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ImperfectCJ

ImperfectCJ

Joined May 2019

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For read-alouds today, I read the tagged (and experienced the absolute joy of hearing 4-year-olds say "lellow") and the pictured "scary book," as the students proclaimed it. I also wore my rainbow heart "Library For Everyone" shirt, which is always a hit. Only two more weeks before the reading year ends; I'm going to miss sharing books with these kiddos every week.

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What an odd little book this is! It's taking me a while to figure out how to read it (and not just because I didn't realize at first that it's short stories). We'll see how it hits me as I make more progress.

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At Bertram's Hotel | Agatha Christie
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Mehso-so

This is not among my favorites. It feels more like an interesting idea that Christie is exploring in writing than it does a complete story. And Miss Marple doesn't play nearly as large a role as I would prefer her to.

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Today I was lucky enough to visit two of the places that help me rebalance myself: the ocean and the library. If I could also swing a walk in the forest, I could probably reach enlightenment, but I need to get my kid a haircut, so enlightenment will have to wait for another day.

Soubhiville Glad you got to see two of your happy places though! 5d
kspenmoll Sounds like a soothing day! 5d
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BookSpinBingo | Untitled
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TheAromaofBooks Woohoo!! Looks fantastic!! 4d
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BookSpinBingo | Untitled
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April #bookspinbingo card: I managed one bingo in April, although I finished neither the #bookspin nor the #doublespin title this month (and it's better not even to mention how I'm doing on #roll100).

@TheAromaofBooks

TheAromaofBooks Yay!! Fantastic month!! 5d
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BookSpinBingo | Untitled
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May's #bookspin list is ready to go! It's a little haphazard, but what that's a totally reasonable organizational/curation tactic for a personal reading list, in my opinion.

@TheAromaofBooks

TheAromaofBooks Woohoo!! 5d
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I'm not sure if this short book was compelling on its own or just along with my other reading/experiences, but it definitely struck a chord for me. A Silicon Valley insider, Lanier makes a distinction between social media that uses what he terms BUMMER algorithms to target and manipulate users and other, less insidious types of online interaction. I don't like his Solitary/Pack terminology, but aside from that, it's a very convincing read.

TheLudicReader I am currently reading Lanier‘s book, too. I am becoming increasingly distressed about social media…I dumped out of FB in January and don‘t miss it at all. Insta is probably next. 5d
ImperfectCJ @TheLudicReader His comparison to lead paint was really helpful to me, the idea that I'm not leaving social media forever, just until a better system is in place. And then I remind myself that I was keeping in touch with people fine before Facebook, and I just need to remember what that looked like. The fact that it's difficult to remember is a bit alarming to me, how thoroughly social media has changed how I relate to people. 5d
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"What if listening to an inner voice or heeding a passion for ethics or beauty were to lead to more important work in the long term, even if it measured as less successful in the moment? What if deeply reaching a small number of people matters more than reaching everybody with nothing?"

As one whose passion for blogging diminished with the push to focus on SEO and who's feeling odd about using IG to promote voiceover work, this quote resonates.

ImperfectCJ And just for the record, Lanier is specific about what about some social media is insidious (he refers to it by the acronym BUMMER), and Litsy doesn't do it, so while I'm on the verge of quitting Meta, I don't plan on leaving here (unless the business model changes dramatically and in a bad direction or unless I find myself changing in ways I don't like because of how I use Litsy). 6d
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This reads a bit like the memoir of someone who's escaped from a cult. The later parts of the book are a little repetitive, but overall it's maddeningly readable. Wynn-Williams seems to be working through her own feelings of culpability for the direction Facebook has gone, but that doesn't mean her claims aren't factual. I'm not sure I can justify keeping my Meta accounts after this.

ImperfectCJ And holy hell, what was with her parents??? 6d
DogMomIrene I‘m about to sit down with this one again. It‘s just one awful story after another. I deleted my FB, and Instagram for my dogs in November. It‘s actually been really liberating. You could pause the accounts. May not be the right term. But something similar to see how you like being detached from that machine. Really want to get to the parents story… 6d
thegirlwiththelibrarybag @ImperfectCJ, after the 🦈 attack?! How can you not tell when your kid is in genuine pain? 6d
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ImperfectCJ @thegirlwiththelibrarybag Yes! I was sure I was misunderstanding, it was so out there to me. 6d
dabbe 🖤🐾🖤 6d
thegirlwiththelibrarybag @ImperfectCJ… and if there is ever a time to give a kid the benefit of the doubt - surely this was the time!! 4d
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"Mark tells Elliot to do something about the headlines and Elliot explains that would be difficult because they seem to be true."

I'm doing my best to take this book with a grain of salt as the account of just one person who has her own stuff to work through, but when the book itself, in describing a totally different situation, seems to predict how the release of the book was handled, I'm more inclined to believe the author about other things.

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First the Egg | Laura Vaccaro Seeger
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Another read-aloud day done with the two UTK classes. It's hard to believe the school year is almost over!

When I read First the Egg with the first class, I took the dust cover off to show the different images underneath, and a student in front grabbed the dust cover. I got very anxious because I'm out of practice with retrieving tearable things from little hands, but it all worked out okay, and I learned a lesson for the second class.

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Well, this dedication hits hard.

Bookwormjillk I have this on my list to read soon. Looking forward to your review. 1w
Kerrbearlib Stacked! 1w
Susanita He was a speaker at an event at my old office, and I talked to him briefly. Smart guy. 1w
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Mysterious Galaxy | San Diego, CA (Bookstore)
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San Diego Book Crawl haul! We waited until day 3 of 3, so we didn't bother trying to collect prizes (which were mostly gone, at least at the levels that were realistic for us to reach), and we also scrapped getting our passport stamped, but we did visit 5 bookshops and bought all these and 2 pair of socks. Favorite was the tagged shop, which I'd avoided because the name reminded me of a comics shop where a guy in college took me on a date.

ImperfectCJ I'm so glad I finally visited Mysterious Galaxy, though! What a great shop! 1w
BkClubCare Fun! I didn‘t bother with the scavenger hunts nor card punch, neither. I visited all 4 🌟 1w
ImperfectCJ @BkClubCare Our crawl had 14 stops, but the max my elder kid and could figure we could do in one day with driving and parking was 7, and they lost steam after 5. We're totally happy with our 5, though. :-) 1w
BkClubCare @ImperfectCJ - yeah! I stopped at a bakery and the post office 😆 1w
ImperfectCJ @BkClubCare I'm glad we have so many indies, but if there had been fewer, I might not have felt as much fomo/pressure. We did have time to stop for an empanada, though, so it wasn't all books. Just a LOT of driving! 1w
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Mehso-so

I hadn't read this author, but this is the current selection for our local branch library book club, so I gave it a try. I liked it okay. It's engaging, although some of the situations and relationships stretch credulity. Could be a fun listen during a long drive as it's enjoyable but doesn't require a lot of attention to follow.

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Horror Movie | Paul Tremblay
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Mehso-so

"You can always count on people to not have the courage to say anything."

Whew. I finally finished this one. I'm not super impressed. Interweaving the screenplay with the faux-audiobook makes the pacing too slow, and it's difficult to get any sense of tension or momentum, except a little at the end. The imagery is cool, as is the exploration of guilt and hidden objectives, but I'm mostly just glad to be done.

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Horror Movie | Paul Tremblay
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It's a two cats, one book afternoon. I was going to do Dewey's, but I couldn't carve out enough time, and I'm postponing celebrating Indie Bookstore Day and the San Diego Book Crawl until Monday when my elder kid can shop hop with me. (Also, am I ever going to finish the tagged book? I'm on the verge of looking up spoilers and calling it a day.)

dabbe 🖤🐾🖤 2w
Leftcoastzen Wow , love it ! 😻😻📚 2w
Reggie I‘ve read to pg 50 on this book and was like mehhh. His last two books: snoozefests. And I love him but I don‘t know if I could take a 3rd if he has another one coming out this year. 1w
ImperfectCJ @Reggie This is my third of his, and given my experience, I'm not sure anything new from him will jump to the top of my TBR. 1w
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Beautifully written, I think I kind of get what this novel is saying (something about inherited trauma and how to move forward while still honoring the past), but the ending left me a little disoriented. I like the literalism.

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34/100
Lots of Terry Pratchett (but none that I have read) and Jacqueline Wilson (I haven't read any of hers). I'd like to read some of each of theirs, and my son has me intrigued by House of Leaves, so maybe I'll put that one on my list, too.

Three I was surprised by how much I liked:
1) Kim
2) All Quiet on the Western Front
3) Heidi

#ThreeListThursday #TLT @dabbe

dabbe Those two authors were all over this one, weren't they? Of your choices, I've only read HEIDI. Other two are now on the TBR! Thanks for playing and sharing. 💙💚💙 2w
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Horror Movie | Paul Tremblay
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I don't have the audiobook of this, so Camille's reading it aloud to me. There's more meowing and purring than I would have expected, so it's possible she's also translating it on the fly.

(I got, like, 3 productive things done this afternoon and now I feel invincible...and a little punchy.)(Do other people say "punchy" to mean "silly, laughing at everything", or is it regional/familial? I just want to make sure no one thinks it's like "stabby.")

TheBookgeekFrau My family used to say "punch drunk" so I immediately knew what you meant ? 2w
Reggie Lolol I love this. I can just hear her meowing and purring the words. Lol 2w
Ruthiella I say punchy! 2w
dabbe 🖤🐾🖤 2w
Bette Yep, punchy, too tired and you get silly. 😜 I‘d listen to more books if cats were involved. 🤭 2w
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Memoirs aren't always my favorite, but this one was a hit for me on so many levels: I loved the nature and ecology, the exploration of family and belonging and connection to place, defying expectations in a quiet way. I was surprised to learn that Lanham wasn't an experienced writer before this because his prose flows so well, and he does such a great job conveying emotion without becoming sappy (as many memoirs do). Loved this one!

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Somewhere in the Ocean | Jennifer Ward, T. J. Marsh, Kenneth J. Spengler
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I read the tagged book to two UTK classes today. It's written so it can be sung, with each spread a verse about a different ocean animal. The tune is written out in the back, so although I wasn't sure if the classes would like the book read or sung, I was ready for either. The majority voted for me to sing it, and when I got to the end of each verse, they applauded. I know they're all under 6 years old, but it was still gratifying.

ImperfectCJ Photo is of a sunset walk I took last week because I forgot to photograph the book before I returned it. 2w
ravenlee What a fun lesson! 2w
ImperfectCJ @ravenlee I'm glad they had a good time because otherwise I might feel completely self-indulgent...I love singing in front of people, but I'm always afraid I'm being pushy about it and they're just being polite. But I have never gotten the impression that 4- and 5-year-olds are adept at politeness for the sake of politeness. They may not be discerning listeners, but they wouldn't hesitate to let me know clearly if they didn't like my singing. 🤣 2w
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It's nothing like Lanham's Home Place, but it's my Home Place (or one of them), and I love it when it's like this. Reading about Lanham's home and family in all of their complexity while planning a trip to visit my family of origin (and a couple of alternate-dimension homes) has me reflecting about how much I love being from so many places---even as I kind of crave some roots. The mid-life crisis just goes on and on, it seems.

BarbaraBB This home of yours looks wonderful and I hope you‘ll find loving homes wherever your midlife journey takes you ❤️ 2w
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Tale of Peter Rabbit | Beatrix Potter
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I'm not much of a purse person, but this cute little bag captured my heart yesterday. The only downside: It fits neither a book nor my e-reader.

Tamra Adorable though! 2w
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Horror Movie | Paul Tremblay
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A-gawkie-gawkie-gawkie (the bunny, as named by my firstborn at age 3) and I are enjoying our Saturday evening.

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It took me a while to get into this one, and I eventually needed to enlist the aid of the audiobook, which was helpful in getting a sense for the Welsh pronunciations anyway, but in the end, I quite enjoyed this novel. It's definitely dated, written in 1976 with gender roles to match, but the mythology and the emotional truth of the relationships makes up for some of my grouchy feelings about the importance of learning homemaking for a teen girl.

ImperfectCJ And check me out: I've actually finished a #Roll100 title! This was 96 for me, whatever month that was. 3w
Clare-Dragonfly I loved this when I read it as a kid. I think I still have a copy; I should give it a reread. 3w
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#Two4Tuesday @TheSpineView

1. To paraphrase Homer Simpson, we paid our taxes over a year ago. (Seriously, though, our taxes for this year are long done.)

2. Wales. (I assume it will be about more once I get into it, but for now, it's very much just about Wales and how American teens in the mid-1970s feel about living there.)

TheSpineView Thanks for playing! 3w
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Step Gently Out | Helen Frost
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My Busytown book bag has passed the rigorous Kitty Inspection Process and is all ready for read-alouds Tuesday morning! After a busy several days (family and friends visiting from across the country for my spouse's 50th, an early-morning emergency room visit for my father-in-law (he's doing well now, thankfully), and an earthquake), I feel ready to be back in the classroom with the preschoolers reading about animals.

dabbe 🖤🐾🖤 3w
Tamra Love it!!! 😍 3w
MemoirsForMe Happy 50th to your hubs! Glad all is well. Have fun with your eager young readers. They need you now more than ever. 🙌🏻🎉 3w
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In the midst of a fun but exhausting weekend, I have a lull between entertaining responsibilities. If I could nap, I would, but instead I'm drinking my coffee and trying to get my brain to focus on the Spanish translation of the tagged. I'm at an interesting point in my understanding of Spanish where reading is easier than I expect, but every now and then I get stuck with no idea how the words go together. This book might take me forever to read.

Ruthiella With practice and context , your brain will start to make those connections, I‘ll bet! 👍 3w
ImperfectCJ @Ruthiella Thanks for the vote of confidence! After having mixed success reading children's books and fiction in Spanish, I actually think the self-help genre might be the way to go for me. There's so much repetition, I get to see the same idea presented a few different ways, which is great for improving my language skills, I think! Still slow, but that's probably good, too, for now. 3w
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Today I'm wearing the souvenir I bought while visiting Austin in February. Little did I know the message would have even more significance only a short time later. I wore it to read to the preschoolers a couple of weeks ago. They liked it for the rainbow heart and named the colors for me.

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Women Talking: A Novel | Miriam Toews
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Three faves that I don't hear talked about much:

1) Women Talking
2) Jojo Rabbit
3) The Favourite

Thanks for the tag, @dabbe ! #ThreeListThursday #TLT (on Friday)

dabbe A W🤩WZA score! You kicked my sorry butt! Thanks for playing and sharing. 💙💚🩵 4w
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This is a pretty straightforward Ballard/Bosch novel, with more focus on the younger Bosch. Touching on so many different cases and personal issues made this one a little challenging to follow sometimes, but it's still an enjoyable read.

I listened to the second half while cleaning my house for friends from out of state to come over. I had a lot of nervous energy, so a lot more things are clean than they were likely to see during dinner.

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This one is in my ears today, as well as her "Rise Up With Fists!!"

https://open.spotify.com/track/6MKL3Xdcf3qFhTP2KJhcsn?si=BPaIUl5aQ22zdjSQN5epkw

Tagged book because Jenny Lewis was in the movie version.

#TuesdayTunes @TieDyeDude

TheKidUpstairs Love this whole album 1mo
ImperfectCJ @TheKidUpstairs I enjoy Joy'All, too, especially Puppy and a Truck 1mo
CarolynM Such a great album. I love Jenny😍 1mo
TieDyeDude Love Jenny! Thanks for sharing 3w
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Der Vorleser [The Reader] | Bernhard Schlink
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1. I think so, yes. I enjoy being around books even if I'm not reading them, and libraries and bookstores are must-see destinations when I'm traveling.

2. A rather dark one, but the first I thought of (perhaps because an event organizer mentioned Bernard Schlink at the author event I was at last night, or maybe just because it's a totally on-the-nose title for this question).

#Two4Tuesday @TheSpineView (thanks for the tag!)

TheSpineView YW! Thanks for playing and have a fabulous rest of your day! 1mo
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I attended an author event with Gretchen Rubin tonight. She's a great speaker, and aside from me being a total dork when I tried to talk with her, it was a great night! It was her book The Happiness Project that inspired me to start my blog (imperfecthappiness.org) 15 years ago.

MegaWhoppingCosmicBookwyrm How cool! I‘m always a doofus when meeting people I look up to. I know they put their pants on one leg at a time like I do, but I always seem to forget it in the moment. 😅🤣❤️ 1mo
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The Warehouse | Rob Hart
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This novel captures well the feeling that the tech-bro-owned companies inspire in me...that sense that the world is worse for how they do things but also that there's so little one can do to resist them. And really, what's the alternative? My attempts at resistance remind me of the "Flaming Moe's" episode of The Simpsons where Homer yells, "You just lost yourself a customer!" but the bar is so full, Moe can't hear him. But I still try.

ImperfectCJ Thank you for the recommendation, @BarbaraBB ! 1mo
BarbaraBB Glad you liked it! 1mo
Suet624 I thought the author did a great job with this. And I‘ve managed to not shop at amazon for years. Or do without. 1mo
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Completely unrelated image, but do any Littens have suggestions for a visit to Madison, Wisconsin? We might be traveling there for the first time this summer, and I'm wondering what the must-see things are there.

Skygoddess1 I‘m in Madison now. For bookstores check out: A Room of One‘s Own, Mystery to Me, Leopold‘s Book Bar Caffè and Lake City Books. 1mo
JenReadsAlot What are you interested in doing? 1mo
ImperfectCJ @JenReadsAlot Walking, people-watching, talking with people, getting a sense of the city, seeing if it would be a cool place to live. The usual. 1mo
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ImperfectCJ @Skygoddess1 Thank you for the recommendations! 1mo
JenReadsAlot State St is people watching! Saturday morning farmers market around the Capitol. Good restaurants and coffee shops around there as well. 1mo
ImperfectCJ @JenReadsAlot Super! Thank you! @Skygoddess1 When I was looking to visit a while back (like 10 years ago now when my kids were little), I remember reading about a rail trail or greenway or something that was cool for walking. Am I remembering that correctly? 1mo
JenReadsAlot There is Greenway station closer to Middleton but that's more shopping I think 1mo
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Desert Creatures | Kay Chronister
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This one is weird and moody, which I like, but it's not quite as tight as Chronister's The Bog Wife. I don't quite understand how people live so long without food and water in this story.

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Desert Creatures | Kay Chronister
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Throughout this entire novel, I kept mistaking these little decorations for smashed spiders.

Read-n-Bloom 😂 It looks that way to me too! 1mo
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As I've only finished one book this week, this was an easy choice. :-)

#WeeklyFavorites @Read4life

Read4life 💙🐣💙 1mo
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Yet another aspirational library. That little spiral staircase (which also leads to a hidden hallway to the guest rooms). I have mixed feelings about the Gilded Age (and decidedly negative feelings about its current reboot), but they had awesome private libraries---and views.

Biltmore Estate, Asheville, NC

Faranae I use a photo of the John Work Garrett rare book library on my stream, and it must have been redecorated around the same time as the Biltmore Estate (it was built 10-15 years before), because the colour and fabric choices are identical. The Garrett is slightly less baroque, but that's only because they spent all their Gilded Age money... gilding a bathroom! 1mo
BethM 😍 1mo
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A Caribbean Mystery | Agatha Christie
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I'm not sure the setting played much of a role in this mystery, and several of the characters feel almost extraneous, but it's a diverting story nevertheless. I like how Christie writes about aging. This one has a feel reminiscent to The Thursday Murder Club by Richard Osman.

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Downtown Books and News | Asheville, NC (Bookstore)
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I finally made it to Downtown Books & News! I didn't buy anything because I arrived 10 minutes before closing and didn't have enough time to make up my mind (and I still haven't finished the hardcover I brought intending to leave it here), but it's such a cool place and I'm glad I made it there.

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75/100
This is apparently my time period for movie watching.
Three faves: Babe, A Serious Man, Fargo (and In the Bedroom and Sixth Sense because I can't stop with just 3)
Thanks for the tag, @dabbe !
#ThreeListThursday #TLT

AmyG I forgot Fargo. Auch1 a great movie. 1mo
dabbe W🤩WZA!!!! Thanks for playing and sharing. 🩵💙🩵 1mo
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April #bookspinbingo card, ready to go!

@TheAromaofBooks

TheAromaofBooks Woohoo!! Looks fabulous!! 1mo
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Ramona the Brave | Beverly Cleary
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1) I was until junior high when my family moved, and I went from a school where trying hard and doing well were cool to a school where doing those things got you targeted by bullies. So I hid out for a few years, then when we moved again in high school to another high-caliber school district, it took me a while to rebuild my skills. I still did decently through high school and college.
2) A classic.
@TheSpineView #Two4Tuesday

dabbe 🩵💙🩵 1mo
TheSpineView Thanks for playing! 🤩📘📖 1mo
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Moon of the Turning Leaves | Waubgeshig Rice
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I guess that wraps up my #WeeklyFavorites for March. It's been a pretty good reading month, but moving into April, I feel like I need a refresh of how I approach reading. I've been using audiobooks as a replacement for putting my hands over my ears, and I would rather move *towards* books rather than *away* from reality. So we'll see if I can find a little more balance as we move into spring.

@Read4life

Read4life Here‘s hoping you find the balance you‘re looking for. 💙📚💙🎧💙 1mo
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BookSpinBingo | Untitled
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TheAromaofBooks Woohoo!! 1mo
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BookSpinBingo | Untitled
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March #bookspinbingo card. I didn't read my #bookspin title, but I finished my #doublespin and managed one bingo...yay!

@TheAromaofBooks

TheAromaofBooks Yay!! Fantastic month!! 1mo
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Desert Creatures | Kay Chronister
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I chose my airplane book. I picked the one I don't think I'll mind leaving behind in a random LFL or indie coffee shop when I finish it to make room for newly-purchased books.