Modern Romance: An Investigation | 
This month has been…a lot. Work was crazy, then I got sick and missed 2 1/2 days (I NEVER call in sick), so when I got back it was even crazier.
But, as of 5:08pm yesterday, I‘m DONE with work in 2023 (*happy dance!*)!!!! Now I‘ve got nothing but time for reading, Litsy-ing, and being a productive member of the #WinterGames #SnowflakeSquad.
The tagged book is my #Bookspin, and The Black Moth is my #Doublespin.
pan⭐️⭐️⭐️I listened to the audiobook, the author was speaking too fast. I did enjoy some parts of the book but I wouldn‘t suggest it, maybe if I knew the comedian I would have enjoyed the book.
so-so2-Aziz read his audiobook, which I so appreciate. The information was interesting but more for someone still single/dating. Was enjoyable!
so-soThis book was ok. It was a little different because Ansari was reporting on social and love research, but he sprinkled in his humor with a lot of cussing which caught me off guard. I stuck with this, but I‘m not sure I would recommend it.
bailedI really should read what the book is about before I read it. This is one of those books I heard was good and I like the author so I shelved it tbr. Maybe this book was good when it first came out but I learned nothing from this book and it was nothing of what I thought it was going to be about. Disappointes but its totally my fault.
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pick⭐️⭐️⭐️ From courting to the digital age and much in between. Note that this focuses on hetero relationships, which Aziz address satisfactorily in the introduction. To be all-encompassing would‘ve been a massive study, not doing anyone proper justice. Anyway, this was a fun and interesting read. Dude is funny! As someone who married prior to the advent of texting and social media - approaching 19 years, y‘all 💕- I can‘t fathom today‘s challenges.
pickThis was pretty fun. It's read by the author who is a pretty funny dude. It's actually about how dating and relationships have changed over the years and how everything is online now.
so-soPart sociological study, part advice, and a huge part of humor. Ansari's take on relationships in today's world with an infinite number of options opened my eyes a little bit. I only wish that with all the casual one nighters, there was at least one mention of std prevention. Maybe, I am a prude or Dr. Varghese is still influencing my thinking.
#Nonfiction21 @Riveted_Reader_Melissa
Do I call? Do I text? Do I send a Facebook message? Do I send up a smoke signal? How does one do that? Will I set my rented house on fire? How embarrassed will I be when I have to tell the home's owner, actor James Earl Jones, that I burned his house down trying to send a smoke signal?
Page 2 - I am going to love this book. #Nonfiction21 @Riveted_Reader_Melissa
• I started reading the ebook last winter but for me it's much better on audiobook. I love listening to Aziz read this very insightful book. His humor and voices are so much fun. Publish more cool sociological research, dude!! Inquiring minds want to know 👍 •
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Jane says, “Back to the library,” recalling that wit and comedy are siblings, but not twins.
pickSo thought provoking and very well researched. I love that instead of writing another witty memoir, Aziz took the time to write about a topic he was passionate about, while also creating hilarious discourse.
Really hooked on this book right now. Mr. Ansari's humor shines through in this unique mix of comedy and data; I like the balance between the two. Currently reading chapter 3. Perfect February read 💜😂
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• Although I'm definitely not looking for my soul mate, I'm reading this book because I like Aziz Ansari and I think it will be entertaining and informative. Plus, it makes a good #VDay read 💜 •
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• I think the tagged book might be a fun #nonfiction read for #VDay 💜💔 Thoughts/comments? •
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pickDating is weird. Even since I was in high school, dating has changed a boatload. Aziz Ansari feels the same way and decided to write a book about it: Modern Romance. It is a funny and informational book about how weird dating is now with all the choices we single people have. Ansari and researchers explore dating in the U.S. and abroad. Read the full review at: https://onthebl.org/2019/06/13/modern-romance/
so-soThe only audiobook immediately available from the library. Not what I expected. Researched information on dating. It‘s all a little mind boggling to me. This app, that app, the inability to talk with people face to face. I‘m old and seriously out of the loop. Not sure exactly why he wrote this book and I‘m not sure why I listened to it. But the garden is a lot happier as I weeded with vigor and muttered about some of the info.
pickBook club last night. This book was surprisingly well researched. It reads a bit more like a textbook rather than a comedy book so I would say it's interesting with a side of funny.
Reading books during this snow storm. 😊📚
pickI had no idea this book was primarily scientific research! I really love how in depth Aziz and his cohorts went into romance and how we find partners these days.
This isn‘t exactly what I was expecting, but I‘m digging it so far. Anyone else read this one?
Reading stack for Families and Society. I‘m in love.
bailedI expected a hilarious history of Aziz's romantic mishaps. This is a social study of today's dating habits. Even though I am only 30, and the targeted age group for this,I have no modern dating experience. I married my high school boyfriend. Also, 2 hours in and not very funny. And finally...My husband reminded me of the sexual assault and harassment allegations made again Aziz recently. I actually have no interest in his dating adventures...
pickModern Romance illustrates how dating has transformed over the last few generations. The author explains through interviews and statistical data that dating can be, well, complex and messy, even with the advances in technology. Is this groundbreaking information? No, but Aziz encourages readers to be honest, both with themselves and with others they are dating, and to embrace the journey. (I highly recommend the audio book... he cracks me up!)💕
Good morning, loves! I am off to see one of my dear friends @DimeryRene , and I picked up this audiobook for the drive! I think I will have it finished by the time I get to her casita! Stay tuned for my thoughts. Happy Friday! 💕
Tried this last night on audiobook, but wasn‘t a fan. Have any of you guys read this? Should I give it another go? Should I look into getting a physical copy? #my2018
so-so🌟🌟⚡(2.5 stars)
Modern Romance is a book that is funny in places but lacking in insights. In 250 pages, I found out obvious things like, people don't marry young these days, people cheat, Tinder has changed dating, people sext, people play mind games on text etc.
The case studies on Qatar, Japan, Argentina and France were interesting. Aziz's humour can push the book to a level, but it can't compensate for the lack of insights.
So far, the book has presented Ansari's penchant for humour alongwith tidbits about how dating has evolved over time. Will keep everyone posted on how it turns out eventually :)
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pickSo, this book isn't really a humourous book where Aziz Ansari talks about his dating experiences, it is more about the dating in the modern world. The book has quite some research-y stuff. Turns out Aziz and his partner actually researched the dating culture all around in different places. It's a fun read. Probably not the best book out there on the subject but fairly good. #AzizAnsari #ModernRomance #humour
pickAn interesting and entertaining read! Aziz hits on tons of issues related to modern dating and the psychological reasoning behind them. A good pick if you're struggling to find a partner on the internet these days. This was my #BooksandBrews pick for this month so I'm excited to discuss it with ppl, especially concerning the recent allegations against him.
pick⭐️⭐️⭐️ I found all of the statistics on relationships fascinating. He touches on everything, from the changes over time in how couples meet, to the stress young people feel to find “the perfect” mate among all of their options in the online world, to the rate of cheating. I got married right before Smart Phones became a thing, and after reading this book, I‘m glad I never had to navigate the world of text wars and Tinder.
Woke up to find Aziz Ansari trending on Twitter and was disappointed to see why. The woman‘s recount is explicit and could be difficult to read. The reaction from the public is further evidence that communication between people needs an overhaul.
I‘m disappointed, and again find myself in a position of choosing whether I read this book, watch his show, or move on to other books and shows.
How do you change your consumption in cases like this?
Call me an old married lady 😂 but damn!! I would be so exhausted if my life was spent playing this insane game all the time. I love my phone but I cannot be a slave to it. I treat my cell phone like the old home phone of ancient times. If I‘m not home, I‘m not required to answer. It‘s not playing a game, it‘s living. Old lady soap box hour. 😂
pickI absolutely loved this book. My feelings are perhaps best summed up by this figure that shows the difference between the volume of messages straight women and men receive on OKCupid (by "attractiveness," whatever that means). I've never been so happy to be queer...
While drinking tea from my "nice" mug, I came across this passage about sex motels in Buenos Aires. The same practice occurs in Rio de Janeiro for many of the same reasons. I used one back in 2007 when my whole family was visiting, and I remember how classy the place was. Fancy room service, swank showers, super soft sheets. Hotels that charge by the hour are super important for adults still living with their parents. Feeling less "nice" now. ?
This mug may no longer be relevant, but it is an excellent companion to my AM reading. In this passage, Ansari makes a funny-yet-anachronistic joke about picking someone up in 1990: "Hey, girl, come back here with that fine butt that's in them fly-ass acid-washed jeans and let me take you to a Spin Doctors/Better Than Ezra concert." Bonus points if you can spot the problem without Wikipedia. #pedantic
Kindle deal 🎉 really enjoyed this when I read it a few years ago.
Just gotta get through two more days, and then I will have twelve glorious days to rest and be lazy and most importantly, tear through all of these and more! Do you have time off coming up? What's your #vacation reading plan? #almostdone #DecDays #holidayreading
pickDefinitely recommend reading this book and watching Parks & Rec at the same time like I did. You will hear Aziz‘s voice in your head, which just makes the whole thing better. Some very interesting research on relationships in the modern world, and great comparisons to previous generations. Loved it 👌🏼
pickThis was a fun listen. Aziz is a great narrator. This memoir/sociological study on love and dating in the technological age was interesting and at times hilarious.
