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When Breath Becomes Air
When Breath Becomes Air | Paul Kalanithi
For readers of Atul Gawande, Andrew Solomon, and Anne Lamott, a profoundly moving, exquisitely observed memoir by a young neurosurgeon faced with a terminal cancer diagnosis who attempts to answer the question What makes a life worth living?At the age of thirty-six, on the verge of completing a decades worth of training as a neurosurgeon, Paul Kalanithi was diagnosed with stage IV lung cancer. One day he was a doctor treating the dying, and the next he was a patient struggling to live. And just like that, the future he and his wife had imagined evaporated. When Breath Becomes Air chronicles Kalanithis transformation from a nave medical student possessed, as he wrote, by the question of what, given that all organisms die, makes a virtuous and meaningful life into a neurosurgeon at Stanford working in the brain, the most critical place for human identity, and finally into a patient and new father confronting his own mortality. What makes life worth living in the face of death? What do you do when the future, no longer a ladder toward your goals in life, flattens out into a perpetual present? What does it mean to have a child, to nurture a new life as another fades away? These are some of the questions Kalanithi wrestles with in this profoundly moving, exquisitely observed memoir. Paul Kalanithi died in March 2015, while working on this book, yet his words live on as a guide and a gift to us all. I began to realize that coming face to face with my own mortality, in a sense, had changed nothing and everything, he wrote. Seven words from Samuel Beckett began to repeat in my head: I cant go on. Ill go on. When Breath Becomes Air is an unforgettable, life-affirming reflection on the challenge of facing death and on the relationship between doctor and patient, from a brilliant writer who became both.Praise for When Breath Becomes AirI guarantee that finishing this book and then forgetting about it is simply not an option. . . . Part of this books tremendous impact comes from the obvious fact that its author was such a brilliant polymath. And part comes from the way he conveys what happened to himpassionately working and striving, deferring gratification, waiting to live, learning to dieso well. None of it is maudlin. Nothing is exaggerated. As he wrote to a friend: Its just tragic enough and just imaginable enough. And just important enough to be unmissable.Janet Maslin, The New York Times An emotional investment well worth making: a moving and thoughtful memoir of family, medicine and literature. It is, despite its grim undertone, accidentally inspiring.The Washington Post Possesses the gravity and wisdom of an ancient Greek tragedy . . . [Kalanithi] delivers his chronicle in austere, beautiful prose. The book brims with insightful reflections on mortality that are especially poignant coming from a trained physician familiar with what lies ahead.The Boston Globe Devastating and spectacular . . . [Kalanithi] is so likeable, so relatable, and so humble, that you become immersed in his world and forget where its all heading.USA Today Its [Kalanithis] unsentimental approach that makes When Breath Becomes Air so originaland so devastating. . . . Its only fault is that the book, like his life, ends much too early.Entertainment Weekly[When Breath Becomes Air] split my head open with its beauty.Cheryl StrayedFrom the Hardcover edition.
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Lcsmcat
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I always feel odd reviewing memoirs - like I‘m judging their life, not their writing. But this one is excellent living and writing. Like The Last Lecture it is full of positive but real sentiments/ philosophy, not trite, pat answers. I respect an author who respects his readers.

Anna40 Agree. It‘s difficult to review memoirs 3w
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I quickly realized this is not a read-in-public book, unless I want concerned looks and for my winged liner to be destroyed by tears. Good thing I always come prepared with several reading options. 🙃

451Degrees I feel exactly the same when I read books like this😭😭 5mo
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I feel like most people I‘ve talked to have already read this, I‘m late to the game.

There is a lot of very specific scientific info about cancer, which was interesting. Also the author‘s experience of med school and residency to become a neurosurgeon. Descriptions of surgeries (may be tough for the squeamish). But the main focus is on the author‘s diagnosis of lung cancer and how he chose to live his life knowing it would be terminal.

Kitta I cried when I read this, so good. 5mo
Soubhiville @Kitta I cried too. So sad, but also beautiful the way he approached his death, accepting and making the most of the time he had. 5mo
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BookedBeyondMeasure
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Loved it!

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Eggs My choice too 😢 8mo
annahenke I loved this one. So moving. 8mo
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Eggs
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One of the most beautiful and unforgettable books I‘ve read 💗💔🩷

#WithAPhysician

#ItTakesAllKinds

@Alwaysbeenaloverofbooks

WildAlaskaBibliophile I sobbed. 8mo
Crazeedi My heart was broken over this book💔 8mo
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Kitta I cried reading the ending of this. So moving. 8mo
Eggs @Alwaysbeenaloverofbooks So real, so emotional 🩵🩵 8mo
Eggs @Kitta Heartbreaking but so important 😔 8mo
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JenniferEgnor
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This book reminded me a lot of Lily and the Octopus. I will always think of cancerous growths as octopi from now on. I asked AI for an image a man with an octopus sitting on his chest and this is what it gave me. I suppose it fits. Brown skin, and the octopus seems to be spreading itself everywhere.

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JenniferEgnor
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This is a raw, heartbreaking and beautiful story about a neurosurgeon becoming the patient when he is diagnosed with cancer. He chose to keep going and meet it head on, living authentically until he took his last breath. His wife wrote such a beautiful epilogue in addition to the story he wrote of this journey. A book about courage, loss, death, and living. Highly recommend.

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Hannah_11
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Raw and honest account of what happens when the doctor becomes the patient. Inspirational read, even if the end left me sobbing on a plane #pick

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TamTracy
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What a story! A doctor‘s transition from doc to patient and the emotional turmoil that caused. Beautifully written and heartbreaking. ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️

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A young neurosurgeon‘s memoir after a devastating cancer diagnosis.

I forgot just how much this moved me the last time I read it, & so I just ended up crying throughout the epilogue at work. This is a powerful examination of finding priorities while dealing with a terrible disease. Kalanithi‘s writing is moving, while also being frank with the more difficult aspects of his ordeal. 🌕🌕🌕🌕🌗

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It‘s officially Christmas in our house and this is the newest addition to our decorations. I 💜 ⛄️!!

kspenmoll I love it! 12mo
BookmarkTavern Amazing! 12mo
dabbe 🤩🤩🤩 12mo
julesG 😍😍😍 12mo
marleed So cute! 12mo
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Santie
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I never give books 5 stars but this one 💙💙💙💙

SassyBookworm I read this about 5yrs ago, it was suggested by a friend. What a beautiful book! 1y
Santie @SassyBookworm I could not agree with you more. I was re-reading it. I love it so much. 1y
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Dr. Kalanithi was in the unique position of having been both a neurosurgeon in training and a patient at the hospital where he helped save lives but sadly lost his own. Kalanithi was an incredible human even before his diagnosis but after he was somehow able to write this beautiful, reflective memoir. I think his perspective could be helpful to doctors, patients and anyone interested in ruminating on what makes life worth living.

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CuriousG
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30 book recommendations in 30 days...

Day 16: An absolutely heartbreaking, yet beautiful, book. I honestly don't know if I could read this again now as I'm still struggling to accept the reality of my cousin's young children growing up without their mother (due to cancer), however I am glad that I read this when I did. Perhaps it would help me to reread it and gain perspective. I can say that although rough, it is so meaningful. #30recsin30days

CuriousG I listened to the audiobook for this one and I felt that was the best way (for me). 1y
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Such a wonderful and powerful book. Autobiography of Paul Kalanithi as he became a neurosurgeon and then realized he had terminal cancer. This is his honest and vulnerable sharing of his experience. Sad but hopeful. Brave and a witness.

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Kgaudiuso
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While I got the point of this story, it was very much a wordy memoir that really wasn‘t my type of book to enjoy, and I didn‘t know that going in. I found it filled with too much doctor and science jargon for my personal taste, although towards the end, the story itself took on a touching note.

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⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️
A must read. But a warning that this book is an emotional roller coaster!! I could not put it down. I'm convinced it'll give you a deep and serious perspective of life.

#nonfiction #medical #bestseller

TiredLibrarian Agree; excellent book. 2y
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Vivlio_Gnosi
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Starting the morning off with the deep and heavy stuff. This book really forces you to ponder life. And what better way to ponder life than with coffee? ☕️ 🤔

#nonfiction #coffee #Starbucks #medical

TiredLibrarian Great book! 2y
Vivlio_Gnosi Agreed! Such an emotional roller coaster 2y
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Vivlio_Gnosi
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"The fact of death is unsettling. Yet there is no other way to live."

#nonfiction #medical

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Vivlio_Gnosi
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"There is a moment, a cusp, when the sum of gathered experience is worn down by the details of living. We are never so wise as when we live in this moment."

#nonfiction #philosophy #medicine

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Vivlio_Gnosi
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A sobering reminder to have perspective about this life.

#nonfiction #medical

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bumpinthenight
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Trying to get a jump start on my 2023 reading goals now that I‘ll be stuck at home on COVID quarantine again to start this year. 🤒 Third times a charm.

#readinggoals #quarantine #covidreading #pulitzerprize

CuriousG This book absolutely broke me! It is one of my favorites of all time, but man is it ever a rough ride. 2y
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DebbieGrillo
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This was a tough read, especially seeing as my brother was dying of cancer.

RIP Greg Jan 7, 1974 - Aug 18, 2022

#12BooksOf2022 @Andrew65

Cinfhen Sorry about your loss. May his memory be for a blessing. 2y
tpixie I‘m so sorry for your loss. Losing a sibling just sucks. 💝 2y
Susanita I‘m so sorry. 2y
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JessClark78 Sorry for your loss. 💔❤️ 2y
Andrew65 So sorry to hear about your loss. 🙏 2y
TheBookHippie So sorry for your loss. May his memory be for a blessing. 🤍 2y
Megabooks 💕💕💕 2y
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SusanLee
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Eggs 💙😭💙 2y
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melissajayne
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It‘s been a number of years since I have read this book, but I sometimes think about the book, even if it is just to think about how such a small book can make such an impact. #letterw #alphabetgame

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thereadingkoala
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It's only through time that a life lost can make sense. We're lucky if that time ever comes to us. Mostly, we're just left with a hollow feeling that we have to learn to live with and millions of unanswered questions.

This memoir is so beautifully written that it broke my heart though I am not in the medical field.

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Thanks for tagging me @eeclayton !

1. Tagged! Just, full on weeping.
2. Sci fi or fantasy! The sheer unlimited potential of someone‘s imagination. ❤️💙
3. Most recently, I really loved The Locked Tomb books, Gideon the Ninth and Harrow the Ninth.

#WondrousWednesday @Eggs

Eggs I chose the same book #1 😥 2y
eeclayton You're welcome ☺️ 2y
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kranthir
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If you ever feel low or think you are unlucky or feel that life‘s not fair to you, pick this book, read it and let me know if you don‘t come out stronger and inspired. Just amazing hearing someone so close to death being so brave and focused on giving a meaning to his life.

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Messiejessie
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Oh my heart… 💔
I was torn between finishing this in one sitting and taking my time in order to absorb every single word.
What an exceptional person.

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DebbieGrillo
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I'm joining #MarvellousMarch #Readathon late but the app I use to read on my phone tracks my time. Nine days of reading. My goal is to read a minimum of ten hours without counting audiobooks. I normally would count them but but since the new year I've had a steady diet of audiobooks except for this one that I just finished. I want to keep reading text, so this goal will help me with that.
At the end of day 2, I'm at 2 hours 10 minutes.
@Andrew65

Andrew65 Good luck 😊👍 3y
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DebbieGrillo
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Required reading for mortals. Especially anyone with a terminal illness or those of us who love someone with a terminal illness! I know my brother will live and die with as much integrity and grace as Kalanithi did. ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️

The first book of 2022 for me not to be an audiobook. Hopefully Debbie's got her groove back.

Chelsea.Poole ♥️ 3y
Cathythoughts ❤️❤️heartbreaking 3y
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DebbieGrillo
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My brother found out a week ago Friday that his his cancer is terminal. He got married on Wednesday (instead of waiting until October). This book is giving me a glimpse of how the next two years might look. I'm so grateful for his wife!

Chrissyreadit I‘m glad you found something helpful to support you in this and am sorry for the sadness you will face. 3y
jdiehr Wow. Both sad and uplifting at the same time... 3y
CBee Wow. I am very sorry to hear about your brother - his wife sounds amazing ♥️♥️ 3y
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squirrelbrain Sorry to hear about your brother; I hope you all had a lovely day on Wednesday. This book is very good: 3y
DaveGreen7777 I‘m so sorry about your brother! 😢 3y
Jas16 I am so sorry about your brother‘s prognosis. I am happy he has so much love around him but cannot imagine what you must be feeling. 3y
Librariana So deeply sorry to learn of your brother's prognosis, but glad he was able to marry the woman he loves. May their days together be long, may time slow down for them, and may they enjoy a beautiful happiness. Hope they (and your family) can navigate this next chapter in life with grace, resiliency, and strength. Glad you're able to find some comfort and perhaps peace in what you're reading 💜 3y
BarbaraTheBibliophage I‘m so sorry. Cancer just sucks. We are in a similar situation with a beloved family member right now as well. Might go back to this book. Another I recommend is 3y
DivineDiana How wonderful that your brother has found a loving partner to be by his side. I am happy that you have found a book to help you. Sending love to you and your family. ❤️ 3y
Ruthiella ❤️❤️❤️ 3y
MicrobeMom ♥️♥️ 3y
Simona ❤️❤️❤️ … that is beyond any words. 3y
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SusanLee
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#hospital reminded me of this book which is still in my TBR
#savvysettings @Alwaysbeenaloverofbooks @Eggs

Eggs It‘s amazing 😢 3y
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DebbieGrillo
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"Literature not only illuminated another‘s experience, it provided, I believed, the richest material for moral reflection."

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If you‘ve been dealing with grief of loved one, distress of death and meaning of life, or just the doubt of personal purpose…you‘ll find some strength and light in it.
Thank you Paul (and Lucy), for such a beautiful and profound story. Thank you ❤️

CuriousG This one still lives in my heart even though it has been some time since I read it. 3y
janerzy ❤️ It‘ll be the same for me too. 3y
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Erin.Elizabeth10
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I‘m starting off my year of wanting to read more memoirs! I‘ve seen this one for so long and finally gave it a listen. It was dark and sad but also inspiring and hopeful.

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"Life wasn‘t about avoiding suffering."

Paul Kalanithi, When Breath Becomes Air

This book is so very powerful raw and real. Having to watch my own father battle and lose his life to cancer, I have been searching for meaning in his quick and difficult battle with the terrible illness. This is a topic people struggle to share but it is the one thing we all will face, death. A very important book I felt honored to read. Thank-you .

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Silo helped me with my audiopuzzling this morning. He had strong opinions about which areas of the puzzle I should concentrate on. (Or maybe he was trying to convince me to do something more productive, like sit on the couch so he could warm himself on my lap.)

RaeLovesToRead Well done finishing with a feline "helper"! ? Whenever Pickles tries to join in, pieces start mysteriously disappearing ? 3y
Allkat Cats are good helpers. 3y
ImperfectCJ @RaeLovesToRead Silo mostly glares at me (when he's not grooming himself), but his sister Camille is a much more active assistant. I was very surprised I didn't have to search under all the furniture for lost pieces! 3y
RaeLovesToRead Too cute! 😄 3y
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This memoir is poignant in itself but even more so with the handful of intersections between Paul's life and my own. His daughter was born in the same hospital where I birthed mine, and we both worked at Stanford Sierra Camp, although I worked a fall conference season while he, as a Stanford student, worked the summer camp. He writes about his mortality with emotion but without melodrama or trite sentiments. It's a beautiful and devastating story.

TheAromaofBooks Great review!! 3y
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TiredLibrarian
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Heartbreaking, as expected. Life-affirming, and beautifully written. Today's mission, in addition to reading & football, is to tell a few people how much I love them. ❤ #nonfiction #health #medicine #death

TiredLibrarian The photo is of the author's wife and widow, Lucy, and their daughter, Cady, at Paul's gravesite. 3y
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Thanks for the invitation @kimmypete1 @Eggbeater @MidnightBookGirl - I will try to set a few goals for the weekend, although it's pretty full!

🍁 Finish tagged book (20% left)
🍁 Finish A Great Reckoning by Louise Penny (40% left)
🍁 Start & finish 1 other book TBD

#Anywayyoureadathon

Eggbeater Thanks for joining! 3y
kimmypete1 Thanks for joining us! 3y
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S3V3N
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Heavy. This was well written and heart wrenching. I would also add informative regarding what to expect if diagnosed with cancer. I loved that the wife shared her experience during this time.