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Color of Water: A Black Man's Tribute to His White Mother (Anniversary)
Color of Water: A Black Man's Tribute to His White Mother (Anniversary) | James McBride
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From the New York Times bestselling author of The Good Lord Bird, winner of the 2013 National Book Award for Fiction, Five-Carat Soul, and Kill 'Em and Leave, a James Brown biography. The incredible modern classic that Oprah.com calls one of the best memoirs of a generation and launched James McBride's literary career. Over two years on The New York Times bestseller list Who is Ruth McBride Jordan? A self-declared "light-skinned" woman evasive about her ethnicity, yet steadfast in her love for her twelve black children. James McBride, journalist, musician, and son, explores his mother's past, as well as his own upbringing and heritage, in a poignant and powerful debut, The Color Of Water: A Black Man's Tribute to His White Mother.The son of a black minister and a woman who would not admit she was white, James McBride grew up in "orchestrated chaos" with his eleven siblings in the poor, all-black projects of Red Hook, Brooklyn. "Mommy," a fiercely protective woman with "dark eyes full of pep and fire," herded her brood to Manhattan's free cultural events, sent them off on buses to the best (and mainly Jewish) schools, demanded good grades, and commanded respect. As a young man, McBride saw his mother as a source of embarrassment, worry, and confusion--and reached thirty before he began to discover the truth about her early life and long-buried pain.In The Color of Water, McBride retraces his mother's footsteps and, through her searing and spirited voice, recreates her remarkable story. The daughter of a failed itinerant Orthodox rabbi, she was born Rachel Shilsky (actually Ruchel Dwara Zylska) in Poland on April 1, 1921. Fleeing pogroms, her family emigrated to America and ultimately settled in Suffolk, Virginia, a small town where anti-Semitism and racial tensions ran high. With candor and immediacy, Ruth describes her parents' loveless marriage; her fragile, handicapped mother; her cruel, sexually-abusive father; and the rest of the family and life she abandoned.At seventeen, after fleeing Virginia and settling in New York City, Ruth married a black minister and founded the all- black New Brown Memorial Baptist Church in her Red Hook living room. "God is the color of water," Ruth McBride taught her children, firmly convinced that life's blessings and life's values transcend race. Twice widowed, and continually confronting overwhelming adversity and racism, Ruth's determination, drive and discipline saw her dozen children through college--and most through graduate school. At age 65, she herself received a degree in social work from Temple University.Interspersed throughout his mother's compelling narrative, McBride shares candid recollections of his own experiences as a mixed-race child of poverty, his flirtations with drugs and violence, and his eventual self- realization and professional success. The Color of Water touches readers of all colors as a vivid portrait of growing up, a haunting meditation on race and identity, and a lyrical valentine to a mother from her son.
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Adventures_of_a_French_Reader
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4/5
Very interesting read. Well-written.
It's always interesting to me to read about a writer's life, as it shows where he got some of his inspiration for his books.

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GatheringBooks
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#SpringSkies Day 11: #CvrWithObscuredFace #CoverWithObscuredFace - hope to get to this book this year 🤞🏽

Suet624 You won't be disappointed when you finally get to it. It's a good one. 7mo
Eggs Lovely photo 🥧 📚 🕯️ 7mo
Alwaysbeenaloverofbooks Beautiful 😍 7mo
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Bethanyroe
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A lovely book…it wasn‘t what I expected, but in a good way.

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OneCent76
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Really interesting book about McBride's life as well as his Mom's life. This book was recommended to me and I'm glad I read it.

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ChaoticMissAdventures
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This was interesting. Mcbride's mother was a Jewish woman who married a Black Christian minister and had 12 children (her husband died and she married again). This is a soft pick for me as I really wanted something deeper from the story. The POV alternates between McBride and his mother, and while it encompasses many years and views I think I would have been more tuned into just her story. Her abortion at 14 in 1937, raising 12 mixed race kids

ChaoticMissAdventures It is incredible what she went through during an intensely volitional time in the country. Overall I enjoyed this but it felt a bit surface level. Mcbride's writing though is always a winner, his musical training gives a special cadence to his words that is nice to read. 2y
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Graywacke
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Wonderful. James McBride had a black father who died before he was born, and a white Jewish mother, along with 11 mixed-race siblings. This is his and her stories. We get life, race, identity, growing up Jewish in Virginia in the 1930‘s, and losing that life.

This is special and well done. I finished thinking this is the best book I've ever listened to. I mean, it's not, but you know that feeling. It's really that good.

KathyWheeler I‘ve been going back and forth on whether I wanted to read this book. Your review put me on the “want to read” side. 2y
Cinfhen One of the BEST memoirs I ever read! It was assigned to my kids in eighth grade!!! I thought it was brilliant 2y
Graywacke @KathyWheeler oh, yay! Definitely recommended. @Cinfhen I love memoirs and I completely agree. Cool 8th-grade assignment. 2y
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Suet624 I read this years ago and I could use a re-read. McBride‘s mother reminds me a bit of Trevor Noah‘s mom. Have you read his book? 2y
Graywacke @Suet624 no. I really should fix that. I‘m a fan of TNoah. 2y
Suet624 Both mothers were so influential in both sons‘ lives … their mutual love was so intense. The elevation of status for both men is pretty astonishing. Noah‘s book really is a ‘must read.‘ 2y
KathyWheeler @Graywacke Trevor Noah‘s book is fantastic. I read it but I‘ve heard audio is the way to go with this one — he narrates it. 2y
DrSabrinaMoldenReads I‘ve been putting this off for awhile. I think I‘ll read it on Audio 1y
Graywacke @DrSabrinaMoldenReads oh, do! And let me know if you do and if you enjoy. It‘s terrific in audio. 1y
DrSabrinaMoldenReads Sure thing. Will let you know. 1y
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Graywacke
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I‘m really enjoying my current listen.

I had a lot of trouble selecting my next audiobook, but I immediately was smitten with this. And it‘s gotten better. James is the son of mixed race parents, and talks about his growing up black in Queens with his Jewish immigrant mother, and about her life before he was born.

Ruthiella I listened to this on audio too and really enjoyed it - Andre Braugher and Lainie Kazan narrated the version my library had. 2y
Graywacke @Ruthiella interesting, my narrators are different: JD Jackson and Susan Denaker 2y
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Niyah

The literally mean of the book (the color of water a black man‘s tribute to his white mother) is about a black man as a child telling his story as a young boy and how he know his mother was different.

Denotation- PRIVACY it‘s no other way u can put this it means what it means

Connotation- of a ANGRY African-American students #Angry is a emotion and a feeling

TheMrsShaw Great effort! Next time, make sure you choose the same word to do both connotation and de notation. 3y
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Staci
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I loved this book. The experience between his Mom and the author made this book.

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ElizaMarie
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Wow. What can I say about this other that.. wow. Thank you again @KaylaD for gifting this to me so long ago. It was a joy! I thought it would take me a while to read because its not my usual genre (memoir) but... I fell into it really intensely!

Great great great!
#BookSpin #BookSpinBingo
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TheAromaofBooks Woohoo!!! 4y
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ElizaMarie
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Cracked open this @BookSpin book yesterday. It's pretty intense so far. I feel like this is good but it might be a little bit of a “longer“ read for me as it is emotional .. Thank you again @KaylaD for this gift (so long ago and I am barely getting to it!)

BethM Great sleeve! 4y
ElizaMarie @BethM Thanks !!! @Avanders gifted it to me and I just love it!!! 4y
Chrissyreadit I love this book so much!!!!!! 4y
ElizaMarie @Chrissyreadit I am really enjoying it but it‘s a bit rough 4y
Avanders 😘😘 4y
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kimmypete1
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Read this for my school book club, and really enjoyed it. It‘s a complex, heartbreaking and hopeful story of James McBride and his mother. Discuses not only an interracial marriage in the 30s/40s but also his mother‘s relationship with religion.

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RickW
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Again I will put myself out there and say James McBride may be the Hemingway/Baldwin/Salinger of our time. This is Not Deacon King Kong, which just goes to show the depth of his writing. It is an autobiographical tribute to his Jewish Mother and all the abuse that she received from, well just about everyone. It‘s about her resilience and her ability to triumph. If you don‘t cry by the end of this then you should take a one way trip to Mars.

SamAnne I want to read everything by him. Next up is Good Lord Bird. 4y
RickW @SamAnne Same here. 4y
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Brooke_H
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A parent/child memoir told in alternating parts between James and his mother Ruth. I'm in awe of Ruth. I would never have made it past that terrible childhood, much less been able to raise 12 mixed-race children in poverty starting in the 1940s (all of whom became sort of ridiculously educated and successful adults). A remarkable story written remarkably.

(quarantine book #91; read a parent/child memoir)

SamAnne I just finished Deacon King Kong and have put this and The Good Lord Bird on my TBR list. 4y
RickW I almost finished this in one sitting. I read it because of Deacon King Kong. I wanted to know more. This is an incredible book. His Mother put up with so much crap from whites, blacks, jews and still found a place in her heart to love. She literally turned the other cheek, sponsored a church and produced children who are super smart. It‘s an incredible book. Your review was also very good. 4y
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Sarahreadstoomuch
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My #booked2020 #spring tally sheet! I missed #tartannoir, but got the other 5. Favorite read is the tagged book.

Cinfhen Tagged book is one of my favorite memoirs/ awesome choice 🙌🏻 This is your #Spring #OfficialSecondQuarterEntry #Booked2020 💕🎉🌻🎶

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Sarahreadstoomuch @Cinfhen Southern Lady Code was quick and funny. I listened to the audio which was great. Schindler‘s List is phenomenal. Tough to read, more in depth than I remember from the movie, and well worth it. 4y
Cinfhen Thanks for the feedback / definitely moving the 2 books UP my list ❤️😃 4y
BarbaraTheBibliophage Great job!! 4y
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megnews
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Hey, #OverBookedClub #MonthofMemoirs friends and all others. James McBride‘s memoir tribute to his mom is a #kindledeal today. I must have read this pre-2008 when I started using Goodreads, but I still think of and recommend it often. Check it out.

sblbooks I couldn't pull it up on litsy, I keep having trouble with their book profiles. Is anyone anyone else having the same problem? 5y
megnews @sblbooks I‘m not having that problem but it seems slow pulling up my notifications today. 5y
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Sarahreadstoomuch
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This is one from the bottom of my TBR pile! My mom has given it to me to read years ago, after my grandmother had given it to her. And so fitting, as this #memoirofparentandchild tells the story of one black man getting to know his white/Jewish mother‘s life story as an adult. I am in awe of her and her children; they are a testament to her for sure. #booked2020 #bbrc #yeahbaby #bookswap #readmyowndamnbooks

Cinfhen I LOVE this book!! I met JM and he was such an awesome, intelligent, personable, warm individual. Great choice (edited) 5y
alisiakae Great review! 5y
Chrissyreadit One of my favorite books of all time! I‘m always excited when I see it posted 5y
BarbaraTheBibliophage Really need to read this one!! 5y
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Chrissyreadit
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3.Thanks for the tag @ElizaMarie I know it‘s already Friday... 1. This is a favorite book and a favorite memoir... thought of it because of the brief discussion on @CrowCAH ‘s page and I buy it whenever I see a used copy so I can give it to someone.
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1. 50‘s with wind and rain

CrowCAH Yes, what a good recommendation! Even with all my copies of P&P, even I pick up editions I already own, so I can gift them to others. 5y
Eggs Brilliant recommendation 📖👏🏻🤗 5y
BookmarkTavern I had to look up hellebores and they are just breathtaking! ❤️ 5y
ElizaMarie Just read the summary of this book and it sounds super good! I am not a huge memoir person but... this one would definitely be something I will be looking for. Also I love the idea of buying copies of your favorite book to give them as gifts :) (stacking this one so I can remember to have it on my radar) 5y
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megnews
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I just love this book and it‘s author. Kindle book on sale today for $1.99.

S3V3N It is a great read. 5y
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Cinfhen
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#SeptemberSins One of the MOST compelling memoirs I ever read. James McBride is the child, one of 12 born to a white Jewish mother and a black Christian father. In the veins of Jeanette Walls and Tara Westover, McBride offers an intimate and unforgettable account of what it feels like growing up not recognized as #BlackOrWhite 😢High praise for both writing and storytelling and EXTRA shoutout to James‘s mom for doing the best she could.

Ruthiella I know it bugged other readers but I liked how he referred to her as “mommy” all through the book! 😀 5y
Cinfhen Funny, I don‘t remember that at all @Ruthiella 5y
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mom2bugnbee
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I have no idea how I've missed this book for so long - I'm in my 40's and this was published when I was in high school!

What a story. What a lady. Go read it.

⭐⭐⭐⭐✨/⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐

A book written by a musician - #pop19
A book about a family - #pop19

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mom2bugnbee
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On the tail end of a chest cold, so I'm pretty zapped - thankful that there wasn't much to do today. My daughter's cat, Rose, always seems to find me & curl up in the crook of my legs when I'm reading in bed.

This memoir by the son of a black man & an Orthodox Jewish woman is riveting. My husband & I are as WASP as they come, so I can't pretend to understand what she went through. Regardless, I can't put it down. #currentread #currentlyreading

britt_brooke Great read! Glad you‘re starting to feel better. 5y
Seekingtardis I hope it‘s gone for good real soon!! 5y
Crazeedi I love when they curl up in the curve of the legs, so comforting 5y
Amiable This was a really good read 5y
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hazykiid
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Beautiful! Beautiful! Beautiful! As a biracial girl living in a similar world as McBride, I could real are so deeply to the words. But the wonderful thing about the book is that you don‘t even have to be like McBride to understand what it feels like to not feel like you belong or that life sometimes is working against you. And his mother is soooo AWESOME!!!

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Jbakesmcgee3
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Excited to start this one for book club!

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megnews
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This was my first James McBride many years ago and I‘ve loved everything else he‘s written since.

#water #sprinvgintoreading

Cinfhen Fantastic memoir!! Was not a fan of this one though 6y
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BookishShelly
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I saw this on the library‘s Black History Month display table but just finished it today. (It works for Women‘s History Month too, though.) It is so good. My son has a white mother and Chinese father, rather than a Black father, but I tend to be drawn to memoirs of mixed race children. Not that my son‘s life is anything like the author‘s. He‘s an only child and not one of 12 for starters. But this is a good read for everyone.

Abby2 I agree. Two of y kids are mixed (adopted) and I found this very enlightening. 6y
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CorinnaBechko
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This is such a cool idea! #ibelieveinbookfaries

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Erinhunt
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Yes.

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Erinreadsthebooks
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I love when a teacher requests a class set of this gem. Lots and lots of invaluable lessons in this book 💎😍🤗

BuriedNbooks Probably my all time fav book! 5y
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Smrloomis
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Kindle deal 🎉 I read this years ago but remember it as very moving.

SledgeReader This has been on my TBR for ages! 6y
Smrloomis @SledgeReader I think you should read it 😆👍🏽 6y
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OrangeMooseReads
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If you have not read this, you should. Kindle edition is $1.99 right now.

ReadingRachael Thanks for the heads up and recommendation! I‘m looking forward to reading it as it is now on my TBR. I was also happy to see that I was able to get it through Kobo for the same price :) 6y
OrangeMooseReads @elizaray 👍🏽 hope you like it. Glad you could get it in another format as well. 6y
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goodbyefrancie
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My current #audiobooks on loan on #Overdrive. I'm addicted, and have one going all the time. I may also have three baskets of audio books in CD from the friends of the library sale...oops, I got a little carried away.
#Riotgrams
@bookriot

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DavidHoloman
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The story of the white, mostly penniless lady who brought up her 12 black children to college educations and beyond is nothing short of remarkable. Many will find inspiration in her Christianity, I'm sure. I don't think I like the author very much; when he talks about himself rather than the Mom, the interest meter dips a lot. I don't think the presentation did justice to the underlying facts and facets of the remarkable story.

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After being “on duty” on a Sunday from 830 am to 430 pm for my teacher-training institute‘s PostGraduate Fair, super late lunch and early dinner with my loves who make everything worthwhile: garlic snowing pizza, gorgonzola pizza with bleu cheese, and garlicholic rice (with garlic chips and bacon) - and yes one of the loveliest memoirs about mothers in the tagged book which I can not wait to read.

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GatheringBooks
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#ReadingResolutions Day 1: Here is my #MayTBR - top 3 are for my virtual book clubs, some of the titles are not known to me yet, Cutting For Stone is for #ReadAroundTheWorld and #LitWorld2018GB - #Ethiopia, the Henrietta Lacks is for my IRL book club, and tagged book is for our current reading theme on memoirs.

HeatherBookNerd Cutting for Stone is fantastic 👌🏼 7y
Cathythoughts Cutting for Stone is on my May list too 👍🏻❤️❤️ 7y
CouronneDhiver Cutting for Stone and Henrietta are both great! 👍 7y
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Lcsmcat What @CouronneDhiver said! I loved both those books. 7y
Tomigirl44 The color of water is one of my favoritest books! ❤️ 7y
BookishMe Verghese has been on my TBR and now may be a good time to tick it off. Then again, there are other gems to discover as well! 7y
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Grayc
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This is a must read...a very interesting account of race, family...etc.

Grayc Thank you 7y
DivineDiana Welcome to Litsy! On my TBR! 7y
Mdargusch Hi 👋🏼👋🏼👋🏼. It was great to meet you today! 7y
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S3V3N
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Great book! I enjoyed the set up. You hear mom's side of the story and it is written in italics. I didn't think I was going to like this book, but I couldn't put it down.

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Erinreadsthebooks
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Some students were turning these books back into the library earlier this week. I put a copy off to the side and have been reading it when I get a bit of down time throughout the day. I loved it when I read it in college but couldn't remember why. Rereading it now, I completely see why.

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Chrissyreadit
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One of my favorite books of all time! Have not seen in bookstore for years! Amazing biography and tribute. James McBride is so talented!

OneLitChick This book is so amazing! 7y
Yeah_I_Read I recommend this to people all the time! I ❤️❤️❤️ James McBride! 7y
OrangeMooseReads Love this book 7y
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JackOBotts
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1. Too many...TGIF, SNICK, Saturday mornings on NBC...these were filled with shows I loved as a not quite tween.
2. I read the tagged memoir years ago and remember being moved...would love to reread.
3. Steak 🥩
4. My first book club meeting for the year! 📖
5. @Shenanakins - this is a fun way to get to know fellow Littens! 🤗
#friyayintro @jesshowbooks

OrangeMooseReads This is a great memoir. A former friend introduced me to it and I loved it. 7y
MallenNC I have that memoir on my shelf, and need to read it 7y
Avanders Oh yeah.. I'm not much of a steak 🥩 fan either 😋 7y
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Librosycafe
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Honestly, it's paradigm that makes you think about the serverity that race plays into any individual's life. Is it easy to raise Black children in a world of hate? It's beautifully written.💧

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DivineDiana
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Here's what I found at the Library book sale! $4.65! #bookhaul #lovealibrarybooksale #thebookgodswerelookingoutforme

Notafraidofwords The Hopefuls is so gossipy and just so much fun. 7y
DivineDiana @Notafraidofwords Looking forward to some fun! 🙂 7y
LauraBrook That's a great stack! 7y
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susanw A stack of winners! 7y
Caroline2 Oh the Fingersmith is sooo good! Defo 5 ⭐️ I read it in January and it is still my favourite book of the year! 👍🏻 7y
ValerieAndBooks Great stack! I read The Color of Water many years ago and really liked it. 7y
DivineDiana @susanw @LauraBrook @Caroline2 @ValerieAndBooks Thank you! Looking forward to some good reads! 7y
Lmstraubie Well done!👏👏👏 7y
DivineDiana @Lmstraubie These sales are so much fun! 7y
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This is a pretty good read. #BlackOrWhite #90sInJuly

Cinfhen I really liked this book a lot and a few years ago I sat next to James McBride at a wedding ~ he was absolutely charming 💗a great conversationalist 😄 7y
OrangeMooseReads I love this book. 7y
britt_brooke @Cinfhen No way! That's awesome! 💚 7y
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MaryAnn1 @Cinfhen, what incredible luck!! 7y
Cinfhen @MaryAnn1 @britt_brooke I know! I had to increase my wedding gift check 😉I felt like I scored the winning seat!!! 7y
bookhoarder513 I really liked this also. 7y
Zelma @Cinfhen that not only rocks but is hilarious. 👍😂 7y
Cinfhen Thanks @Zelma it was worth it....😁 7y
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BookishMarginalia
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Revisiting

blankpagesofmine I have a Forrester too!! Great car!! 👍🏻 7y
LitHousewife That's one of my favorites! 7y
OrangeMooseReads Fantastic book 7y
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#ReadSoulLit Photo Challenge
Day 23 - Oldest on Your TBR!
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THE COLOR OF WATER has been on my to read list for over 5 years. I've heard so many great things about this book and need to find the time to read it. ⠀

#spinesvines #thecolorofwater #blackhistorymonth

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Wife
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I had some downtime at work tonight and finished this book. I so enjoy a good memoir. And the man my grandson was named after just happened to be mentioned!

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youngreadrshelf
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I know this one isn't exactly #blackhistory, but I think it's an important look at race and religion. You can see how many times my copy has been read. #riotgrams @bookriot @Liberty

LitHousewife I loved this book so much. 8y
Suet624 This book...(sigh)....so good. 8y
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Jlee745
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The color of water was my "person of color memoir" book. I really enjoyed the audiobook. #litseyreadingchallenge