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Wintering
Wintering: How to Survive When Life Is Frozen | Katherine May
This is wintering. It is the courage to stare down the worst parts of our experience and commit to healing them the best we can. Wintering, the dormant periods in our lives, the dark moments we endure - which can be brought about through myriad of ways; from the death of a loved one to a sudden change in circumstances or mental health issues - can be lonely, damaging and catch us off guard. Katherine May recounts her own year-long journey through winter, and how she found strength and inspiration when life felt frozen. Part memoir, part exploration of a human condition, Wintering explores the healing nature of the great outdoors to help us overcome and embrace our own wintering experiences, and how, much like nature, we can learn to appreciate these low periods, and what they have to teach us, before the ushering in of a new season.
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angieinwonderland
Mehso-so

This one is hard to explain. All of it was well written, made sense, and was highly relatable. But there were some chapters that dragged on. I loved the last few chapters and would have loved more exploration of those topics.

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Sace
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#LibraryHaul

Two holds (the tagged book and The Weight of Blood) and an impulse check-out (Morality for Beautiful Girls).

Ruthiella I just finished book eight in The Ladies No. 1 Detective Agency and enjoyed it so very much. Pure comfort to be in a world where people are good and kind. 2w
Sace @Ruthiella Yes! I‘m glad to hear that it is still a good series 8 books in. That is not always the case with long series. 2w
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monalyisha
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Pickpick

A reread for me. I‘m an ardent devotee of May‘s. Her sensibilities match my own. Something kindred in my soul sings when I read her words. This is only the second time I‘ve read Wintering but it helps me hate the season less each time I encounter it, which is no small feat! For this reason, I can see myself picking it up again (though I rarely return to books once I‘ve finished them).

I started the audiobook the day after Trump was reelected.👇🏻

monalyisha 1/1: The first sentence, “Some winters happen in the sun” told me I‘d chosen correctly on the morning after that terrible 70-something degree day in November. America is undergoing a deep wintering. We need to refocus on the questions that May sits with: How do we create soft spaces during hard times? When everything is stripped bare, what can we see with startling clarity? How do we conserve our energy and use it on that which is vital? (edited) 1mo
Chrissyreadit very true words. i also love this book. 1mo
Deblovestoread Thank you for this post. I have this book and you‘ve provided the nudge to pick it up. 💜 1mo
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mcipher I‘m reading this very slowly right now and I wish if started it earlier in 2024 - it‘s been a year of wintering with my layoff and my cat dying and this insanely long job search, and every page feels like a big sigh of yes me too! 1mo
monalyisha @mcipher I felt myself sighing in solidarity, as well. I need to find a copy to give to my mom. She‘s recovering from knee replacement surgery right now, and she‘s been totally devastated by a falling-out with my younger brother. She isn‘t an *avid* reader (though she will pick up a book occasionally). I‘m a little bit nervous about giving her a nonfic book…but I know if she can get into it, the reading experience will be cathartic! 1mo
monalyisha @mcipher I‘m not always great about keeping up with people individually…but I‘m really sorry to hear about your cat. We lost our bun in July, too. I understand the feeling completely. Sending you luck, comfort, & healing for the year ahead (as much as we can all find)! 1mo
mcipher @monalyisha Same here - I do wish it was easier to check in and chat with people on Litsy! I‘m so sorry about your bunny, it‘s really tough to go through the loss of a beloved pet. This has def been a rough year and probably more to come next year (the next 4… 🤪) 4w
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thecheckoutstack

This was recommended to me from the Ames Free Library in MA on episode 6 of The Checkout Stack. I'm saving it for this winter post holiday season when the darkness starts to feel overwhelming.

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Robotswithpersonality
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Mehso-so

What makes my description of this book as 'more like pieces of three books cobbled together' personally amusing is that thanks to a unique tandem reading experience, I got to find out that while the title, author and cover are the same, the print book and audiobook differ in the text presented. 1/?

Robotswithpersonality 2/? For the most part, it appears there are sections in the audiobook that do not appear in the print text. I couldn't swear to the audiobook not missing pieces from the print book, I think for the most part, the order is just shuffled about, but there are definitely paragraphs, pages, that I heard and did not see. So I guess if you want the best chance of getting the least edited form, get both? 1mo
Robotswithpersonality 3/? Back to my first point: this is part memoir, part self-help, and part factual treatise on the practices of people in meteorological and figurative winters. I found the practices interesting, and the memoir and self-help bits subjective in their value and applicability. I could see this being of value to other readers, and the writing sports some relatable-y down-to-earth moments as well as beautiful descriptions appreciating the life cycles 1mo
Robotswithpersonality 4/4 in nature. I didn't come away with a clear enough picture to recommend it to a specific audience, but if you're feeling in need of something quiet and potentially comforting, give it a try. (edited) 1mo
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Robotswithpersonality
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Serious nostalgia for a childhood in cooler climes.

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Robotswithpersonality
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Today's 'scratched my brain just right' sentence.

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Darklunarose
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Bailedbailed

I enjoyed it till I didn‘t, then I just couldn‘t continue.

DGRachel This may be my favorite review ever. 😂 4mo
dabbe #hailthatbail! 🤩🤩🤩 4mo
Darklunarose @DGRachel 😂 thanks…I‘m not sure what else I could have write. It was “oh I love this”, “this is good” then”nope, I‘m not going further!” 4mo
BkClubCare Same! 4mo
Darklunarose @BkClubCare ❤️ glad I‘m not the only one. 4mo
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Darklunarose
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Ready to start later tonight. I have been waiting for a few months for this to come from the library!

AllDebooks It's soooo good. Enjoy 😊 4mo
Darklunarose @AllDebooks I‘m loving that she is a late diagnosied autistic as am I. 4mo
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monalyisha
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I‘m not typically 1) a joiner, or 2) a person who spends big.

That being said, Katherine May is hosting a retreat *in the US* this coming October and I‘m seriously considering dropping everything to go. Details will be released this Wednesday. You can sign-up to receive them here: https://katherine-may.co.uk/retreat-waiting-list?utm_source=substack&utm_medium=...

Any Littens want to be (quietly) wild with me?

Chelsea.Poole Um, wow! 👀 I‘d LOVE to but not sure it‘s realistic for me to entertain this 🧐 8mo
monalyisha @Chelsea.Poole Admirable of you to be considering reality at this time. 😅 8mo
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JamieArc @monalyisha I am *highly* intrigued. I‘ll look at my calendar, budget! 8mo
monalyisha @JamieArc I love that! I still need to know how much it‘ll cost and see how fast tickets sell…but I‘m also earnest about my interest! 8mo
monalyisha @JamieArc I‘m sadly out. No lodging‘s a pretty big deal at that price point. If it were in New England, it‘d be a different story! 7mo
JamieArc Honestly, I haven‘t looked into to this, but between flight, lodging, and retreat cost, I‘m sure it‘s pretty pricy. We are going on a fairly pricy bucket list trip in September to Red Rocks for a Brandy Carlile concert, so I would probably be out as well. Thanks for letting me know though! 7mo
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shortsarahrose
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Pickpick

Soft pick. Glad I read it now, as I emerge from a long period of wintering, rather than in the thick of it. As such, I could relate to much of her perspective. It‘s more of a philosophical meditation than a memoir/self-help book/manifesto (though bits of those as well), which is good for reflection but also means that it feels so removed at times from the actual meat of suffering, which can give it an air of annoying privilege.

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shortsarahrose
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Enjoying a relaxed Sunday morning (ok, technically it‘s afternoon now) by starting a new book and having a latte and egg and cheese on a cheddar chive biscuit.

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monalyisha
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Thanks, yet again, to Katherine May for linking her newsletter subscribers to a great read, this time on “Winter Friends.”

The truest-feeling quote from the blog post by Anna Brones reads,

“We seem to have little time for solitude or communion. We‘re stretched thin in the unsatisfying space in between the two.”

https://creativefuel.substack.com/p/winter-friends?utm_source=substack&utm_mediu...

Chelsea.Poole Lovely! 🍞 10mo
monalyisha @Chelsea.Poole I couldn‘t decide what image to pair with the quote. “Communion” = bread + love? 🤷‍♀️😅 And who doesn‘t like to carbo-load in the winter? 😉 10mo
sarahbarnes That rings very true indeed. 10mo
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Sapphire That quote feels like my life right now 10mo
JamieArc I‘ve been thinking about picking up baking sourdough bread again and this image helps me get closer to actually doing it! 10mo
monalyisha @Sapphire I think so many of us are right there with you. 10mo
monalyisha @JamieArc Admirable! 💛 10mo
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BookishShelly
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Pickpick

I really enjoyed this book and a perfect time to finish it with an ice storm.

Hooked_on_books Did you take that picture? It‘s incredible! 🤩 11mo
BookishShelly @Hooked_on_books Yes, it‘s an ice covered weed in my backyard. Well, it was. Almost everything melted yesterday. I knew I‘d get some great pics, so I walked very carefully over ice to get some pictures as soon as the sun started rising. 11mo
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mcctrish
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#midwintersolace #fridaynightshare #naturalitsy I have been reading this book off and on for a year. It really is lovely. This is the year I make it to the end.

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Chrissyreadit
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AllDebooks This book completely altered my mindset. I found it quite life changing. It's that good x 12mo
Sparklemn @alldebooks It was life changing for me, too. I think about it every day since I listened to it a few years ago. Now it's my comfort “listen“ when I'm feeling anxious. 12mo
AllDebooks @Sparklemn 🩵❄️🩵 12mo
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peaKnit
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tpixie I never knew this! Now, if I only stay up till midnight! 🕛 maybe I‘ll set my alarm ⏰ 12mo
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wanderinglynn
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Staci! This is an amazing #YuleSwap package! And you had everything wrapped so prettily (but I didn‘t get a photo because I dove right into opening! 🤣)

I love the Wheel of the Year and the candle is the best smell! I can‘t wait to dive into the books. Thank you! 🤍❄️🌲

And thanks to my awesome co-host Ashely! 😘🤍❄️

MittenGirlPeach What a pretty package! 12mo
wanderinglynn @MittenGirlPeach thanks, it is lovely! Happy Yule! ❄️ 12mo
BookwormAHN Cool Wheel of the Year! Happy Solstice Lynn 🩵 12mo
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WildAlaskaBibliophile I love Katherine May and I loved that book! 12mo
wanderinglynn @WildAlaskaBibliophile good to know! I‘m looking forward to reading it. 12mo
staci.reads Happy Yule! 12mo
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Chrissyreadit
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More cards! Thank you also for all the fun quotes, tea, stickers, bookmarks and seasonal wishes. #holidaycardswap #naturalitsycardswap

TheBookHippie Yay 🏔️❄️⛄️ 12mo
BookwormAHN 🩵🤍🩵 12mo
Bookzombie Yay! I love your bookshelves! 12mo
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dabbe 🤩🤩🤩 12mo
Gissy 😱📚📚📚📚so pretty😍💚❤️💚 12mo
ShelleyBooksie Love your shelves 12mo
LibrarianRyan Love it and where you hung yours. 12mo
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JenReadsAlot
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Mehso-so

I think this was a me issue. I was expecting more of a "how to" verses memoir.

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Julsmarshall
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#Naturalitsy #Midwintersolace #Fridaynightshare This is a book I think about a lot after reading it nearly 2 years ago. Quiet, contemplative and relevant, this book made me think about the episodes of winter in my life. May expertly draws us in to her story, her exploration of the times in all our lives that feel cold and dark and the way in which we can survive them a d come out stronger on the other side. This book brought me peace.

AllDebooks 🩵 I feel exactly the same about this book. 🩵 12mo
TheKidUpstairs I've been meaning to read this one - stacked! 12mo
TheBookHippie I still think of it! 🤍🤍🤍 12mo
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Chrissyreadit
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#naturalitsywintersolsticeswap
Home Alone, Christmas cookies, Christmas eve, giving gifts, ribbons, Krampus, Tofu, crackers,Solstice, DIY, vegan chocolate, The Christmas Revels, movie and games, jammie‘s, many small fake trees, Stars, vegan cocoa- or currently Starbucks gingerbread oat milk chai, at home, colored lights,movie, sledging, grinch, books, sockets and sweater, quiet

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REPollock
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Mehso-so

I don‘t regret the time I spent reading this book, but it was not what I expected—far more navel-gazing memoir than I anticipated. I assume the glowing recommendations I received were from people who adore memoir—I do not. I skimmed the last 20% because I realized it wasn‘t transforming into anything different than it had been all along.

Karkar I just am trying to read this review and all I can think of is how yummy those tacos look. 13mo
Tamra Tacossssssss 😋 13mo
REPollock @Karkar @Tamra they were amazing tacos—carnitas with street-corn-queso dip on top. 13mo
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BekaReid
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Saturday playtime with the Seren-cat followed by some reading time. Katherine May is quickly becoming a favorite author. This marks the third book of hers I'm reading in the last 5 weeks.

RaeLovesToRead Omg that PAW!!!! 🥰🥰 1y
dabbe Hello there, precious paw! 🖤🐾🖤 1y
Leftcoastzen 😂😻 1y
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Smarkies
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Mehso-so

This was more a memoir than I expected.

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DebbieGrillo
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Pickpick

Wintering follows the author through one of the toughest seasons of her life. She has just left her job, she is experiencing a health scare, and her son is struggling in school, so she pulls him out. She weaves her own story of difficulty with winter customs to deal with the long, cold days in various cultures. She even participates in some. Loved this part memoir, part how-to guide.

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Kazzie
Pickpick

Some elements really resonated (bees, winter swimming, singing), others were less well drawn and cohesive. I liked preparing and welcoming a slow down.

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IndoorDame
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In keeping with my resolution of bailing on more books this year, I‘m giving up on 2 this week. Both of these are actually really good and I may come back to them sometime, but they‘re not holding my interest at the moment so I‘m sending them back to the library for now.

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IndoorDame
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I don‘t have an exact #EasterOMC TBR, but my overly optimistic reading goals for the weekend are
🌸Keep up with my buddy reads for #Pemberlittens and #SundayBuddyRead
🌺Finish P&P and start Crazy Rich Asians for my #LitsyLoveBookBuddy reads
🌷Finish The It Girl and start The Death of Mrs Westway for #AuthorAMonth
🌻Start Bless The Daughter Raised By a Voice In Her Head for my poetry exchange with @Chrissyreadit
🌼Start the tagged book on audio

Chrissyreadit 🎉🎉🎉 2y
Clwojick Great goals! You‘ve got this! 🐇 2y
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IndoorDame
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Alwaysbeenaloverofbooks 👌🏻🧡📚 2y
Eggs ❄️❤️🍁 2y
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LeslieO
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I loved Wintering, looking forward to Enchantment. And they are so pretty! 🧡💙

currentlyreadinginCO Wintering was great! I'm looking forward to Enchantment, too... and your photo made me want physical copies 😍😍 2y
LeslieO @thereadingreference They do look nice together 2y
mcctrish Oh I need to finish Wintering and get my hands on Enchantment 2y
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Penny_LiteraryHoarders
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Pickpick

Loved this book. Loved its message.

IuliaC Loved it too! She has just published a new one 2y
Penny_LiteraryHoarders @IuliaC I just saw that the other day too!! 🥰 2y
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Penny_LiteraryHoarders
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This has been a bright spot in my reading however. My daughter signed me up for this 75Hard Challenge and part of it is to read 10 pages from a non-fiction book a day.

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squirrelbrain
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Pickpick

I loved this! I found so much to relate to in the book, and an awful lot to think about in my own life. As @Lindy commented, it‘s a very reassuring read. It makes you realise that taking care of yourself is the most important thing.

Yesterday felt almost like a summer‘s day on the beach, but today is definitely winter again, so much more reading in the campervan instead of playing out!

Lindy I‘m glad you enjoyed the book! Best wishes for the rest of your vacation. 🌞🌊 2y
TrishB Great review and beautiful pic ♥️ 2y
TheBookHippie I love this book! 2y
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BarbaraBB What a great photo! Enjoy your stay at the beach! 2y
julesG I should read this book, maybe on a deserted beach. 2y
jlhammar I really enjoyed this book. The beach looks lovely! 2y
batsy Beautiful photo! 2y
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Curvybookgirl
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Mehso-so

There were parts of this book that were relatable and that I enjoyed but other parts not so much. A nice topic but didn‘t keep me fully immersed

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mcctrish
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We‘ve got snow again so I better start reading this again. I‘m really not having difficult times beyond the crackpot leading Ontario and teacher contracts expired in august 2022 and negotiations don‘t seem to be happening and inflation ( apparently one needs $5000 more this year to live than last year 🤯) but that‘s probably enough to put someone over the edge

TheLudicReader Our contract (here in NB) has expired too and the last missive from our union seemed to indicate they hadn‘t even gotten around to discussing wages. The whole system would grind to a halt of teachers worked only the hours they were paid to work. Is it June yet? 2y
mcctrish @TheLudicReader I just know it‘s going to be awful 😞 in my FB memories a pic came up of my husband and I on a rotating strike day in 2020. That was such an amazing year: contract negotiations going off the rails and Covid hit 2y
Tamra We are always 2 years behind in our higher Ed contract. Not kidding. (edited) 2y
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mcctrish @Tamra the BEST part is the benefits are still locked in at the contract rates and everyone‘s ( dental, vision, handling fees) billing amounts have all jumped big time so it‘s just one more expense 2y
Tamra @mcctrish ugh, know! And any increase has already been gobbled by cost of living. (edited) 2y
Penny_LiteraryHoarders I have this on my shelf! Should pick it up - does it help with the suffering were enduring because of the crackpot “leading” Ontario? I don‘t understand why we haven‘t become more like France in this province! 😥 2y
mcctrish @Penny_LiteraryHoarders I was thinking why can‘t Lecce look at Finland for an education model? Why is it always Florida ?! I just finished October and it‘s made me love Halloween and Samhain even more 2y
Penny_LiteraryHoarders @mcctrish I think you‘re giving Lecce too much credit and intelligence 😂😂😂 2y
mcctrish Well @Penny_LiteraryHoarders 🤣🤣 I know he never actually goes into public schools or knows how they work, but a girl can dream some minion shows him something on social media 2y
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kspenmoll
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📚Wintering
🖋️ Jacqueline Winspear
📽️ West Side Story
🎤 Willie Nelson
🎶 We Can Work It Out (Beatles)
#manicmonday #LetterW

I‘ve missed a few Mondays…

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CuriousG
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My beautiful snow baby absolutely *LOVES* this blizzard. I don't mind the snow, but I'm happy to sit inside tonight in front of the fireplace with my chai and rereading parts of Wintering ❄️📚❄️

Texreader That‘s so precious!! ❄️ ❤️ 🐕 2y
wanderinglynn How cute! ❤️🐶❄️ 2y
TheBookHippie Winnie thinks it‘s a big snow cone 🤣🤣🤣❄️❄️❄️❄️🐶🐾 2y
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Caroline2 Too cute ☺️ 2y
Sleepswithbooks Ooooooohhhh so sweet 🐶🥰❄️ 2y
CuriousG @TheBookHippie Meelo too. We very literally don't even have to fill up his water bowl in the winter because he eats so much snow 🤣 2y
CuriousG @Caroline2 @Sleepswithbooks @Texreader @wanderinglynn Thank you. He seems to know he's cute so shows off 😄 2y
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StaceGhost
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Pickpick

Perfect. This does a wonderful job of summing up why I love the wheel of the year ✨I also don‘t think it matters, the magic is real enough for me #woty

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Cazxxx
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AllDebooks This book 😍 2y
Cazxxx @AllDebooks I‘m dying to read it! Trying to find a cheap second hand copy 2y
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Coleen
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Mehso-so

Not my typical read, but this was for book club and the timing seems apt (though probably better in January or February, when I really struggle to get through the months). Not a bad read, but what really kept me going was the audiobook reader, Rebecca Lee. Something about her voice was very compelling.

Sparklemn I loved her voice, too. I've been buying this for my friends because I enjoyed it so much, but I'm not sure if it's as good on paper. 2y
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Chrissyreadit
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Last day to sign up.

https://forms.gle/aj1eXNSM96CM5FjP9
A swap to celebrate Winter. Or Cozy. Or Warmth. Or Cold.

dabbe Hey, @chrissyreadit! Quick question: does our list have to include only books about winter, or can it include any book that we don't own? Sounds like a fun swap! (edited) 2y
Chrissyreadit @dabbe any book is fine. 2y
melissajayne Let me participate in #wws, please!! I‘m having a fit that u kick me out!! 2y
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Chrissyreadit
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this is a fast turn around and one size swap- 2 books and goodies to fit in a medium size USPS box or equivalent.
A swap for anyone who wants to celebrate winter- inside or outside.

https://forms.gle/XVRGCj9F2XwHdKDu8

Avanders Oh and also make sure we tag @LitsyEvents ! 2y
Chrissyreadit @Avanders I posted it there yesterday! I have the morning shift for November 😆😘 2y
Avanders @Chrissyreadit 😁 I should have known you‘d be on top of that! 😘😘 2y
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Liz_M @Avanders Chrissy's good! 2y
MittenGirlPeach I‘m in! It‘s exactly the swap I wanted! 2y
Deblovestoread All signed up! Thanks for hosting! 2y
sblbooks I'm in!🎇 2y
Amandajoy I wasn‘t going to do any swaps this year, but you guys are so awesome, I think I‘ll sign up for this one. 2y
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LitsyEvents
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A Winter Wonderland Swap - sign ups close in a few days.
https://forms.gle/sHDTLCFo6LoyRVDq5

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Chrissyreadit
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This is a fast turn around due to timing!! A swap for anyone who wants to celebrate Winter- inside or outside!

https://forms.gle/sHDTLCFo6LoyRVDq5

Chrissyreadit Tagging some people in case of interest @BookwormAHN @Gissy @AmyG 2y
BookwormAHN Signed up, thanks for the tag and hosting 😺 2y
Magdalenka I love that so much ! Can people from Canada participate ? 2y
Chrissyreadit @Magdalenka we are matching by country so you would be matched as long as someone else from Canada signs up. 2y
Magdalenka @Chrissyreadit oh how cool ! Thank you for telling me 2y
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