarbaraJean “It is a lie: any talk of God that doesn‘t comfort you. Part of the thing of course… where we all get stuck, is that God wants something from us, but I think the God we actually have only wants FOR us. Or as Jesus says succinctly: ‘My joy yours, your joy complete.‘ That‘s it.” —Fr. Greg Boyle (edited) 4d
BarbaraJean “The measure of our compassion lies not in our service of those on the margins but only in our willingness to see ourselves in kinship with them, for the truth of the matter is this: if we don‘t welcome our own wounds, we may well be tempted to despise the wounded.” —Fr. Greg Boyle 4d
dabbe 💜💚💜 4d
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TheBookHippie Alone time!!!!! What a gift! 4d
CSeydel Wonderful! 3d
CSeydel Those quotes! 💘 3d
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BarbaraJean
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I‘ve loved so much of Padraig O Tuama‘s work: his podcast, Poetry Unbound, and his collection of reflections on poems by the same name, as well as various poems & prayers of his I‘ve come across here & there. So I decided to read this book of daily poems & prayers during Lent this year, to displace my habit of scrolling social media & news first thing in the morning.

The book has 31 daily readings—made up of a reading, a scripture reading, and⤵️

BarbaraJean (Cont) …a form of prayer called a collect, sandwiched by the same opening & closing prayer each day (which for me, got awfully repetitive). My mileage varied with the various readings & prayers, but I loved how O Tuama used the collect format. A group I lead at church frequently writes collects based on our group reflections, so seeing the way he both worked within & expanded the form—in response to each day‘s scripture reading—was fascinating.⤵️ 4d
BarbaraJean (Cont‘d) This ended up being just a soft pick for me—I didn‘t resonate with it as much as I‘d hoped, and having the SAME opening and closing prayers reprinted every day (length-wise, they were often equal to the rest of the day‘s readings) started to grate on me! I do plan on checking out more of O Tuama‘s collections of prayers, hoping others are a little more substantive and resonate with me more. 4d
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Mehso-so

Belated review…

Honestly, I didn't enjoy this. I didn't find it engaging, for all its action. The characters held promise, but weren't developed at all. I was initially excited about a strong female protagonist in Cora, but her characterization & role flattened as the book went on. Cooper sacrifices character development for horrific action sequences and scenic descriptions that fell flat. There were problematic racial stereotypes galore, but⤵️

BarbaraJean (Cont‘d) … I was bracing myself for far worse. There was a lot of “noble savage“ to the descriptions of the “good” Native characters, then basically all the Native characters/tribes allied with the French were portrayed as bad/scheming/backward, while their French allies were largely let off the hook. It was so interesting to see the book‘s combo of “of-the-time” stereotypes with some more nuanced depictions of Native characters & culture than ⤵️ 5d
BarbaraJean (Cont‘d) …I'd have expected. I was pleasantly surprised by the respect shown for the traditions described near the end of the book. But I hated the ending!

Ultimately, I'm torn about this book's value as a classic. It deserves some credit for how it has shaped other writing, and it has some value as a biased but illuminating portrayal of a specific time and place. But on balance, I don't think I'd recommend it. ⤵️
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BarbaraJean (Cont‘d) One more off the TBR, read for the #KindredSpiritsBuddyRead, and an adventure novel for Q2 of the #ClassicsChallenge. @Lunakay 5d
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AmyG I read this after the movie came out. What a slow, tedious read. 5d
Lunakay Well done! 4d
BarbaraJean @AmyG SO tedious! @Lunakay Thank you! 4d
nanuska_153 I bought this book a couple of years ago and it's sitting on my shelf cause I couldn't find the will to read it. Seeing your review I am happy that I haven't attempted it 😅 4d
BarbaraJean @nanuska_153 Hahaha—you‘re welcome?! I mean, your mileage may vary, but it was definitely a slog for me! 4d
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STONE YARD DEVOTIONAL. | CHARLOTTE. WOOD
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I was engrossed by this quiet story of a woman who sets aside her career to join a religious community, less for spiritual reasons than for reasons she can‘t quite explain. I enjoyed its descriptions of community and religious life, and loved the quiet pace of the story and its meditations on memory, grief, and loss. It‘s thoughtful and reflective ⤵️

BarbaraJean (Cont‘d) …and somehow in spite of the backdrop of a plague of mice and a few allusions to clergy abuse, I still found it such a peaceful and satisfying read. 6d
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SUCH a powerful book. Steven Charleston is a (now retired) Episcopal bishop and a citizen of the Choctaw Nation. This book tells a bit of his journey to integrate and faithfully follow both paths of his spiritual heritage. The first half of the book gives background for the second half, as Charleston orients the reader in his faith and Native heritage, contextualizing Christianity in terms of Native American perspectives and traditions. ⤵️

BarbaraJean (Cont‘d) Then the second half interprets four different experiences from the life of Christ through the lens of Native tradition. I found a lot of the second half challenging to wrap my head around, but also deeply illuminating. And the history and context, while not wholly unknown to me, was even more heartbreaking to absorb, coming as it does through a lens of Christianity‘s role in colonialism. 6d
Tamra I‘m likely to hoard this one once I get it because I think I‘m going to love it! I‘m weird that way. 🤪 6d
BarbaraJean @Tamra It is excellent and accessible but also challenging—both emotionally and on a perspective-shifting level! 5d
Tamra @BarbaraJean oops, I meant that comment for Stoneyard Devotional, but honestly this one is intriguing too. Stacking! 5d
BarbaraJean @Tamra 😂 😂 They're BOTH excellent, for very different reasons! 5d
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The Man in the Brown Suit | Agatha Christie
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I‘m so conflicted about this one. I really liked the mystery and its twists and turns. I enjoyed the intrigue on the boat. I really liked Anne, Suzanne, and Colonel Race. But I hated Sir Eustace and I wasn‘t a fan of Harry. The colonialism and casual racism of the South African backdrop + the overt sexism/objectification of women really bothered me. I had a really hard time setting aside those latter elements with excuses of it being ⤵️

BarbaraJean (Cont‘d) …“of its time” or tongue in cheek, so ultimately all of that overshadowed my enjoyment of the plot and the strong female characters… and the book overall.

#ChristiesCapers @Librarybelle This was also my 1924 pick for #192025.
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Ruthiella Great photo! 🤩 Her espionage themed books like this one aren‘t my favorites. 6d
Librarybelle That is a cool photo! 6d
BarbaraJean @librarybelle The cover of this library copy was so boring that it prompted me to get creative! @Ruthiella I've felt the same way about Christie's espionage books so far, but for reasons that feel unrelated to the espionage elements! 😆 6d
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Pollyanna | Eleanor H Porter
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Hello, Kindred Spirits! Our #KindredSpiritsBuddyRead of Pollyanna begins on Sunday! Schedule is above. I‘ll post a check-in on Saturday, May 17, and we‘ll discuss the whole book on Saturday May 24.

All are welcome—let me know if you‘re not tagged and you‘d like to be!

TheBookHippie Oh we had such fun with this one in our group- ENJOY! 6d
BarbaraJean @TheBookHippie I'm sad I missed it with your group! 6d
TheAromaofBooks It's been several years since I picked this one up, so I'm excited for a reread!! 5d
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I found something very puzzling while reading Rilla this week. I often switch between print and ebook when I have both and one is more convenient. I was reading the ebook over lunch and was mid-chapter when I switched back to print. In scanning through to find my place, I discovered sections in the ebook that aren‘t in the print version. I checked it against both print copies I have—both are missing the highlighted passages above. What?!? ⤵️

BarbaraJean (Cont‘d) I‘m curious about others‘ copies—what version are you reading and what do these sections look like in your copy? This is around the middle of “Moonlit Mirth” (Chapter 3). I‘m reading an ebook version called “The Anne Stories” from Timeless Reads—a collection of most of LMM‘s books & short stories. My print copies are the Tundra edition with the Elly MacKay cover, and my old faithful Bantam paperback. #KindredSpiritsBuddyRead #LMMReread 1w
CSeydel How odd! Yes, my 1987 edition is missing those passages (but you know that, you have the same one lol) 1w
CSeydel I wonder why 1w
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BarbaraJean @CSeydel I'm so curious about why! I know there are variations in the text in different versions of Windy Poplars (UK vs. US/Canadian), but I didn't think there were different versions of the text of Rilla. I just checked Wikipedia and found the below ⬇ 1w
BarbaraJean “At some point after Montgomery's death in 1942, publishers quietly trimmed Rilla of Ingleside of a few thousand words, removing among other things passages containing historically accurate but now offensive anti-German sentiment. The trimmed version was the only available “in print“ version for decades...“

Now I kind of want to read print and ebook side by side for comparison!!
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CSeydel Oh how interesting! But these passages you highlighted aren‘t anti-German - I guess like some editor just decided they were unnecessarily adding length 1w
BarbaraJean @CSeydel The “among other things“ description covers their trimming stuff they thought was unnecessary, I guess! The first one especially feels very abrupt to me, seeing both versions side by side. I'm just reading the ebook version now, to make sure I get the full text--and I kind of want to pull out my paperback to check it every time I come across something anti-German! 1w
TheAromaofBooks That is so crazy! I have two editions: a later Bantam edition (1998) that is missing the passages. However, last time we read through the series I purchased the Aladdin paperbacks with the pretty covers as my Bantam copies are getting rather worn. And the Aladdin edition has the passages! It was published in 2015. I was already planning to read the Aladdin version this time, and now I definitely will. How crazy that it was edited after her death! 1w
lauraisntwilder I didn't read this until 2023 and my copy is a UK edition from 2020, which I assume is a reprint of the public domain version. It has both of these passages -- and they were in the audiobook from 2018. 5d
BarbaraJean @lauraisntwilder It is FASCINATING to me that there are these two different versions floating around and they seem to be undifferentiated as such! 5d
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This is how I feel about Irene Howard.

#KindredSpiritsBuddyRead #LMMReread

Tamra 😂 1w
TheAromaofBooks For REAL 😂 1w
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A little #KindredSpiritsBuddyRead check-in for Rilla of Ingleside:

How‘s your reading going so far?
What has caught your attention in the first half of the book?
What are you enjoying (or not enjoying) in Rilla of Ingleside?

#LMMReread

BarbaraJean @lauraisntwilder @JenlovesJT47 Not sure if you were joining in for this one—let me know if you want to be tagged! 1w
CSeydel Oh shoot I forgot to start this one - am I going to be okay reading it as a stand-alone? I don‘t think I read Rainbow Valley either 1w
BarbaraJean @CSeydel I think this one works really well as a standalone. It does refer back to some things in Rainbow Valley, but not key plot points. Rainbow Valley focuses on the older kids rather than Rilla—it‘s kind of like she‘s a whole new character! And Anne is completely in the background. (edited) 1w
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CSeydel Yay! I‘ll start it today 1w
Daisey I haven‘t started yet; May snuck up on me. I downloaded the audio and will probably listen to these chapters tomorrow. 1w
lauraisntwilder Oh, yes, sorry, I'm in for this one and Pollyanna! But, I haven't started this yet. 😆 I have the audio though, so I'll get caught up soon. 1w
BarbaraJean @Daisey @lauraisntwilder Yay! I look forward to hearing how you like the audio (and whether those missing passages are in the audio or not!) 1w
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The Library at Night | Alberto Manguel
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#BookSpin and #DoubleSpin for May! I‘m really excited about The Library at Night. It‘s been on my TBR for years, and my husband bought me a copy maybe a year ago at Christmas. It‘s on my #50x50 list and its time has come! My DoubleSpin landed on the same category as April‘s BookSpin (1950s—70s for #192025), which I still haven‘t read—I think it‘s a sign 😆 So I‘ll pick two of those three above, and one will be for April and one for May!

Lcsmcat I remember loving A Separate Peace when I read it in high school. 2w
Bookish.SAM I LOVED The Library and Night! And went to the immersive experience in Toronto a few years ago with the only other book nerd in my life, my cousin. We polished off the day at Library Bar in the Royal York. One of my best book nerd days ever! 📚🤓❤️ 2w
TheAromaofBooks Yay!! Enjoy!! I need to look at my list and figure out a strategy for my remaining books for that challenge - I actually don't have a lot of slots left so I feel like it's really doable!! 1w
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BarbaraJean @Lcsmcat I'm leaning toward that one and Black Sheep! 1w
BarbaraJean @Bookish.SAM Oh, that sounds amazing!! I'm so curious--what was the immersive experience?! 1w
BarbaraJean @TheAromaofBooks I'm at about 75% for #192025--I think I need to read 2-3 books for it per month in order to finish in time. #BookSpin seems determined to keep me on track! 😂 1w
Bookish.SAM https://showoneproductions.ca/ru/event/library-at-night/. It was inspired by the book. A virtual reality tour of several famous (real and fictional) libraries around the world. Very interesting. (edited) 1w
BarbaraJean @Bookish.SAM That looks and sounds incredible!!! What a fantastic bookish experience. 😍😍 1w
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Frog and Toad All Year | Arnold Lobel
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#5JoysFriday!

1. Library book sale
2. Tiny grand-niece
3. Husband and Sunday jazz
4. I discovered India Rose Crawford this week—her Frog & Toad videos and pics are giving me SO MUCH JOY. Here‘s spring cleaning with Frog (the tiny booooks!!): https://www.facebook.com/reel/1219293336488930
5. The Getty Center and its gardens

mom2bugnbee The fountain pigtails! She's such a cutie! ♥️ 2w
kspenmoll Oh! All your joys are wonderful! 🩷💛❤️ 2w
dabbe 💜💚💜 2w
mcctrish Grand niece has the cutest hair do 😍 2w
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How is it the last day of April already?! I haven‘t finished either of my April #BookSpin picks, and my #BookSpin from March is still languishing on the bookshelf. Maybe May will offer more breathing room and fewer reading commitments so I can catch up on previous reading commitments? Seriously, don‘t let me join any more buddy reads or challenges. (She says, while posting a list for another challenge. 😂🤣😂)

Suet624 😂😂😂 2w
TheAromaofBooks Woohoo!! 2w
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“Dancing was a hot affair. I danced twice with Anne Beddingfeld and she had to pretend she liked it. I danced once with Mrs. Blair, who didn't trouble to pretend, and I victimized various other damsels whose appearance struck me favourably.”

Ew.

#ChristiesCapers @Librarybelle

nanuska_153 Someone was both a shitty person and a bad dancer xD 2w
Librarybelle Exactly! 2w
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“For anybody who doesn‘t know where they‘re going.”

One of my favorite book dedications that hit just right, just at the right time.

#SundayFunday @BookmarkTavern

BookmarkTavern I love that one so much! Thanks for sharing! 2w
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Calling all Kindred Spirits! We‘ll be continuing the #KindredSpiritsBuddyRead with an #LMMReread of Rilla of Ingleside, then an #LMMAdjacent title: Pollyanna by Eleanor H. Porter (a contemporary of LMM and a fellow author who published with the nefarious L.C. Page Co.). The schedule is above—all are welcome! Please comment if you‘d like to be tagged for either or both books.

CogsOfEncouragement I‘ll skip a reread of Rilla, but look forward to reading Pollyanna for the first time. I watched the 1960 movie starring Hayley Mills a couple times as a kid and absolutely loved it. 2w
BarbaraJean @CogsOfEncouragement I‘ve never read Pollyanna, either! I‘m looking forward to my first read, too. 2w
CSeydel I‘ve read Pollyanna, but although I‘ve owned Rilla of Ingleside since the 80s (and kept it through how many moves) — I‘ve actually never read it! Maybe I‘ll join you guys 2w
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Daisey It‘s been so long since I reread Rilla; I‘ll try to fit that one in May! 2w
TheAromaofBooks I am definitely in for rereading both of these. Rilla is possibly my favorite LMM book. (Okay, maybe not; it's actually kind of impossible to choose 😂) I love Pollyanna as well, although in some ways the Hayley Mills version ruined the book for me because it's so hard to see the characters as anything other than the way they were cast in that book, despite them not being completely accurate. 😆 2w
rubyslippersreads I‘d be glad if you‘d tag me for Pollyanna. 😄 2w
rubyslippersreads @TheAromaofBooks I ❤️ the Hayley Mills movie, though. 2w
julieclair Please tag me for Pollyanna. Can‘t believe I‘ve never read it! 2w
TheAromaofBooks @rubyslippersreads - I love the movie, too - but usually I can separate movie/book when they aren't particularly alike and just have them be two different stories in my mind. But for some reason the individuals from that movie INSIST on being the imagined book-characters in my mind 😂 It's not as bad in the first book, but in later books Pollyanna and Jimmy get married, and trying to reconcile Haley marrying Kevin Corcoran has been a struggle 😆 2w
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What sections or themes from this volume of the journals stand out to you?
Are there sections or quotes that you particularly enjoyed or resonated with?

#KindredSpiritsBuddyRead #LMMJournals

lauraisntwilder I have been using colored tabs throughout my reading of LMM's journals, using green to note especially pretty observations of the natural world. I realize LMM has left the island, but she goes on multiple vacations in this volume, & still I only used one green tab in this book. Instead of a favorite part, I'm most conscious of a change in her world view. Even before Frede died & Ewan had his first attack, her years of severe anxiety changed her. 2w
BarbaraJean @lauraisntwilder That is fascinating! I hadn't noticed it while reading, but yes, there are far fewer nature descriptions in this volume. And her overall view of life does seem to have changed. Her exuberance--the heights that seem to balance her lows--is missing here. It does seem to be a gradual change, growing from those years of anxiety, but it's there. 1w
BarbaraJean What I most enjoyed was what I guess I'd call the more philosophical entries. She seems to spend more time than she did in previous journals discussing her views on religion, life, literature, writing, etc. And she's such a fascinating personality that those sections were super interesting to read. I love her stories and her observations/commentary on various happenings, but hearing her thoughts in depth was my favorite aspect of this volume. 1w
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During this time, LMM began copying over her earlier journals. Having read those earlier journals and reading this journal now—do you think she ended up doing what she said she would, and copying them absolutely faithfully?

If you undertook the same task—copying out early journals now that you‘ve become a famous writer—how would you handle it?

Would you edit or revise along the way? Why or why not?

#KindredSpiritsBuddyRead #LMMJournals

BarbaraJean I said this earlier when @TheAromaofBooks asked similar questions--I think she intended to, and started out copying them faithfully, but as time went on, I think she made some edits & excisions. As she became conscious of a future audience for her journals, I think she definitely left some stuff out (especially in the Herman Laird sections!). Maybe that's me projecting, because I DEFINITELY would edit/leave stuff out from my journal-writing days! 2w
lauraisntwilder I think she probably did edit and even add things. However, I think she must've copied quite a lot verbatim. Her writing style changed so much over the years. Her youthful voice falls away and I think, even for her, that would be hard to replicate so gradually. But hindsight must've colored her reading and made her want to emphasize or diminish certain subjects. Herman, yes, but also Edwin and Frede, in different ways. 2w
TheAromaofBooks I feel like the temptation would have been too great! We all edit our own memories/stories/etc and I can't imagine copying out my teenage diaries and not changing just a teeny bit here and there to make myself look not QUITE so dumb 😂 I don't think she just wholesale rewrote passages, but I just can't believe that she didn't remove or rearrange some sections to tone down some aspects of her past. @lauraisntwilder 2w
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In a couple of journal entries in this volume, LMM gives extensive descriptions of herself, her likes, and her views on various subjects, notably her religious views.

Did her beliefs or her view of herself surprise you?
What about her likes?
How did these sections affect the view you have of who LMM was?
#LMMJournals #KindredSpiritsBuddyRead

lauraisntwilder I wasn't surprised by anything, but it must've been so hard to be a minister's wife with her beliefs. I don't know that I could've relinquished my kids to Sunday School teachers I thought were stupid. In fact, I know I couldn't have - I actually changed churches, leaving the church I grew up in that my parents & sister still attend, because I didn't trust who was going to teach my kid. (There was no drama & we don't live there now anyway!) 2w
TheAromaofBooks I've read before that your view of God is heavily influenced by the type of father you had growing up. I don't know how true that is, but I found myself thinking about it when I was reading LMM's religious thoughts - her view of God seems to vary between a strict disciplinarian looking to pounce on wrongdoings (like her grandfather) and someone who mouths platitudes of fondness and affection but leaves you hanging when push comes to shove (like ⬇ 2w
TheAromaofBooks (cont'd) her actual father). While I would say that I probably have a more traditional view of Christian beliefs than LMM, I actually agreed with a lot of what she had to say. I do think that God rejoices in beauty and His creation, and loves to see us do the same. I do think that the church gets bogged down in weird little details instead of just trying to live a life of that reflects God's goodness. I was blessed to grow up in a church that ⬇ 2w
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TheAromaofBooks (cont'd) encouraged questions and testing the foundations. If you don't push those boundaries, you don't actually know if they are firm enough to stand on, which ironically leads to a life of fear and doubt. But the church that LMM was a part of (and many still today) just want members to recite back the right words by rote instead of genuinely understanding and embracing true faith. This section just again made me so sad for LMM as it was yet ⬇ 2w
TheAromaofBooks (cont'd) another way she felt alone, isolated, and unable to share or discuss her feelings/doubts/beliefs because of fear of judgment and how it would reflect on her husband and his job. I think LMM marrying a minister was one of the greatest tragedies of her life. It forced her into a role that she didn't respect or enjoy, and meant that she had to keep so many of her personal beliefs hidden away instead of being able to freely discuss and ⬇ 2w
TheAromaofBooks (cont'd) grow them. And then to have the added tragedy of Ewan's mental issues turning his own beliefs against himself - it just seems so horrible that two people who didn't actually believe in the things they “had“ to preach were trapped doing so! 2w
BarbaraJean @lauraisntwilder @TheAromaofBooks I was both surprised/not surprised by how nontraditional her views were. Her view of God (at times a strict disciplinarian, at times a comfort but not consistent) seems to track with what I assume were prevalent views of the time, other than her disbelief in God‘s omnipotence. I was surprised by her belief in a “Principle of Evil, equal to God in power”—but as I think about it, that makes sense for her, post-WWI.⬇ 1w
BarbaraJean I WAS surprised by her beliefs on the afterlife--I thought she might not believe in hell, but was surprised to hear her vision of the afterlife basically being reincarnation and endless struggle between good and evil. I wonder how that impacted her view of Ewan's terror of hell! 1w
BarbaraJean @TheAromaofBooks Like you, I resonate with a lot of what LMM has to say about God & about Christianity in general: her emphasis on moving beyond rules & doctrines, emphasizing a joyful appreciation of beauty (of God and of nature). I wonder if her nontraditional views on faith contributed to her deep, deep fear of what others would think. When you feel you have to hide some of the deepest parts of yourself, I could see that intensifying an ⬇ 1w
BarbaraJean (Cont'd) ...already-ingrained fear of judgment from others. ESPECIALLY as a minister‘s wife!! My heart really goes out to both of them for the reasons you mention. I SO wonder how different their lives would have been if Ewan had pursued a different career (and if they‘d both been able to have good therapists!!). 1w
TheAromaofBooks I know that at times in my life where I have struggled with my faith or wondered if God really existed, part of what helped me regain perspective was being able to talk it out with people I trust, who didn't try to just force me to believe what they thought I should, but who genuinely encouraged me to work through it. It seems so sad to see LMM and her husband both trapped in circumstances where they have to hide every thought that doesn't align ⬇ 1w
TheAromaofBooks (cont'd) with Ewan's job - not a healthy way to work through spiritual questioning! It's also really hard reading this section knowing that even LMM's one joy in her life - her children - is going to go south later and become yet another source of sorrow and pain! 1w
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On January 31, 1920, LMM lists and comments on several quotations she‘d recorded earlier. I thought this was such a great view into her thoughts on writing and life in general.

Which of those comments stood out to you?
Are there any books listed there that you‘ve read or would like to read?

#KindredSpiritsBuddyRead #LMMJournals

TheAromaofBooks I didn't have any of the quotations jump out at me particularly, but I did enjoy the section. She definitely has an eye for catching a good line. She had quotes from classics that I've found rather dull and uninspiring, but she had pulled specific lines from them that made me rethink my original thoughts on the writing! 2w
BarbaraJean @TheAromaofBooks I know, right? There were several where I read the quote and her comments on it and thought, ooh, maybe I want to read that! And then I'd go to the footnote and investigate further and decide maybe not 😂 1w
TheAromaofBooks A couple of times I was like oh wait I hated that book 😂 1w
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In this volume, we see an end to WWI, but LMM records some profound struggles, from Ewan‘s illness to Frede‘s death. We see legal battles with Page and small mentions revealing her status as an author: speaking engagements, reviews, letters from fans. And we see her as a mother, writing about Chester & Stuart.

What influence do you think these years had on LMM‘s writing? Do you see echoes of this time in Rainbow Valley or in later books?

BarbaraJean I think these years brought a maturity to LMM's writing--I see a deepening in her writing a bit in Rainbow Valley, but more in Rilla--deeper themes that seem to emerge from this time of such struggle in her life. Rilla especially, to me, reads like a more mature writer, as LMM explores the role of women during the war. And I see such an echo of LMM's obsession over the war news in the way the women on the “home front“ followed the war news. ⬇ 2w
BarbaraJean (Cont'd) I also feel like there's more of a consciousness in her journals that she's now an established writer and her journals are not just for her, but also for posterity. There's an awareness that others may read what she writes that I didn't sense in the early journals. She definitely uses her journal as a confidant, but sometimes even straight up says she's leaving out details because her future grandchildren or others would be shocked! (edited) 2w
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lauraisntwilder Rilla definitely shows the influence of WWI, but I think the Emily books show signs of LMM's trauma. They're darker books, in general, than the Anne books. PEI, so beautifully described in the Anne books, is almost magical in the Emily books. I don't think I ever realized before that Dean has some similarities to Ewan. Emily feels trapped in her relationship with Dean, someone she once loved and admired, or thought she did, but now he's a burden. 2w
TheAromaofBooks I feel like in some ways Rilla is the first book LMM wrote with a “purpose“ - that she wanted to tell the story of Canada's homefront and she did. I liked the part where her publishers tried to get her to make it nicer to America and she was pretty much like yeah no haha That along with her insistence that her new heroine's name is Emily to me emphasized how LMM is learning to at least somewhat value herself and stand up for her rights as an ⬇ 2w
TheAromaofBooks (cont'd) established author.

Like @lauraisntwilder said, I think Emily definitely shows echoes of the trauma and struggles LMM has and is facing. I hadn't really thought of Dean in terms of Ewan, but I can see that. In general, Emily is very lonely, and I think that definitely reflects that status of LMM's life when she was writing these books. When I first read them I saw Emily as a reflection of LMM's childhood, but reading this section of ⬇
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TheAromaofBooks (cont'd) journals has definitely made me think about how these books reflect her adult life as well. She isn't “trapped“ in the same ways as she was as a young girl, but she is still definitely trapped and isolated. I originally wasn't going to reread the Emily books because I didn't like them very much the first time around, but I think I will after all because I'm so intrigued and engaged in the way we are reading published works/journals ⬇ 2w
TheAromaofBooks (cont'd) together and seeing how they reflect one another!

I definitely think that the tone of the journals has changed to a more “public“ voice. It kind of reminds me your “company“ voice vs the one you use with friends. She is still warm, friendly, and full of anecdotes, and she still does complain (usually justly) and talk about her grievances, but it feels more reserved. Part of that is probably just being an adult vs being an angsty teen!!
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BarbaraJean @lauraisntwilder Yes to the signs of trauma in Emily! I hadn't thought about the parallels between Ewan and Dean, either (I usually get too caught up in how awful and possessive Dean is), but that feels spot on: that there are elements to how Emily feels about their relationship that parallel how LMM feels about Ewan. As @TheAromaofBooks said, the feelings of being trapped and isolated are BIG parallels between Emily and LMM's adult life. 1w
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I spent a lovely rainy morning browsing the local library book sale with my niece and her daughter (well, tiny niece spent the time playing with her new bunny toy)—here are the results of the morning! The four I‘ve read already (including the vintage Anne of Avonlea) don‘t count 😆 They were giving everyone a free copy of the Ren Faire book! #bookhaul

Tamra Peace Like a River is lovely. 😁 2w
BarbaraJean @Tamra It is!! I can never resist buying copies even though I‘ve already read and own it! This copy will go to one of the friends I haven‘t pushed a copy at yet 😆 2w
Tamra @BarbaraJean you are a good friend! 💕 2w
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#5JoysFriday! Here are a few joys from my week—and you can add a bonus joy of seeing everyone else‘s 5 joys 😊

1. My sister made me this crochet Frog & Toad and they make me smile every time I see them
2. One of my best friends sent me a slew of ridiculous bird names and I can‘t stop laughing at them
3. My husband‘s piano music
4. Leading a reflective Quiet Day retreat on Saturday
5. A breath-of-fresh-air meeting with my spiritual director

TheBookHippie 🐸🐸 I love them! 3w
Susanita Red-rumped bush tyrant!! 🤣🤣🤣 3w
BarbaraJean @TheBookHippie Meee toooo!! @Susanita 😂🤣 Fluffy-backed tit babbler!! 🤣 3w
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kspenmoll 😂😂😂 bird names!!!‘ 3w
mcctrish Frog and Toad are beautiful and the bird names are spectacular 3w
dabbe 🩵💙🩵 3w
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“…it was not until 1978 that Native Americans were allowed to practice their religious beliefs, in spite of what the First Amendment to the Constitution had guaranteed to Americans for over 200 years.
In 1978 Congress passed the American Indian Religious Freedom Act… for the first time in the 400-year history between Europeans and Native Americans, the religious practices of Native nations were not banned.”

BarbaraJean So much for “freedom of religion.” Just for the colonizers, apparently. Much like “all men are created equal” just meant white men. 😡 3w
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“There isn't a single interesting person in this village—not one who makes you feel better just because of a chat. I really never saw such a collection of stupid, uninteresting people. …When I am feeling normal I suffer them gladly and find some amusement in their very stupidity but when I'm below par I'd like to blow them all up with gunpowder.”

😂 As I find so often, Maud‘s “below par” reaction to certain other people is thoroughly relatable.

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I feel
Very much
Like taking
Its unholy perpetrators
By the hair
Of their heads
(If they have any hair)
And dragging them around
The yard
A few times,
And then cutting them
Into small, irregular pieces
And burying them
In the depths of the blue sea
They are without form
And void,
Or at least
The stuff they produce
Is.
They are too lazy
To hunt up rhymes,
And that
Is all
That is the matter with them.

😂😂
#KindredSpiritsBuddyRead #LMMJournals

TheAromaofBooks This is EXACTLY how I feel when I read this type of poetry! 😂 Especially when the lines are super short. 3w
lil1inblue 😍 😍 😍 3w
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“…may not a person such as myself… whose love of beauty amounts to passionate worship, who finds comfort and help and rapture and courage and satisfaction in a wonderful sunset, or starry waters, or a wood-blossom, or the sleek, ineffable curves of a drowsy cat, or the dance & glow of an open fire—may not such a person be as truly religious as one who finds God in some other manifestation of His personality.”
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I‘ve enjoyed being back into LMM‘s journals this week, even though it can be difficult to read about her struggles with Ewan‘s illness and the lawsuit with Page.

How‘s your reading going? What stood out to you from this week‘s section?

BarbaraJean I thought her comments on religion were SO interesting—both her description of what she believes (p. 244), as well as her response to this Oliver Wendell Holmes quote: “There is a genius for religion just as there is for painting and sculpture”—and her comments about being too narrow in how we define being “religious.” (p. 238) That whole Jan. 31, 1920 entry was fascinating, as she responded to various quotations she‘d copied down! ⬇ 3w
BarbaraJean (Cont'd) I especially loved her “what I like” section, responding to Ruskin's quote of “Tell me what you *like* and I'll tell you what you *are.*“ That whole entry had me jotting down potential #LMMAdjacent books 😆 3w
lauraisntwilder I'm so behind! I do plan to get caught up this week though and finish with the rest of you. 3w
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BarbaraJean @lauraisntwilder In retrospect, I think I should have built in a catch-up week after The Last of the Mohicans! 3w
lauraisntwilder @BarbaraJean I just finished it on Thursday! I haven't gone back to look at your questions yet. I'm hoping I'll have a quiet moment tomorrow to do that and catch up on posting reviews. 3w
BarbaraJean @lauraisntwilder Ugggh, I‘m SO far behind on my Litsy reviews!! I have a list going back to early March 🤦🏻‍♀️ 3w
TheAromaofBooks I am not done with this week's section yet (and still somehow have two chapters left of Mohicans haha) but it has been good to get back into the journals again. Somehow, they've become almost like reading a letter from a friend. LMM is such a good writer - I generally find even fictional journals to be a bit tedious, but I find hers so genuinely engaging. A couple of things that have struck me so far - that she has started copying out her old ⬇ 3w
TheAromaofBooks (cont'd) journals, which seems like kind of a random thing to do. She states that she is going to “be faithful“to copy it as written - do you think she did? I feel like I would be so tempted to maybe gently edit a smidge!! But I have also wondered all along how there were so many photos in even her earlier journals, and here is the answer! That she added the pictures during the copying, which I found interesting. In a TIL moment, I also didn't ⬇ 3w
TheAromaofBooks (cont'd) know that “bloody“ was a corruption of “by our Lady“ and have also always wondered why it was considered such a bad word! And finally, I thought it was kind of hilarious when she wrote, over a hundred years ago, “I never yet have liked any film I have seen that was reproduced from a book I had read.“ Apparently some things never change 😂

It's sooo hard to read about everything going on with Ewan and how she is still struggling with ⬇
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TheAromaofBooks (cont'd) Frede's death - when she said she was so relieved to pass the one-year anniversary, I felt that. But it's so sad how lonely and isolated she is. Why do you think she is SO terrified of other people finding out about Ewan's mental health? Is it just pride/worrying about “what people will say“? She really has a phobia of mental illness. 3w
BarbaraJean @TheAromaofBooks Yes!! She‘s witty, and such a good storyteller—I feel like I‘m enjoying her company as I read the journals. With her copying out her journals, I think she initially *intended* to copy it as written, but I suspect she began making some excisions and edits as she got further along. I wouldn‘t be able to refrain from “gentle editing” myself!! That info about “bloody” was completely new to me, too! I‘d always assumed it was ⤵️ 3w
BarbaraJean (Cont‘d) …something to do with Christ‘s blood and that‘s why it was considered so bad (honestly that seems more blasphemous to me than “by our Lady”?!?). I love her opinion on book to film adaptations!!! I wonder what she‘d have thought of the Megan Follows version of Anne. I do love those versions so, with the exception of that travesty “The Continuing Story” where Gilbert goes off to war right after they get married. 🙄 ⤵️ (edited) 3w
BarbaraJean (Cont‘d) I feel confident she‘d have HATED it as much as I did!

My heart goes out to her over Frede. It‘s heartbreaking how she longs for a real confidant & friend and seems to have no kindred spirits close enough for the depth of friendship she needs. It makes House of Dreams even more poignant to me with all the kindred spirits Anne finds at Four Winds. I wonder if that lack of a close friend contributes to LMM‘s fear of people “finding out”⤵️
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BarbaraJean (Cont‘d) …about Ewan. Fears of what others will think seem MUCH bigger when there‘s no balancing perspective from an understanding friend. I wonder also if part of it is her fears over his career? If people found out their minister suffered from mental illness—especially “religious melancholia”—he‘d probably have been finished as a minister. The opinions she‘s worried about are the ones paying his salary 😬 I agree that it seems like a phobia! 3w
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#5JoysFriday:

1. Small joys: wearing my Anne of Green Gables socks while reading LMM‘s journals, and wearing my donut socks with my “ice cream” shoes (brown with pink laces)
2. Larkspur and roses in the garden and on my table
3. A perfect book cover/bookmark pairing
4. FINALLY finishing painting the bathroom, hanging a new cabinet, and replacing the light fixture (the process was not a joy, but being done is)
(Cont‘d ⤵️)

BarbaraJean 5. Encouragements in my spiritual direction journey, from a great class session on Saturday to a helpful mid-week supervision meeting + reminders that I‘m on the right track (even though I often feel like I don‘t know what the hell I‘m doing) 4w
Texreader This is lovely all around! 4w
mcctrish Your flowers are gorgeous 4w
Suet624 Those flowers! And if you‘re on a spiritual journey, you‘re always on the right track. 😊 3w
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😂😂

I also loved this story from LMM‘s childhood:
“One day when I was very small an aunt asked me if I would go and bring home her turkeys from the shore field. I responded gravely, ‘I am afraid it would excite ridicule.‘”

🦃🤣

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Texreader So cute!! 4w
Ruthiella Adorable! 😂 4w
TheAromaofBooks I also need divine assistance to eat celery 😂 4w
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BarbaraJean @TheAromaofBooks @lauraisntwilder But have you ever worried about exciting ridicule by bringing turkeys home from the shore? 😁😂 4w
TheAromaofBooks Once at the county fair my friend and I took a cow for a stroll around the midway and even let her play the game where you pick a floating duck and get a prize, so public livestock wrangling isn't an issue for me 😂 4w
BarbaraJean @TheAromaofBooks 😂😂😂 Best answer ever. The cow played the floating duck game?!? I‘m gone. 😂🤣😂 4w
TheAromaofBooks We may or may not be the reason that the next year there were signs saying “no livestock past this point“ between the dairy barn and the midway 😂 😂 😂 To be strictly accurate, she didn't pick UP the duck, but she did nose one and won I believe one of those plastic unicorns like this one https://www.etsy.com/listing/1753806350/vintage-blue-white-rearing-unicorn-5 4w
BarbaraJean @TheAromaofBooks Oh my gosh, it just gets better 😂🤣😂 I love this so much! 3w
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I loved Camp Litsy last year and am so excited for #CampLitsy25!! Here are my nominations… tagged in the comments. Looking forward to a great reading summer!

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BarbaraBB Great choices! I am super interested in the Ivey! 1mo
squirrelbrain Great choices! ❤️ 1mo
GatheringBooks A third nomination for the eowyn ivey title! Nice!!! 1mo
Susanita Great list!😉 1mo
Suet624 Oh, a new Ivey! That would be fun. 1mo
mcctrish I love GB, I want to read Memorial Days so badly 1mo
Deblovestoread Great choices! Really interested in Memorial Days. 1mo
Megabooks I almost nominated Black Woods Blue Sky. I love Ivy. The Brooks memoirs looks devastating. My mom's a big fan, and I remember her talking about with Brooks said about losing him when it happened. 1mo
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Rilla of Ingleside | Lucy Maud Montgomery
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Here's the #KindredSpiritsBuddyRead schedule for the next six weeks, with #LMMJournals, #LMMReread and #LMMAdjacent choices. We'll read the last section of Volume 4 of LMM's Complete Journals over the next two weeks, then Rilla of Ingleside, then Pollyanna.

I've tagged the schedule/announcements list for the group, but all are welcome. If you'd like to be tagged for any/all of the above, please comment!

TheAromaofBooks Yay!! I'm still plowing through The Last of the Mohicans!! I'm really looking forward to rereading Rilla, and Pollyanna with the group!! 1mo
BarbaraJean @TheAromaofBooks I‘m interested to hear what you think once the plowing is done! I don‘t regret reading it, but it was disappointing. I‘m glad to be back into the journals this week and looking forward to the next several picks! 1mo
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For our #LMMJournals readers (and those interested in the L.M. Montgomery connection!):

LMM mentions having read the book “in schooldays” and discussing it with Nate Lockhart. What did you notice in the book that might have attracted LMM as a schoolgirl? What characters and incidents do you imagine she might have discussed with Nate so enthusiastically?

#KindredSpiritsBuddyRead #LMMAdjacent - Last of the Mohicans discussion (5/5)

BarbaraJean I have to admit that I'm puzzled that LMM was enthusiastic about this book! I thought maybe she would have resonated with the nature descriptions, but honestly, I didn't find them that compelling. I guess it was just the action and adventure she was so excited to discuss with Nate?! And perhaps Cora would have been a compelling figure to her? 1mo
Daisey I‘m not sure what to think of this connection to LMM either. It does have some interesting scenes to discuss, but it doesn‘t resonate with me in any way that her writing does. 1mo
TheAromaofBooks I wonder what other books about frontier life were available to read at the time. Is it possible that it was just a type of story they had never really come across before? @Daisey 6d
Daisey @TheAromaofBooks I think you may be right. I can see it being possible that was a very different kind of story than the other things they had read. 6d
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#KindredSpiritsBuddyRead #LMMAdjacent - Last of the Mohicans Discussion (4/5)

In general, did you like or dislike the book? What did you enjoy or not enjoy?
Do you feel this is a classic that‘s worth reading?

BarbaraJean Honestly, I didn't enjoy this. I didn't find it engaging, for all its action. The characters initially held promise, but weren't developed at all. Cooper sacrifices character development for horrific action sequences and scenic descriptions that fell flat for me. I'm torn about whether it's worth reading for how it's shaped other writing over the years. I think it has some value as a biased but illuminating portrayal of a specific time and place ⬇ 1mo
BarbaraJean (Cont'd) ...in history, but I don't think I'd recommend it unless someone was specifically studying this time period and they were also seeking out supplementary sources to contextualize and balance the perspective here. 1mo
Daisey I didn‘t particularly enjoy this. There were short sections at a time that were really interesting, but there were long sections between where I struggled to stay focused. 1mo
TheAromaofBooks I also struggled with this one. Initially I was engaged with the set up and betrayal, but then the entire story just seemed to devolve into a lot of people wandering around the woods trying to kill each other. Which possibly was actually historically accurate 😂 I was honestly surprised by how boring Cooper managed to make this objectively interesting story! 6d
BarbaraJean @TheAromaofBooks 😂 😂 So. Much. Wandering. 5d
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#KindredSpiritsBuddyRead #LMMAdjacent - Last of the Mohicans Discussion (3/5)

What do you think about the way the book portrays its Native characters (and the different tribes they belong to)?
What about the way it portrays the English and French characters?

BarbaraJean I mentioned this an earlier question, but I was bracing myself for far worse racial stereotypes. There was a bit too much “noble savage“ to the descriptions of Uncas and Chingachgook and the Delaware village. Then basically all Huron/Mingos were portrayed as bad/scheming/backward, but their French allies were largely let off the hook. But I also appreciated how there was SOME nuance in the way Magua was characterized, when he revealed ⬇ 1mo
BarbaraJean (Cont'd) his treatment at the hands of the English. And Cora early on makes a remark about not judging someone based on the color of their skin (ironic that she makes that comment about the person who basically becomes the villain, though!). There were plenty of problematic racial stereotypes, but overall I was impressed by the complexity we did get. 1mo
TheAromaofBooks I completely agree with your assessment. It's 1826; I wasn't expecting a lot of nuance, and there are definitely plenty of eye-rolling simplifications. But I also felt like Cooper at times pointed out that they simply had different priorities/traditions/methods and while sometimes it was presented as a better/worse other times it was just - here it is. The massacre scene was actually pretty well done as far as motivations, I thought - European ⬇ 6d
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TheAromaofBooks (cont'd) thinking is there is still honor in a peaceful surrender; native thinking was annihilation of your enemy is the only path to glory/true victory, and I felt like it was presented in a way that makes the reader see how this was justified in the minds of the Indian allies. However, I did get a bit tired of being regularly told that Hawkeye has “white blood in his veins“ in case we were ever tempted to get him mixed up 🙄 6d
BarbaraJean @TheAromaofBooks The massacre scene horrified me and stirred up a lot of anger toward the French for not protecting/ensuring safety for the surrendering British. And then I looked up historical accounts and found that the inciting event with the baby was entirely invented and the other events were likely grossly exaggerated, and I transferred my horrified anger onto Cooper! ⬇ 5d
BarbaraJean (Cont'd) Initially, I was really confused by Hawkeye saying he was “a man with a cross“--it took me waaaaay too long to figure out what all those comments about a cross in his blood, etc. actually meant. Maybe I needed the repetition? 😆 5d
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#KindredSpiritsBuddyRead #LMMAdjacent - Last of the Mohicans Discussion (2/5)
How much knowledge of the French & Indian War/Fort William Henry conflict did you have prior to reading this book? Did you seek out more info?
What do you think of how Cooper dramatized these events?
What responsibility does an author of historical fiction have in representing historical events? What do you think are appropriate or inappropriate changes or exaggerations?

BarbaraJean I didn't have much knowledge about the historical context, and so I looked up the Fort William Henry conflict after reading the section on the betrayal/massacre. I was frustrated by what I found. Cooper has been criticized for his “lurid“ and inaccurate characterization of the massacre--it was bad, but it seems it was not nearly as horrific as described, and the inciting event with the mother & baby seems like it was completely invented. ⬇ 1mo
BarbaraJean (Cont'd) I do think a writer of historical fiction has a responsibility to present the backdrop of history and historical events as accurately as possible--dramatizing within the “spirit“ of what happened, so to speak. ESPECIALLY when it comes to war--attributing particular types of cruel violence that DID NOT happen, to one side or the other, is irresponsible, to me. 1mo
Daisey I have some basic knowledge of the French & Indian War, and I did not look anything up while reading. 1mo
TheAromaofBooks I definitely think that in a situation like that, where you are attributing specific violent acts to a specific group of people in a way that is going to make people think of them differently - the author definitely has a responsibility to present facts accurately. 6d
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#KindredSpiritsBuddyRead #LMMAdjacent - The Last of the Mohicans Discussion (1/5)

What expectations did you have going into the book?
How did it compare to your expectations? Was there anything that surprised you?

Daisey I‘ve got two hours of audio left . . . Every few days I listen to a bit more, but I‘ve never felt fully invested. I‘ll come back to the discussion once I‘m done. 1mo
BarbaraJean @Daisey Look forward to your thoughts when you finish! This was a bit of a slog for me. 1mo
BarbaraJean I did NOT expect the ending. (I haven't seen the movie, and I'm curious--does it end the same way?!) I expected that the portrayal of the Native characters would be far more problematic. I cringed at some of the verbiage/stereotypes, but there was a LOT more nuance and complexity to the portrayal of Native characters and cultures than I expected there'd be, given when this was written. Also, I expected that it would be more engaging than it was!! 1mo
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TheAromaofBooks So I watched the movie back in college, so like 20-25 years ago, and the whole time I was reading this I felt vaguely that it was “wrong“ 😂 and after I was done I looked up the movie synopsis to see what the differences were, because I felt that especially the ending was quite different. There is a lot more drama with the whole fort thing, with an officer refusing to let the soldiers go back to their homesteads to protect their families even ⬇ 6d
TheAromaofBooks (cont'd) though the Indians are going around killing people (and they had been promised that they could leave if that was happening), which makes the whole massacre scene even more horrific, because these men were supposed to be able to go home to their families before all this happened and were forced to stay and defend the fort instead. There is also a lot more to the romantic angle, I can't remember who is in love with who, but I feel like ⬇ 6d
TheAromaofBooks (cont'd) Hawkeye and Heyward are in love with the same girl, and then Uncas is in love with the sister. So there is a more personal aspect to all of the chasing people through the woods bits 😆 The soundtrack to this movie is fantastic. I will put the final ending under a spoiler and you can decide if you want to read it or watch the movie - 6d
TheAromaofBooks In the end, Uncas is killed & whichever sister it is that is in love with him is on the edge of the cliff where she just watched him fall to his death. Magua is reaching for her to take her back as his captive & the most amazing music is playing as she looks at him, looks at the cliff, looks at him - & then purposefully steps over the cliff rather than be his captive. It's SO powerful of a scene & I was MIND BOGGLED that it ISN'T IN THE BOOK!!! 6d
TheAromaofBooks The movie is quite violent and I cried like a baby while I was watching it, but I actually think that I do want to rewatch it nonetheless 😂 6d
BarbaraJean @TheAromaofBooks I confess--I peeked at the movie ending 😆 For years, I have been mildly interested in seeing it, then after reading the book, I thought “Heck no!“ But that ending might re-motivate me to watch it! I felt like Cooper's lack of character development stripped his ending of the depth of feeling or meaning it might have had. I can see how the changes you describe would deepen the emotional impact that I felt lacking in the book. 5d
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#5JoysFriday

1. Great weekend visiting friends in Alpine—good conversation, playing board games, eating good food, hanging out on their deck reading together
2. Tasty Thai food with a good friend on Wednesday
3. Good catch-up with former co-workers today, over delicious Greek food
4. These crazy little strawberries (I decided I had one that could walk and one that could talk)
5. This poem: https://onbeing.org/poetry/the-peace-of-wild-things/

Sace Mmmm. 😋 Thai food. 1mo
BarbaraJean *Posting with no image because Litsy is being mean. I‘ll post those cute strawberry pictures later 😁 1mo
BarbaraJean @Sace Yesssss. This was a good food week. 1mo
dabbe 💙💚💙 1mo
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Raising Steam | Terry Pratchett
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“I know we have what might be called an unconventional marriage, what with our jobs and the pressure of work and so on, but I wouldn't be doing my wifely duty if I didn't ask you whether you have been firkydoodling with fast and loose women? No pressure. Answer in your own time.”

😂 “Firkydoodling” is hereby added to my vocabulary.

#OokBOokClub

julesG I love the "no pressure." part of this so much. I've only read this book so far. This time I'll listen to the audiobook and am looking forward to how the dialogue plays out. 1mo
Ddzmini 🤣🤣🤣 a new word for us wifey to utilize 1mo
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Posting our check-in for #KindredSpiritsBuddyRead #LMMAdjacent a little early since I‘ll be out of town visiting friends on Saturday & Sunday.

I got caught up this week—and wow, lots of action, lots to talk about. But I‘ll save that for next week‘s end-of-book discussion!

How is everyone‘s reading coming along? What are you enjoying and/or not enjoying in what you‘ve read so far? Which characters are you most curious about?

TheAromaofBooks I'm a couple chapters behind, but overall enjoying this story even if it's a bit slow in spots. The betrayal/massacre as everyone left the fort was just horrific. 1mo
lauraisntwilder I'm not loving this one. It feels like a lot of wandering around in the woods, occasionally interrupted by horrible violence. 1mo
Daisey I‘m playing catch up today. I just got through the chapter @TheAromaofBooks mentioned. It‘s holding my attention better than it was thanks to the action, but I‘m still not loving it. 1mo
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BarbaraJean @TheAromaofBooks SO horrific. The violence has been hard to read. @lauraisntwilder Yeah, unfortunately that's a very apt description! @Daisey I've had a similar experience this week: finding it more engaging now, but not really enjoyable. I'm curious about Hawkeye and want to know more about his past as well as Uncas and Chingachgook's past. I feel like Cooper is trading character backstory & development for action & description--not my favorite. 1mo
TheAromaofBooks In fairness, this is technically the second book in the Leatherstocking Tales - I think book one is about Hawkeye's origin story. 1mo
BarbaraJean @TheAromaofBooks Yes! When adding it on GR, I saw it was marked as book two! I had no idea it was part of a series, so looked it up (I hate starting in the middle of a series). The Hawkeye one was written later, as a prequel (1841 vs. 1826 for Mohicans)--so I guess others wanted to know more about him as well! 1mo
julieclair @TheAromaofBooks @BarbaraJean I have always thought of this as a stand-alone book. It‘s interesting to learn it is Book 2. I‘m tempted to read a summary of book 1, just to quickly learn more about Hawkeye. 1mo
TheAromaofBooks @BarbaraJean so there goes my attempt to make excuses for Cooper's pathetic character development - apparently he only did so under duress over ten years later! 😂 1mo
BarbaraJean @julieclair I always thought it was standalone, too! I don't know if I'm interested enough to read any of the others, though! @TheAromaofBooks 😂 😂 The rest of the series was a retcon... 😆 1mo
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Rogue Protocol | Martha Wells
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#5JoysFriday

1. THIS jazz album: https://robrennie.bandcamp.com/album/heading-north (It‘s 7 original songs written by the pianist from my husband‘s big band and combo. And that‘s my husband on sax. I‘m biased, yes—but they‘re fantastic musicians, it sounds amazing, and I‘m SO proud. You can listen at the link above and/or treat yourself to a download!)
2. Birthday date with my husband (movie, sushi, ice cream, and great conversation)
Continued ⤵️

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3. Birthday gifts from my MIL: Anne t-shirt and The Grief of Stones by Katherine Addison
4. Murderbot. I‘m re-reading the series and they‘re SO GOOD.
5. National Poetry Month! Rosemerry Wahtola Trommer‘s poetry has been such a joy this week. I shared one yesterday, but here are a couple more:
https://ahundredfallingveils.com/2025/04/03/how-ive-started-to-pray/
https://ahundredfallingveils.com/2025/04/01/with-tears-as-i-write/
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Amiable What a fabulous list of joys! 1mo
MemoirsForMe Congrats to your hubs and his band! 🎶 1mo
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dabbe 🩵💙🩵 1mo
TheAromaofBooks Yay!! Happy Birthday!!! 1mo
Bookwormjillk Sounds like a joyful birthday. 1mo
BarbaraJean @TheBookHippie You and MrBookHippie might want to check out the link in #1 😁 1mo
TheBookHippie @BarbaraJean oh yes!!!! Sunday coffee plans!! 1mo
BarbaraJean @TheBookHippie Yessss! ☕️🎷🎹🎶 1mo
TheBookHippie @BarbaraJean oh thank you so much!!! We had a lovely morning with coffee, jazz and even SUNSHINE!!! Just lovely. 1mo
BarbaraJean @TheBookHippie Yay!! 🎉 I'm so glad you enjoyed it, as part of a lovely sunny morning!! 1mo
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Hush | Rosemerry Wahtola Trommer
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“What I Know of Love When Times Are Dark”

And if you can‘t find a candle,
then light the wick of your wonder.
And if you can‘t find your wonder,
then now might be a good time
to pray. And if you don‘t
know how to pray,
then perhaps you are doing it right.
What do I know of prayer?
Only that every prayer that has saved me
is a prayer that has found me
instead of the other way round—
a prayer that comes through me,

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…as if I am nothing more
than flesh in service to a prayer.
And if there is a candle, ask it
to be your teacher. And if there is
a candle, notice how far its light
can reach. See if you, too, can touch
the world as generously as a candle,
just that far, holding back not even
the tiniest measure of love.

Link: https://ahundredfallingveils.com/2025/04/02/what-i-know-of-love-when-times-are-d...
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